Leo girl needs help with scorpio man! (Page 2)

why is my sign important? i mean i am gonna follow good advice anyway!

Leo girl needs help with scorpio man!

She's a Leo DB...lol

i don't think that makes a difference though...i mean if you are willing to act in a certain way ....and anyway not everybody has all the traits of his sign!!!

DB how would you answer the previous questions i asked? or is it maybe not that important? i think though that since scoprios don't talk that much they really are going somewhere with everything they ask and say espcecially when it comes down to dating. so i am really curious to see the answers to the questions i asked! 😉

no you are right i am referring to my sign but i think that could be relevant for him too. he might not be that strong of a scorpio. althought i doubt that.

Thank you...it is good to see that people who you never met take time to consider other peoples thoughts and problems!!

It's hurting DB...ast night I text him and said some nasty things....he will probably never talk to me again

It was true...but it was also some things I said out of jealously. Basically, I went into the past and told him some things I didn't like that he did in the past, and also referenced his ex-girlfriends character, and I used to be jealous beacause she had him and I didn't feel that she deserved me.

Sooooooooo... if anyone wants to know about what happened with my scorpio here it goes....
originally he said we would do something the weekend approaching, this was on sunday) I didnt hear from him all that week. Then suddenly.. on Friday he calls.. says well maybe we can get together on Sunday. I was lthinking "HUHHHHHH—, SUNDAY—" He said he would touch base with me on Saturday. On saturday he didnt call until 10:30 at night. He left a message saying that he would be up for the next hour and if he didnt hear from me he would talk to me tomorrow. (Sunday) WELLL... he never called and I have not heard from him since. I dont get it.. AT ALL. So we never went out. Why he even bothers to call is BEYOND ME?!?!?! My scorp is a wierdo.. and he is going bye bye out of my life hahaa He's bad for my health :-)

its called............MIND GAMES lol

ok i know this was some time ago but i really need some help and advice on this.... so things did not work out with this particular scorp... but we did keep in touch until now and the last time we met we decided to hang out from time to time as "friends"... well i was the one who suggested that cause i did not see the whole thing going somewhere and i was not in the mood for a just sexual relationship.... besides i really like being able to talk to this person without having to wonder what sort of relationship we have... We don;t know each other very well ... though he seems to understand my emotions and my thoughts and we had some good talks and he helped me a lot and gave me some good advice on how to deal with some situations.... I mean he knows that i am totally hurt because of the break up with my ex and he knows that he still calls me and upsets me and he was very helpful when i asked him about his opinion. So I really like being able to talk to him from time to time....ANd i figured out that it is better to end this "friend with benefits"-relationship because it just complicates things... and suggested to him to hang out from time to time but just as friends. He said he had no problem with that...(and he seemed like he really meant that..so I thought: "good, we are on the same path...") After that conversation he kept his distance for a while but after a week or so he started talking to me again and we had a pretty good talk... so I thought that things are finally on a track ...we was not implying sexual stuff and he just chatted as a friend.... but i don;t know somehow he got sarcastic on me again and he started provoking me....implying that I might still fancy him.... His whole attitude triggered my sarcasm towards him and I ended up jokingly implying to him that he certainly thinks a lot of himself if he still thinks that i am hung up on him... (I really wish we could keep in touch but without all this crappy sarcasm.... I don;t think a relationship would work with him but i believe that we could match greatly as friends, not close friends but at least hanging out etc etc. Since he keeps his dinstance again now i sent him one sms asking in a teasing way how he is doing but he just ignored it ...
I wonder whether from a scorp's point of view i have done sth wrong... because from my point of view i seriously can't see anything wrong so as to deserve being ignored by him...
SHould i try to keep in touch with him at all?

I basically already have 2 possible explanations for him keeping his distance and not contacting me (after he has taken the trouble to help me out with some emotional issues):
1. He thinks that I still fancy him so he does not want to get more involved
2. His ego was hurt that i told him to hang out as friends because it is no good playing around since this is not gonna lead to anywhere good and because as he recently told me he believes that am still not over my ex.

Message posted by: Mr Nice on 7/9/2006 3:58:33 PM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.222
IT seem's to me he might be right about you and your ex.

You mean he THINKS that he is right about me and my ex— (not he IS right)—

So i didn't do or say anything wrong.... did I? It is just him keeping his distance for his personal reasons... for examble he may not wanna get more involved cause it is too complicated or cause he decided that it is not worth either being friends with me or anything else...—

THis actually helps... thanks... I guess i just gave up on this becoming a relationship because i believe that these things either happen from the beginning or they shouldn;t happen at all... If it doesn't evolve easily into a relationship from the beginning it probably means that the other person does not have very strong feelings about you... sure he likes you sexually etc etc but there isn't a deep connection between the two of you.... SO i guess i thought this was the case...i can't say i have showed great enthusiasm in that as well but he did not show either that he was crazy about me... otherwise he would have tried to get me whatever the circumstances were (ex or no ex). I have heard that scorpios chase what they really want... so since he did not do the chase i guess he was not that interested... Am i right on this?
MOreover i am in a place in my life right now that i really need the other guy to really fall in love with me before i show him my feelings... If he shows me that he cares but he is not crazy about me then i will give up on him.... out of fear of being hurt....
well i guess my real question is ....Are scorpios able to hide their feelings and not contact you at all even if they like you a lot? Because i don;t think that any man who really really likes a woman will be stopped just because he thinks she is still into her ex.... he would surely recognise the fact that it needs another new relationship to get over your last one....
ANyway it is sad though because i really wanted to keep some kind of friendship with that guy but I don;t want him to misread this and think that i am still into him....It hurts my pride....
oh and another thing he says that he thinks i am still very hurt by my ex and then on the other hand he implies that i won;t admit i am hung up on him (him=the scorp, not my ex)? isn't that controversial?
well i hate it communication among people would be so much easier if it wasn't for our stupid egos, pride, taboos etc.... 😉

"in the feeling's department someone has to brake the ice first"

and the one who does always is most vulnerable, ain't it?

MrNice btw that was a nice analysis ..... i appreciate it!! Cheers! 🙂