Scorpio Males...

If a Scorpio male responds to your e-mails, is he still interested or just remaining polite? It's been a couple years since I've seen him (he got under my skin though...sigh) and I'm always the one to initiate contact, but he always responds, and usually rather quickly.

I was taught to believe that men don't play hard to get, so this might seem like a stupid question, but I'm just curious. Thanks!

Whatever happened to Tiamat . . where did she go?

I would think it would turn the man off if a woman came courting him...

"I know I've called women up after not talking to them for a year, and I just wanted something physical."

Really? That's bold.

Did you score?

Interesting. Thanks notso07 and branh0913

"Some women are just that dumb. I know a few personally."

That's nice. Maybe they actually still felt something towards you and they were hoping that there was still some glimmer there with you as well.

But would you fool around with these obligatory flakes? Or would you just be upfront and say no? I would think it would be annoying to be around them if you don't like them...I mean, sex maybe good..but is it that worth it?

Ah, didn't know. Sorry notso

that's scary

"If the woman offered, well I wouldn't decline. But she have to accept the answer that I just don't like her, and I don't want anything more than just something physical. If she can't deal with that, then I'll leave her be. Because if I were to try to play a game to get her in bed, then honestly, the dramatic aftermath is more than I am willing to deal with"

True. I wouldn't want to deal with it either. I agree with your upfront actions.

"My father always told me (a man who lies a lot, btw) that it takes more effort to lie than to tell the truth. i think that is true. Lying takes too much strategy and thinking. When you don't want nothing to do with the person, then why are you wasting valuable thinking when it comes to that person? It seems like you'd save yourself a lot of pain just by telling them flat out. My father was probably giving me random bullbutter when he told me that, but to be honest, at least this was pretty true."

I think it's just the different between being kind and being bad. Either way, giving a lie or being upfront, you could get someone into bed.

I had a man once (before marriage) who I'd go 'round his place late at night for booty-call . . he didn't mind . .

Most of the men I've dealt with want to date younger women to feel young again. But it all depends on the guy.

Intimate?

Just the raw, hot sex . . no sentiments . . no questions

Their BS may be better, but it depends on the woman too. She might be using him.

"Their bullshit is more effective with younger women, than with older women who know the tricks of the trade."

True, if you're trying to trick them . . but, older women lots of times, just want to get laid and really don't care about your bullshit lines, anyway.

"Multihoroscoped ....I don't do it to feel younger,they just happen to be in there early 20's is all....."

Lol antibling

"That's the thing! How do you have sexual relations with someone you have no feelings for— Can't do it! I can't see myself doing that..."

I agree. I couldn't do it either. But then again these women might have been burned so bad that they no longer want to feel attached to men, but still want the pleasure.

These women?

When a woman gets older, her libido grows leaps and bounds . . opposite the male.

Take a man of 25 and his hormones . . that's about equivlent to a 45 year old female.

The urge for JUST sex gets stronger every year.

It's more like . . if he's taken then he's safe . . he won't fall in love

Men who are taken are perfect for sex . .

What I'm saying is that they don't get attached. Sure, they have a high sex drive otherwise they wouldn't be having sex.

"I comfort myself in the fact that these people are parasites,and hopefully will get AIDs because of said mindset (well,not really,but something in their lives with such an impact as saying that can tend to have),plus they'll continue to do so amongst their own anyways,hopefully"

But just think if they're married. That sucks for the innocent spouse.

I just don't think it's right to sleep around on your spouse, but then again, those are my morals.

Well, if it keeps cropping up, then maybe it's not bullshit . . maybe you're just different

I thought you were male

Nope, female.

The problem is that men slow down and the woman keeps getting stronger . . so, if she doesnt' want to leave her husband . . then, she has to do something

So, she takes lovers and keeps the old man

"You aren't unique in that respect. Many people have the same morals, but they still sleep around. I bet they feel just as strongly, or even more strongly about it. It doesn't matter, in practice, life is much different. You have to be a strong person, and really strong not to even consider it. This is especially true when times are really bad, and nothing you do seems to hold your marriage together. Everyone has needs, especially from a partner, and at some point in time, those needs are neglected"

Well, I just think that if they were strong in their morals, they might occasionally think about it but not set out to do it. And yes, you have to be strong. And if nothing is holding your marriage together, then no I guess to them it wouldn't be cheating - but the better thing to do would just be to get a divorce...that way they could have all the men or women they wanted in one night stands with no strings attached

antibling, I know. I was speaking to someone else. But I'm glad you thought I was female. 😉

So, just take a female lover and the old man is cool with that.

Blingy, I thought you were male.

Ah Closer...I disliked everyone except Natalie Portman in that film - even if she did lie from the start..somehow she just seemed better than all of them.

Women don't fall for men as easily as men think they do . . girls maybe, but, not women. We already have our successes and just looking for something on the side. Men get scard about this because they think women are falling for them, but, usually, we're just wanting his body.

Most men I know, don't care if their woman has a female lover . . so that works out.

Notso07, can I ask how old you are?

Just horny all the time, Blingy . . what can I say . .

Maybe it's just yanks who think eating isn't cheating . . hell, I don't know about you men over there . . limey's (?), or is that for Australians? I don't know.

You're reffering to the English...

notso, I'm just talking about women in general, the ones I know that are my age.

personally, I've never cheated on my husband . . we've been married 24 years.

Well, I think I'm going to sign off and enjoy the rest of the night with "Fatal Attraction"...ah ha, just joking. But, good night all.

Night, Multi . . notso, really, though . . I have girlfriends who'll shag anything that moves and are very much married, with no intentins of leaving their husbands

REally scary

Lol anti...that sounds so much more positive. Anyway, nice talking to you. Hope to see you all around again.

All the women I know aint' looking for anything greener . . just sex.

Parasites, I guess that's what Blingy means by that term.

Yeah, but, you're Scorpio, notso . . you guy's principals are different than lots of other folks . .

Just sex branh . . not attention unless it involves eating or screwing

Women my age are different than the younger ones . . you know . . when men get older . . the works ain't working so good, you know what i mean?

That's not what I meant . . everybody has urges . . what I meant is take me, for instance and people my kind . . we cheat all the time and don't hold ourselves accountable . . I don't, but, most of us do.

Scorpio's are very loyal kind of people, so they will view relationships differently.

Really?

Most of my family are Scorpio's and not one of them are unfaithful to their partners, so, maybe it's just my family . .

That makes a lot of sense, Blingy.

How old are you, notso?

Women talk a lot, Branh . . I'm sure it can drive a guy nuts, sometimes, lol

oh, yes, I can verify the flake factor, lol

All the Scorpio's in my family are male

Notso, it sounds like momma didn't do so bad in raising you, too.

A man would be lucky 🙂

The thing that would really scare me about having to date now, would be deseases. I read somewhere that 1 out of 5 people have some kind of std . . that's scary as hell.