AriesAngel92
@AriesAngel92
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Is this scorpio man secretly in love w me or have I lost my mind
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Also I’m an Aries I forgot to mention that I think
I’m afraid not, you annoying Gemini troll.
When I read this is going to be a long story I stopped reading and wanted to gouge my eyes out. It felt like it took a half day just to scroll down to type this.
Did he every add you back on facebook? Or is all your communication on snap chat
All on Snapchat 😢
Pretty sure if he thought I was 100% lesbian he wouldn’t waste his time flirting with me. Also, bite me bitch. If he didn’t want to read my story he didn’t have to say anything. Take your negativity and bad energy elsewhere and quit starting problems online. Get some real friends.
Posted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
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Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere else
Posted by AriesAngel92He snapchats you cause it doesn't keep a record for her to find. Bet she isn't deleted off of his facebook.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere elseclick to expand
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92He snapchats you cause it doesn't keep a record for her to find. Bet she isn't deleted off of his facebook.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere elseclick to expand
No, it says they’re in a relationship, but he never post any pictures with her on Facebook or Snapchat.
He’s looking for a side piece. People always want what they can have. Why would he come visit if he has a girl? You shouldn’t trust this dude. Just keep it platonic.
Posted by AriesAngel92Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92He snapchats you cause it doesn't keep a record for her to find. Bet she isn't deleted off of his facebook.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere else
No, it says they’re in a relationship, but he never post any pictures with her on Facebook or Snapchat.click to expand
He may just have you on a private setting so you can’t see everything. He can put you on a limited profile setting and hide it.
Posted by saggurl88I have a feeling you’re right. He says I isolate myself but really I don’t, im just trying to stay in reality and not get swept up in this delusional little fantasy world.
He’s looking for a side piece. People always want what they can have. Why would he come visit if he has a girl? You shouldn’t trust this dude. Just keep it platonic.
Posted by saggurl88Posted by AriesAngel92Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92He snapchats you cause it doesn't keep a record for her to find. Bet she isn't deleted off of his facebook.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere else
No, it says they’re in a relationship, but he never post any pictures with her on Facebook or Snapchat.
He may just have you on a private setting so you can’t see everything. He can put you on a limited profile setting and hide it.click to expand
That’s a very good point. I really need to ask him wtf is going on w them if he has any intention whatsoever on actually following through with coming here.
Posted by AriesAngel92Right. So he claims her on facebook while he deletes you...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92He snapchats you cause it doesn't keep a record for her to find. Bet she isn't deleted off of his facebook.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere else
No, it says they’re in a relationship, but he never post any pictures with her on Facebook or Snapchat.click to expand
I'm just saying don't settle for the snapchat side chick role. Being the "hideous dorky" main chick is still preferred, no?
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92Right. So he claims her on facebook while he deletes you...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92He snapchats you cause it doesn't keep a record for her to find. Bet she isn't deleted off of his facebook.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere else
No, it says they’re in a relationship, but he never post any pictures with her on Facebook or Snapchat.
I'm just saying don't settle for the snapchat side chick role. Being the "hideous dorky" main chick is still preferred, no?click to expand
Yea, absolutely. At the end of the day she’s the one spending time with him, that’s what it all comes down to . I need to remember we are friends and that’s it . When he tries to flirt with me I must ignore it.
Posted by AriesAngel92Just type his name into the Facebook search option and you will be able to see who has tagged him in photos and go from there. He can’t hide what other people tag.Posted by saggurl88Posted by AriesAngel92Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92He snapchats you cause it doesn't keep a record for her to find. Bet she isn't deleted off of his facebook.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere else
No, it says they’re in a relationship, but he never post any pictures with her on Facebook or Snapchat.
He may just have you on a private setting so you can’t see everything. He can put you on a limited profile setting and hide it.
That’s a very good point. I really need to ask him wtf is going on w them if he has any intention whatsoever on actually following through with coming here.click to expand
He’s not gonna admit much since he wants you. Why would he sabotage his own self by telling you the truth. He’s already stepping over blurred lines.
He’s probably fantasizing about being with a lesbian, having a lesbian and her girlfriend. All kinds of crazy shit lol.
If you are upfront about your feelings and he isn’t scared. That’s a whole other subject cause then he will want to see you. There’s not really a good ending when it involves third party situations.
Posted by AriesAngel92This is gonna be a hard pill to swallow but, real talk, you aren't friends. You met each other and started dating right away. There wasn't a cultivation of a friendship first. It was fireworks, remember?Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92Right. So he claims her on facebook while he deletes you...Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92He snapchats you cause it doesn't keep a record for her to find. Bet she isn't deleted off of his facebook.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere else
No, it says they’re in a relationship, but he never post any pictures with her on Facebook or Snapchat.
I'm just saying don't settle for the snapchat side chick role. Being the "hideous dorky" main chick is still preferred, no?
Yea, absolutely. At the end of the day she’s the one spending time with him, that’s what it all comes down to . I need to remember we are friends and that’s it . When he tries to flirt with me I must ignore it.
Posted by AriesAngel92And friend zoning him in your head isn't going to change his m.o. He's still the kinda dude whose in a relationship and trying to get at other females. If he's willing to disrespect his woman what makes you think he'll honor your "friendship"? Js.
So a few years ago, I saw this scorpio man at a bar. From that moment I just knew I had to know his name. We started talking and instant fireworks— we spent nearly every night together the rest of that week. He told me I was his puzzle piece.click to expand
I get where you’re coming from for sure. He has been a very supportive friend to me though - and as I said the flirting has been very innocent, totally non-sexual. We never talk about sex at all
This is comedy gold! I'll save this & might re-enact it on youtube or something, gotta find more willing participants tho.
Why are you flirting with a man that is spoken for though?.
Posted by AriesAngel92Hey, wanna console a salty Cancer chick? Now that her dreams of having my man are completely shattered, she's gonna need some real good pussy to take her mind off things.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere elseclick to expand
PS: Scorps like him absolutely suck. They only care about boosting their own ego by having chicks drool over them. You're merely giving him what he wants, and he ain't giving you anything in return.
Have some self respect, luv, and realize your own self worth. Throw him in the trash where he belongs.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowPosted by AriesAngel92Hey, wanna console a salty Cancer chick? Now that her dreams of having my man are completely shattered, she's gonna need some real good pussy to take her mind off things.Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
Of course not. I’m pretty sure he’s embarrassed of her anyway. She’s a total dork and she’s hideous. I just wish I could get him to tell me what the hell is going on with them so I could at least know if I want to distance myself or not. If he’s snap chatting me all the time while he’s with her clearly his mind is somewhere else
PS: Scorps like him absolutely suck. They only care about boosting their own ego by having chicks drool over them. You're merely giving him what he wants, and he ain't giving you anything in return.
Have some self respect, luv, and realize your own self worth. Throw him in the trash where he belongs.click to expand
I don’t give him anything. I got nobody else to talk to and he’s the only one texting me since I moved here. I don’t see why we can’t stay friends. I’ll just know to distance myself emotionally now.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI’m glad that my feelings are a joke to you. Must be nice to spend all your free time hiding behind the internet trying to hurt others. I wouldn’t know, I don’t do that.
This is comedy gold! I'll save this & might re-enact it on youtube or something, gotta find more willing participants tho.
Posted by KityyyyyyyBecause before you judge me
Why are you flirting with a man that is spoken for though?.
A. I don’t know this girl, nor do I have any obligation to respect her. And
B. He’s the one always trying to talk to me. I never text him first. Hence why he says I “isolate myself”. I don’t, I just don’t want to get too close to him. And none of the flirting is sexual at all. We’ve never even had sex.
Posted by AriesAngel92Hardly. What I'm laughing at is all the morons throwing oil in the fire instead of trying to make sense of this clusterfuck. Feelings clusterfuck, I've been there done that. I've also been there done that on trying to make sense of things and having morons from here mocking me (but hey, now I'm the one who had my dream come true and they are still stuck in a loveless existence).Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI’m glad that my feelings are a joke to you. Must be nice to spend all your free time hiding behind the internet trying to hurt others. I wouldn’t know, I don’t do that.
This is comedy gold! I'll save this & might re-enact it on youtube or something, gotta find more willing participants tho.click to expand
So I say you picked the worst place for that. It's just hilarious to see the salt coming out in full force, especially from people who claim to be in happy relationships, like Arielle up there. You'd think people in happy relationships would be........you know.....happier, and more inclined to help than to mock.
Anyhow, since you moved to a new place, the first thing you should be doing is mingling & making new friends. The last thing you wanna be doing is giving that mofo any more ammunition, by wanting his friendship and allowing yourself to be kept in his vicinity like a donkey with a carrot. The worst thing you can do for him and the best thing you can do for yourself is cut him off completely. He's treated you like a doormat and he doesn't deserve to have you in his life.
Goes back to self respect and knowing your self worth. The man I'm with now is the love of my life, but I walked out on him a few months ago for 2 weeks when I believed he was two-timing me. I may love that boy to death, but I also value myself and I refused to take that shit lying down, so off I went.
And that skidmark Scorp of yours is not a patch on my boy. so he's not even worth being used as toilet paper.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowArielle is just miserable. She’s pushing 40 and this is what gets her off. It’s pathetic honestly . And, I do get where you’re coming from. I wouldn’t be on here if I wasn’t seriously questioning all this shady shit my self. I think next time he hits me up I’m gonna ask him straight up what the hell is going on w his girlfriend. I’ll jusr casually mention how he never brings her up or post anything w her and see what he says. I feel like if he says he’s over the relationship then alright, talk to me when you’re broken up. And if he says things are going good, I’ll pretend it doesn’t destroy me and slowly cut him off.Posted by AriesAngel92Hardly. What I'm laughing at is all the morons throwing oil in the fire instead of trying to make sense of this clusterfuck. Feelings clusterfuck, I've been there done that. I've also been there done that on trying to make sense of things and having morons from here mocking me (but hey, now I'm the one who had my dream come true and they are still stuck in a loveless existence).Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI’m glad that my feelings are a joke to you. Must be nice to spend all your free time hiding behind the internet trying to hurt others. I wouldn’t know, I don’t do that.
This is comedy gold! I'll save this & might re-enact it on youtube or something, gotta find more willing participants tho.
So I say you picked the worst place for that. It's just hilarious to see the salt coming out in full force, especially from people who claim to be in happy relationships, like Arielle up there. You'd think people in happy relationships would be........you know.....happier, and more inclined to help than to mock.
Anyhow, since you moved to a new place, the first thing you should be doing is mingling & making new friends. The last thing you wanna be doing is giving that mofo any more ammunition, by wanting his friendship and allowing yourself to be kept in his vicinity like a donkey with a carrot. The worst thing you can do for him and the best thing you can do for yourself is cut him off completely. He's treated you like a doormat and he doesn't deserve to have you in his life.
Goes back to self respect and knowing your self worth. The man I'm with now is the love of my life, but I walked out on him a few months ago for 2 weeks when I believed he was two-timing me. I may love that boy to death, but I also value myself and I refused to take that shit lying down, so off I went.
And that skidmark Scorp of yours is not a patch on my boy. so he's not even worth being used as toilet paper.click to expand
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowSo no one in a relationship has ever left someone to be with someone else? 😂 what a sheltered life you live.
He has a girlfriend!
Posted by ArkansassyI mean like I wouldn’t want to be second but at the same time if I’m the one he can’t get off his mind and he’s only staying with her because I’m 3,000 miles away.. that’s not really a good enough reason to stop talking to him. Plus, everyone’s saying how he’s cheating or whatever but how? We never talk about sex at all. We’ve never had sex. I’m pretty sure to be a side chick you have to at least be banging whoever you’re cheating with.. and that’s not what’s goin on. We’re just friends who I think have something deeper going on. If he was looking for just sex I’m sure he could find someone closer than 3,000 miles to cheat with 😂Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't mind being second tbhPosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
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Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowCool, bye. Have fun judging everyone for the rest of your life. That’ll make you tons of friendsPosted by AriesAngel92You assume it has to do with leading a sheltered life or even that I have had a sheltered life.Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowSo no one in a relationship has ever left someone to be with someone else? 😂 what a sheltered life you live.
He has a girlfriend!
And it is obvious to me our principles differ a lot. I will end this conversation here.
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The guy is trash...
Delete him.
Be mindful and respectful of yourself and others always. It's a cylical, karmic lesson.
Raise your vibration, you'll attract those that are worthy.
Delete him.
Don't devalue yourself.
Delete him.
You dont need the stress, nor should expend your precious energy on toxic people.
Delete him...
No judgement.
Delete him.
Be mindful and respectful of yourself and others always. It's a cylical, karmic lesson.
Raise your vibration, you'll attract those that are worthy.
Delete him.
Don't devalue yourself.
Delete him.
You dont need the stress, nor should expend your precious energy on toxic people.
Delete him...
No judgement.
Posted by ArkansassyNo words are needed.Posted by KityyyyyyyAnd?
Why are you flirting with a man that is spoken for though?.click to expand
Posted by AriesAngel92Nah, this isn't working. I'm a gay boy who, at the time, was madly & secretly in love for 3 years with his presumed-straight best friend. On his birthday 2 years ago I almost killed myself because I couldn't take it anymore, so I know how this all feels.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowArielle is just miserable. She’s pushing 40 and this is what gets her off. It’s pathetic honestly . And, I do get where you’re coming from. I wouldn’t be on here if I wasn’t seriously questioning all this shady shit my self. I think next time he hits me up I’m gonna ask him straight up what the hell is going on w his girlfriend. I’ll jusr casually mention how he never brings her up or post anything w her and see what he says. I feel like if he says he’s over the relationship then alright, talk to me when you’re broken up. And if he says things are going good, I’ll pretend it doesn’t destroy me and slowly cut him off.Posted by AriesAngel92Hardly. What I'm laughing at is all the morons throwing oil in the fire instead of trying to make sense of this clusterfuck. Feelings clusterfuck, I've been there done that. I've also been there done that on trying to make sense of things and having morons from here mocking me (but hey, now I'm the one who had my dream come true and they are still stuck in a loveless existence).Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI’m glad that my feelings are a joke to you. Must be nice to spend all your free time hiding behind the internet trying to hurt others. I wouldn’t know, I don’t do that.
This is comedy gold! I'll save this & might re-enact it on youtube or something, gotta find more willing participants tho.
So I say you picked the worst place for that. It's just hilarious to see the salt coming out in full force, especially from people who claim to be in happy relationships, like Arielle up there. You'd think people in happy relationships would be........you know.....happier, and more inclined to help than to mock.
Anyhow, since you moved to a new place, the first thing you should be doing is mingling & making new friends. The last thing you wanna be doing is giving that mofo any more ammunition, by wanting his friendship and allowing yourself to be kept in his vicinity like a donkey with a carrot. The worst thing you can do for him and the best thing you can do for yourself is cut him off completely. He's treated you like a doormat and he doesn't deserve to have you in his life.
Goes back to self respect and knowing your self worth. The man I'm with now is the love of my life, but I walked out on him a few months ago for 2 weeks when I believed he was two-timing me. I may love that boy to death, but I also value myself and I refused to take that shit lying down, so off I went.
And that skidmark Scorp of yours is not a patch on my boy. so he's not even worth being used as toilet paper.click to expand
But my man is pure gold on the outside and especially on the inside. Your guy is a 200-pound bag of steaming, stinking monkey crap (yes I stole that from The Rock lol), so there's no comparison. If you think a loser like him is worth waiting for, then you've already lost. You're driving yourself crazy over a man (using that word loosely) who shows no consideration for your own emotional wellbeing.
It's an open-shut case in my book. You should delete him from all social media, block his numbers & never allow him to contact you ever again. You should get out there & meet new people and be with someone who actually appreciates what you have to offer. Because you deserve better than that shit........or am I wrong?
Because, by merely allowing him to occupy space in your mind, you're opening the door even wider for more shit to come through. And you gotta take care of yourself first & foremost because "you" are the only one you got. And if you don't respect "you", how do you expect anyone else to respect you? He clearly doesn't.
Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowIdk if you’re coming from a place of care or tough love, but I think you’ve made your point. Maybe I am delusional for getting caught up in this fantasy. And maybe I should respect myself enough to walk away. But he’s pretty much the only friend I’ve got right now. I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.Posted by AriesAngel92Nah, this isn't working. I'm a gay boy who, at the time, was madly & secretly in love for 3 years with his presumed-straight best friend. On his birthday 2 years ago I almost killed myself because I couldn't take it anymore, so I know how this all feels.Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowArielle is just miserable. She’s pushing 40 and this is what gets her off. It’s pathetic honestly . And, I do get where you’re coming from. I wouldn’t be on here if I wasn’t seriously questioning all this shady shit my self. I think next time he hits me up I’m gonna ask him straight up what the hell is going on w his girlfriend. I’ll jusr casually mention how he never brings her up or post anything w her and see what he says. I feel like if he says he’s over the relationship then alright, talk to me when you’re broken up. And if he says things are going good, I’ll pretend it doesn’t destroy me and slowly cut him off.Posted by AriesAngel92Hardly. What I'm laughing at is all the morons throwing oil in the fire instead of trying to make sense of this clusterfuck. Feelings clusterfuck, I've been there done that. I've also been there done that on trying to make sense of things and having morons from here mocking me (but hey, now I'm the one who had my dream come true and they are still stuck in a loveless existence).Posted by HeavyEntertainmentShowI’m glad that my feelings are a joke to you. Must be nice to spend all your free time hiding behind the internet trying to hurt others. I wouldn’t know, I don’t do that.
This is comedy gold! I'll save this & might re-enact it on youtube or something, gotta find more willing participants tho.
So I say you picked the worst place for that. It's just hilarious to see the salt coming out in full force, especially from people who claim to be in happy relationships, like Arielle up there. You'd think people in happy relationships would be........you know.....happier, and more inclined to help than to mock.
Anyhow, since you moved to a new place, the first thing you should be doing is mingling & making new friends. The last thing you wanna be doing is giving that mofo any more ammunition, by wanting his friendship and allowing yourself to be kept in his vicinity like a donkey with a carrot. The worst thing you can do for him and the best thing you can do for yourself is cut him off completely. He's treated you like a doormat and he doesn't deserve to have you in his life.
Goes back to self respect and knowing your self worth. The man I'm with now is the love of my life, but I walked out on him a few months ago for 2 weeks when I believed he was two-timing me. I may love that boy to death, but I also value myself and I refused to take that shit lying down, so off I went.
And that skidmark Scorp of yours is not a patch on my boy. so he's not even worth being used as toilet paper.
But my man is pure gold on the outside and especially on the inside. Your guy is a 200-pound bag of steaming, stinking monkey crap (yes I stole that from The Rock lol), so there's no comparison. If you think a loser like him is worth waiting for, then you've already lost. You're driving yourself crazy over a man (using that word loosely) who shows no consideration for your own emotional wellbeing.
It's an open-shut case in my book. You should delete him from all social media, block his numbers & never allow him to contact you ever again. You should get out there & meet new people and be with someone who actually appreciates what you have to offer. Because you deserve better than that shit........or am I wrong?
Because, by merely allowing him to occupy space in your mind, you're opening the door even wider for more shit to come through. And you gotta take care of yourself first & foremost because "you" are the only one you got. And if you don't respect "you", how do you expect anyone else to respect you? He clearly doesn't.click to expand
Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowFair enough. TruePosted by AriesAngel92Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowCool, bye. Have fun judging everyone for the rest of your life. That’ll make you tons of friendsPosted by AriesAngel92You assume it has to do with leading a sheltered life or even that I have had a sheltered life.Posted by Squishy_MarshmallowSo no one in a relationship has ever left someone to be with someone else? 😂 what a sheltered life you live.
He has a girlfriend!
And it is obvious to me our principles differ a lot. I will end this conversation here.
Again you assume I was judging you and want to put you down. What I said was stated in your OP by you.
And Scorp men who are worth having, the "evolved ones"( cliche but I have noticed this to be true) , they will not respect a woman who doesn't have strong principles, you won't know it but it will come up later on in the relationship. It's better to first earn their respect than love.
Had you reminded him he has a gf and you don't want to indulge his obsessive nature and meant it- either he would have went to her or had his love been strong for you, he would be with you and called it off with her.
Anyways my intention wasn't to put anyone down.
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Posted by ArkansassyYea, I definitely see what you’re saying. I’ve been good at not really entertaining it, it’s tempting of course but I’m across the country anyway. It just hurts I guess. Part of me deep down will always wonder if he’s secretly in love with me. But maybe the best way to find that out is to cut him off. As painful as it may be.Posted by AriesAngel92Look.. I'm definitely not the most morally competent user here.. So take my advice with a grain of salt..Posted by ArkansassyI mean like I wouldn’t want to be second but at the same time if I’m the one he can’t get off his mind and he’s only staying with her because I’m 3,000 miles away.. that’s not really a good enough reason to stop talking to him. Plus, everyone’s saying how he’s cheating or whatever but how? We never talk about sex at all. We’ve never had sex. I’m pretty sure to be a side chick you have to at least be banging whoever you’re cheating with.. and that’s not what’s goin on. We’re just friends who I think have something deeper going on. If he was looking for just sex I’m sure he could find someone closer than 3,000 miles to cheat with 😂Posted by LadyNeptuneI don't mind being second tbhPosted by AriesAngel92That points to him still being with this woman. He loves her because he claims her to the world. He secretly may love you...who knows. Point is are you willing to settle for second?
All on Snapchat 😢
I've been with alot of "spoken for" women. What I'm gathering from the two threads of yours.. Is that there is a sexual attraction on your part, BUT.. You wouldn't have sex with him unless he leaves his girlfriend first, and y'all got serious.
It doesn't work. He's not going to leave her for you.. Even if sex is involved. And IF he does.. It's not got a good chance of lasting too long.
Depending on where you stand morally, you really have three options:
1. Back off completely. Ignore and move on.
2. Fuck him and just enjoy yourself, while expecting nothing more.
3. Have any type of expectations that he will leave her for you.. And be hurt whether you sleep with him or not.
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Posted by KityyyyyyyUhh I think he can speak for himself.. based on that comment alone youre one to judge.. your relationships clearly haven’t been the healthiest. Being in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean they can no longer speak for themselves. Go find a women’s shelter and get some helpPosted by ArkansassyNo words are needed.Posted by KityyyyyyyAnd?
Why are you flirting with a man that is spoken for though?.
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Posted by KityyyyyyyUhh I think he can speak for himself.. based on that comment alone youre one to judge.. your relationships clearly haven’t been the healthiest. Being in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean they can no longer speak for themselves. Go find a women’s shelter and get some helpPosted by ArkansassyNo words are needed.Posted by KityyyyyyyAnd?
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Posted by AriesAngel92How do you know about her relationship history?Posted by KityyyyyyyUhh I think he can speak for himself.. based on that comment alone youre one to judge.. your relationships clearly haven’t been the healthiest.Being in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean they can no longer speak for themselves. Go find a women’s shelter and get some helpPosted by ArkansassyNo words are needed.Posted by KityyyyyyyAnd?
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Posted by Ram416Thank you darlin....Posted by AriesAngel92How do you know about her relationship history?Posted by KityyyyyyyUhh I think he can speak for himself.. based on that comment alone youre one to judge.. your relationships clearly haven’t been the healthiest.Being in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean they can no longer speak for themselves. Go find a women’s shelter and get some helpPosted by ArkansassyNo words are needed.Posted by KityyyyyyyAnd?
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She hasn't a clue clearly.... 🤗
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY
the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)
enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online
that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame
and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂
you talk about friendship, but its not what you want
the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....
the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)
enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online
that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame
and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂
you talk about friendship, but its not what you want
the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....
Posted by AriesAngel92You wanna dance?.Posted by KityyyyyyyUhh I think he can speak for himself.. based on that comment alone youre one to judge.. your relationships clearly haven’t been the healthiest. Being in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean they can no longer speak for themselves. Go find a women’s shelter and get some helpPosted by ArkansassyNo words are needed.Posted by KityyyyyyyAnd?
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Do you—————?.
Posted by Arielle83I could think of another word for it darlin, yet modesty forbids.... 🤣🤗Posted by KityyyyyyyIt’s clearly a catfish.Posted by AriesAngel92You wanna dance?.Posted by KityyyyyyyUhh I think he can speak for himself.. based on that comment alone youre one to judge.. your relationships clearly haven’t been the healthiest. Being in a relationship with someone doesn’t mean they can no longer speak for themselves. Go find a women’s shelter and get some helpPosted by ArkansassyNo words are needed.Posted by KityyyyyyyAnd?
Why are you flirting with a man that is spoken for though?.
Do you—————?.click to expand
Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY
the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)
enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online
that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame
and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂
you talk about friendship, but its not what you want
the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....
My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.
Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY
the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)
enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online
that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame
and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂
you talk about friendship, but its not what you want
the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....
My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.
Posted by AriesAngel92"My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life. "Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY
the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)
enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online
that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame
and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂
you talk about friendship, but its not what you want
the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....
My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.click to expand
As I stated on your other topic, I start to enjoy your trolling 🙂 its so over the top, that its hilarious, go on girl, you can entertain us more, I am sure 🙂
Posted by Pandora101Posted by AriesAngel92"My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life. "Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY
the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)
enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online
that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame
and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂
you talk about friendship, but its not what you want
the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....
My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.
As I stated on your other topic, I start to enjoy your trolling 🙂 its so over the top, that its hilarious, go on girl, you can entertain us more, I am sure 🙂click to expand
Nah you’re irrelevant. Maybe if I starve your ugly ass for attention you’ll fuck off. Worth a shot. Later
Posted by Pandora101Posted by AriesAngel92"My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life. "Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY
the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)
enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online
that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame
and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂
you talk about friendship, but its not what you want
the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....
My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.
As I stated on your other topic, I start to enjoy your trolling 🙂 its so over the top, that its hilarious, go on girl, you can entertain us more, I am sure 🙂click to expand
Nah you’re irrelevant. Maybe if I starve your ugly ass for attention you’ll fuck off. Worth a shot. Later
Posted by AriesAngel92I love you too, honey 🙂Posted by Pandora101Posted by AriesAngel92"My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life. "Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY
the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)
enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online
that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame
and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂
you talk about friendship, but its not what you want
the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....
My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.
As I stated on your other topic, I start to enjoy your trolling 🙂 its so over the top, that its hilarious, go on girl, you can entertain us more, I am sure 🙂
Nah you’re irrelevant. Maybe if I starve your ugly ass for attention you’ll fuck off. Worth a shot. Laterclick to expand
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