I really need a sounding board. Ok to make this short, most of yall know what I do for a living. Well I was just privy to some information about my co-worker (cancer) got her pink slip, affective the end of this month.
I just started learning part of the job that she used to do about 6 months or 8 months ago, and I had to confront her a few times about needing a signature, or a date on a form, well she is constantly telling me that when she was doing it no one helped her so why should she help me...I am not exactly doing her full job I am just doing the data entry part after we see the patient for the study they are one. But I had to back track some of the charts because they were on alert, and play catch up.
Anyway I told her that she almost lost her job behind this crap before just sign the damn forms and move on what is the big deal, she still has anomosity with my supv. and another co-worker that I work closly with.
Which is stopping her from doing what she used to do. She has also gotten to the point of calling (Ms. my last name) so I confronted her one it. I was like yo man what's up with calling me Ms. and my last name, why so professional all of a sudden. She just started laughing so I was like, quite it. so she did
But the thing that I am fighting with is that I want to so bad tell her that I know what is going on but I can't because the person that told me she is not supposed to know either but she is a (Libra) and I know they can go on both size at any give moment. My (Cancer) co-worker is also being very territorial, she thinks that the (libra co-worker) is taken me from her, which I just found out today. I was like damn I am almost 45 years old a grown azz women and I am still going through the crap. I go through this crap with my girlfriends today, and I really don't get it damn.
I really thought that we were close, and I told her a lot of my business and stuff and for her not to come to me as a friend is what hurts because if she does not tell me before she leaves then I will end the whole friendship completely, because I would not do that to my close friends and I don't expect them to do it to me. and I told my libra, co-worker, that she can pull this crap on me like the other girl did and I will end my friendship with her also and she started laughing but I am not laughing. This is not sitting well with me right know, I know that this is something that she has to deal with not me.
I spoke with a male friend of mines and he said that she thinks I took her job
My Libra friend told me to ask her what the F is wrong with her and I told her no. As of today I am finish with the friendship.
I know this is long but I would just like some opinions.
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I just started learning part of the job that she used to do about 6 months or 8 months ago, and I had to confront her a few times about needing a signature, or a date on a form, well she is constantly telling me that when she was doing it no one helped her so why should she help me...I am not exactly doing her full job I am just doing the data entry part after we see the patient for the study they are one. But I had to back track some of the charts because they were on alert, and play catch up.
Anyway I told her that she almost lost her job behind this crap before just sign the damn forms and move on what is the big deal, she still has anomosity with my supv. and another co-worker that I work closly with.
Which is stopping her from doing what she used to do. She has also gotten to the point of calling (Ms. my last name) so I confronted her one it. I was like yo man what's up with calling me Ms. and my last name, why so professional all of a sudden. She just started laughing so I was like, quite it. so she did
But the thing that I am fighting with is that I want to so bad tell her that I know what is going on but I can't because the person that told me she is not supposed to know either but she is a (Libra) and I know they can go on both size at any give moment. My (Cancer) co-worker is also being very territorial, she thinks that the (libra co-worker) is taken me from her, which I just found out today. I was like damn I am almost 45 years old a grown azz women and I am still going through the crap. I go through this crap with my girlfriends today, and I really don't get it damn.
I really thought that we were close, and I told her a lot of my business and stuff and for her not to come to me as a friend is what hurts because if she does not tell me before she leaves then I will end the whole friendship completely, because I would not do that to my close friends and I don't expect them to do it to me. and I told my libra, co-worker, that she can pull this crap on me like the other girl did and I will end my friendship with her also and she started laughing but I am not laughing. This is not sitting well with me right know, I know that this is something that she has to deal with not me.
I spoke with a male friend of mines and he said that she thinks I took her job
My Libra friend told me to ask her what the F is wrong with her and I told her no. As of today I am finish with the friendship.
I know this is long but I would just like some opinions.