Slow and laconic answering by Scorpio girls

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by woolf24 on Monday, March 6, 2017 and has 8 replies.

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@woolf24
9 Years

What's up with that?

Met another Scoprio girl with who the face to face communicating was fun and chill, some mutual interest and sparks definately in the air

but when it comes to messaging it's just... They answer slow and laconic like not interested in keeping the conversation going

One of them got drunk and came all over me

And some time later I message her she even doesn't open the message??

So yeah I'm confused. I'm not being pushy I just felt I wanted to get to know them more. (Not at the same time, just 3 different girls on a different time)

But yeah if I feel that Im annoying someone I back off and nothing happens.

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@woolf24
9 Years

I'm Pisces.

Well yeah face to face is sure the best. But cmon we're in 2017, some texting is normal way people communicate. From there to asking out is no problem but I don't feel like doing that if I get cold answers.

It's just why they aren't so communicative through texts as they are when we hang out? It's like talking to another person. From backyard homie to school principle.

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@woolf24
9 Years

Posted by Ellygant

Posted by woolf24
I'm Pisces.

Well yeah face to face is sure the best. But cmon we're in 2017, some texting is normal way people communicate. From there to asking out is no problem but I don't feel like doing that if I get cold answers.

It's just why they aren't so communicative through texts as they are when we hang out? It's like talking to another person. From backyard homie to school principle.

Lol @ backyard homie.

Texting is a necessary dating evil to me. If I had it my way we'd just meet up in person all the time. Getting to know someone over text is annoying.

Did I write too much, is this message too long?

Did I not answer with the right tone? Can they read my tone?

Am I allowed to be sarcastic? Will they catch sarcasm or will it just read bossy/bitchy?

Did I use too many emojis? Do I look like an emoji slut? Did I use too little and they don't get I was being playful?

There's too much for my brain to analyze. I only like texting a lot once a firm connection has been established and I can be myself without having to analyze quite as much. Otherwise most of my texts are going to be geared towards trying to meet up with you and when is that happening ha.

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Damn what I never knew that some messaging would be so much trouble lol

So I just jump out from a bush to avoid all the crazy texting

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by woolf24
I'm Pisces.

Well yeah face to face is sure the best. But cmon we're in 2017, some texting is normal way people communicate. From there to asking out is no problem but I don't feel like doing that if I get cold answers.

It's just why they aren't so communicative through texts as they are when we hang out? It's like talking to another person. From backyard homie to school principle.

Texting is boring and pointless. Plus people work, school, and have families and other priorities ahead of replying to your every text right away.

If you like a chick then call her. Thats a baller move. Texting is so half-assed.

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@woolf24
9 Years

I'm kind of a introvert. I like talking face to face or texting, I don't really like calling.. Or I do it really quick, I don't know how to chitchat on the phone

Also I cannot send my selfmade memes there

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@puhleeze
13 Years500+ Posts

Posted by woolf24
I'm kind of a introvert. I like talking face to face or texting, I don't really like calling.. Or I do it really quick, I don't know how to chitchat on the phone

Also I cannot send my selfmade memes there

And maybe they don't like texting?

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@inkspread
9 Years

don't be dating 3 people at the same time....

Physically

they will find out and probably already have...

ps:

face to face is just better

There are things you can do face to face and not just by texting and that goes for every one not just us