Need scorpio's help. I just need to know if theres anything worth doing or should I move on.

I’d say quietly move on but stay responsive and upbeat when he does reach out. I’m a Pisces with a Scorpio and they take some getting used to. Mostly you have to wait for them to be ready. They have a lot of overthinking to do and a lot of feels to work thru. And then there is the trust issue with them and it takes time for them to come back out once they retreat and poke at you to see if you’re safe or not. Or he’s just a jerk. You never can tell until you can tell. But don’t be put off by the long silences. Keep on doing your thing and he will either come back around or not. But if you need to know whether or not y’all are still a thing so you seeing someone else doesn’t constitute unfaithfulness then you’re going to need to straight up have that convo. If it’s not that kind of relationship then just do your thing and his timing at coming back around will either work out well or be too late. You can’t rush them.

Thanks a lot.

Im not going to ask him this as it seems thats when he shuts down (when asked directly ab anything).. and he mentioned several times now he doesnt know doesnt like to "talk ab these things", so I wont push. This is fine if he needs time its just that 'd be great if he said so 🙂 as now, Im just totally confused if hes processing sth or done with it.

Anyhow thanks a lot for your time and response. 🙂

Scorpios come in a few flavors. They usually like to address a touchy topic head on. Unless they aren’t developed. They go thru cycles of death and rebirth as is their destiny - and if they don’t choose to grow or learn about themselves they each rebirth they can get stuck as jerks. The more they mature and grow on their path the more incredible they become. But they deal with an incredible depth of feeling and I think it can feel overwhelming and easier to just run from or ignore their emotions. Once they learn to face them head on tho they become unstoppable. How old is he? Not that age equals maturity - but it can help

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Scorpios come in a few flavors. They usually like to address a touchy topic head on. Unless they aren’t developed. They go thru cycles of death and rebirth as is their destiny - and if they don’t choose to grow or learn about themselves they each rebirth they can get stuck as jerks. The more they mature and grow on their path the more incredible they become. But they deal with an incredible depth of feeling and I think it can feel overwhelming and easier to just run from or ignore their emotions. Once they learn to face them head on tho they become unstoppable. How old is he? Not that age equals maturity - but it can help

Thank you, Im afraid hes not "developed" then.. 🙂 Hes 35, hes a great father and he runs a successful business but ..it seems like having a conversation about whatever issue there is is just wayyyyyy too much for him to deal with. I read ab "mind games" etc, him trying to make a date and then cancelling seems like that but for some reason I feel it wasnt the case, I think he wanted to meet up (part of im) but another part was toooo scared we are going to "talk", possibly confront whatever issue there was. Idk.. maybe its not "maturity" thing, maybe its a character but after how close we were, just slow fading without a word doesnt seem too mature to me. Having said that maybe he just switched, got totally turned off and didnt want to hurt my feelings. It really could be anything as he didnt give me a clue..

he is scorpio sun taurus moon