I hate to bring it up again

I know many capricorns have a "thing" for scorpios. I've heard it on the boards a few times. How do scorpios feel about capricorns, good or bad, when it comes to matters of the heart, or in general? I wonder.

If I had to choose my Gem for a Capricorn again, I would stay with my Gem.

I remember when I left my Cap because of his lack of communication. He shows up at my door six months later drunk, telling me how much he appreciate and enjoyed what we had, and how he missed making love to me, then he tells me he was getting married. Then he asked to sleep with me. I told him he should be sleeping with his fiance not me and I sent him on his way. As I watch him walk down the stairs of my apt. huffing and puffing and frustrated that I would not sleep with him, I thought to my self "he has much damn nerve" I would never respect him again.

I still wish to capture a cap...the bastards are hard to come by though...love them as I do...Don't know if I can deal with the absence thing...thats my only problem..The successful scorpio/cap relationships do go on for a very long time..

Not many of them around to be honest. I haven't met a new cap for ages...

"Not many of them around to be honest. I haven't met a new cap for ages..."

They to busy working and being depressed hiding in their man caves 🙂 I think you have to haunt them sucker down, then you have to make the first move.

I can't be bothered to dig for anyone...if they aren't out there in the big bad world taking it on the chin, I am not interested. If you aren't man enough to handle a relationship, then don't bother instigating anything.

I am moving away from the dating scene to be honest. I think best things come to those who don't go seeking. For the past 3 years I would say I was looking around for something serious. For 2 years I didn't date anyone out of choice. Had just come out of a 7 year relationship with the leo and needed "me" time..Then in the last year or so, have been dating a few here and there but nothing concrete. Either they tire of me or me tire of them. It's just exhausting in general investing emotions into relationships, giving time and then it goes to pots...

So there it is now..no expectations, no seeking...time to just concentrate on me, job, finances and new projects in property. Lets see where life takes me.....bring on life...

MM I feel you

I was doing the same thing just meeting guys and dating and then leaving in 3 months. My Gem niece kept bugging me to meet the Gem and after I put the blind date off for about 2 weeks I really was no interested, and don't care to much for blind dates. Finally I gave in and met this man, and have been with him ever since.

I was asked. Why did I not walk away from the Gem after 3 months like I did with the other guys. I thought about it. I decided that I should stop running and give some man a chance and I gave the Gem a chance of all people..hahahah
And although it has been some turbulance in the friendship. I would not trade it, and neither will he. He just like a bug, I spray him and he clean himself up and come right back. He is funny

But then as I think back to the guys that I was dating

Aries - No, I like the friendship better

Scropio - He was just to damn nice and I was on the verge of just using him, for my own selfish needs.

Taurus - Hell I dated 2 of them and I am not good with people trying to control me. And to this day one of the taurus still IM me wanting to go out and he knows I am seeing someone that I love... WTF

I Love Capricorns, mainly because of how Conservative they are. So atleast I know they have Morals and Integrity and don't tolerate petty liberal BS

The only CAP I ever got involved with is addictive and smokingly sexy. I love his old traditional ways. I wish I could trust him though. I can never be sure if he is loyal to me or not. I'm not even sure if we are still together.

I don't even know if this is his disappearing act. I guess it is, since I haven't heard from him since last saturday. We usually end up arguing, therefore I never know if we ended our relationship. He doesn't like sweet words. I end up calling him sweetheart or something and there he goes again....

"I don't like emotional stuff!!".

"There are more important things in life than love."

"If I make money, I could give up on sex."
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but then he tells me "I love you too... -- kisses" (in a mushy way..). I never told him that I loved him. I don't think he meant it anyway.


Am a bit sick of this dating scene myself actually. I don't think that after this CAP I would want to date another one or even anyone else. But sure hell... I do love his many qualities. I think financially we would bring it quite far and we seem to be good in team work -- much better than any virgo I have been with. But I hate the way he teases me; I can never be sure if he is serious or if he is joking.

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The only CAP I ever got involved with is addictive and smokingly sexy. I love his old traditional ways. I wish I could trust him though. I can never be sure if he is loyal to me or not. I'm not even sure if we are still together.

I don't even know if this is his disappearing act. I guess it is, since I haven't heard from him since last saturday. We usually end up arguing, therefore I never know if we ended our relationship. He doesn't like sweet words. I end up calling him sweetheart or something and there he goes again....

"I don't like emotional stuff!!".

"There are more important things in life than love."

"If I make money, I could give up on sex."
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but then he tells me "I love you too... -- kisses" (in a mushy way..). I never told him that I loved him. I don't think he meant it anyway.


Am a bit sick of this dating scene myself actually. I don't think that after this CAP I would want to date another one or even anyone else. But sure hell... I do love his many qualities. I think financially we would bring it quite far and we seem to be good in team work -- much better than any virgo I have been with. But I hate the way he teases me; I can never be sure if he is serious or if he is joking.

I know this is far from funny, but I couldn't help but giggle to myself. This is so CAP thing to do. Like you said, expressing emotions is like pulling teeth without painkillers (you said that, right?). We are maddening, indeed, as you scorps can be as well.

"I don't like emotional stuff!!".

"There are more important things in life than love."

"If I make money, I could give up on sex."

These are all goat-fish things to say. Emotional stuff does seem silly, but because we bottle it up, when it comes out, it explodes! Yes, there are more important things in life than love, and capricorns love being alone, but loneliness hurts us just as much as everyone else, we are just stronger and have effective ways to deal with it (work, money, material possessions, staying busy). No CAP could ever give up sex. At least not the goat-half.

These qualities...please explain.

I didn't think he truly meant that he could have given up on sex either. I realize he is very pressured at this time as he needs to work. Right now he is unemployed, but he doesn't want to work for less. So he prefers giving up on everything. He considers relocating ever since I met him.

He offered that we open up a business together. I said, you don't want to make long-term thoughts for me, but you want to open up a bus with me. He said, "business and love are two different things."


He told me he has difficulty giving up on me, but he can move away any time. For me truly... I just would go along with whatever is available, but guys seem to think when a woman likes him, he is doomed for life.

Normally he would come on msn everyday, but he hasn't. I avoid it too. I want him to take a step towards me if that is how he feels. He also has a new lady on his facebook. So it seems he is looking.

I don't know... I think I am wasting my time even assuming there is anything in between us.

see... Warholian --

to me actions speak louder than words. Unless he is excellent in acting, I feel his emotional closeness towards me. It usually comes out during love making. And last time especially I felt he has gotten closer to me, which I mentioned to him. He asked and I responded. I think he is reconsidering that he does not wish to get too entangled with me.


On the other hand, he pulled out a condom out of his pants' pocket, which meant he is prepared to have sex other than me.


Can you please explain too..??

What do you expect from a relationship?

im not too keen on caps...I dated on and he was a tag too freaky for me....he always want to go to sex clubs and sex parties..but then wanted to get married and have a family.....didnt make sense to me and I always felt uncomfortable with him....he however like to wine and dine and spoil.....

Missy --

if that question is for me, I seriously just want friendship and sex, but I demand loyalty for as long as we are together. Nothing more...

I have my own life.

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dward --

what you just mentioned sounds too familiar. He asked me all that if I wanted to be loved by some man at his presence, but I'm not allowed to be with him when he is not present. To me that is unacceptable that another guy should do it to me and he wants to watch. Sorry... not in my books!

Then he wants to introduce me to his family, but then he doesn't want to plan for anything with me.

Yes, it does get confusing but I take it as testing... perhaps not.. I really can't tell at this point.

FumRed: Ok, then you and I are of totally different mindsets.
I wish you well...

I thought scorps were into mystery and intrigue? I never met a scorp that was enthralled by someone who they had totally figured out. Not to say that we aren't frustrating and contradict ourselves a lot.

Scorps think emotionally and caps think logically, so that is the great divide. We both believe that actions speak louder than words and you seem to be getting a hang of his hidden meanings.

You may think that it's totally acceptable to have sex with one person without committment, but caps don't think like that. If it's a friendship (with benefits) then it's just that, no loyalty needed, no matter how much the scorpio likes to be the one and only. As far as the kinky sex, every man wants the virgin/whore combo. A lady on the streets, a freak in the sheets so to speak. Caps are attracted to scorpio because they understand the dark side, so maybe he is convinced that he can convince you to compromise, since you've tolerated so many of his unorthodox nuances thus far.

I asked you to describe qualities you like about caps, but in true scorpio form, you became self-involved and concentrated on how you feel about things. Let's try this again:

So, FUM, what do you LIKE about caps?

how can i upload a profile picture? I tried but it said the size was to big

Are you Mac or PC? If you use a PC...open the file with the Paint program (under accessories) and go to "Image" and choose "Stretch/Skew" add % (usually 50 is good, keeping aspect ratio) and then SAVE AS (if you SAVE file, it will change the original). This is the easiest way if you don't have a program like Picasa or something...

From the one Cappy that I did have a really deep connection with, I felt this is what we had in common:

1. Sense of duty and loyality towards loved ones
2. Sense of humour
3. Depth
4. Admiration and respect for the same causes
5. Distaste for foul play, brash and ignorant folk
6. Love and thirst for knowledge

There were many more things, but it's hard to put down into words the type of connection one has. I would trust him with my life and that is A LOT coming from a Scorp...That kind of connection hasn't come up again. We are still friends..4 years on..Occasionally he will phone me..when he needs an opinion on something that he's been stewing over..and at times spontaneously I will give him a call..but whenever we do...there is a deep unspoken bond.

To be honest, this mystery and intrigue crap is overhyped....I am a black and white kinda person. Be straight with me and I will respect you, start playing the mystery and intrigue card and you are pretty much gone....I see that as just a head fuck...excuse my language..I haven't the patience for games...

warholian

What type of answer are you looking for?

All scropios do not feel the same way about a Capricorns?

It's either going to be a good experience or a bad one.

For me it was good at the begininng but bad at the end.

I don't carry hate for them I just know they are not the type of person for me.

Posted by warholian
You may think that it's totally acceptable to have sex with one person without committment, but caps don't think like that. If it's a friendship (with benefits) then it's just that, no loyalty needed, no matter how much the scorpio likes to be the one and only. As far as the kinky sex, every man wants the virgin/whore combo. A lady on the streets, a freak in the sheets so to speak. Caps are attracted to scorpio because they understand the dark side, so maybe he is convinced that he can convince you to compromise, since you've tolerated so many of his unorthodox nuances thus far.

I asked you to describe qualities you like about caps, but in true scorpio form, you became self-involved and concentrated on how you feel about things. Let's try this again:

So, FUM, what do you LIKE about caps?

Warholian --

Before I answer your question, let me clarify please, and I sure would much respect your input.


First of all... hmmmm... am thinking about the friends with benefits part. I think there is a misunderstanding. I was married twice. The second time was a mistake I believe. I told him I have a daughter in the house and as long as there is nothing serious, my home is closed to any man. I had a long-term bf last year -- a commitment phobic Virgo man, who gave me much hurt and depression. He knows all this. So therefore, I am not putting ANY expectation into this relation. Can't know what his intentions are as he is very conflicting. No mysterious scorpio stuff. I??ve never been more myself with a man than I have been with this CAP man. He seems very testing though and seems to having great fun in seeing my reactions or expressions.

Secondly, he has an ex scorp who keeps on popping back into his life. He warned me of her. Last time he saw her was in November. She showed up again a week ago at his house. I asked, did you sleep with her, he said —YES??. I was hurt. I said, ok CAP man, thank you for your honesty, but we can't be together anymore??. I was to leave and He stopped me from leaving by assuring he was joking. Will spare you the details.


Yes -- he still believed that I would accept the "whore" part and I made sure he gets it through his head??_ it will be only him!

He told his friend that he met a sexy girl and this other guy apparently agreed to please me. NO MAN, honey, will ever respect a woman who sleeps with another man in front of his eyes unless they are both swingers. I told him, you picked the wrong girl.

He demanded this from his ex scorp in the past, who was willing to go for it. Later she started cheating on him and that is why he left her.


I don't need to know rocket science to figure out that he values loyalty. He said he is not sleeping with anyone else and I truly want to believe him, but that condom??_. Uhm??_. **Actions speak louder than words, aren't they—?** I don't keep these thoughts to myself. He is very much aware I am loyal to him, but will walk out the moment he is not.

To your question, Dear Warholian, what I LIKE about the CAP Man I know:

1- I can be myself with him. Virgo man used to critically check me out, but I never see that look in the CAP man. He accepts also my ugly side.

2- Although he shows sometimes a tendency to fundamental thinking, he listens to my experiences/ views and can adjust his thoughts quite willingly. I was surprised actually how flexible he became with his thoughts.

3- I LOVE love love his courage to business ventures. If I had that extra money, I would let him operate it.

4- I love his tendency to cleanliness and healthy eating. We both are freaks in that regard, but he is a bigger freak. I admire him that he takes that time and effort to cook and prepare salads and delicious vegetable dishes. It is ALWAYS fresh!

5- I LOVE his emotions! That's a huge plus. I don't know what people are talking about when they say CAP has no emotions. It makes me stronger that he bursts out with those emotions.

6- When I'm in much doubt, he shows me his vulnerable side.

7- He is never boring. He always comes up with something different when we are together.

8- He orders me around, but when I order him around he listens too. We work well together.

9- He truly is hot and has high stamina. Gosh??_ even half his age guys don't have what he has. But despite his strength, he has this insecurity and always asks me if he was good. He likes my compliments, but he will only accept them if he asked for it. I truly mean what I tell him and he gets surprised each and every time — —other girls never told me that.. —, which makes me feel good that I can be good to his ego.
10- He values his shoes! And whatever he wears looks good on him. He has white teeth. He is clean. He sounds genuine when he speaks other than those times when he teases.

11- He is physically unbelievably strong.

12- He is not afraid of shouting, laughing at himself when he has been silly, or crying. All this comes naturally to him.

13- Most and foremost, I love his child side. He acts like a child with me sometimes. He was sucking on a lemon to make my mouth all watery. Am glad that I can bring out that side in him.

14- He respects elderly people. He reminds me of myself??_ so am a bit surprised how much he values age and also children.


I may come up with more.

sorry for the length..

"Just like me" means W h o r e.

I have never been attracted to a cap. A couple attracted to me, no sparks on my end though. Taurus, Librans and recently other scorps have been my main attractions lately wierd. Although I try my damndest to stay away from Librans.

what does it matter, missmorals? I know you and I are different. I like the way you operate, but it doesn't make me who I am. Can you please tell what your message is? I'm slow today. Actually I'm pretty slow lately....

let me know please what you truly mean 🙂

hugs, sweetheart. Am at the edge and end of all wits.

Oh holy hell I'm attracted to Caps! My first love was a Cap and the night that we met (we were 16) he told me jokingly that I was the woman he'd marry and he'd love me for the rest of his life.
I don't know if it was our age or the difference of how we handled things but he broke up with me and it totally shattered me. A few years ago we got in touch again and when I saw him I couldn't help but have those feelings for him again. We agreed to be friends. I can hide my feelings for the sake of my friendship. He's important to me.
Honestly it's a soulmate connection if you can reach an understanding that Caps appear cold but they are just really reserved. In my case he didn't tolerate my overwhelming emotions but hey!! I was a teenage girl! I acted like one, got jealous very easily because he was really popular, a football star, and the stupid whorish cheerleaders drooled over him. I honestly think had we lasted through those terbulant times we would have ended up together.
He recently found out about my engagment and he shut down on me and then confused the hell out of me. It was too dangerous for me to still be close to him. Sadly we parted ways.
I'll ALWAYS love him. There is nothing that can take that away from me. Even if every person on this board says it's wrong I wouldn't care. I just can't be close to him. I don't trust it. That's how strong our connection is. But once we get together I think we are both so set in our ways that our differences are very apparent. Then we fight. Actually he goes cold and going cold on me spells the end. I can't stand it.

"Tis' better to be furious than to be bland and uninvolved". That fits me well.

Thanks satori 🙂

I remember a fight we had. He told me to get over the fact that one of the cheerleaders kept coming on to him and leaving notes on his car. I was wild with jealousy. I ranted and cried and he stood there stone face. I pushed him and shouted at him "FEEL SOMETHING! Scream, shout, do something to show me you feel for me".
No response from him. He stood there looking at me.We broke up a couple days later. 😢
That quote always comes to mind when i think of him.

I know he loved me though because there were so many girls that threw themselves at him when we parted ways and he stayed single until we graduated high school.

Yes it was tough but I demanded too much from him at such an early age. Goodness I was a dramatic little thing back then! Like a little scorpion that doesn't know how to control her venom. 🙂 😛
I didn't know any better back then but I do now. When we met up a few years back he seemed more relaxed and I was more reserved. We laughed and shared a few "moments" just looking at each other. It felt like he was scanning my soul with those eyes. *sigh*
Maybe being involved with a Cap means to try and tone it down on the emotional side but darn it! How hard is that to do with a Scorp?!?!

I don't get along with women well but Cap women are great! 🙂
It's really strange if you knew me in RL because I don't warm up to anyone but Cap women I can always laugh and joke with right after meeting them.

Hahahaha I was going to change it awhile back but I've gotten so much shit for it, good and bad, I think I'll keep it around just to give all my "adoring fans" the big Scorpion finger. Lol 🙂 I thought it was sexy as hell. It's fitting 😛

The thing about Cap women I like the best are:
They are proud but not boastful
Quiet but when they do speak it's something meaningful and makes you think
Their humor!!! You have to look for it in their face or that twinkle in their eye or you have no idea they are joking.
Caps are just all around beautiful without being in your face about it. They make you work for it be it a conversation or a joke. I have a ton of respect for them. 🙂

I remember a fight we had. He told me to get over the fact that one of the cheerleaders kept coming on to him and leaving notes on his car. I was wild with jealousy. I ranted and cried and he stood there stone face. I pushed him and shouted at him "FEEL SOMETHING! Scream, shout, do something to show me you feel for me".
No response from him. He stood there looking at me.We broke up a couple days later.

Actually he goes cold and going cold on me spells the end. I can't stand it.
"Tis' better to be furious than to be bland and uninvolved". That fits me well.

Cap men seem to have the ability to compartmentalize their emotions.It's like they have the ability to file away their feelings and then retrieve it later for analysis. It's funny because some forums state that they have the worst temper ever. Yet many people complain that they never show any emotions (that's why I call them Samurai Face - no emotions 🙂 )

I think in your case, Gingerscorp, it was a case of him telling you not to sweat the small stuff (when he told you to get over it). He probably knew that cheerleaders are always flirting with EVERYONE and not just him. No biggie for him. When you screamed at him & he didn't react, well, it was probably because he must have thought, "why respond to an allegation that just wasn't true?" Caps are known for not being bothered what anyone else thinks about them (or their methods). But when you continuously raved at him he probably thought, "ah what's the point? Even though I'm faithful to her, she's still going to accuse me." And he just gave up.
He didn't react to your rant not because he didn't feel anything for you but because he knew your accusations weren't true.

I think we should be thankful that Caps would rather be (wrongly) perceived as bland & uninvolved than to be feared for their temper. I say this because I think another, darker, reason why Cap men don't react with anger is because they only know too well what happens when the Cap rage is unleashed. I've seen it happen and I can tell you this: There is a reason why the tarot symbol for Capricorn is "The Devil".

Oh I don't think Caps are bland and uninvolved. Just hards to move emotionally. It goes with the coldness factor. I wanted him to react because I was so distraught and he couldn't or wouldn't do it. It made me feel like he didn't feel enough for me. I could see how that came across though. Sorry about that 🙂
Scorpios feel everything and it's hard to hold back. At that moment I felt as though he should have reacted to show that he cared or didn't or whatever. I couldn't get anything out of him.

That was the end of the fight. It had been an on going thing for awhile and that is where it escalated. IT wasn't like I just randomly blew my top with no warning. To me he showed signs (because I was so over the top jealous) of being interested in these girls and enjoying the attention. He provoked my jealousy alot by letting these girls put stickers on his locker and keeping notes in his car he knew I would find.
I finally confronted him and layed all the cards out on the table calmly and he never budged. He made me feel like over emotional and didn't react. Kinda like swatting an annoying fly. Ugh. That hit hard. He just kept countering everything I said with "get over it" instead of reassuring me.

Hmmm, so that last fight was the culmination of something that's been building up for a while. I can see why you reacted that way.

To me he showed signs (because I was so over the top jealous) of being interested in these girls and enjoying the attention. He provoked my jealousy alot by letting these girls put stickers on his locker and keeping notes in his car he knew I would find.

Well, it was high school. Don't girls always have a "pack mentality" at that age? I mean girls always want what OTHER girls want. So if a boy is very desirable to many girls, then other girls want to hold on to him even tighter. High school girls always want popular boys. Their social standing depends on getting the most popular boys to pay attention to them. Maybe your Cap thought that if he was so desirable, then you'd hold on to him even tighter.

Still, yeah, he could have , at least once in a while, said something to reassure you. But you know, high school guys are not exactly well-versed on stuff like that. At that age, their world consists of football, baseball, race-cars, etc. Girls , on the other hand, grew up on romance novels and women's magazines filled with relationship articles. So they're better educated on relationship issues than boys at that age.

LOL Oh yeah, we were young and I was way over the top about it. We actually have talked about it since and made amends. He was my first love. I'd never said I love you to anyone before him and never said it since and meant it like I did with him.
My mistake was being jealous. I know now that he really loved me because he told me it hurt to break up with me but he didn't understand me at all. He said he wished he would have handled it better. At the time he thought he'd move on and date others but could never bring himself to do it. I didn't help by dating his friends in front of his face after the break up and trying to make him jealous. I was so immature but I was so hurt.
Geez... all this talk about him is making me miss him so much. I just can't go there though 😢

I didn't help by dating his friends in front of his face after the break up and trying to make him jealous.

Oh, THAT definitely wouldn't help with a Capricorn 😛

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Posted by Gingerscorp
Actually he goes cold and going cold on me spells the end. I can't stand it.

"Tis' better to be furious than to be bland and uninvolved". That fits me well.

Yup, I can't stand it either, Ginger.

Also, I like your quote.

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I very much agree with this statement to be a trait of my CAP too.

I can't figure out those shut-off times of "coldness" or "distance". I went hot on him a couple of times and each time he dissappeared for a week. I got him out of his cave with a fun and non-caring remark, however, each time when this happened I realized he had started looking again.

Like this last time he added a woman from Afganistan on his facebook who looks quite fuming hot -- but I think it is a professionally altered photo. Anyhow, talk about jealousy, I had not had this feeling for a couple of decades at least. I know it may sound childish, but it is an indication of distrust and that there is something not quite flowing.

I made a joke yesterday to him saying "are you moving to Afganistan?", to which he responded "🙂)) yes am moving to there. How did you see my friends, I made it private for non-friends?". I am a non-friend! I deleted myself from his friends list because we both were checking out on each other. I couldn't handle being limited or being limiting to him; it upsets me when I see him adding a woman.


So as much as it is said that CAP is *loyal*, my trust is on shaky grounds because the moment I start trusting, he comes up with something that shakes up things again.

Not sure how healthy this is for a scorp in the long run.

If anyone can locate one for me in South Broward County or Miami-Dade County FL. I'll will pay you a million dollars...LOL!!!

ScorpLady: "What type of answer are you looking for?" I'm not looking for a right answer, just perspective.

I'm glad beowulf brought up the temper thing. I think when caps get heated they have the ability to blow someone to smithereens emotionally, so it's best that they keep it under wraps. I don't yell, but when I start to raise my voice a little I remind myself to hold back. Screaming is not the best way to solve a problem.

Ginger: I know it's too late and you live and you learn. Several times in arguments I have said "Well believe whatever you believe". There's no point in fighting over something that doesn't exist. I don't ever try to change someone's mind about something that I can't. I understand jealousy and love can make you crazy and think all kinds of stuff, but there is no appropriate defense to the madness.

There are the gender differences with both signs, the women are much more fun-loving than the male version. There are so many different interpretations of the "cold/distant" aspect. Caps like to think things through, so when they are pushed to express emotion (which isn't their strongest suit in the first place) they have a tendency to run away.

GingerScorp, you forgot he told you that YOU were "...the woman he'd marry and he'd love me for the rest of his life."

"I'd never said I love you to anyone before him and never said it since and meant it like I did with him. " ~ GingerScorp

Did I read that you said you were engaged? Did you get married? Did you ever say "I love you" and mean it to your fiance (or husband)?

I don't know if anyone answered this "scorpios like mystery" thing
but personally, I like someee mystery. However, I like someone that's a little hard to figure out,
NOT someone that's impossible to...or that takes unnecessarily way too long to.

In my opinion, the person hardest to figure out is a happy go lucky person.

Why? because this is what you will ALWAYS see..the happy person..everything just slides off their back, without a care in the world they embrace everything life throws at them and deal with it by smiling loud and proud..

You will never really know what this person is thinking deep down..as the happy facade hides everything extremely well...great defence mechanism also..

The person easiest to figure out is the one who disappears, reappears...what is so hard about that? it's called "confused" and it's time to say Bah byeeee...LOL..

Mystery is over-rated....There is no great mystery..they are witholding certain bits of information..what is so weird about that? Scorpios will tell you what they feel comfortable in telling you.....bit by bit you will uncover most of their life..but never all...We don't tell you everything..maybe that's what mystery is...

Deep felt trust will allow us to open up to you..and honesty, integrity and loyality will show you a fun loving, carefree wonderful devoted person..

A mysterious man just gets on my wits...I haven't the patience to "unravel" his ass....

All is wonderfully put, Miss Morals!

Agree with everything you said up there. Funny how these patterns of behaviour start making sense once you start meeting these types.

I don't believe scorps are THAT mysterious, however, we do give out bit by bit if we do feel comfortable with you. Very True!

For myself I can say why I may sound mysterious sometimes is that I make the find interesting. When I'm ready to tell, I first throw in a mysteriously compelling story with a sense of humour in it. Then I answer. It's like looking for Easter Eggs.

Recently, I noticed that Caps also have a "thing" for Pisceans. I didn't realize how many pisceans I've met (that have stayed married -- and mostly women), are married to capricorns. Now I see alot of scorpios and caps that work together and they do so very well because they understand each other. Come to think of it, if I see a capricorn leading a team or on a team, I'll bet my last dollar that there is a scorpio on the same team, too. And vice versa. I've seen it every time. And if there's a piscean around, the scorpio can become competitive with the fish...

the scorpion doesn't compete with anybody!

The only person we compete is ourselves...

which is touch in itself already.