I have a crush on a scorpio.... but

I don't dare to try anything, because there is quite an age diffrence.

He's Nov. Scorpio(older) and I'm a May Gem.

Have any of you scorpions dated a may gem?

Was it neutral? Good? Bad?

I've dated 3 May Gems. I don't have anything bad to report overall, even though it didn't work out ultimately. Decent guys, all of them.

Posted by BuffaloBills28
I'm a Gem (june), dated a november scorp. (female). Was great when it was great, but ended up in the pits of hell, literally. Biggest mistake of my life. lol. Gems and scorps click at first I think, but not good for the long run. Scorpio suns don't express themselves like we do.. Scorpio's suns just take, and take and take, never give anything back, because they are so guarded for with their emotions.. You're a may gem, so you're a 1st decean gemini, means you're Gemini sun is strickly ruled by mercury, I assume you need more communication then a 2nd decean Gem like my self. Lol. Scorpio suns don't express their emotions for whatever reason, I think that would drive you crazy. Great for a short fling, hell no for the long run.

I express myself a lot verbally, and I'm not guarded emotionally like some Scorps, but I have a Gem moon and that probably helps.

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I'm a Gem (june), dated a november scorp. (female). Was great when it was great, but ended up in the pits of hell, literally. Biggest mistake of my life. lol. Gems and scorps click at first I think, but not good for the long run. Scorpio suns don't express themselves like we do.. Scorpio's suns just take, and take and take, never give anything back, because they are so guarded for with their emotions.. You're a may gem, so you're a 1st decean gemini, means you're Gemini sun is strickly ruled by mercury, I assume you need more communication then a 2nd decean Gem like my self. Lol. Scorpio suns don't express their emotions for whatever reason, I think that would drive you crazy. Great for a short fling, hell no for the long run.

I express myself a lot verbally, and I'm not guarded emotionally like some Scorps, but I have a Gem moon and that probably helps.

I think the Gem moon certainly does.

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I'm grateful I have it -- I even thanked my mom for my birth time because I barely squeaked into my Gem moon so if she had given birth 15 minutes earlier, I would have missed it. 🙂

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I'm a Gem (june), dated a november scorp. (female). Was great when it was great, but ended up in the pits of hell, literally. Biggest mistake of my life. lol. Gems and scorps click at first I think, but not good for the long run. Scorpio suns don't express themselves like we do.. Scorpio's suns just take, and take and take, never give anything back, because they are so guarded for with their emotions.. You're a may gem, so you're a 1st decean gemini, means you're Gemini sun is strickly ruled by mercury, I assume you need more communication then a 2nd decean Gem like my self. Lol. Scorpio suns don't express their emotions for whatever reason, I think that would drive you crazy. Great for a short fling, hell no for the long run.

I express myself a lot verbally, and I'm not guarded emotionally like some Scorps, but I have a Gem moon and that probably helps.

I think the Gem moon certainly does.

I'm grateful I have it -- I even thanked my mom for my birth time because I barely squeaked into my Gem moon so if she had given birth 15 minutes earlier, I would have missed it. 🙂

It has it's pros and cons having any sort of Gemini placements in the sun, moon, or rising. Some people I say I talk too much, so that's not a good thing either, and that's with a scorpio rising, pluto in the 1st house. My chart is dominated my pluto, so im pretty much a scorpio, but that Gem sun just communicates lol. It's weird. But yeah, that girl I was with, wouldn't/couldn't express herself if her life depended on it. Was so frustrating,

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I can talk too much too -- I tell people it's okay to interrupt me if they need to, lol. I am a good listener too, so it balances out I think. 🙂

My Gem moon is in the 1st house.

Interesting how we're both influenced by Scorpio and Gem strongly. It's a unique blend of energies.

I've known people who don't express themselves, and I do what I can to try to make them comfortable to open up, but some people just won't and it's frustrating for sure.

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I'm a Gem (june), dated a november scorp. (female). Was great when it was great, but ended up in the pits of hell, literally. Biggest mistake of my life. lol. Gems and scorps click at first I think, but not good for the long run. Scorpio suns don't express themselves like we do.. Scorpio's suns just take, and take and take, never give anything back, because they are so guarded for with their emotions.. You're a may gem, so you're a 1st decean gemini, means you're Gemini sun is strickly ruled by mercury, I assume you need more communication then a 2nd decean Gem like my self. Lol. Scorpio suns don't express their emotions for whatever reason, I think that would drive you crazy. Great for a short fling, hell no for the long run.

I express myself a lot verbally, and I'm not guarded emotionally like some Scorps, but I have a Gem moon and that probably helps.

I think the Gem moon certainly does.

I'm grateful I have it -- I even thanked my mom for my birth time because I barely squeaked into my Gem moon so if she had given birth 15 minutes earlier, I would have missed it. 🙂

But yeah, the Gem moon of yours certainly helps you spill out your emotions. And Scorps are deep, so it must be something when you guys express yourselves, but very few do. That gem moon helps you a lot imo. Especially in relationships, because it's a 50/50 thing obviously.

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Definitely, and my feelings show on my face quite well, too. I try to be clear with my communication and not leave people guessing how I feel about them, etc.

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I'm a Gem (june), dated a november scorp. (female). Was great when it was great, but ended up in the pits of hell, literally. Biggest mistake of my life. lol. Gems and scorps click at first I think, but not good for the long run. Scorpio suns don't express themselves like we do.. Scorpio's suns just take, and take and take, never give anything back, because they are so guarded for with their emotions.. You're a may gem, so you're a 1st decean gemini, means you're Gemini sun is strickly ruled by mercury, I assume you need more communication then a 2nd decean Gem like my self. Lol. Scorpio suns don't express their emotions for whatever reason, I think that would drive you crazy. Great for a short fling, hell no for the long run.

I express myself a lot verbally, and I'm not guarded emotionally like some Scorps, but I have a Gem moon and that probably helps.

I think the Gem moon certainly does.

I'm grateful I have it -- I even thanked my mom for my birth time because I barely squeaked into my Gem moon so if she had given birth 15 minutes earlier, I would have missed it. 🙂

But yeah, the Gem moon of yours certainly helps you spill out your emotions. And Scorps are deep, so it must be something when you guys express yourselves, but very few do. That gem moon helps you a lot imo. Especially in relationships, because it's a 50/50 thing obviously.

Definitely, and my feelings show on my face quite well, too. I try to be clear with my communication and not leave people guessing how I feel about them, etc.

Amen to that. 🙂

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Amen for sure. 🙂 I wish more people would.

Posted by BuffaloBills28
I'm a Gem (june), dated a november scorp. (female). Was great when it was great, but ended up in the pits of hell, literally. Biggest mistake of my life. lol. Gems and scorps click at first I think, but not good for the long run. Scorpio suns don't express themselves like we do.. Scorpio's suns just take, and take and take, never give anything back, because they are so guarded for with their emotions.. You're a may gem, so you're a 1st decean gemini, means you're Gemini sun is strickly ruled by mercury, I assume you need more communication then a 2nd decean Gem like my self. Lol. Scorpio suns don't express their emotions for whatever reason, I think that would drive you crazy. Great for a short fling, hell no for the long run.

Sorry it ended that way.

Yes I need constant communication in all forms.

With words, body language, and overall energy.

I'll just have to wait and see

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I've dated 3 May Gems. I don't have anything bad to report overall, even though it didn't work out ultimately. Decent guys, all of them.

The moon takes an important role too right?

Do you remember those guys moon?

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I've dated 3 May Gems. I don't have anything bad to report overall, even though it didn't work out ultimately. Decent guys, all of them.

The moon takes an important role too right?

Do you remember those guys moon?

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Yes, for sure that can make a difference.

Two of them had Sag moons, and the other Scorpio.

There are actually 4 Gems I've dated, but I don't have the fourth's birthday written down, unless it's in an old diary, so I can't remember if he was a May or June Gem so I didn't include him. He was my first boyfriend - I was in high school at the time.

Posted by BuffaloBills28
I'm a Gem (june), dated a november scorp. (female). Was great when it was great, but ended up in the pits of hell, literally. Biggest mistake of my life. lol. Gems and scorps click at first I think, but not good for the long run. Scorpio suns don't express themselves like we do.. Scorpio's suns just take, and take and take, never give anything back, because they are so guarded for with their emotions.. You're a may gem, so you're a 1st decean gemini, means you're Gemini sun is strickly ruled by mercury, I assume you need more communication then a 2nd decean Gem like my self. Lol. Scorpio suns don't express their emotions for whatever reason, I think that would drive you crazy. Great for a short fling, hell no for the long run.

I am a Scorpio and have always given far more than I've taken....so I have to disagree with you there. I am also very open

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I'm a Gem (june), dated a november scorp. (female). Was great when it was great, but ended up in the pits of hell, literally. Biggest mistake of my life. lol. Gems and scorps click at first I think, but not good for the long run. Scorpio suns don't express themselves like we do.. Scorpio's suns just take, and take and take, never give anything back, because they are so guarded for with their emotions.. You're a may gem, so you're a 1st decean gemini, means you're Gemini sun is strickly ruled by mercury, I assume you need more communication then a 2nd decean Gem like my self. Lol. Scorpio suns don't express their emotions for whatever reason, I think that would drive you crazy. Great for a short fling, hell no for the long run.

I am a Scorpio and have always given far more than I've taken....so I have to disagree with you there. I am also very open

I hear you, madam. Guess I've been bumping into the wrong Scorps.

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Maybe 🙂

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I've dated 3 May Gems. I don't have anything bad to report overall, even though it didn't work out ultimately. Decent guys, all of them.

The moon takes an important role too right?

Do you remember those guys moon?

Yes, for sure that can make a difference.

Two of them had Sag moons, and the other Scorpio.

There are actually 4 Gems I've dated, but I don't have the fourth's birthday written down, unless it's in an old diary, so I can't remember if he was a May or June Gem so I didn't include him. He was my first boyfriend - I was in high school at the time.

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Basically moon rules the sun as the sun rules the moon.

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I think that an Airy Scorpio would work for an air sign

I tend to get along well with air signs, as I am air dominant

I can see that working.

The problem is Scorpios speak by body language, most Gemini's have diarrhea of the mouth non stop talking. As a Cancer man I wouldn't date a gemini woman, friends yes anything more than that no.

Water and air are friends and that's it.

my best friend was a gemini the bitch. we had an awesome friendship, but it wa like heaven and hell wrapped up in foil and put in a bowl or some other weird shit... she only listened to reply. you should listen, truly understand or at least TRY, and then respond. she wanted to be right, she wanted to FIX me, i can fix myself lol