Leaving a Scorpio sun, rising and venus combo.... (Page 2)

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Posted by xygeneration
Well ok from how ot was explained it was a give and take. He can open up emotionally and I open up to his proposal. He said that it will bring is closer. He never had one before and some people are more physical than others and get that closeness physically.

I wouldn't take every word he says literally. It is true that people can become closer through the experience - that's not bs. But the point is it's not mean to be give and take. Two people have to consent and want to do it out of their own free will. Not do it because of obligation to one another. Even on a practical level I can say that when one person goes into that kind of sexual experience out of obligation it's just going to be crappy sex and there will be no emotional connection, only emotional distance from thinking "wtf did I do this?"

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Obligation is a great word.

Posted by xygeneration
Im just thinking, monogamous relationship sound like ownership. As if people are properties. Why cant people be shared? As if soulmates are just two people?
I feel selfish though. I want to have my one and only.

U sound mad confused

Posted by xygeneration
Well its a question that lingers in my head. Did I do enough, was I selfish? I thouught love came with sacrifices

Sacrifice as in eating chinese when I really want pizza. Not having a 3some when I really want managomy.

Posted by DMV

Posted by xygeneration
Well its a question that lingers in my head. Did I do enough, was I selfish? I thouught love came with sacrifices

Sacrifice as in eating chinese when I really want pizza. Not having a 3some when I really want managomy.

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Posted by DMV

Posted by xygeneration
I tried giving him the best sex. I studied and did my research.

Your not his sex slave or servant. Thats YOUR body.

What was the straw that broke the camels back?

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I was totally thinking about this the other day. This is one of the reasons why I have a hard time being exclusive. I feel like my body becomes restricted and owned. It must become a
source of pleasure for them only, even if I feel like I could have pleasure else where, I can't. Like my body was just made for your pleasure. It reminds me of abuse. Fuck up right? Cause I get it's not suppose to be like that at all but in a way it like makes sense but doesn't.

Posted by Sag89

Posted by DMV

Posted by xygeneration
I tried giving him the best sex. I studied and did my research.

Your not his sex slave or servant. Thats YOUR body.

What was the straw that broke the camels back?

I was totally thinking about this the other day. This is one of the reasons why I have a hard time being exclusive. I feel like my body becomes restricted and owned. It must become a
source of pleasure for them only, even if I feel like I could have pleasure else where, I can't. Like my body was just made for your pleasure. It reminds me of abuse. Fuck up right? Cause I get it's not suppose to be like that at all but in a way it like makes sense but doesn't.

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Describe a relationship you can live with?

Posted by xygeneration
Whatever. I should live up to my chart. Might be easier for me. He didnt rub off on me. I was me before him.

What happened to the "me" when you were with him?

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Posted by Sag89

Posted by DMV

Posted by xygeneration
I tried giving him the best sex. I studied and did my research.

Your not his sex slave or servant. Thats YOUR body.

What was the straw that broke the camels back?

I was totally thinking about this the other day. This is one of the reasons why I have a hard time being exclusive. I feel like my body becomes restricted and owned. It must become a
source of pleasure for them only, even if I feel like I could have pleasure else where, I can't. Like my body was just made for your pleasure. It reminds me of abuse. Fuck up right? Cause I get it's not suppose to be like that at all but in a way it like makes sense but doesn't.

Describe a relationship you can live with?

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I just don't wanna feel like a "thing"

I wonder if thats your mars in aqua talking. My mars in virgo loves to be used and rape fantasies turn me on. Mars in Scorpio obliges.

I think that men of a certain age, unless they are ready to settle down will always think about straying. It's in their blood.

This sounds condescending. Please don't generalize.