Is this scorpio man secretly in love w me or have I lost my mind (Page 2)

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This is comedy gold! I'll save this & might re-enact it on youtube or something, gotta find more willing participants tho.

I’m glad that my feelings are a joke to you. Must be nice to spend all your free time hiding behind the internet trying to hurt others. I wouldn’t know, I don’t do that.

Hardly. What I'm laughing at is all the morons throwing oil in the fire instead of trying to make sense of this clusterfuck. Feelings clusterfuck, I've been there done that. I've also been there done that on trying to make sense of things and having morons from here mocking me (but hey, now I'm the one who had my dream come true and they are still stuck in a loveless existence).

So I say you picked the worst place for that. It's just hilarious to see the salt coming out in full force, especially from people who claim to be in happy relationships, like Arielle up there. You'd think people in happy relationships would be........you know.....happier, and more inclined to help than to mock.

Anyhow, since you moved to a new place, the first thing you should be doing is mingling & making new friends. The last thing you wanna be doing is giving that mofo any more ammunition, by wanting his friendship and allowing yourself to be kept in his vicinity like a donkey with a carrot. The worst thing you can do for him and the best thing you can do for yourself is cut him off completely. He's treated you like a doormat and he doesn't deserve to have you in his life.

Goes back to self respect and knowing your self worth. The man I'm with now is the love of my life, but I walked out on him a few months ago for 2 weeks when I believed he was two-timing me. I may love that boy to death, but I also value myself and I refused to take that shit lying down, so off I went.

And that skidmark Scorp of yours is not a patch on my boy. so he's not even worth being used as toilet paper.

Arielle is just miserable. She’s pushing 40 and this is what gets her off. It’s pathetic honestly . And, I do get where you’re coming from. I wouldn’t be on here if I wasn’t seriously questioning all this shady shit my self. I think next time he hits me up I’m gonna ask him straight up what the hell is going on w his girlfriend. I’ll jusr casually mention how he never brings her up or post anything w her and see what he says. I feel like if he says he’s over the relationship then alright, talk to me when you’re broken up. And if he says things are going good, I’ll pretend it doesn’t destroy me and slowly cut him off.

Nah, this isn't working. I'm a gay boy who, at the time, was madly & secretly in love for 3 years with his presumed-straight best friend. On his birthday 2 years ago I almost killed myself because I couldn't take it anymore, so I know how this all feels.

But my man is pure gold on the outside and especially on the inside. Your guy is a 200-pound bag of steaming, stinking monkey crap (yes I stole that from The Rock lol), so there's no comparison. If you think a loser like him is worth waiting for, then you've already lost. You're driving yourself crazy over a man (using that word loosely) who shows no consideration for your own emotional wellbeing.

It's an open-shut case in my book. You should delete him from all social media, block his numbers & never allow him to contact you ever again. You should get out there & meet new people and be with someone who actually appreciates what you have to offer. Because you deserve better than that shit........or am I wrong?

Because, by merely allowing him to occupy space in your mind, you're opening the door even wider for more shit to come through. And you gotta take care of yourself first & foremost because "you" are the only one you got. And if you don't respect "you", how do you expect anyone else to respect you? He clearly doesn't.

Idk if you’re coming from a place of care or tough love, but I think you’ve made your point. Maybe I am delusional for getting caught up in this fantasy. And maybe I should respect myself enough to walk away. But he’s pretty much the only friend I’ve got right now. I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

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This is comedy gold! I'll save this & might re-enact it on youtube or something, gotta find more willing participants tho.

I’m glad that my feelings are a joke to you. Must be nice to spend all your free time hiding behind the internet trying to hurt others. I wouldn’t know, I don’t do that.

Hardly. What I'm laughing at is all the morons throwing oil in the fire instead of trying to make sense of this clusterfuck. Feelings clusterfuck, I've been there done that. I've also been there done that on trying to make sense of things and having morons from here mocking me (but hey, now I'm the one who had my dream come true and they are still stuck in a loveless existence).

So I say you picked the worst place for that. It's just hilarious to see the salt coming out in full force, especially from people who claim to be in happy relationships, like Arielle up there. You'd think people in happy relationships would be........you know.....happier, and more inclined to help than to mock.

Anyhow, since you moved to a new place, the first thing you should be doing is mingling & making new friends. The last thing you wanna be doing is giving that mofo any more ammunition, by wanting his friendship and allowing yourself to be kept in his vicinity like a donkey with a carrot. The worst thing you can do for him and the best thing you can do for yourself is cut him off completely. He's treated you like a doormat and he doesn't deserve to have you in his life.

Goes back to self respect and knowing your self worth. The man I'm with now is the love of my life, but I walked out on him a few months ago for 2 weeks when I believed he was two-timing me. I may love that boy to death, but I also value myself and I refused to take that shit lying down, so off I went.

And that skidmark Scorp of yours is not a patch on my boy. so he's not even worth being used as toilet paper.

Really bro?

I said Scorpio’s are private and she went feral.

Then it got funny.

Don’t throw shade at me.

You sound jealous.

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

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Posted by Libragirl321
Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

You clearly know him better than everyone here. There's no point asking for other's opinions if you already know the truth.

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

You clearly know him better than everyone here. There's no point asking for other's opinions if you already know the truth.

It’s nice to have perspective from others. I’m just amazed no ones considered that possibility yet. Or even the possibility that this is all in my head Nd he genuinely only sees me as a friend. And that he’s not screwing with my head.

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

You clearly know him better than everyone here. There's no point asking for other's opinions if you already know the truth.

It’s nice to have perspective from others. I’m just amazed no ones considered that possibility yet. Or even the possibility that this is all in my head Nd he genuinely only sees me as a friend. And that he’s not screwing with my head.

You can't fault people's opinions here. The way you painted him is that he has a girlfriend and his interactions with you are secretive (only through snapchat). Friends don't normally hide from friends (like unfriending from FB), are usually more transparent about each other (his girlfriend wouldn't feel threatened by you and a comment), and he would message you outside of snapchat. These are just based off of what you mentioned, maybe there's something you left out.

It's possible he genuinely only sees you as a friend, isn't using you for personal gains, but your posts make it sound like you want more (e.g., your title "Aries woman secretly in love..."). In some regards he's indirectly screwing with your head because there's the possibility he knows your feelings for him; a true friend without other motives would know his boundaries and when he's overstepped his line (not try to act cutesy like you're more than just friends).

Again, maybe you're seeing something we're not. But people can only tell you objectively what they see based on the details you give them.

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When I read this is going to be a long story I stopped reading and wanted to gouge my eyes out. It felt like it took a half day just to scroll down to type this.

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OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

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OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

You clearly know him better than everyone here. There's no point asking for other's opinions if you already know the truth.

It’s nice to have perspective from others. I’m just amazed no ones considered that possibility yet. Or even the possibility that this is all in my head Nd he genuinely only sees me as a friend. And that he’s not screwing with my head.

You can't fault people's opinions here. The way you painted him is that he has a girlfriend and his interactions with you are secretive (only through snapchat). Friends don't normally hide from friends (like unfriending from FB), are usually more transparent about each other (his girlfriend wouldn't feel threatened by you and a comment), and he would message you outside of snapchat. These are just based off of what you mentioned, maybe there's something you left out.

It's possible he genuinely only sees you as a friend, isn't using you for personal gains, but your posts make it sound like you want more (e.g., your title "Aries woman secretly in love..."). In some regards he's indirectly screwing with your head because there's the possibility he knows your feelings for him; a true friend without other motives would know his boundaries and when he's overstepped his line (not try to act cutesy like you're more than just friends).

Again, maybe you're seeing something we're not. But people can only tell you objectively what they see based on the details you give them.

Fair enough. I agree with you. So should I ask him what his true feelings are or what?

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Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

You clearly know him better than everyone here. There's no point asking for other's opinions if you already know the truth.

It’s nice to have perspective from others. I’m just amazed no ones considered that possibility yet. Or even the possibility that this is all in my head Nd he genuinely only sees me as a friend. And that he’s not screwing with my head.

You can't fault people's opinions here. The way you painted him is that he has a girlfriend and his interactions with you are secretive (only through snapchat). Friends don't normally hide from friends (like unfriending from FB), are usually more transparent about each other (his girlfriend wouldn't feel threatened by you and a comment), and he would message you outside of snapchat. These are just based off of what you mentioned, maybe there's something you left out.

It's possible he genuinely only sees you as a friend, isn't using you for personal gains, but your posts make it sound like you want more (e.g., your title "Aries woman secretly in love..."). In some regards he's indirectly screwing with your head because there's the possibility he knows your feelings for him; a true friend without other motives would know his boundaries and when he's overstepped his line (not try to act cutesy like you're more than just friends).

Again, maybe you're seeing something we're not. But people can only tell you objectively what they see based on the details you give them.

Fair enough. I agree with you. So should I ask him what his true feelings are or what?

It's up to you how you want to go about it. Even if you ask him his true feelings, can you believe him? For me, the best way to gauge a person is through their actions; can he back up what he says through the way he acts?

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Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

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Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

You clearly know him better than everyone here. There's no point asking for other's opinions if you already know the truth.

It’s nice to have perspective from others. I’m just amazed no ones considered that possibility yet. Or even the possibility that this is all in my head Nd he genuinely only sees me as a friend. And that he’s not screwing with my head.

You can't fault people's opinions here. The way you painted him is that he has a girlfriend and his interactions with you are secretive (only through snapchat). Friends don't normally hide from friends (like unfriending from FB), are usually more transparent about each other (his girlfriend wouldn't feel threatened by you and a comment), and he would message you outside of snapchat. These are just based off of what you mentioned, maybe there's something you left out.

It's possible he genuinely only sees you as a friend, isn't using you for personal gains, but your posts make it sound like you want more (e.g., your title "Aries woman secretly in love..."). In some regards he's indirectly screwing with your head because there's the possibility he knows your feelings for him; a true friend without other motives would know his boundaries and when he's overstepped his line (not try to act cutesy like you're more than just friends).

Again, maybe you're seeing something we're not. But people can only tell you objectively what they see based on the details you give them.

Fair enough. I agree with you. So should I ask him what his true feelings are or what?

It's up to you how you want to go about it. Even if you ask him his true feelings, can you believe him? For me, the best way to gauge a person is through their actions; can he back up what he says through the way he acts?

I guess I’ll find out if he actually visits this summer. Otherwise I’ll stop talking to him and tell him it’s cuz he has a gf and I’m not going down that road. Guess it’ll be an interesting few months ..

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OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

actually people do care i exist. but for you nope. the question is, does anyone care if you exist?

(wow that was mean....i even acknowledge how mean that is) O___O

If people actually gave a rats ass about you you wouldn’t feel the need to prove your worth to strangers on the internet (aka the only place anyone even acknowledges in the first place.) no more attention for you. Go jump off a bridge.

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OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

actually people do care i exist. but for you nope. the question is, does anyone care if you exist?

(wow that was mean....i even acknowledge how mean that is) O___O

If people actually gave a rats ass about you you wouldn’t feel the need to prove your worth to strangers on the internet (aka the only place anyone even acknowledges in the first place.) no more attention for you. Go jump off a bridge.

prove worth....

you mean like your topic?

jesus gurlllll you need a mirror. lol

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Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

actually people do care i exist. but for you nope. the question is, does anyone care if you exist?

(wow that was mean....i even acknowledge how mean that is) O___O

If people actually gave a rats ass about you you wouldn’t feel the need to prove your worth to strangers on the internet (aka the only place anyone even acknowledges in the first place.) no more attention for you. Go jump off a bridge.

prove worth....

you mean like your topic?

jesus gurlllll you need a mirror. lol

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Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

actually people do care i exist. but for you nope. the question is, does anyone care if you exist?

(wow that was mean....i even acknowledge how mean that is) O___O

If people actually gave a rats ass about you you wouldn’t feel the need to prove your worth to strangers on the internet (aka the only place anyone even acknowledges in the first place.) no more attention for you. Go jump off a bridge.

prove worth....

you mean like your topic?

jesus gurlllll you need a mirror. lol

Lol you dumb ass b*tch. I was asking for advice. I don’t have to prove jack shyt to nobody. Go back to your pathetic little life.

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OMG, I just read this second (or first?) topic of this OP

and I am sure she is a troll, nobody can be sooo deluded and frankly, an idiot 🙂

the pisces druggie roommate is jealous, because you are a nurse-student, you can move from Cali to NYcity on a whim, because nurse-students are really loaded generally 🙂 money is no problem

and she is really quick in catching up on things 🙂

after we realize she is a troll, she (or he) is a quite entertaining troll actually 🙂 I start to enjoy this nonsense 🙂

Not that I owe you any semblance of an explanation whatsoever, because personally I think you should go take a bath with your toaster, but as impossible as this is to believe, I’m no troll. You clearly are though, so after this explanation (which is mostly for everyone else because I can assure you, you are worth none of my time, or anybody else’s for that matter. You see, simple-minded moron, there’s this place called real life. It’s where people who actually matter in this world (so, not you) actually do real life things, like moving across the country after finishing their first nursing program. (Not that you can spell, but it goes LPN, ADN, BSN). Feel free to sound it out if you need to. I know you’re verrrrrry slow!!! So yes, my story is legit. The fact that you find it beyond inconceivable that i had financial help moving out here from my parents (as well as sold my car) to make this move happen, and move into a place I’d never seen before, with a roommate who ended up being a crackpot, tells me you live somewhere off in BF, Ohio and have never been outside before. So, my final and last response to you, (hopefully after this you heed my advice and take one too many sleeping pills, if you catch my drift) is to quit thinking you know everything, stop embarrassing yourself and do something with your life like I did, so that when you’re on your deathbed which hopefully is sooner than later (like seriously dude, I hope you wake up tomorrow with terminal cancer) you look back on things you did besides harassing people on the internet (:

you are a gift that keeps on giving 🙂

PS. No need to insult anybody again from Ohio, I am from Europe

No one gives a rats ass where you’re from you ugly freak. There’s the attention you so desperately wanted. Hope you enjoyed it because you won’t be getting any more from me. Lets hope you take my advice and blow your brains out. Clearly it’ll be your biggest accomplishment yet.

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Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

actually people do care i exist. but for you nope. the question is, does anyone care if you exist?

(wow that was mean....i even acknowledge how mean that is) O___O

If people actually gave a rats ass about you you wouldn’t feel the need to prove your worth to strangers on the internet (aka the only place anyone even acknowledges in the first place.) no more attention for you. Go jump off a bridge.

Reported.

No one deserves to be told to blow their brains out or to jump off of a bridge over your petty thread. 🙂

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OMG, I just read this second (or first?) topic of this OP

and I am sure she is a troll, nobody can be sooo deluded and frankly, an idiot 🙂

the pisces druggie roommate is jealous, because you are a nurse-student, you can move from Cali to NYcity on a whim, because nurse-students are really loaded generally 🙂 money is no problem

and she is really quick in catching up on things 🙂

after we realize she is a troll, she (or he) is a quite entertaining troll actually 🙂 I start to enjoy this nonsense 🙂

Not that I owe you any semblance of an explanation whatsoever, because personally I think you should go take a bath with your toaster, but as impossible as this is to believe, I’m no troll. You clearly are though, so after this explanation (which is mostly for everyone else because I can assure you, you are worth none of my time, or anybody else’s for that matter. You see, simple-minded moron, there’s this place called real life. It’s where people who actually matter in this world (so, not you) actually do real life things, like moving across the country after finishing their first nursing program. (Not that you can spell, but it goes LPN, ADN, BSN). Feel free to sound it out if you need to. I know you’re verrrrrry slow!!! So yes, my story is legit. The fact that you find it beyond inconceivable that i had financial help moving out here from my parents (as well as sold my car) to make this move happen, and move into a place I’d never seen before, with a roommate who ended up being a crackpot, tells me you live somewhere off in BF, Ohio and have never been outside before. So, my final and last response to you, (hopefully after this you heed my advice and take one too many sleeping pills, if you catch my drift) is to quit thinking you know everything, stop embarrassing yourself and do something with your life like I did, so that when you’re on your deathbed which hopefully is sooner than later (like seriously dude, I hope you wake up tomorrow with terminal cancer) you look back on things you did besides harassing people on the internet (:

you are a gift that keeps on giving 🙂

PS. No need to insult anybody again from Ohio, I am from Europe

No one gives a rats ass where you’re from you ugly freak. There’s the attention you so desperately wanted. Hope you enjoyed it because you won’t be getting any more from me. Lets hope you take my advice and blow your brains out. Clearly it’ll be your biggest accomplishment yet.

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OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

actually people do care i exist. but for you nope. the question is, does anyone care if you exist?

(wow that was mean....i even acknowledge how mean that is) O___O

If people actually gave a rats ass about you you wouldn’t feel the need to prove your worth to strangers on the internet (aka the only place anyone even acknowledges in the first place.) no more attention for you. Go jump off a bridge.

Reported.

No one deserves to be told to blow their brains out or to jump off of a bridge over your petty thread. 🙂

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

You clearly know him better than everyone here. There's no point asking for other's opinions if you already know the truth.

It’s nice to have perspective from others. I’m just amazed no ones considered that possibility yet. Or even the possibility that this is all in my head Nd he genuinely only sees me as a friend. And that he’s not screwing with my head.

You can't fault people's opinions here. The way you painted him is that he has a girlfriend and his interactions with you are secretive (only through snapchat). Friends don't normally hide from friends (like unfriending from FB), are usually more transparent about each other (his girlfriend wouldn't feel threatened by you and a comment), and he would message you outside of snapchat. These are just based off of what you mentioned, maybe there's something you left out.

It's possible he genuinely only sees you as a friend, isn't using you for personal gains, but your posts make it sound like you want more (e.g., your title "Aries woman secretly in love..."). In some regards he's indirectly screwing with your head because there's the possibility he knows your feelings for him; a true friend without other motives would know his boundaries and when he's overstepped his line (not try to act cutesy like you're more than just friends).

Again, maybe you're seeing something we're not. But people can only tell you objectively what they see based on the details you give them.

Fair enough. I agree with you. So should I ask him what his true feelings are or what?

It's up to you how you want to go about it. Even if you ask him his true feelings, can you believe him? For me, the best way to gauge a person is through their actions; can he back up what he says through the way he acts?

I guess I’ll find out if he actually visits this summer. Otherwise I’ll stop talking to him and tell him it’s cuz he has a gf and I’m not going down that road. Guess it’ll be an interesting few months ..

If he does visit, hopefully it's in respectable terms towards you and his girlfriend. It would be worse if he visits you and he brings you into a drama with his girlfriend.

That's a good start. Setting the record straight, and telling him where you stand is showing him that you're respecting yourself, his girlfriend and their relationship.

It's easy to get blinded by someone when you feel genuine connection with them, just don't get trapped in the illusion of his words and his appeal. Best of luck to you.

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Bahahahaha!!!! Oh this story sounds just like a Scorpio I'm acquainted with. In fact there's too many similarities especially his gf... I think I was told it was an ex. But same reason for being incarcerated. Hmm.....good luck with that shit. Sounds like he's got a smooth fucking mouthpiece.....I hate people like that. More appropriately there's this song by Nikki Minaj called "Get on your knees" maybe that's the only place where his mouth is remotely useful because otherwise it sounds like he's mindfucking you Mama.

I’m 3,000 miles from home. If I was really his “side chick” I’m pretty sure he’d be using me for sex. We’ve never had sex. We don’t talk about sex. And I’m pretty sure if all he was looking for was sex, he could get it from someone a lot closer than 3,000 miles away. Idk how similar our situations are or aren’t. But thanks for the advice.

Being someone's side chick doesn't start off just being used for sex.

Sometimes it's being used for affection, to kill time, attention, etc. Just like the concept of "emotional cheating", it's possible he's using you to inflate his ego, kill time, or get your attention to make himself feel good.

To answer your question in your title: it's possible he's in love with himself so much to string you along and make you lose your mind.

Or maybe, just maybe, he might actually like me and realize I’m better for him than his gf? God forbid I come up with a logical explanation 😂🖕🏼

You clearly know him better than everyone here. There's no point asking for other's opinions if you already know the truth.

It’s nice to have perspective from others. I’m just amazed no ones considered that possibility yet. Or even the possibility that this is all in my head Nd he genuinely only sees me as a friend. And that he’s not screwing with my head.

You can't fault people's opinions here. The way you painted him is that he has a girlfriend and his interactions with you are secretive (only through snapchat). Friends don't normally hide from friends (like unfriending from FB), are usually more transparent about each other (his girlfriend wouldn't feel threatened by you and a comment), and he would message you outside of snapchat. These are just based off of what you mentioned, maybe there's something you left out.

It's possible he genuinely only sees you as a friend, isn't using you for personal gains, but your posts make it sound like you want more (e.g., your title "Aries woman secretly in love..."). In some regards he's indirectly screwing with your head because there's the possibility he knows your feelings for him; a true friend without other motives would know his boundaries and when he's overstepped his line (not try to act cutesy like you're more than just friends).

Again, maybe you're seeing something we're not. But people can only tell you objectively what they see based on the details you give them.

Fair enough. I agree with you. So should I ask him what his true feelings are or what?

It's up to you how you want to go about it. Even if you ask him his true feelings, can you believe him? For me, the best way to gauge a person is through their actions; can he back up what he says through the way he acts?

I guess I’ll find out if he actually visits this summer. Otherwise I’ll stop talking to him and tell him it’s cuz he has a gf and I’m not going down that road. Guess it’ll be an interesting few months ..

If he does visit, hopefully it's in respectable terms towards you and his girlfriend. It would be worse if he visits you and he brings you into a drama with his girlfriend.

That's a good start. Setting the record straight, and telling him where you stand is showing him that you're respecting yourself, his girlfriend and their relationship.

It's easy to get blinded by someone when you feel genuine connection with them, just don't get trapped in the illusion of his words and his appeal. Best of luck to you.

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OMG, I just read this second (or first?) topic of this OP

and I am sure she is a troll, nobody can be sooo deluded and frankly, an idiot 🙂

the pisces druggie roommate is jealous, because you are a nurse-student, you can move from Cali to NYcity on a whim, because nurse-students are really loaded generally 🙂 money is no problem

and she is really quick in catching up on things 🙂

after we realize she is a troll, she (or he) is a quite entertaining troll actually 🙂 I start to enjoy this nonsense 🙂

Not that I owe you any semblance of an explanation whatsoever, because personally I think you should go take a bath with your toaster, but as impossible as this is to believe, I’m no troll. You clearly are though, so after this explanation (which is mostly for everyone else because I can assure you, you are worth none of my time, or anybody else’s for that matter. You see, simple-minded moron, there’s this place called real life. It’s where people who actually matter in this world (so, not you) actually do real life things, like moving across the country after finishing their first nursing program. (Not that you can spell, but it goes LPN, ADN, BSN). Feel free to sound it out if you need to. I know you’re verrrrrry slow!!! So yes, my story is legit. The fact that you find it beyond inconceivable that i had financial help moving out here from my parents (as well as sold my car) to make this move happen, and move into a place I’d never seen before, with a roommate who ended up being a crackpot, tells me you live somewhere off in BF, Ohio and have never been outside before. So, my final and last response to you, (hopefully after this you heed my advice and take one too many sleeping pills, if you catch my drift) is to quit thinking you know everything, stop embarrassing yourself and do something with your life like I did, so that when you’re on your deathbed which hopefully is sooner than later (like seriously dude, I hope you wake up tomorrow with terminal cancer) you look back on things you did besides harassing people on the internet (:

you are a gift that keeps on giving 🙂

PS. No need to insult anybody again from Ohio, I am from Europe

No one gives a rats ass where you’re from you ugly freak. There’s the attention you so desperately wanted. Hope you enjoyed it because you won’t be getting any more from me. Lets hope you take my advice and blow your brains out. Clearly it’ll be your biggest accomplishment yet.

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OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

actually people do care i exist. but for you nope. the question is, does anyone care if you exist?

(wow that was mean....i even acknowledge how mean that is) O___O

If people actually gave a rats ass about you you wouldn’t feel the need to prove your worth to strangers on the internet (aka the only place anyone even acknowledges in the first place.) no more attention for you. Go jump off a bridge.

Reported.

No one deserves to be told to blow their brains out or to jump off of a bridge over your petty thread. 🙂

Look how cool you are reporthing thrangerth on the interneths. DUR DUR DUR 😂🖕🏼😂🖕🏼😂🖕🏼

Well, don’t be surprised if you are banned. 🙂

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OMG, I just read this second (or first?) topic of this OP

and I am sure she is a troll, nobody can be sooo deluded and frankly, an idiot 🙂

the pisces druggie roommate is jealous, because you are a nurse-student, you can move from Cali to NYcity on a whim, because nurse-students are really loaded generally 🙂 money is no problem

and she is really quick in catching up on things 🙂

after we realize she is a troll, she (or he) is a quite entertaining troll actually 🙂 I start to enjoy this nonsense 🙂

Not that I owe you any semblance of an explanation whatsoever, because personally I think you should go take a bath with your toaster, but as impossible as this is to believe, I’m no troll. You clearly are though, so after this explanation (which is mostly for everyone else because I can assure you, you are worth none of my time, or anybody else’s for that matter. You see, simple-minded moron, there’s this place called real life. It’s where people who actually matter in this world (so, not you) actually do real life things, like moving across the country after finishing their first nursing program. (Not that you can spell, but it goes LPN, ADN, BSN). Feel free to sound it out if you need to. I know you’re verrrrrry slow!!! So yes, my story is legit. The fact that you find it beyond inconceivable that i had financial help moving out here from my parents (as well as sold my car) to make this move happen, and move into a place I’d never seen before, with a roommate who ended up being a crackpot, tells me you live somewhere off in BF, Ohio and have never been outside before. So, my final and last response to you, (hopefully after this you heed my advice and take one too many sleeping pills, if you catch my drift) is to quit thinking you know everything, stop embarrassing yourself and do something with your life like I did, so that when you’re on your deathbed which hopefully is sooner than later (like seriously dude, I hope you wake up tomorrow with terminal cancer) you look back on things you did besides harassing people on the internet (:

you are a gift that keeps on giving 🙂

PS. No need to insult anybody again from Ohio, I am from Europe

No one gives a rats ass where you’re from you ugly freak. There’s the attention you so desperately wanted. Hope you enjoyed it because you won’t be getting any more from me. Lets hope you take my advice and blow your brains out. Clearly it’ll be your biggest accomplishment yet.

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Posted by Pandora101
OP, you were miserable in Cali and now you are miserable in NY

the common thing is this Scorp and your unhinged immature personality (just see how you reacted to some comments)

enjoy life in NY, dont live your life solely online

that idiot, who has a girlfriend and is talking to you on a daily basis, without adding you on facebook - how lame

and wanting to visit you in NY because he never went there - next time he brings this up, ask him if he is taking his girlfriend with him 🙂

you talk about friendship, but its not what you want

the best thing would be to find some new real-life friends.....

My god, how annoying are you self-righteous, know-it-all Aquarians. FFS. Go be with an equally nasty , equally judgmental Capricorn. I’m not miserable, that ain’t for you to decide last I checked. You’re the one who spends your entire life behind a computer. This is one small facet of my life.

OP, youre an aries, you usually go ga-ga over libra or aquarius lol or other fire signs with air dominant.

unless you is a water /earth dom..... then carry on obsessing. 😛

I’ve only ever dated cancers scorpios and Virgos. I find libras and aquarians boring and annoying

you mean...like yourself??



oh forgot to write sooooo....why aren't you with one now smart ass?

Alright. Calm down. There’s the attention you desperately wanted. Now you can go back to being irrelevant. *Poof, no one cares you exist anymore*

actually people do care i exist. but for you nope. the question is, does anyone care if you exist?

(wow that was mean....i even acknowledge how mean that is) O___O

If people actually gave a rats ass about you you wouldn’t feel the need to prove your worth to strangers on the internet (aka the only place anyone even acknowledges in the first place.) no more attention for you. Go jump off a bridge.

Reported.

No one deserves to be told to blow their brains out or to jump off of a bridge over your petty thread. 🙂

Look how cool you are reporthing thrangerth on the interneths. DUR DUR DUR 😂🖕🏼😂🖕🏼😂🖕🏼

Well, don’t be surprised if you are banned. 🙂

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I get where you’re coming from for sure. He has been a very supportive friend to me though - and as I said the flirting has been very innocent, totally non-sexual. We never talk about sex at all

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And now she's banned. Good riddance. 😈

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And now she's banned. Good riddance. 😈

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