I know y’all are tired of this.

Regardless I’m going to go for it anyway. I’m a pisces girl. And about a year ago I realized almost every serious relationship, or any guy I’ve ever liked so much has been a scorpio. And about a two years ago I had the most amazing relationship with a scorpio, that yeah we fought and made up, but it was kind of amazing. Unfortunately that guy passed away about a year ago, but I feel like we wouldn’t of fought as much as we did if I had understood him a little better. The thing is, now I have a new scorpio that I work with that we’ve clearly started doing the whole staring, jealousy, testing stage, and so far I’ve been doing well. Because I’ve been reading on scorpios I have a better idea of how to deal when he gets moody. However we’ve been doing well for a few weeks and I’ve read before how scorpios might take some time, maybe even years for them to make a move if they like someone. And then some places say they might never actually make the first move, so I’m getting impatient. He does make me super nervous and dorky. So I’m not trying to make the first move, but I’m starting to think I might have to. But I also don’t want to make the first move and scare him off if they supposedly like to be in “control”.. I just am not sure what to do from here. Should I just be patient and wait?

Posted by Sin15
Regardless I’m going to go for it anyway. I’m a pisces girl. And about a year ago I realized almost every serious relationship, or any guy I’ve ever liked so much has been a scorpio. And about a two years ago I had the most amazing relationship with a scorpio, that yeah we fought and made up, but it was kind of amazing. Unfortunately that guy passed away about a year ago, but I feel like we wouldn’t of fought as much as we did if I had understood him a little better. The thing is, now I have a new scorpio that I work with that we’ve clearly started doing the whole staring, jealousy, testing stage, and so far I’ve been doing well. Because I’ve been reading on scorpios I have a better idea of how to deal when he gets moody. However we’ve been doing well for a few weeks and I’ve read before how scorpios might take some time, maybe even years for them to make a move if they like someone. And then some places say they might never actually make the first move, so I’m getting impatient. He does make me super nervous and dorky. So I’m not trying to make the first move, but I’m starting to think I might have to. But I also don’t want to make the first move and scare him off if they supposedly like to be in “control”.. I just am not sure what to do from here. Should I just be patient and wait?

Hmph. Okay well a few things:

May I suggest you stop "reading" up on Scorpios and get to know this one on a personal level. Just spend time with him. When he does something curious, inquire about it with him instead of asking a bunch of strangers. There isn't anything wrong with asking DXP about some of the things you see, but always try to go back to the source.

Try to avoid assuming you know what is going on, which tends to be a bad habit of water signs. It is the biggest issue I have with Fish folks. Y'all assume, and then make a decision to act based on that assumption and you're usually so far off it's laughable and gets annoying. This approach is too passive for a water-water pairing if you would like it to be successful.

Finally, if you really want to read up on Scorps I might suggest lurking and reading how the Scorps here (or on another astrology forum) respond, discuss or share on a topic vs reading a generic "Scorp Men" article on the web. I have found I have learned so much more about the various signs seeing how they interact here with others than anything I could have possibly read elsewhere. It gives you a better appreciation for other's perspective and can give you insight*. Then again when I go into "research mode", I take it to another level.

Good luck.

*disclaimer: Scorps tend to be very sarcastic (especially the Scorp Moons *cough* Rabbit *cough* and the Gem Moons 😄, minus CopperDove), so keep that in mind.

Posted by UnicornSag
seriously, another pisces-scorp?wtf with this already lol as soon as I saw "pisces girl" i stopped reading lol

sorry op, might check thread later but those previous threads were pure insanity :/

They come in waves. We always tend to get 4-5 threads from one sign at one given time for a period of 2-3 weeks. Usually Gems, Leos, Fish folk, and Crabs. We had one full year from one particular Crab lol. We've even had a few Sags all up in our crazy kool aid too.

It will die down at some point and on to another sign.

Posted by Ellygant
Don’t apologize. 🙂

This.

Posted by Ellygant
Be present.

Overcommunication can be helpful between two water signs. As long as you approach it from learning rather than trying to belabor your point.

Also never cater to a Scorpio for the sake of giving them control. Not a good way to start off. It will give some of the more selfish ones license to treat you like a possession and not a partner.

*like*

Posted by Ellygant
Aw sweet fish lol. You’ve done you’re lurking too if you’re apologizing before even starting haha.

Don’t apologize. 🙂

PR was sound with her advice. Just try to get to know him. Y’all to him when you can. Ask him questions about his life. Be present.

Overcommunication can be helpful between two water signs. As long as you approach it from learning rather than trying to belabor your point.

Also never cater to a Scorpio for the sake of giving them control. Not a good way to start off. It will give some of the more selfish ones license to treat you like a possession and not a partner.

This is in response to gemilit and phoenixrising too:

Thank you firstly, and I will definitely tone down the scorp look ups. I just get really obsessive when I like someone and this just helps me from trying To talk to him 24/7.

And yeah I’ve been really attentive and forward about getting to know him. I go up to him and ask him a bunch, which he doesn’t hold back on answering, which is great.

And yeah I’ve noticed the over communication definitely helps. In the past I’ve refused to explain myself because I thought it wouldn’t make a difference, but there have been times where this guy gets mad and weird, distant for no reason and I’ll go up to him and express myself he just goes back to normal after we talk about it.

It’s definitely great, as a pisces it does take a lot of effort to be forward but I’m willing to do it for this guy. It seems to be working so far.

And yeah I’m gonna try to just focus on him and who he is and if I feel like we’re having a moment I’ll go for it.

Posted by Sin15

Posted by Ellygant
Aw sweet fish lol. You’ve done you’re lurking too if you’re apologizing before even starting haha.

Don’t apologize. 🙂

PR was sound with her advice. Just try to get to know him. Y’all to him when you can. Ask him questions about his life. Be present.

Overcommunication can be helpful between two water signs. As long as you approach it from learning rather than trying to belabor your point.

Also never cater to a Scorpio for the sake of giving them control. Not a good way to start off. It will give some of the more selfish ones license to treat you like a possession and not a partner.

This is in response to gemilit and phoenixrising too:

Thank you firstly, and I will definitely tone down the scorp look ups. I just get really obsessive when I like someone and this just helps me from trying To talk to him 24/7.

And yeah I’ve been really attentive and forward about getting to know him. I go up to him and ask him a bunch, which he doesn’t hold back on answering, which is great.

And yeah I’ve noticed the over communication definitely helps. In the past I’ve refused to explain myself because I thought it wouldn’t make a difference, but there have been times where this guy gets mad and weird, distant for no reason and I’ll go up to him and express myself he just goes back to normal after we talk about it.

It’s definitely great, as a pisces it does take a lot of effort to be forward but I’m willing to do it for this guy. It seems to be working so far.

And yeah I’m gonna try to just focus on him and who he is and if I feel like we’re having a moment I’ll go for it.

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Doll, the responses are legit EXCEPT for those who are NOT Piscean like you and I. "We" look up the zodiac sign, likes/dislikes, personalities, etc. Since this is an ASTROLOGY site, suggest you continue doing so. Hell! Look up his Chinese zodiac AND numerology to make sure you these "click" with the two of you. As this helps wear a certain "color" of clothing to attract said Scorpio man, suggest places to go hang out at, etc, etc, etc, etc!

I betcha in six months you'll log in asking us, "What gift suggestions can you help me buy for a Scorpio man?" 😆

🤗 cyber hugs!

Love,

Eva

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Posted by Sin15

Posted by Ellygant
Aw sweet fish lol. You’ve done you’re lurking too if you’re apologizing before even starting haha.

Don’t apologize. 🙂

PR was sound with her advice. Just try to get to know him. Y’all to him when you can. Ask him questions about his life. Be present.

Overcommunication can be helpful between two water signs. As long as you approach it from learning rather than trying to belabor your point.

Also never cater to a Scorpio for the sake of giving them control. Not a good way to start off. It will give some of the more selfish ones license to treat you like a possession and not a partner.

This is in response to gemilit and phoenixrising too:

Thank you firstly, and I will definitely tone down the scorp look ups. I just get really obsessive when I like someone and this just helps me from trying To talk to him 24/7.

And yeah I’ve been really attentive and forward about getting to know him. I go up to him and ask him a bunch, which he doesn’t hold back on answering, which is great.

And yeah I’ve noticed the over communication definitely helps. In the past I’ve refused to explain myself because I thought it wouldn’t make a difference, but there have been times where this guy gets mad and weird, distant for no reason and I’ll go up to him and express myself he just goes back to normal after we talk about it.

It’s definitely great, as a pisces it does take a lot of effort to be forward but I’m willing to do it for this guy. It seems to be working so far.

And yeah I’m gonna try to just focus on him and who he is and if I feel like we’re having a moment I’ll go for it.

Aw you really are such a sweetie pie. My best friend of fifteen years is a Pisces and you remind me of her. She too went through a hard growth spurt emotionally of learning to express herself and seeing the usefulness of explaining.

As sincere and earnest as you seem here, he’d be crazy to not want to see more of you as you two get to know one another. And if he doesn’t, and can’t see you, than he is not a man you should bestow such sweet and tender-hearted obsessiveness too. 😛

Best of luck. Move forward with grace and confidence.

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Awe thank you, and really I have to actively try to make myself open up or be affectionate with someone I like, which sucks but now that I’m 23 it is much easier than when I was younger 🙈

And I agree if he does just decide to be like he’s not interested I’ll just move on, no harm no foul.

And to gemilit: I hope so, I think he does.

I’m just gonna enjoy whatever this is now!