What do you think?

I am Libra and for the ?st month or so ive been casually dating a scorpio man. We have done the dirty, (but we do other cool stuff too!!). At Christmas here i bought him a present, he didnt get me anything. Im kinda upset by this, am i over reacting? Scopio male input please!

Thanks peeps, he never even gave me a card, and i was kinda embarrassed, and then just plain upset. Im not going to contact him again. Im sure that sounds petty, but i think he?s been a bit nasty for my sensitive Libra soul.

Hhahahah..probably. Well, he had his chance and he royally blew it..next!!

She lives in another city with her new husband. He?s a big enough boy to know better, stop helping him out. He?s a policeman, he knows the law of women (or is that just a bad scorpio chat-up line)!

I would beat him,or slap him if i was girl.

This the 143rd topic i read about a miser scorpio..what`s going on..?
Are we really like that..?!!!

Its too late, he offered to buy me something but i dont want him to now, the special day has passed. He let us both down, and i dont want to be with him again.

"he offered to buy me something "

LOL.This guy is funny.

No he isnt!! He wasnt even ashamed of himself, and i was just sat there looking at him in disbelief. WTF?!

"He wasnt even ashamed of himself"

He is Scorpio,don`t expect him to be ashamed..😉

Of course....Hez more logical. Thatz anyday better than being a sentimental fool.

Excuse me? There?s nothing logical about being a bad mannered asshole.

It`s logical to us,lol

What, that at christmas its logical NOT to exchange small gifts?

"What, that at christmas its logical NOT to exchange small gifts?"
Not at all if U arent that type. Why impose culture ?

Then make a point of saying you?re not one who likes to exchange gifts BEFORE someone goes and makes an effort to choose something for you. This is my fist Scorpio association..im not into it at all.

Hmmm,maybe he doesn`t like you too much,take me as example i only buy gifts for who i really really love like my family members or my lover.

I didnt really like him much, but it would have been too rude to mis him out, it being the season of goodwill etc. Whatever, he?s just not my style , being a Libra and of superior sign.

So problem is solved,Libras like to buy gifts and Scorpios don`t,it`s just a matter of nature.

Nope, its a matter of consideration to the other person, which Scorio?s apparantly lack.

"Nope, its a matter of consideration to the other person, which Scorio?s apparantly lack"

You Libras always try to make Scorpios look bad. :-)

But no wonder!! How can he think that was acceptable? How can you even think it is?! You look bad because you are, Libra?s like nice things and nice people.

"Libra?s like nice things and nice people"

Like ?

And watz the dirty stuff U were talking abt initially ?

Hhahaha..i?ll tell you later. Bye

Personally I don't give gifts expecting one in return, but hey, that's just me. When I give a person a gift it's because I want them to have it, not just some trinket that they're going to throw out. I don't like making empty gestures. That's the Scorp in me.

In a casual relationship I don't feel it would be necessary to exchange gifts. If we hadn't discussed it beforehand and my partner did give me one, I would reciprocate on the spot by taking him out to dinner or something. I think that's the Libra moon in me; always wanting things to be balanced.

I feel Sola isnt that much bothered about the "return" or the "reciprocation" part. She might be linking it to the fact that if someone is caring and considerate then he would definitely think of buying christmas present. Perhaps she feels that she hasnt yet cornered that private place and that can be quite irksome.

GA you nailed it....I got sidetracked by the scorpios are inconsiderate comment...

don't know what it is, but feels like i've been communicating from a defensive standpoint lately

"don't know what it is, but feels like i've been communicating from a defensive standpoint lately"

It happens to me as well when I try and put myself into that situation as if itz me whoz being attacked.

giving a gift comes from the heart, i give gifts to people that i care about and like. it doesn't have anything to do with wanting one back...i've had instinces where i bought people gifts and they didn't have anything in return and that was fine because throughout the year they would treat me with respect and care and that's really all that i want.

if someone gives me a present and i haven't bought them anything i just let them know that i'll get it to them later, OR if i can't afford it at the time i'll take them out to eat or something to let them know that i appreciate their generosity.

"what really burns me are the people who compare the prices of the gifts you get them with the prices of the gifts they gave you. doesn't get any more petty than that!"

ya this really bugs me too as it makes you question the sincerity of the gift

Or everyones just turned into a bunch of ungrateful bastards!

What is that? a watch? if so, very nice...

LOL @ is someone trying to tell me something..hehe..me think so..you stink!

I feel Sola isnt that much bothered about the "return" or the "reciprocation" part. She might be linking it to the fact that if someone is caring and considerate then he would definitely think of buying christmas present. Perhaps she feels that she hasnt yet cornered that private place and that can be quite irksome.

Exactly!!! I dont care for any kind of false reciprocation, and it was simply that i felt a bit stoopid. Anyway, its not a petty tantrum, more a justified moan. He came round to my house last night and took me out for a drink..he loves me!

Do you think so? Im not sure..i will take a back seat now and let him make all the moves for a while!!

Im absolutely not doing that!! Its not about love, its about tradition and an exchange of tokens. Is everyone here missing the point?? It doesnt matter, the issue is over and we were together for a while last night. Its not over yet!

Thanks guys..its been a pleasure!

What?s with the sigh..satisfied?! So tell me loads more about Scorpio men and stuff.

Good at what? And another thing, current Scopr man doesnt really contact me much, he just responds to my contact..is this ok behaviour?

Well, this doesnt mind doing the initiating..i prefer to be in control of the amountmof contact going on. Keep it coming bling..im interested!

So tell me loads more about Scorpio men and stuff.

Well as a Libra I would guess you probably have to get beyond purely material things if you want to get gifts.

I dont know..its just that i like him so much already and the past year has been nothing short of a relationship disaster for me!!

I just want advice on what you guys like (i know sex is necessary..he said so himself)!! But i mean some guys need loads of attention and other dont.I dont want to be too much or not enough, you get me? Im not clingy or possessive by nature, and can appear aloof, and i want to avoid this!! Do you think i should at least text every day, or maybe every couple of days..and do you guys like romantic stuff, like staying at home together, or being out in a crowd...etc.

Bla bla bla just follow your instincts and you'll know right away - unless you're playing some kind of game and that's really not a good idea

Shut up..!

Just my advise - ya want the low down dontcha

Just dive in.
Tell him your really f pissed and he should at least take you out. It will be even funnier since you already turned that down.

"(i know sex is necessary..he said so himself)!! "

Hahahha..word of advice love, don't listen to everything he says!..

HaHa

Then just to prove he's sorry make him eat you for dessert!

Well they say scorps can't take their own medicine but i have a feeling in this case... just maybe

Sola said, "Im absolutely not doing that!! Its not about love, its about tradition and an exchange of tokens. Is everyone here missing the point?? It doesnt matter, the issue is over and we were together for a while last night. Its not over yet!"

Nope. I get the point. The social norm is if you care about someone you get them a little something. If you don't and you are dating and shagging on a regular basis, well then ... you are saying something. And you are saying it loudly.

Sola said *** the past year has been nothing short of a relationship disaster for me!!

You and me both sister. Maybe it was a bad year for libra love?

I also get you wanting to know how much is too much, how little is too little. That is the Libra in you wanting to be the perfect lover. Others may not understand the need to be perfect and the need to morph into his perfect vision. You are loving through the mind and loving through the need to change who you are.

You also don't want him to be "the bad guy" so you are trying to change the pain into your problem by declaring it a problem of your high expectation. The problem is anyone would have this expectation.

Anyone with any social grace knows you get a gift for someone you are dating at Christmas time. Even my Jewish friend's will buy something for a non-Jewish person they are dating because they understand that is the tradition and kind of goes without saying.

The problem is anyone would have this expectation.

Are Libras the scales or the self appointed judges