hellosaggy
@hellosaggy
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LOL. Scorpio women... smh
Stay away if you have any feelings towards her. She's displaying shitty behavior by going behind her boyfriends back all for am ego boost. Don't feed into it.
Actually, I'm just trying to make this hard decision I made to return Home to reunite with her salvageable. I really didn't appreciate her ending our romantic relationship on her terms. We had a great relationship. She admits that. She's still finds me attractive. Now I want my seat back at the table. It's more selfish on my part. I'm more feeding my ego. I find it challenging to see if I can win this situation. I was gone for 18 months and I know it broke our bond as a couple and scorpios " never go back". I feel like proving that if we wanted to it, could have worked.
You are probably right war angel. I'm thinking more with the little head than the big one. That's how good she looks and memories come flooding back of her in bed. But in terms of women... she's really just one in millions. I'm losing my emotional connection to her bc of the games... and I'm thinking I'm doing the same back to her. It feels good to be baiting her back but I just want a fwb thing not her all over me again. She does have emotional baggage from her past that used to annoy the butter out of me. I'm starting to remember that now... I don't need that drama again no amount of great sack time and arm candy is worth the up and downs that keep popping up. That emotional baggage takes her from a 9.5 with everything else to a 6.
When you keep thinking about a person for 18 months you tend to forget the relationship wasn't perfect.
She tried to sting me saying "of course you want me, all of my exs still want me" that put my mind to beat her at her own game to show her I am still in control even though I've been gone. I think she likes her control back because she fell in step in our relationship bc I am a strong man.
She now has guys that just follow her like puppies and she doesn't have to deal with not being in the drivers seat.
I've always lead in my relationships.
She tried to sting me saying "of course you want me, all of my exs still want me" that put my mind to beat her at her own game to show her I am still in control even though I've been gone. I think she likes her control back because she fell in step in our relationship bc I am a strong man.
She now has guys that just follow her like puppies and she doesn't have to deal with not being in the drivers seat.
I've always lead in my relationships.
@Cancer and I'm willing to treetrunk and let her live her life. I only came back here for her. I thought she was waiting for me and clearly that wasn't the case. So as soon as I can transfer out of here for work or find a better job somewhere else I'm moving. I hate living here anyway. I don't need no new girl in my life or someone trying to follow me when I leave. She's great company and a tree trunk.
And honestly I turned down a lot of women when I was gone because she was always calling and emailing and she was good to me when we were physically together in same area and I felt I needed to be loyal because I was the one that left. Knowing I stayed loyal as a Sagittarius no less and she didn't ... my Scorpio rising wants to get revenge... make her fall back for me and tell her to peace out! my sag sun/Aries moon has already started getting me past the emotional hurt. But like war machine said that might be winning the battle and losing the war. And it sucks because she really is a cool woman, she's really the only person I was close to in my whole life besides my twin brother and I know if it wasn't for the circumstances we probably be married with a kid on way like we planned but I feel betrayed. I can't let it go until I get back. I know it's petty but I couldn't stay in contact knowing she one upped me and she thinks she got away with it. We have to be even.
Protect yourself and stay away. All of these mind games might seem like fun foreplay but there will be consequences from the unevolved Scorpio woman when things don't go her way. I'd also worry what she was doing when you were together if she's just keeping exes around for ego stroking.
Part of me wonders if this is her way of punishing you for moving away and wants to hurt/toy with you. Either way, it not okay and you can find and do better.
Part of me wonders if this is her way of punishing you for moving away and wants to hurt/toy with you. Either way, it not okay and you can find and do better.
@sugeredSap she knew I had to leave. wasn't a choice. I always told her I would come back even after we ended our relationship due to distance. I honestly don't think she did keep all ex's around there was one she used to tell me about. and he's the one she's with now, but for the life of me I don't know why she would get back with him. he's 15 years older than her and has 3 kids .
this is a tough one for me because she's the closet person I've been to in my 33 years on this earth... and that's including my twin brother and my fake ex fiancee (I should never had proposed). emotionally, intellectually, I've cut off dozens of women in my past. she's a tough one to let go of. she's a soul mate for me... I'm not saying she's THE ONE I'll be with forever, she's just made for me and I hate how we ended on those terms. I could take being her friend if we fizzled out and weren't compatible, sure we can be friends and she can hook me up with a hot girlfriend of hers lol ... but it's not the case and she and I both know it.
this is a tough one for me because she's the closet person I've been to in my 33 years on this earth... and that's including my twin brother and my fake ex fiancee (I should never had proposed). emotionally, intellectually, I've cut off dozens of women in my past. she's a tough one to let go of. she's a soul mate for me... I'm not saying she's THE ONE I'll be with forever, she's just made for me and I hate how we ended on those terms. I could take being her friend if we fizzled out and weren't compatible, sure we can be friends and she can hook me up with a hot girlfriend of hers lol ... but it's not the case and she and I both know it.
@hellosaggy Your heart is one of the most precious things. Protect it. You mentioned moving before it might be the better option and make healing easier. And do whatever you can to keep your mind off this. People have more than one soul mate in my opinion. Find someone else who you can be close to without this strife. You deserve happiness with whoever you desire but you also deserve respect.
Regrets in a relationship can gut the heart and soul...I had quite a few but every day it got easier and easier to let go. I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm positive that you're going to find someone and hopefully, they can even help you heal.
Sorry, I just woke up so this might not make sense I wish you luck and well. Love kind of sucks.
Regrets in a relationship can gut the heart and soul...I had quite a few but every day it got easier and easier to let go. I'm sorry this happened to you. I'm positive that you're going to find someone and hopefully, they can even help you heal.
Sorry, I just woke up so this might not make sense I wish you luck and well. Love kind of sucks.
Sorry, but it's just
your Scorpio girl.
Smugness is not
necessary at all.
Sags can so easily
point out faults of
others while failing
to mention theirs.
No Scorpio acts out
for no reason at all.
What did you do to
warrant this behavior?
your Scorpio girl.
Smugness is not
necessary at all.
Sags can so easily
point out faults of
others while failing
to mention theirs.
No Scorpio acts out
for no reason at all.
What did you do to
warrant this behavior?
@TachibanaSan @SugeredSap
I did nothing but get into her head/heart and behind her wall as a Sagittarius. We were together ALL the time for 2.5 years, except for work, I've met the one girlfriend she has (and still has), she's from another country. I was her best friend, live-in boyfriend, travel companion, tutor, lover, everything. She was my first real commitment to a relationship.
I had some business issue that I had to leave for 18 months and she couldn't come. She visited, but it got hard on both of us not seeing each other until we decided to take a break after 6 months and just communicate through email/phone. It was tough to even skype and she would cry afterwards so I cut that off. Now I am back home. When I got back to the apartment last month she moved out, but A LOT of her stuff was still here. She moved out in November, but letters I wrote to her as recent as three months ago were neatly stacked in my bed side table. So she had to come over to put them there as I mailed them to her new address she gave me. She said she felt bad moving on and treetrunking somebody else as she thought I was the one for her, I told her we were on a break and I forgive her(I don't think she believes me), it wasn't her fault I had to leave, I knew it was going to be impossible to stay a couple, but I am back now. She didn't cheat, we have been a non-couple for a year.
I feel as though my return has triggered something in her (maybe she told herself she was over us) and she's perfectly fine keeping communication through texting and phone calls, but that's not what I want after the life we had together. she acknowledged I was the best thing to happen to her, but isn't looking to reconcile.
Three nights ago randomly she face-timed me, first asking if she was disturbing anything and we talked for about 1/2 hour like we used to laughing and it felt like us again, for the first time since I left 18 months ago. I could see her happiness and at the end she just stared at me and we just sat for a second before I just told her good bye with our inside joke language. She texted me a few minutes after saying we have to see each other at some point. I got home a month ago. I saw her the first night and face-time just then, that was it. she texted me last night she feels really lost.
I honestly think she's not being truthful about the boyfriend because she hasn't mentioned him since the day I got back. the guy she said she's with isn't even in the country.. and that's verified by her that night she told me and her friend reached out to me saying welcome back (so obviously she told her friend I am here) and mentioned he's away too, but that she didn't know their status. why would she bail on our LDR and get into another one?
Plus she had a serious surgery in July, while he was gone. Since she got the test results for cervial cancer in April she was emailing me and calling me for serious emotionally support for her and that re-bonded me to her as I was hurting I wasn't going to be back in time for her surgery. That should have been her "boyfriends" job if she had one. I think he cut bait and ran when he realized she wasn't treetrunking for a while. I was one of the first people, if not the first to find out her test results from the surgery a few weeks ago.
I'm just trying to get a scorpio opinion because its obvious we both have feelings but why sting both of us?
I did nothing but get into her head/heart and behind her wall as a Sagittarius. We were together ALL the time for 2.5 years, except for work, I've met the one girlfriend she has (and still has), she's from another country. I was her best friend, live-in boyfriend, travel companion, tutor, lover, everything. She was my first real commitment to a relationship.
I had some business issue that I had to leave for 18 months and she couldn't come. She visited, but it got hard on both of us not seeing each other until we decided to take a break after 6 months and just communicate through email/phone. It was tough to even skype and she would cry afterwards so I cut that off. Now I am back home. When I got back to the apartment last month she moved out, but A LOT of her stuff was still here. She moved out in November, but letters I wrote to her as recent as three months ago were neatly stacked in my bed side table. So she had to come over to put them there as I mailed them to her new address she gave me. She said she felt bad moving on and treetrunking somebody else as she thought I was the one for her, I told her we were on a break and I forgive her(I don't think she believes me), it wasn't her fault I had to leave, I knew it was going to be impossible to stay a couple, but I am back now. She didn't cheat, we have been a non-couple for a year.
I feel as though my return has triggered something in her (maybe she told herself she was over us) and she's perfectly fine keeping communication through texting and phone calls, but that's not what I want after the life we had together. she acknowledged I was the best thing to happen to her, but isn't looking to reconcile.
Three nights ago randomly she face-timed me, first asking if she was disturbing anything and we talked for about 1/2 hour like we used to laughing and it felt like us again, for the first time since I left 18 months ago. I could see her happiness and at the end she just stared at me and we just sat for a second before I just told her good bye with our inside joke language. She texted me a few minutes after saying we have to see each other at some point. I got home a month ago. I saw her the first night and face-time just then, that was it. she texted me last night she feels really lost.
I honestly think she's not being truthful about the boyfriend because she hasn't mentioned him since the day I got back. the guy she said she's with isn't even in the country.. and that's verified by her that night she told me and her friend reached out to me saying welcome back (so obviously she told her friend I am here) and mentioned he's away too, but that she didn't know their status. why would she bail on our LDR and get into another one?
Plus she had a serious surgery in July, while he was gone. Since she got the test results for cervial cancer in April she was emailing me and calling me for serious emotionally support for her and that re-bonded me to her as I was hurting I wasn't going to be back in time for her surgery. That should have been her "boyfriends" job if she had one. I think he cut bait and ran when he realized she wasn't treetrunking for a while. I was one of the first people, if not the first to find out her test results from the surgery a few weeks ago.
I'm just trying to get a scorpio opinion because its obvious we both have feelings but why sting both of us?
yes I was writing hand written letters too, I feel its more personal and it takes time than just shooting an email off into the void. It's classy 🙂
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