Intuition?

So my ex-bf and I were random roommates first and we started dating after getting to know each other.. Believe me we both resisted the idea of dating at first since a break up would make the situation awkward and sure enough 2 weeks ago I broke it off b/c he just stopped putting effort into the relationship. It was a calm discussion I let him know why I thought we should go back to being friends etc. He agreed and said he would always consider me one of his best friends.
As we know after a break up its all about talking to your friends and getting a clearer picture of what happened and what I noticed was that my guy friends were more inclined to just say "he's not that into you" or he lost interest blah blah, but my female friends, who I assume know more about the situation are more inclined to believe that he was being insecure and pushed me away - insecure b/c he's not sure what he wants to do w/ his life (at 28) and at 22 I just got into a prestigous grad school program (the day that happened is when everything started going downhill) and know exactly what I want out of life..

So we're still roommates for the next couple of weeks or so, so I still see him on a daily basis but here's the weird thing - I hate making excuses for men and am more inclined to just say "hey he wasnt that interested" and move on. But there are times when I'm around him where I feel like I get a clearer picture that he is in fact insecure and believes that I'd just eventually leave him for someone "better." Then I feel a sense of sympathy.. And other times I don't get this feeling at all.

So I guess I'm kind of curious about other people's experience with female intuiton. I'm not still reeling from the break up on an emotional level since I still have him in my life. But I'm still wondering if my judgement may be clowded or if the feelings I get about what he feels is in fact female intuition.

Thoughts??

Oh and I'm not sure if this matters but I am a Scorpio Sun and Aquarius moon and he is a Gemini Sun and Leo Moon

All I'll say is that it's not really psychic ability, it's more like basic feelings - instinctual stuff. Animalistic senses - as if we smell fearful activity or as if we understand a scared reaction even though we don't let others know that we do. If you're looking for psychic intuition then it's all about Pisces.