Long term relationship with scorpio?

Any stories? Do they change? Are they as affectionate as they were in the beginning? Is sex as good as it was?

Posted by Arkansassy
Are we in a relationship now?

This is all moving a bit too fast for me!

honestly Im the worst the first few months of a relationship, after I see you are IN for real. Then I soften up and Im incredibly pleasing and easy going. So hang in there if you really want it

Posted by wildflower
honestly Im the worst the first few months of a relationship, after I see you are IN for real. Then I soften up and Im incredibly pleasing and easy going. So hang in there if you really want it

and whats your longest relationship?

Posted by wildflower
honestly Im the worst the first few months of a relationship, after I see you are IN for real. Then I soften up and Im incredibly pleasing and easy going. So hang in there if you really want it

This is me too. Once I realize he's in for the long haul, I settle down and soften up. My longest relationship lasted maybe a year. Every time I date someone they usually cheat. My last relationship lasted half a year but I found out he was a pathological liar (Aquarius) .My current (3 months) relationship is with a Capricorn and I honestly don't think we will make it.

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Posted by wildflower
My current (3 months) relationship is with a Capricorn and I honestly don't think we will make it.

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What makes u think so?

Took my ex Scorpio a year and a half to soften up. I actually remember the day he did and it was like a completely different person. You could just tell he trusted me. He just started being caring and sweet.

waiting for others to answer if there is such a thing called "Scorpio in a relationship"......

sorry my guard is up too soon long before guys even approach me (sigh) LOL

I'm "softened up" lol

What do you want to know exactly ?

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Posted by wildflower
honestly Im the worst the first few months of a relationship, after I see you are IN for real. Then I soften up and Im incredibly pleasing and easy going. So hang in there if you really want it

This is me too. Once I realize he's in for the long haul, I settle down and soften up. My longest relationship lasted maybe a year. Every time I date someone they usually cheat. My last relationship lasted half a year but I found out he was a pathological liar (Aquarius) .My current (3 months) relationship is with a Capricorn and I honestly don't think we will make it.

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Sorry to hear about the cheating situations. Why are you pesimistic about your current relationship?

Posted by saggurl88
Took my ex Scorpio a year and a half to soften up. I actually remember the day he did and it was like a completely different person. You could just tell he trusted me. He just started being caring and sweet.

Why did you two split up? A sag and a scorp, sounds interesting 😄

Posted by MyStarsShine
I'm "softened up" lol

What do you want to know exactly ?

Well it's been 1 and a half year with my scorp,I feel like the honeymoon phase is kinda over(but I'm trying to keep it up!!! 😎) , we fight often about stupid stuff and he told me this fighting is lowering his sex drive in a way. Like if we had a fight he'd feel emotionally detached a little, and he wouldn't want to fck me that much, which is strange for me, because I'm always ready. I'm trying to understand it.

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Posted by saggurl88
Took my ex Scorpio a year and a half to soften up. I actually remember the day he did and it was like a completely different person. You could just tell he trusted me. He just started being caring and sweet.

Why did you two split up? A sag and a scorp, sounds interesting 😄

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It’s a long story but had to do with his ex and mother of his kids getting cancer. It just didn’t work out for us because he had to be there, which I understood.

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Posted by MyStarsShine
I'm "softened up" lol

What do you want to know exactly ?

Well it's been 1 and a half year with my scorp,I feel like the honeymoon phase is kinda over(but I'm trying to keep it up!!! 😎) , we fight often about stupid stuff and he told me this fighting is lowering his sex drive in a way. Like if we had a fight he'd feel emotionally detached a little, and he wouldn't want to fck me that much, which is strange for me, because I'm always ready. I'm trying to understand it.

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My ex was the opposite lol. The make up sex is what I used to look forward too. I used to be furious about something but then know what was coming and actually start getting excited about it lol

He trained that pattern in me though cause he knew sex fixed things with me. I never could have make up sex before him. He used to create so much drama and by the end of the argument, it all turned to passion. I loved it

I think Im sour then sweet lol

After 3mo I start to ease up

but any time before that, Im a fucking war head

Posted by DeleterNerd
Scorpios will answer this thread when they soften up to it. Give it time.

It’ll take a lifetime until Scorpios soften up...lmao

No! Seriously! Like when do Scorpios soft? ROFLMAO

My longest relationship lasted for three years.

I also dated two fellow Scorpios for months. They were true-blue Scorpios, as the intensity I've experienced with them was unbelievable.... to the point t'was sort of suffocating. Hard for me to admit that. It was like I was dating myself, and it felt quite uncomfortable. One wasn't expressive enough and was subtle with his ways, yet his intentions were perfectly delivered to me. His mysterious aura never left him, but I know he has always been real to me. Other one was pretty romantic, affectionate and a great flirt too. Also a man of secrecy, deceit and manipulation.

They're tough to love, honestly. The former, I had a hard time getting him out of his shell, but whenever he'd open up and soften for a lil bit, it was always a breeze. The latter was all kinds of crazy. I can't even. Looking back now, I guess he was borderline psycho. LOL

Both stubborn and passionate with their ideas, goals and beliefs. Too independent. Kinda what made 'em attractive to me. Hehehe

Both's libido was out of this world. So far, they're the only ones who were able to keep up with mine, and I applaud 'em for that. Another thing they have in common is they didn't think twice of chasing and pleasing me relentlessly when they realized I was finally losing interest with 'em.

And oh, how could we forget about the jealous and suspicious attributes! Yes, they didn't fail to be. Which sucked. 'Cause I could tell their gut-feeling was always on-point, and it made it HARDER for me to lie to 'em than to any of my old flames. Their intuition and sly nature were my greatest foes throughout the relationship.

They're also the reason why I would never date a fellow Scorpio ever again.

I had fun with them nonetheless!

I am Scorpio dominant

Easy going with friends and family ..

In a romantic rship, i lose myself and then feel swamped ...and need freedom

Don't live with a stinger

Lol

Posted by Taniwha
25 years I ain't changed one bit. Sex with myself isn't as good as it was when I was 14 tho...

Arthritis?

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Posted by wildflower
My current (3 months) relationship is with a Capricorn and I honestly don't think we will make it.

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Surprisingly we are still going but the relationship is just toxic. He's highly jealous and insecure. I seriously think Capricorn men tend to be narcissistic. I'm currently dealing with gaslighting and stonewalling. Everything is always my fault. Gathering my courage to break it off for good.

it depends on the person i was distant in the beginning but as time went by i started to be very affectionate i love having all the attention and i love compliments, as for my scorp boyfriend it was exactly the contrary, at the beginning he was the one who didnt even let me freaking breathe and now i am the one running and asking for his attention

It can change for the bad if you screw with us too much. Scorpio is forgiving and loyal.....but we never forget. Don’t take your Scorpio for granted. We are made of some tough stuff and we have serious staying power even if we are unhappy. But, if we are deeply unhappy and it’s caused by our partner the relationship will remain but it will never EVER return to what it once was. Don’t lie, don’t cheat....don’t use your partner as an emotional dumpster....be loyal always and your Scorpio will adore you for life.