Officially Divorced!! (It only took 5 years)

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by FixedWater on Saturday, March 14, 2015 and has 36 replies.

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@FixedWater
12 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

Thankyou PR! 😄
Funny, I had no idea the little piece of paper would have such an impact, but it did and now I am sluffing my homework (yup feeling guilty) and drinking wine instead !

Ahhhhh ... life is good

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Awww .... that's sweet of you to say 🙂

I have already begun. The first thing that absolutely has to happen is a big fire ... we will gather anything at all that we can that is even remotely related to your ex and burn it!

Then toast to the Divorce

Then, play music that you love and drink Moscato

Then more toasts

Then Drink

Then .................................

~ ok maybe its not original but I have time to work on it ~

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Next ... I am going to apply for the Correctional Guard posting that just came up and get that job!
Travelling abroad sounds pretty darn good, and not clich? at all, but I did that last year when I went to visit Moony in CA as a sort of pre-Divorce celebration.

It's so crazy that I am 47 years old and building my career. On the other hand, I did spend all of the last 12 years with my daughter. My time with her has been a gift and for that I can thank the Cappy ex.

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Posted by FixedWater
Awww .... that's sweet of you to say 🙂

I have already begun. The first thing that absolutely has to happen is a big fire ... we will gather anything at all that we can that is even remotely related to your ex and burn it!

Then toast to the Divorce

Then, play music that you love and drink Moscato

Then more toasts

Then Drink

Then .................................

~ ok maybe its not original but I have time to work on it ~

yes to the fire! I'm also thinking a dart board with his face on it, toilet paper with his face on it, pin the ass on the donkey (a donkey with his face on its ass), a pinata with his face on it.....Oh, we can add the ex friend who has been fucking him for years to it, too.

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Lol ... no, I didn't break anything in the courtroom. I was referring to the time period between the day I said "That's it, I am done" and the official document that says "I am Divorced".

I have a bit of a headache this morning ...

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Thankyou picesmoon and what's a blue moon?
Thankyou Death. Marriage isn't always the greatest thing, I agree.

BC, you are right on two counts ...
The ex was being difficult.
I did just walk away and end it the first time I divorced, when I was younger.

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Posted by FixedWater
Lol ... no, I didn't break anything in the courtroom. I was referring to the time period between the day I said "That's it, I am done" and the official document that says "I am Divorced".

I have a bit of a headache this morning ...

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Posted by FixedWater
Needed to shout it out to the whole wide world but Dxp will work. Lol
Who's up for a glass of MosCato, a toast to new horizons .... and a lil celebration?

CONGRATULATIONS! I am working on my divorce this year. Looking forward to the finality of it 🙂 Cheers to you FixedWater!!

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Posted by PiscesPisces
people make victories out of losses it seems.

what an ironic sort of celebration.

I think that it is more making the best out of a bad situation. It is what it is and why not embrace it on the positive side and be thankful that it is finally complete.

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Why Thankyou Mr.F! ... for bringing that to my attention ... I will be sure to avoid the Doc as/usual. Where's my Willie Nelson song?

Cheers to you too TrueScorp! I wish you Good Luck in your Divorce and hope that it goes as smoothly as possible for you 🙂

Got It Gobshite! "Just say no" campaign! ... (I do have an offer of marriage atm)

IS ... WooHoo! no kidding right? I have been singin' that in my mind for days. Five years was a helluva long time and it passed, just like that. Scary.

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Posted by TrueScorp12

Posted by PiscesPisces
people make victories out of losses it seems.

what an ironic sort of celebration.

I think that it is more making the best out of a bad situation. It is what it is and why not embrace it on the positive side and be thankful that it is finally complete.

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I think you are 100% right. The pain, confusion, hurt, betrayal ... all those terrible feelings have been worked through and resolved. I accept the outcome and am happy about my Divorce because it was the last step of closure for me.

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In my opinion, I think most people's marriage fails because, though they may think, otherwise, the couple didn't really know and understand the deepest, truest meaning and value of it, BEFORE they got
married.

You see, marriage is not about living happily ever after. Even the happiest couples have their ups and downs. It's hard work and only the strongest of souls can weather a lifelong marriage.
Some keys to a successful marriage is to be realistic, forgiving, extremely patient, and master the art of compromise. These are traits that need to instilled when a child is young, so that when they
are grown, life's realities will be a bit easier to bear. Instead, society has a way of promoting the princess....

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I've said it elsewhere (I forget now), in one of these threads.

I think people ought to teach their kids to wait before thinking about sex and marriage until after they have reached 35-40 years of age. Maybe even longer, in this day and age.

The reason for this, is primarily to spare them a world of grief.
Of course, kids don't listen. So, they have to be appropriately taught responsibility when they are young. When time comes to explain the birds and the bees, that's the same time, it has to be explained why patience, self-control, getting along with others, thus self-respect, among other like things, are very important.

I know many will get a divorce and move on to new relationships. Sometimes, they can be many relationships. I've spared myself a lot of grief not going down that path, and learned a LOT by doing so. Instead, I simply diverted such interests in more productive directions. Seen a lot, learned a lot. Out of this, I found that I can be alone, but not lonely and be at peace.