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I'm very fond of my Scorpio man! (Page 3)
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I honestly think its my libra moon, I go back and forth a lot with many things. I loved my Leo ex and we were together 4 years but I do know in the first year I threatened to break up with him almost monthly and he stuck around. I don't know why I did it, I don't know why I am so fickle. I do care about ppl very deeply and have had a few friends in my life of 10+ years. I know that I can come off as self centered though and I don't mean to give that impression, it is a flaw I know I have and I AM working on it. I've gotten better but I have a ways to go too.
I do very much care about my Scorp though. I shy away from conflict and can run when going gets tough with anything...I'm trying not to and am realizing that if you disagree it doesn't mean that person hates you and you need to break up.
Thank you for taking the time to write all that out.
I have abandonment issues and am terribly insecure and sensitive. Emotional. I have weird ways of showing this at times and because I fear rejection so much, running away or shifting the conversation when things get intense can be my way out. But I am seeing a different side to my Scorp and slowly letting him more. I want to show I appreciate him and care.
PR I think is right on. Ag I have abandonment issues too. I think a lot of ppl on here do. It's just set up different for everyone. Anyone w our type I think it's
really easy for us to get lost in OUR emotional world and forget others have feelings too. That makes intimacy really difficult. Even when I thought I was
always thinking of the other person, it was WHAT I WAS THINKING. Not THINKING about what THEY thought, or felt. But what I THOUGHT and FELT about them.
It takes so much practice to become aware of others. Not being able to see past yourself is a great way to self protect and never really connect with the
other person and subconsciously push them away. While others may do the opposite of completely focus on the other and not the self. I think the goal is to
be able to do the healthy in between of awareness on both levels.
It's scary how many things you do without realizing. Than waking up and trying to change them is very uncomfortable because your exposed and open.
But good change doesn't come easy of course. I just found it funny PR brought it up cause it's currently something I'm working on in therapy. It's very
difficult but i'm trying everyday little by little pushing myself through the uncomfortable to gain a better reward than what I have now. It may take forever.
But I always thought It's all about trying to live beyond your limitations.
Sag, you are struggling with what I am!! I DO care for ppl, honestly I do. But I can be insensitive and self absorbed and I really want to work on this because I don't like this about myself.
My cancer mom and cancer, Taurus, -and Pisces best friends point it out to me on a regular so I know it's obvious....it's me that is oblivious. I want to fix this.
How young is "too young"? lol.
My Virgo with Pisces moon was 43 hah.
But nah, I'm very fond of my Scorpio with Leo moon. Rising Aquarius, just like meee!
My ex was Leo with Taurus moon...it's like he didn't feel like he had to do anything to keep the relationship going, it just was. Is that common of Taurus moons? They seem to get rather settled and lazy.
I like passion, I like being swept off my feet, ALWAYS! It's not cool when at 4 years and 22 years of age you are watching TV in the same room on SEPARATE couches.
I mean, am I right?
yea ag! totally can!
Posted by Sag89
yea ag! totally can!
Why don't you live in Dallas? I feel like we would be good friends =)
Posted by Sag89
yea ag! totally can!Why don't you live in Dallas? I feel like we would be good friends =)
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me too! No I live in CO it's so boring haha
Posted by Neurotoxin
Awwwww....how cute.Are you guys going to make out now?
Can I take pictures?
Posted by Sag89
yea ag! totally can!Why don't you live in Dallas? I feel like we would be good friends =)
I live in Dallas!! He was 27, I have always dated guys my age or a few years older.
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I like you too Jenn, we should grab a coffee or something and talk about astrology/life 🙂
How old are you? I'm 24, 27 would have been fine for me...I usually date older too. Although after the 43 year old my cut off age is 35. My closet group of friends besides my school friends are early-late 30s with some 40s mixed in. Sadly, my best friend from work had to leave...she was a 47 year old Scorpio.
My best friends are: a Cancer, Leo, Libra female (these are of 9-13 years) and then 2 Pisces females, a Taurus male (my room mate), and a Gemini male. And of course my Scorpio bf 😉
My bf is actually 5 months younger which is very rare for me but he is also mature for his age, like me, and established.
Posted by Neurotoxin
Awwwww....how cute.Are you guys going to make out now?
Can I take pictures?
Stop projecting your fantasies on DXP! LOL! I swear is your Virgo wife not giving it up good enough for your Scorpion tastes HUMMMM HUMMMMMMM?
Posted by Neurotoxin
Awwwww....how cute.Are you guys going to make out now?
Can I take pictures?
Stop projecting your fantasies on DXP! LOL! I swear is your Virgo wife not giving it up good enough for your Scorpion tastes HUMMMM HUMMMMMMM?
You again?
Are you going to join in?
Let me get my GoPro...I need video.
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What do you mean "you again" LOL! If anything you're the Scorpio who loves to frolic in our Gemini forum. Don't even lie!
NOU! Jenn & GC and I are going to install a disco ball in your cave. UNSE UNSE UNSE! WOO HOO! Gemini dance time! *Picks you up by the pinchers and twirls you around* WEEEE!
***Dodges it*** Ha! Reflexes like a cat! You know us Gem babies are limber!
Actually that would be hilarious! You should bedazzle your balls too! LOL!
YUS LOL! But seriously totally do that to your shoes 😄
It was your idea LOL!
You're right.
Posted by Xin
Actually that would be hilarious! You should bedazzle your balls too! LOL!lol
that was funny!
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IKR!
@Neuro - After you bedazzle them you should totally put up a video of you air humping! Amazing! 😄
Don't think that us DXP appropriate...
But it would be an interesting story he would have to explain to his wife
Posted by Neurotoxin
There will be no bedazzling of my junk.Besides...I can't find it to bedazzle it.
Omg LMAO! Awe come on now. Of course it's DXP appropriate. James Tate has pictures of girls vajay jays and tig ol bitties in his profile, and Enfant has a picture of his actual wang so yeah its DXP appropriate!
Make with the air humps Neuro!
Posted by Neurotoxin
There will be no bedazzling of my junk.Besides...I can't find it to bedazzle it.
Omg LMAO! Awe come on now. Of course it's DXP appropriate. James Tate has pictures of girls vajay jays and tig ol bitties in his profile, and Enfant has a picture of his actual wang so yeah its DXP appropriate!
Make with the air humps Neuro!
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Wait.....for serious??
Who the eff is James Tate, and why would he have those pics? Hopefully not girls he knows....
Penis pics and such.
Not here for long obviously...lol
Lol what is this, a city? I want to see nudey pics....
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You may think I am not supportive of your Gem-Scorp pairing because of the way my posts reads, but that is not the case. I may be one of the few people that like the pairing very much—it's just challenging. I like a good challenge personally. My view on this type of pairing doesn't mean I am not going to point out an issue when I see it. Did you not come here for advice and help? Maybe not so much?
The fact that you don't know Scorps very well isn't an issue. You can learn as you guys grow together. However, given the many challenges that Gems and Scorps have as a pairing, means you need to do the work. Stop being so focused on yourself and try connecting with your Scorp so you understand him and connect with him on a deeper level.