I'm very fond of my Scorpio man! (Page 2)

Ew Sag. They always find me too clingy. If they have a Sagg/Aries/Aquarius/Gemini venus I'm usually screwed

Is that your parking pass for rotund people? heheheehhhh! 😛

Pretty...shiny...

I know right. Mine has been mostly Cancers and Scorpios. There was two Aries in there, a Gemini well a few but they annoyed me to no end, and uh...Two Aquarians. But the rest all water. I cant stand Sags or Pisces!!!

i've dated 4. two very seriously.

first was love and lust we couldn't handle. he's the only ex and human being that i've completely stone cold cut out of my life. 2nd was casual dating, and still likes me and contacts me but, i'm a lil lukewarm about him. 3rd even more casual dating and is still a very good friend and awesome guy.

4th ... was perhaps the most.. je nais se quoi. there probably isnt just one adjective. charismatic and volatile. that relationship left us both confused, mad, hurt, broken... i think we both lost a lot of ourselves individually in that relationship and any time you compromise that much and end up failing, it alters you for a while. he is a lunatic and my heart goes out to him.

Libra? Yeah there is this one that talks to me and well he's nice and all but im sick of his whole "don't know what I want" stuff. So I just stopped talking to him.

From what I seen from DXPnet scorpions definately attract Geminis.... I see a few earthy coming in here and there( very rarely) but 80% are Geminis..... I must admit scorpions forum is the most interesting one of all... The rest r pretty boring :p I Havnt peeked to Geminis ones ofcourse! I'm sure there are tons of different topics in there!

My moon is libra 🙂

I say I'm done with scorpios..until I find another one lol. They are really drawn to me.

But hopefully this one lasts. The others were TOO Scorp, meaning they had a Scorpio moon or mercury in addition to sun. Some even had Scorpio rising too. This one at least has a Leo moon and Aquarius rising. The only other Scorpio things he has if a Scorpio mars which goes well with my Cancer mars. We both have Scorp plutos, I have a Scorpio Midheaven. His Lilith is in Scorp and mine in libra.

Scorpio with Gemini moon and Gemini with Scorpio moon, that's pretty sweet!

What is this vertex stuff.

Posted by Agentgem24
I just wanted to give a shout out of how into my Scorpio man I am. I have dated my fair share of scorps and all were crazy to me besides this one, I really enjoy his company.

What is everyone's experience with Scorpio men? No two are alike 🙂

Oh yeah? Well, hey, guess what, you'll change your mind. They all do.

I don't think the Scorp and Gemini that have been together for 30 years in my friend circle are changing their mind.

The other longterm couples?

Gemini and Pisces = 8 years

Aquarius and Pisces= 11 years

LOL I read through the whole thread only to find SUVs and boxter engines and that Neuro's a lesbo? *shakes head* this was supposta be a thread abt awesome scorp men! 😛😛😛😛

Anyway puttin in my two cents:

Me: Sun Gemini, Moon Libra, Rising Aquarius, Merc Gemini, Venus Gemini, Mars Scorpio
Him:Sun Scorpio, Moon Libra,Rising Taurus, Merc Scorpio, Venus Scorpio, Mars Scorpio

He's suuupperr stubborn and suuuppperrr set in his ways (fixed rising and fixed everything except for cardinal moon). Spent a whole week visiting his family and relatives lol, gotto see why he's the way he is.

Agentgem, I see that we kinda have similar first 3 placements.

Posted by ZipZapZo0m
LOL I read through the whole thread only to find SUVs and boxter engines and that Neuro's a lesbo? *shakes head* this was supposta be a thread abt awesome scorp men! 😛😛😛😛

Anyway puttin in my two cents:

Me: Sun Gemini, Moon Libra, Rising Aquarius, Merc Gemini, Venus Gemini, Mars Scorpio
Him:Sun Scorpio, Moon Libra,Rising Taurus, Merc Scorpio, Venus Scorpio, Mars Scorpio

He's suuupperr stubborn and suuuppperrr set in his ways (fixed rising and fixed everything except for cardinal moon). Spent a whole week visiting his family and relatives lol, gotto see why he's the way he is.

Agentgem, I see that we kinda have similar first 3 placements.

Actually the same FOUR placements, crazy!

What about Libra and Leo moon for Gemini and Scorp sun both Aquarius rising neuro?

Yet another test of his greatness; well first I totally owned him and he was a pretty sore loser, I laughed 🙂 but he went to a venue for me, not his cup of tea but it was a theater thing. Was there a weird placement last night?? I was in a great mood all day and then right before I got there I was in a shit mood. Super anxious/nervous, stressed agitated. He did some things that would bug me normally, but no big deal. I was pretty much giving him shit all night and being a bitch. Idk why, I was just in a REALLY weird mood, bad vibes. I later explained that it was just me being crazy. Prob because I'm supposed to start that time of the month tomorrow? Who knows. It got better when we got home but I was just ugh....but he was loving and patient the whole time. I was pissing myself off even.

Never what lol. Libra and Leo moons and good together.

You are totally just doing that to get a rise out of me neuro....we could have the best moon signs and you would still say it -.-

I'm pissed because Starbucks is holding out on me. The promotion for salted Carmel mochas isn't until sept 2nd but I know they have if. My friend has sweet talked them and gotten 2 this week and I got flat out lied to!

Lucky her -.-

For being Pisces we have a lot in common. She calls me "mini me". She's 32 and says I remind her of herself when she was 24.

She's a Pisces sun, Leo rising. Aries moon, Aquarius mercury(works great for my Gemini) and Pisces venus/mars and mine are both cancer.

My other close Pisces friend (she's really sensitive) is Pisces sun, (I don't know her rising) Scorpio moon, Pisces mercury, venus Aquarius, mars libra. She and I ate also really close but I don't have we close a bond as I do her Gemini fianc? or my other Pisces female friend.

I drink way too much coffee...always makes things shitty lol

Yes! Lol my best guy friend, a Gemini (also my good Pisces-2nd one I listed- fianc?.) talk about crap constantly. We are IBS buddies.

Where do I get the stuff?

I have a feeling Scorp is jealous but he's not letting on. I'm very clear about expressing my jealousy.

Yeah I'm not. He's meeting up for coffee this afternoon with his closest female friend who has always been 100% platonic. He's helping her with her resume. I showed jealousy of it but I'm not going to tell him he can't, he hasn't given me a reason not to trust him.

Plus, I'm going to dinner/karaoke with someone I was formerly intimate with. It was only for a month and ended in April, I ended it and there are no lingering feelings. We are just catching up because we still maintain a close connection. He is happy I found someone I'm really happy with and he's back with his ex fianc?. I was going through a weird phase back then I think but I'm not attracted to this man anymore, he's also 20 years my senior.we simply want what's best for eachother and I already told him I'm driving separately and leaving by midnight. He's way too old to be more than a friend, lol not even sure what I was thinking back then.

I rarely hang out with guys solo on a regular basis and I see this one maaaybe once every few months to catch up. We don't even talk on a weekly basis always.

A....serial killer? You know what....that's totally it, you figured me out!

Posted by Agentgem24
My other close Pisces friend (she's really sensitive) is Pisces sun, (I don't know her rising) Scorpio moon, Pisces mercury, venus Aquarius, mars libra.

Do you store people's charts in your head? It's an intersting quirk AG. Lol, you remind me of another Gem I know.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Agentgem24
My other close Pisces friend (she's really sensitive) is Pisces sun, (I don't know her rising) Scorpio moon, Pisces mercury, venus Aquarius, mars libra.

Do you store people's charts in your head? It's an intersting quirk AG. Lol, you remind me of another Gem I know.

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Lol some are from memory, some I save and they eventually become memory.

Hey neuro, my Scorp is wanting to go federal too.

The last text he sent me was "just karaoke, nothing after" and he had asked me if he would pick me up? Um no that's weird, it's not a date. I assured him I would be driving sep, dinner then karaoke and leaving by 12. He hasn't responded since then to my texts nor did he answer my call. I know he's off today; hopefully he's just busy and isn't blowing me off and will contact me soon. What do you think?

This is just to catch up. And he's meeting a female friend at Starbucks to help her and I said that was ok

For ex, I have to practice a few times next week with a male friend solo. We are going to be live on a show and publically broadcasted, I have to practice. He told me he trusted me and knew my music was important to me and he wants to see me perform. To perform I have to practice and it's business.

-sigh- I cancelled the plans for tonight...:I told him I wanted to see him and catch up but despite my bf saying so I could tell he wasnt comfortable and if situations were reversed I would throw a hissy fit if he wanted to do that. I told the older guy the only way we could catch up and have it be appropriate, would be if his fianc? came with.

That's the only ex. The one I would be musically involved with was never a romantic interest.

Posted by Agentgem24
-sigh- I cancelled the plans for tonight...:I told him I wanted to see him and catch up but despite my bf saying so I could tell he wasnt comfortable and if situations were reversed I would throw a hissy fit if he wanted to do that. I told the older guy the only way we could catch up and have it be appropriate, would be if his fianc? came with.

*raised eye brow* Just wondering, why exactly did you cancel? I'm curious.

Phoenix, I cancelled because I guess it does look kind of bad. Our situation is slightly different; he's 20 years older and engaged and we are just friends, nothing would happen again even if we were both single.

BUT I was thinking about if he wanted to go catch up with the last girl he was intimate with and dated briefly and I would have flipped massive shit. So is it really fair for me to?

I don't think so....

The guy I'm working with next week; just a friend, never even crushed, he has a gf, and my bf met him last night at a venue. Plus it's for a music show.

But the other one....feelings aren't there anymore but up catch up over dinner and karaoke one on one, with the man that I wasnt just intimate with, but he holds the record for most sex times in a day.....even though nothing would happen, prob not the best idea.

Plus I'm over my feelings but I'm not sure he is.

What's the "growing up" to?

Sigh I guess. But how come a 24 year old taken woman had to realize it before the 43 year old man did?

Man is also taken. It was just innocent to me but then I remembered the "I was an idiot for letting you get away from me" message he sent earlier and that was my final deciding. We can catch up, but his fianc?e will be there.

-.- that doesn't explain everything.

My Scorpio bf has a high sex drive. But he asks me, "omg. Why are you so horny? ALL the time??" Lol just am I guess...

Ah I see.

Posted by Agentgem24
Phoenix, I cancelled because I guess it does look kind of bad. Our situation is slightly different; he's 20 years older and engaged and we are just friends, nothing would happen again even if we were both single.

BUT I was thinking about if he wanted to go catch up with the last girl he was intimate with and dated briefly and I would have flipped massive shit. So is it really fair for me to?

I don't think so....

I guess it's a good thing you have a little Rabbit on your shoulder to help you out.

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by Agentgem24
Phoenix, I cancelled because I guess it does look kind of bad. Our situation is slightly different; he's 20 years older and engaged and we are just friends, nothing would happen again even if we were both single.

BUT I was thinking about if he wanted to go catch up with the last girl he was intimate with and dated briefly and I would have flipped massive shit. So is it really fair for me to?

I don't think so....

I guess it's a good thing you have a little Rabbit on your shoulder to help you out.

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Rabbit?

Oh that makes sense lol

Posted by Neurotoxin
I just gave my opinion on how *I* would feel.

She made the choice.

I've got too much Libra influence to act as an angel (or devil) on ones shoulder

Not meant to be an attack.

Rabbit, I saw the play. I know you shared an opinion, which I agree with btw. My point was that you nudged that decision imo. You're not always going to be around to help her out so she doesn't mess up with this guy. She knew that her Scorp was upset, but she wanted to go anyway. It was only when she made it about her that she decided against going (begrudgingly btw, hence the "sigh")--not because of his feelings. I just wonder if you hadn't shared your opinion if she would have changed her mind. It doesn't seem like she is aware of her Scorp at all. He's in for some heartbrea I think.

Jesus....*decided not to go

*heartbreak

Note to self: don't multitask.

Well I ask for input and it helps (from friends too) but I ultimately make my own decision. I didn't go because I felt bad and didn't want to upset him, he does his best to abide by my rules it would be totally hypocritical when I could feel he wasnt 100% keen.

It's kind of red and presumptuous to just automatically assume I will break his heart. I like him, I don't intend that. But I don't know what will happen, I can only hope for the best.

*rude, not red

Posted by Agentgem24
Well I ask for input and it helps (from friends too) but I ultimately make my own decision. I didn't go because I felt bad and didn't want to upset him, he does his best to abide by my rules it would be totally hypocritical when I could feel he wasnt 100% keen.

It's kind of rude and presumptuous to just automatically assume I will break his heart. I like him, I don't intend that. But I don't know what will happen, I can only hope for the best.

Okay. Rude? How so?

Actually before you answer let me just explain the last statement in my post:

In one of your threads you stated that you considered leaving your Scorp because you couldn't deal with his mood swings. If I recall you stated that —they were almost too much to bear?? and you were tempted to break up with him because you were scared—and this is just a few months into your relationship

This was the very same thread where I pointed out that you seem to focus very much on you, how things make you feel, what your concerns are even when your Scorp is looking for validation for why you are with him, which to me indicates a lack of awareness. In this same thread you also stated you still had feeling for your ex (a Leo I believe).

You also stated in this thread that your Scorp was —tough skinned?? and that you were the sensitive one of the two, which tells me not only do you not know Scorps very well, but you believe you're the only one that can get hurt in this situation.

In another thread you talked about said Leo, how much you still love him and think about him and that you were wondering if you are in this current relationship with your Scorp to fill a void.
In the same thread and another you talked about how much you stray in your relationship and end things fairly quickly.

And in this very thread you admit that you need advice to help you sort out how to be with this Scorp.

Of course there was also a lot of unnecessary information about sushi, music, dinner dates and a blunt Pisces, but this is what has led me to the conclusion that at some point, whether intentionally or not, you will hurt this man. Some of it will just because that is the nature of a Scorp, but some of it will be because you come off and a little thoughtless. Am I saying you're going to try to intentionally hurt the man? No. But, we can be a lot more sensitive (when we care about you) than people believe and the fact that you have no awareness of why he feels what he feels, how to respond to those feelings and make a lot of this about you, is why I posted what I posted. We are a very perceptive sign and we know when someone is in it, heart, body and soul and when they are dreaming and pondering an ex.

Actually before you answer let me just explain the last statement in my post:

In one of your threads you stated that you considered leaving your Scorp because you couldn't deal with his mood swings. If I recall you stated that —they were almost too much to bear?? and you were tempted to break up with him because you were scared—and this is just a few months into your relationship

This was the very same thread where I pointed out that you seem to focus very much on you, how things make you feel, what your concerns are even when your Scorp is looking for validation for why you are with him, which to me indicates a lack of awareness. In this same thread you also stated you still had feeling for your ex (a Leo I believe).

You also stated in this thread that your Scorp was —tough skinned?? and that you were the sensitive one of the two, which tells me not only do you not know Scorps very well, but you believe you're the only one that can get hurt in this situation.

In another thread you talked about said Leo, how much you still love him and think about him and that you were wondering if you are in this current relationship with your Scorp to fill a void.
In the same thread and another you talked about how much you stray in your relationship and end things fairly quickly.

And in this very thread you admit that you need advice to help you sort out how to be with this Scorp.

Of course there was also a lot of unnecessary information about sushi, music, dinner dates and a blunt Pisces, but this is what has led me to the conclusion that at some point, whether intentionally or not, you will hurt this man. Some of the hurt will occur just because that is the nature of a Scorp, but some of it will be because you come off and a little thoughtless. Am I saying you're going to try to intentionally hurt the man? No. But, we can be a lot more sensitive (when we care about you) than people believe and the fact that you have no awareness of why he feels what he feels, how to respond to those feelings and make a lot of this about you, is why I posted what I posted. We are a very perceptive sign and we know when someone is in it, heart, body and soul and when they are dreaming and pondering an ex.