How to Make Up With a Scorpio -

Make a dramatic gesture to demonstrate your devotion. As far as Scorpions are concerned, talk is cheap. Only positive action will get you back into their good graces. Whether this means breaking a bad habit, getting help for a serious problem, or ending ties that have undermined your relationship is immaterial. The important thing is that you act to satisfy Scorpio's concerns. Always take this sign's complaints seriously.

Scorps and Aries shouldn't be involved with each other. Period...

To much domination. Us Scorps are bossy and Aries are the Kings of pushiness and we won't allow it.

Gaurav Aries you speak the truth about us Scorps. Sad to say but it is the truth...

"Scorps and Aries shouldn't be involved with each other. Period.."

Am yet to see a "truly" fearless Aries or Scorpio.

"To much domination. Us Scorps are bossy and Aries are the Kings of pushiness and we won't allow it."

It fails coz both are selfish.

"Gaurav Aries you speak the truth about us Scorps"

Trying to live with it.

I couldn't deal with an Aries..I can't even bear them as friends..but shouldn't really generalise as not all are the same..I have one good Aries girlfriend..and one guy friend..but I can see even too much of them would start doing my head in..royally!

There are three major signs in which the "three deaths" are undergone:

1. Aries, which at different points along the Path of Life forces the soul on to the burning ground and subjects it to a purifying process during incarnation. Through the lesser fire of mind, the "jungles of experience are set on fire and dissolve in flames and then the Path stands clear and unobstructed vision is achieved." Old Commentary.
Through the fiery processes of war and strife, brought to the individual through the influence of the planetary [96] ruler, Mars, the God of War, a needed purification takes place. The same purification, but this time through vision, comes to the developed man through the activity of the subjective ruler of the planet, Mercury, who is the illuminating principle which releases the mind, directs the way of man through life and enables him to become aware of the divine Plan which underlies all his fiery experience.

2.Scorpio, which brings about eventually the death of the personality. Esoterically as well as exoterically, Scorpio is the sign of death and burial in the earth, of descent into the depths in order to be lifted again on to the heights (the mountain top in Capricorn). It is stated in some of the most ancient books that "the heat of the earth, the mother, and the sting of the scorpion are the beneficent gifts which the turning of the wheel gives to the man at the beginning and the end." These gifts, when accepted and used, bring a man to liberation and eventually from the control and pain of the Fixed Cross.

3. Pisces sees the relinquishing or the death of all the influences which hold the man to the wheel of birth and his release from the control of the Common or Mutable Cross.

Well so far so good with me any my Aries....I truly believe it is all about understanding each other. I am open with him and he is open with me. I have mad him furious like 3 times during out 3-5 year friendship, to the point where he would not speak to me. I waited 2-3 days and approached him again and we became friends again. As a matter of fact the other day we talked about it and we agreed it was 3 times that he was mad at me and we laughed about it.

I say what I want he has moments of silence where he won't answer my questions and my intuition kicks in and I say something like so I guess you won't xyz and he starts to laughing and say you got it and I would say why?

I think he is a very sweet person since I got to know the other side of him.

The one thing I am starting to understand is the boss thing I guess

I was at his house and I sitting on the couch and we was about to watch a movie, and he was about to sit in another chair and I said come sit here with me and he said I am comfortable in this chair I can see better and I said ok and just stared at him LOL. About 5 min later he gets up to show me something and sits next to me for about 10 min, to explain what he wanted me to see and then he gets up and went back to his chair...LOL so again my intuition kicks in and I am laughing in my head and saying oh this is his way of giving in but not doing it fully

It is funny because I sit and watch him and he trips me out. I am open and blunt and he is only blunt when he is either, angre or upset about something, other times it's like read between the lines...and everytime I do that I am always right.

I still get breakfast, during the week faithfully he gets up and ask me is so and so good for my breakfast. LOL

I think after I cooked him breakfast one time, he finally believe that I am not a cook.

There is no making up with me when I am done. for the last 6 months we have been at each other like crazy and the last straw was a a out right lie.

I am done with my sister (Sag) really there is nothing she can say or do to make me spend time talk to with her again.

My family won't even question me about my decision, to not deal with her.

I still love her

And we are having Christmas dinner over my older sister house and I will say hi and that is it I have nothing to say to her. I told my older sister I hope she is making arrangements to pick her up because I was not and my sister never responded.

How will I act with her around I won't. I am done, my friendship with my younger sister is over.

Aries and Scorps, very bad combo.

yes even with my scorp friend...I decided that i wanted friendship with him and nothing more. Hes like cool but I know hes upset. He is so use to getting what he wants. He calls me all the time but our conversations are always challenging. I dont like that. It sounds like we are at war or something. I am too peaceful...I mean I did like him at first now we have to work too hard to understand each other.

Hey Dy..how are you doing these days?

Dy: "I'm happier than Bill Clinton at a sorority sleepover!

She's driving me crazy, and I'm loving ever insane minute of it...

How are things Over There??"

LOL
Good stuff...keep it up!

I am doin good thanks..different Virgos sparking my interest left, right and centre!!! LOL..its all good..Life is a bit hectic at the moment..Going on holidays tomorrow..wooohoooo

"Going on holidays tomorrow..wooohoooo "

Charm the Egyptianz then ...And hope U aint smoking still.

~ Take Care

"its not me who needs to appologize its the scorp..well he has already dont that and many time..but i am being stubborn here."

hmmm.. cap.. It sounds to me like he has been apologizing many times by email only.. and JD gave a hint that they communicate better with actions.. If you want to go somewhere from here.. Give him a chance to see you. Then decide whether you are gonna see him again or not.

Hey Cap...How r U doing honey ?...Longg time no mention.
Guess the scorp dude came knocking multiple times ...Why not give him a chance ?

"That scorp probably likes to chase thatsit."

End that chase. Let him closer for you to see what he's up to. As a cap.. We want things to be clear. If he is still not what you want, then just leave with peace in your mind. You have to know before you can let go. Or to stay.. Don't be too stubborn, I know it's not easy, coz I know what it's like to be a stubborn Cap, but give him a chance, just once 🙂

cap, are you a bit weary of seeing him again cuz you know something will happen?

"If Scorpios are supposed to be higher thinking, they sure don't show it sometimes in these forums with the assumptions they make based strictly upon sign."

"...such a typical Scorpio assumption"

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"Same thing I do with difficult men...just coo and talk baby talk and they eat it up cuz you guys are basically just big babies."

Aprilbaby, girl you said a mouthful then

"my hair actually needs cutting....it's getting all bouffant like 'Keep the Fiath' Bon Jon Bovi.....especially the back....arrghhhh"

Fight your inner hippy ab, fight it!

"Yama....but its soooooo cold at the mo....."

Ah, alright, but if you join a drum-circle I'm staging an intervention.

Heh, this reminds me of an idea me and a friend had at school, we wanted to invent a new emo/goth band called "The Sad Saddams", with Saddam as the frontman.

The first song was to be called "Tear For a Tyrant."

invent=create

A great move indeed !....Go n meet him Cap....thingz shud be fine.

If I get to meet my flame ( which wont happen I know) ever again ...I wud just spend those moments without saying a word... soaking her in..so that it lastz for the rest of my life.

Prisoner of life ?...She could have been a visitor.

"sweet&sour its not that i want him to chase,i dont like playing games which he did.Probably he didnot even have some respect for me as a person.Probably he considers himself a trophy.Which he was only till the time i liked him.
May be he has changed now...we were in college then.Now may be he has grown and values people.May be he genuinly feels bad for what he did but i dont want any body to meet me or be with me or whaterver cause of any guilt."

I see.. You know the best what you want. Do what you feel is good for you. If you are still angry with him, can't you just leave him behind and move on.. I don't know if you are happy now, but you could become happier if you are open to meet someone new, someone who respects you from the start.. Just my 2 cents..

Saddam is a Taurus.

What is it with earth signs and mass-murdering dictators?

Aprilbaby
"...(with the exception of SIL who actually admits to having a great relationship with her Aries man...)


SIL...Yeah, SL...sorry, that's who I meant. LOL

Aprilbaby -

Yes I do find that what I have with my Aries man/friend is the most interesting of all the signs I have dated. The communication, the way he is very attentive to my needs, including cooking is what keeps me coming back, oh and the sex LOL

But if anyone remembers I have known him for 3-5 years as friends and there were challenges during that time.

This other side of him the caring side, is funny yet different and I like it. Still trying to figure him out more and it all seems worth it to me.

He asked me did I want to exchange gifts last week, that was surprising did not expect that.