ONCE A SCROPIO STINGS YOU ITS OVER?

Is that how it works? Or is there levels to the sting?

Enlightened me including everyone with a rising, moon, mars or sun... etc..

For me with Scorpio mars I will sting you occasionally and it's not over... but only when I don't trust you. I have a friend that everytime I would sting her she would still show up randomly and leave messages until I gave in... I would finally let up. Like she finally proved her loyalty and everytime I feel I'm done with her she does it and I come back... I so drawn to her because of this... she GETS me.

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Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

He would like suddenly out of context send me videos excerpts or a comic excerpts and then be mad about me .. Then proceed to point out his particular demand, like if you want me you should do this and that.

Feck that!!!

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one word: insecurity

ah it goes in infinity doesn't it, he just needs reassurement that you like him and care so he goes into his manipulative ways

My ascendant likes revenge. My sun does not.

I don't forgive.

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Posted by AneemA08

Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

He would like suddenly out of context send me videos excerpts or a comic excerpts and then be mad about me .. Then proceed to point out his particular demand, like if you want me you should do this and that.

Feck that!!!

one word: insecurity

ah it goes in infinity doesn't it, he just needs reassurement that you like him and care so he goes into his manipulative ways

I've shown enough!!

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you wouldn't believe the little things they pick up and start growing doubt out of it, a big mess you got yourself into there las, run

Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

Suddenly cold and uncaring in speech and being sarcastic out of nowhere

Posted by Koniuchaa

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

Suddenly cold and uncaring in speech and being sarcastic out of nowhere

I just wouldn't even bother talking to them

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Agreed

Posted by over_thinker
WTF is a scorpio sting?

When the Scorpio tries to protect themselves because they feel hurt, or don't trust you for some reason they create in their brain (most of time it's not what it seems but they're too stubborn to listen) and they lash out wether with yelling or cold sharp words... then they dissapear or cut you off directly and sometimes permanently.

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
My ascendant likes revenge. My sun does not.

I don't forgive.

His scorpio merc combined with virgo moon combined with gemini second dominant placement is just too much for me to handle.

I don't care about being intelligent no more..

I would just feel..

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I thought you liked an Aries?

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by over_thinker
WTF is a scorpio sting?

When the Scorpio tries to protect themselves because they feel hurt, or don't trust you for some reason they create in their brain (most of time it's not what it seems but they're too stubborn to listen) and they lash out wether with yelling or cold sharp words... then they dissapear or cut you off directly and sometimes permanently.

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oh shit, THATS what "stinging" means to ya? Everytime I see the word "sting" I smh like "ppl are so dumb with this stinger sheete"..if thats what sting means than yea, I do it, all the time lol I be stingin

Posted by EvilHare
No scropio placements whatsoever.

swore u were that scorpio dude who went by "rabbit" wit the Virgo wife...guess not

Posted by over_thinker

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by over_thinker
WTF is a scorpio sting?

When the Scorpio tries to protect themselves because they feel hurt, or don't trust you for some reason they create in their brain (most of time it's not what it seems but they're too stubborn to listen) and they lash out wether with yelling or cold sharp words... then they dissapear or cut you off directly and sometimes permanently.

oh ohk. so its a reaction.

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Yesss

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Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

Suddenly cold and uncaring in speech and being sarcastic out of nowhere

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ok so that was my question - what is this "stinging" thing about - to me, it is what it is - if we get along we get along, if we don't then we part ways

I am truly open to you being you and me being me and trying to work it out together and still have a great time but if you get nasty for no reason, I'm off and done - I will drop you like a hot potato and not even clean it up

I turned out my best GF of 40 years because although all those years I knew she was twisted but this time she went over the top and she did not want to communicate and was in denial of her part and interfered in my marriage so "bye"

I'm sorry, I just don't have time for that crap in life. Move the hell on and leave me alone because I can do for myself thank you very much lol

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Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies

Posted by AneemA08

Posted by Queenofthepheasantfairies
My ascendant likes revenge. My sun does not.

I don't forgive.

His scorpio merc combined with virgo moon combined with gemini second dominant placement is just too much for me to handle.

I don't care about being intelligent no more..

I would just feel..

I thought you liked an Aries?

Nah, it was my taurus best friend's (rip) ex.

The guy im talking about here has eros in aries tho. My eros is aries too.

His psyche is virgo, while mine is gemini.

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Ooh I am lost then, have not kept up to date with your love life LOL

Posted by MiZLeo
My mom's a Scorpio. Haha. She's mean and revengeful. The things I've seen her do. ? —

see that is just too much really - drama, stress - that's not what life is all about

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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

Suddenly cold and uncaring in speech and being sarcastic out of nowhere

ok so that was my question - what is this "stinging" thing about - to me, it is what it is - if we get along we get along, if we don't then we part ways

I am truly open to you being you and me being me and trying to work it out together and still have a great time but if you get nasty for no reason, I'm off and done - I will drop you like a hot potato and not even clean it up

I turned out my best GF of 40 years because although all those years I knew she was twisted but this time she went over the top and she did not want to communicate and was in denial of her part and interfered in my marriage so "bye"

I'm sorry, I just don't have time for that crap in life. Move the hell on and leave me alone because I can do for myself thank you very much lol

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The reason why the sting is more talked about than the normal parting of ways is how they infect you with it... they "try" to use low blows, try to hit you where it hurts and make sure it messes up your psyche by doing it "off guard" when you least expect it... but I'm so used to it that if it's done to me I just dissapear forever and eventually they come around but by then... you didn't want to talk about it so bye... and because I've done it before I know what's they're doing so I just drop them too... they want me to beg and I won't ?

You see I'm too honest and i don't betray people but sometimes when I find people with Scorpio placements I notice I trust them instantly and I connect with them quickly but then they get scared cause I've moved in too fast and try to sting me... but I know why they're are doing it but if they don't do astrology they won't know that's why the connection is instant. So by the time they realize I was geniuine... I'm long gone.

Do you have Scorpio placements?

I have tended to sting in my past, although now I tend to stop at the part of "creating irrational thoughts in my head" and not to do the actual sting, just communicate. My mother is a Scorpio though and she stings me and my siblings almost daily.

For me if Scorpio stings you, it's not the end, it's just a sing that something in your relationship needs fixing. Although some Scorpios are so stubborn they don't want to talk about issues -,-

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Y'all still ain't answer the question ?

hmmmm - I think we talked before about my recent break up of 8 months with a Scorpio only I didn't know he was until like 2 months ago

he got upset with me several times and was yelling at me like I was a dog - and honestly I didn't do a daym thing - the last time it was because I was starting to tell him that I went to check on some dogs that I'd seen tied up in the park and I found out that they belonged to 2 homeless men and he just went the F off and was saying "who do you think you are" "what is wrong with you" "some woman got her face cut investigating something in town" blah blah - I didn't say a thing - his normal MO would be to call back much later and mind you I was not even calling him back because that pizzed me the F off but again, I didn't say anything back to him and he fizzled out - but when he called back he was apologetic and sweet and wanted to then discuss it with me as an adult - mind you he's older than me - this last time I wasn't having it - at that point I told him look, I'm done with this conversation - I don't want to discuss it again.

I let him go a week later - he was so sweet that entire week. I don't care if his outbursts were because he cared about me and was concerned about me. No one is going to speak to me like that.

so yes, he came back after he stung if that fits your description -

Posted by Liriell
I have tended to sting in my past, although now I tend to stop at the part of "creating irrational thoughts in my head" and not to do the actual sting, just communicate. My mother is a Scorpio though and she stings me and my siblings almost daily.

For me if Scorpio stings you, it's not the end, it's just a sing that something in your relationship needs fixing. Although some Scorpios are so stubborn they don't want to talk about issues -,-

The best response so far... from the irrational thoughts to the sting because of needing fixing. Love this

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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Y'all still ain't answer the question ?

hmmmm - I think we talked before about my recent break up of 8 months with a Scorpio only I didn't know he was until like 2 months ago

he got upset with me several times and was yelling at me like I was a dog - and honestly I didn't do a daym thing - the last time it was because I was starting to tell him that I went to check on some dogs that I'd seen tied up in the park and I found out that they belonged to 2 homeless men and he just went the F off and was saying "who do you think you are" "what is wrong with you" "some woman got her face cut investigating something in town" blah blah - I didn't say a thing - his normal MO would be to call back much later and mind you I was not even calling him back because that pizzed me the F off but again, I didn't say anything back to him and he fizzled out - but when he called back he was apologetic and sweet and wanted to then discuss it with me as an adult - mind you he's older than me - this last time I wasn't having it - at that point I told him look, I'm done with this conversation - I don't want to discuss it again.

I let him go a week later - he was so sweet that entire week. I don't care if his outbursts were because he cared about me and was concerned about me. No one is going to speak to me like that.

so yes, he came back after he stung if that fits your description -

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I hid that cause I responded after you commented I didn't see it as yet lol

Posted by Impulsv
Do others ever think at what they did for Scorpio to be in a corner n sting as a reaction

No just blamethe Scorpio lol

— so true but the Scorpio don't wanna hear nothing to resolve it by that point though.

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by tcta

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

Suddenly cold and uncaring in speech and being sarcastic out of nowhere

ok so that was my question - what is this "stinging" thing about - to me, it is what it is - if we get along we get along, if we don't then we part ways

I am truly open to you being you and me being me and trying to work it out together and still have a great time but if you get nasty for no reason, I'm off and done - I will drop you like a hot potato and not even clean it up

I turned out my best GF of 40 years because although all those years I knew she was twisted but this time she went over the top and she did not want to communicate and was in denial of her part and interfered in my marriage so "bye"

I'm sorry, I just don't have time for that crap in life. Move the hell on and leave me alone because I can do for myself thank you very much lol

The reason why the sting is more talked about than the normal parting of ways is how they infect you with it... they "try" to use low blows, try to hit you where it hurts and make sure it messes up your psyche by doing it "off guard" when you least expect it... but I'm so used to it that if it's done to me I just dissapear forever and eventually they come around but by then... you didn't want to talk about it so bye... and because I've done it before I know what's they're doing so I just drop them too... they want me to beg and I won't ?

You see I'm too honest and i don't betray people but sometimes when I find people with Scorpio placements I notice I trust them instantly and I connect with them quickly but then they get scared cause I've moved in too fast and try to sting me... but I know why they're are doing it but if they don't do astrology they won't know that's why the connection is instant. So by the time they realize I was geniuine... I'm long gone.

Do you have Scorpio placements?

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I get that now and I agree and I have experienced this with women who are insecure and envious and jealous - and they may have been Scorpios but not all because I've only been paying more attention to astrology in the last 2 years ish. I just found out on another thread that Taurus Rising means I do have Scorpio in the 7th house - what that means was described as behavior when in dealing with people - beyond that I am clueless. Need to read up. But I am very aware even when I'm not paying attention I am taking it in and it's being filtered. I know I come off clueless sometimes and sometimes I do that on purpose but I get it truly - I'm just a little slower and more methodical.

And you know daym well that when they do come back around after we're gone, they are still up to no good so I just look right through them like they never existed and smile and walk off and they can kiss my big fat white azz.

Lol! I don't bother about all the stinging n holding grudges part. I couldn't care less. If we're good, we're good. If we're bad, I'm still good. You can get your head all worked up with that drama if you can't get over stuff. When people get all melodramatic over something I just wait for them to cool off n then never talk about what just happened. I think I'm saving them all the embarrassment that way..coz I won't ever be the one starting the drama anyway ?

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Is that how it works? Or is there levels to the sting?

Enlightened me including everyone with a rising, moon, mars or sun... etc..

Just once, and its over. Not to everyone that wrongs me, most of them just get filtered lol. Scorp Sun.

Posted by tcta

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by tcta

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

Suddenly cold and uncaring in speech and being sarcastic out of nowhere

ok so that was my question - what is this "stinging" thing about - to me, it is what it is - if we get along we get along, if we don't then we part ways

I am truly open to you being you and me being me and trying to work it out together and still have a great time but if you get nasty for no reason, I'm off and done - I will drop you like a hot potato and not even clean it up

I turned out my best GF of 40 years because although all those years I knew she was twisted but this time she went over the top and she did not want to communicate and was in denial of her part and interfered in my marriage so "bye"

I'm sorry, I just don't have time for that crap in life. Move the hell on and leave me alone because I can do for myself thank you very much lol

The reason why the sting is more talked about than the normal parting of ways is how they infect you with it... they "try" to use low blows, try to hit you where it hurts and make sure it messes up your psyche by doing it "off guard" when you least expect it... but I'm so used to it that if it's done to me I just dissapear forever and eventually they come around but by then... you didn't want to talk about it so bye... and because I've done it before I know what's they're doing so I just drop them too... they want me to beg and I won't ?

You see I'm too honest and i don't betray people but sometimes when I find people with Scorpio placements I notice I trust them instantly and I connect with them quickly but then they get scared cause I've moved in too fast and try to sting me... but I know why they're are doing it but if they don't do astrology they won't know that's why the connection is instant. So by the time they realize I was geniuine... I'm long gone.

Do you have Scorpio placements?

I get that now and I agree and I have experienced this with women who are insecure and envious and jealous - and they may have been Scorpios but not all because I've only been paying more attention to astrology in the last 2 years ish. I just found out on another thread that Taurus Rising means I do have Scorpio in the 7th house - what that means was described as behavior when in dealing with people - beyond that I am clueless. Need to read up. But I am very aware even when I'm not paying attention I am taking it in and it's being filtered. I know I come off clueless sometimes and sometimes I do that on purpose but I get it truly - I'm just a little slower and more methodical.

And you know daym well that when they do come back around after we're gone, they are still up to no good so I just look right through them like they never existed and smile and walk off and they can kiss my big fat white azz.

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——? yesss. If you dropped me so quickly the first time? Ain't no coming back BIHHH LOL... I'm also an amature with astrology... but I'm learning now that I have a whole lot of Scorpio placements in my chart and it really opened my eyes to how I come off to people and how I view them. So when I meet someone with the same ora I sense it... just a pity they don't know the union would've been magical... ah well on to the next scorp ?

Posted by Impulsv

Posted by tcta

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Y'all still ain't answer the question ?

hmmmm - I think we talked before about my recent break up of 8 months with a Scorpio only I didn't know he was until like 2 months ago

he got upset with me several times and was yelling at me like I was a dog - and honestly I didn't do a daym thing - the last time it was because I was starting to tell him that I went to check on some dogs that I'd seen tied up in the park and I found out that they belonged to 2 homeless men and he just went the F off and was saying "who do you think you are" "what is wrong with you" "some woman got her face cut investigating something in town" blah blah - I didn't say a thing - his normal MO would be to call back much later and mind you I was not even calling him back because that pizzed me the F off but again, I didn't say anything back to him and he fizzled out - but when he called back he was apologetic and sweet and wanted to then discuss it with me as an adult - mind you he's older than me - this last time I wasn't having it - at that point I told him look, I'm done with this conversation - I don't want to discuss it again.

I let him go a week later - he was so sweet that entire week. I don't care if his outbursts were because he cared about me and was concerned about me. No one is going to speak to me like that.

so yes, he came back after he stung if that fits your description -

He feared for ur life

All that adrenaline comes out

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I get that part. He could be very sweet and was very caring but I can't take the words he says to me when he was angry because they are not necessary to say. And he said he can't change. Plus I can't live in a bubble. I've been taking care of myself all my life.

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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Is that how it works? Or is there levels to the sting?

Enlightened me including everyone with a rising, moon, mars or sun... etc..

Just once, and its over. Not to everyone that wrongs me, most of them just get filtered lol. Scorp Sun.

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How does one know it's the filtered version or not? Elaborate?

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Posted by tcta

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by tcta

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

Suddenly cold and uncaring in speech and being sarcastic out of nowhere

ok so that was my question - what is this "stinging" thing about - to me, it is what it is - if we get along we get along, if we don't then we part ways

I am truly open to you being you and me being me and trying to work it out together and still have a great time but if you get nasty for no reason, I'm off and done - I will drop you like a hot potato and not even clean it up

I turned out my best GF of 40 years because although all those years I knew she was twisted but this time she went over the top and she did not want to communicate and was in denial of her part and interfered in my marriage so "bye"

I'm sorry, I just don't have time for that crap in life. Move the hell on and leave me alone because I can do for myself thank you very much lol

The reason why the sting is more talked about than the normal parting of ways is how they infect you with it... they "try" to use low blows, try to hit you where it hurts and make sure it messes up your psyche by doing it "off guard" when you least expect it... but I'm so used to it that if it's done to me I just dissapear forever and eventually they come around but by then... you didn't want to talk about it so bye... and because I've done it before I know what's they're doing so I just drop them too... they want me to beg and I won't ?

You see I'm too honest and i don't betray people but sometimes when I find people with Scorpio placements I notice I trust them instantly and I connect with them quickly but then they get scared cause I've moved in too fast and try to sting me... but I know why they're are doing it but if they don't do astrology they won't know that's why the connection is instant. So by the time they realize I was geniuine... I'm long gone.

Do you have Scorpio placements?

I get that now and I agree and I have experienced this with women who are insecure and envious and jealous - and they may have been Scorpios but not all because I've only been paying more attention to astrology in the last 2 years ish. I just found out on another thread that Taurus Rising means I do have Scorpio in the 7th house - what that means was described as behavior when in dealing with people - beyond that I am clueless. Need to read up. But I am very aware even when I'm not paying attention I am taking it in and it's being filtered. I know I come off clueless sometimes and sometimes I do that on purpose but I get it truly - I'm just a little slower and more methodical.

And you know daym well that when they do come back around after we're gone, they are still up to no good so I just look right through them like they never existed and smile and walk off and they can kiss my big fat white azz.

——? yesss. If you dropped me so quickly the first time? Ain't no coming back BIHHH LOL... I'm also an amature with astrology... but I'm learning now that I have a whole lot of Scorpio placements in my chart and it really opened my eyes to how I come off to people and how I view them. So when I meet someone with the same ora I sense it... just a pity they don't know the union would've been magical... ah well on to the next scorp ?

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it's their loss I figure - and I truly think that there are fewer out there in the real world that don't have that drama thing going on which I abhor ... geez, we need to eat, sleep, work and play most of all - and get along well enough with most - wtf - why does that need to be so complicated lol

Not necessarily

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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by tcta

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Koniuchaa
Need examples of stinging

Suddenly cold and uncaring in speech and being sarcastic out of nowhere

ok so that was my question - what is this "stinging" thing about - to me, it is what it is - if we get along we get along, if we don't then we part ways

I am truly open to you being you and me being me and trying to work it out together and still have a great time but if you get nasty for no reason, I'm off and done - I will drop you like a hot potato and not even clean it up

I turned out my best GF of 40 years because although all those years I knew she was twisted but this time she went over the top and she did not want to communicate and was in denial of her part and interfered in my marriage so "bye"

I'm sorry, I just don't have time for that crap in life. Move the hell on and leave me alone because I can do for myself thank you very much lol

The reason why the sting is more talked about than the normal parting of ways is how they infect you with it... they "try" to use low blows, try to hit you where it hurts and make sure it messes up your psyche by doing it "off guard" when you least expect it... but I'm so used to it that if it's done to me I just dissapear forever and eventually they come around but by then... you didn't want to talk about it so bye... and because I've done it before I know what's they're doing so I just drop them too... they want me to beg and I won't ?

You see I'm too honest and i don't betray people but sometimes when I find people with Scorpio placements I notice I trust them instantly and I connect with them quickly but then they get scared cause I've moved in too fast and try to sting me... but I know why they're are doing it but if they don't do astrology they won't know that's why the connection is instant. So by the time they realize I was geniuine... I'm long gone.

Do you have Scorpio placements?

I get that now and I agree and I have experienced this with women who are insecure and envious and jealous - and they may have been Scorpios but not all because I've only been paying more attention to astrology in the last 2 years ish. I just found out on another thread that Taurus Rising means I do have Scorpio in the 7th house - what that means was described as behavior when in dealing with people - beyond that I am clueless. Need to read up. But I am very aware even when I'm not paying attention I am taking it in and it's being filtered. I know I come off clueless sometimes and sometimes I do that on purpose but I get it truly - I'm just a little slower and more methodical.

And you know daym well that when they do come back around after we're gone, they are still up to no good so I just look right through them like they never existed and smile and walk off and they can kiss my big fat white azz.

——? yesss. If you dropped me so quickly the first time? Ain't no coming back BIHHH LOL... I'm also an amature with astrology... but I'm learning now that I have a whole lot of Scorpio placements in my chart and it really opened my eyes to how I come off to people and how I view them. So when I meet someone with the same ora I sense it... just a pity they don't know the union would've been magical... ah well on to the next scorp ?

it's their loss I figure - and I truly think that there are fewer out there in the real world that don't have that drama thing going on which I abhor ... geez, we need to eat, sleep, work and play most of all - and get along well enough with most - wtf - why does that need to be so complicated lol

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Amen and so true

It depends on what happened before the sting.

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Posted by Petals

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Is that how it works? Or is there levels to the sting?

Enlightened me including everyone with a rising, moon, mars or sun... etc..

Just once, and its over. Not to everyone that wrongs me, most of them just get filtered lol. Scorp Sun.

How does one know it's the filtered version or not? Elaborate?

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Filtered as in subtle way ignoring. They don't exist to me. I won't give it a thought about revenge, I won't even argue or anything as they are no longer important to me.

Posted by Impulsv
I feel like everyone is allowed to fuck up which I forgive. Ecause I. See the human nature in their reaction

But when I've stung I've never been forgiven

That part hurts

I agree and I am very forgiving. I also believe that one should try to learn from those f-ups and not do it again.

In this past situation this man did this hmmm maybe about 6 times in 8 months. He knew what he was doing because when he would apologize he would say "I overstepped my bounds" and well, yes he did and did it too many times and I just couldn't stop remembering the bad things he did say to me when he was shouting at me. Way back I had that type of anger turn physical. I'm not going there again ever.

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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Petals

Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS
Is that how it works? Or is there levels to the sting?

Enlightened me including everyone with a rising, moon, mars or sun... etc..

Just once, and its over. Not to everyone that wrongs me, most of them just get filtered lol. Scorp Sun.

How does one know it's the filtered version or not? Elaborate?

Filtered as in subtle way ignoring. They don't exist to me. I won't give it a thought about revenge, I won't even argue or anything as they are no longer important to me.

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Got it

Posted by Impulsv
So I guess I'm the only scorp that has stung lol

lol well if situation warrants it then a sting is the thing lol

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
It depends on what happened before the sting.

Elaborate please? What would be just a warning sting for you?

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
It depends on what happened before the sting.

Elaborate please? What would be just a warning sting for you?

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Lol my words do cut deep when I'm upset that's why I'm

Being much more careful about it nowadays. A warning sting is when I'm upset You gonna see it through my face specially my eyes without even saying anything people who knows me are aware of it.

I'm big on Betrayal so if you did that watch your back. Lol

Posted by Impulsv
I don't thinive given warning sting lol

It's like a reaction to build up I didn't know it was building

I'm learning to identify my feels better

Like

Waiting on test results

U scared but don't know it n think ok

Weeks later something minor happens n u snap until later u realize I've been on edge

Why peoplemifht not understand since it delayed reaction at times

I feel when you're able to channel it or learning to channel it then you're entering the Phoenix ... it's on the edge of just short of being a Phoenix. And I think I'm there because I hold back. ALOT... could be because of my Taurus moon starting to come out because in the past? I was cutting people left and right or icing them out completely.

I'm a first decan scorp with scorpio rising/sun/venus/pluto/jupiter but I have elements such as gemini moon/libra mercury/leo mars that makes me better at communicating. Sometimes scorpios can really suck at communicating and they sting before thinking it through. I feel very patient with my stinger and give everyone an honest chance to defend themselves/explain themselves. If someone has hurt me deeply and there's no question about it, I have an insane amount of patience with getting back at them. I can plot for such a long time and then they won't know what hit them lol. I usually get more pleasure out of seeing a grand plan through and getting back at them twice as hard than letting my impulses get the best of me lol.

But I've personally found myself stinging friends who betray me or people who hurt my family. A friend betrayal is so much worse than a betrayal from a bf - because I'm always ready for someone in a relationship to hurt me, it's kind of a given that it's gonna happen at some point with everyone, it's what you sign up for in a weird way. But when friends go behind my back, they're done.

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I feel like everyone is allowed to fuck up which I forgive. Ecause I. See the human nature in their reaction

But when I've stung I've never been forgiven

That part hurts

I agree and I am very forgiving. I also believe that one should try to learn from those f-ups and not do it again.

In this past situation this man did this hmmm maybe about 6 times in 8 months. He knew what he was doing because when he would apologize he would say "I overstepped my bounds" and well, yes he did and did it too many times and I just couldn't stop remembering the bad things he did say to me when he was shouting at me. Way back I had that type of anger turn physical. I'm not going there again ever.

Yeah six times n saying can't change

Is too much

N plus it triggered your past relationship

Definately don't want that repeated

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lol yep

I guess we were both "triggered"

lol

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
It depends on what happened before the sting.

Elaborate please? What would be just a warning sting for you?

Lol my words do cut deep when I'm upset that's why I'm

Being much more careful about it nowadays. A warning sting is when I'm upset You gonna see it through my face specially my eyes without even saying anything people who knows me are aware of it.

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So will you say that if they argued with you back and forth and you wouldn't let them stop or kept going back and forth until they stopped or you didn't dissapear but they eventually stopped, then thats a warning sting?

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So I guess I'm the only scorp that has stung lol

Youre not alone, Ive done it numerous times, never knew I was stinging lol Thought I was doing me, looking out for me

I'm a great friend but could be your worst enemy.

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Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
It depends on what happened before the sting.

Elaborate please? What would be just a warning sting for you?

Lol my words do cut deep when I'm upset that's why I'm

Being much more careful about it nowadays. A warning sting is when I'm upset You gonna see it through my face specially my eyes without even saying anything people who knows me are aware of it.

So will you say that if they argued with you back and forth and you wouldn't let them stop or kept going back and forth until they stopped or you didn't dissapear but they eventually stopped, then thats a warning sting?

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My silence is the warning sting. Lol

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No that's just an argument LOL

Beware of the silence lol it's worse

Lol when I go silent goodluck reaching out.

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Also the mind bend and mind fuck. Whatever, man!!

I hate it.

I mean one cannot simply foolish a scorp moon. Lol

Ugh, tell me about it...they see and know e v e r y t h i n g.

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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
It depends on what happened before the sting.

Elaborate please? What would be just a warning sting for you?

Lol my words do cut deep when I'm upset that's why I'm

Being much more careful about it nowadays. A warning sting is when I'm upset You gonna see it through my face specially my eyes without even saying anything people who knows me are aware of it.

So will you say that if they argued with you back and forth and you wouldn't let them stop or kept going back and forth until they stopped or you didn't dissapear but they eventually stopped, then thats a warning sting?

My silence is the warning sting. Lol

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and what to do during that silence cuz i'm dealing with a lad who's giving me that cold treatment

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Posted by SPUNKYTAURUS

Posted by Evoxxxscorpio2
It depends on what happened before the sting.

Elaborate please? What would be just a warning sting for you?

Lol my words do cut deep when I'm upset that's why I'm

Being much more careful about it nowadays. A warning sting is when I'm upset You gonna see it through my face specially my eyes without even saying anything people who knows me are aware of it.

So will you say that if they argued with you back and forth and you wouldn't let them stop or kept going back and forth until they stopped or you didn't dissapear but they eventually stopped, then thats a warning sting?

My silence is the warning sting. Lol

and what to do during that silence cuz i'm dealing with a lad who's giving me that cold treatment

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lol you gonna have to find out what caused the silence. If you are the one responsible for it then it's best for you to make things right and apologize.

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Posted by Impulsv
I don't thinive given warning sting lol

It's like a reaction to build up I didn't know it was building

I'm learning to identify my feels better

Like

Waiting on test results

U scared but don't know it n think ok

Weeks later something minor happens n u snap until later u realize I've been on edge

Why peoplemifht not understand since it delayed reaction at times

I feel when you're able to channel it or learning to channel it then you're entering the Phoenix ... it's on the edge of just short of being a Phoenix. And I think I'm there because I hold back. ALOT... could be because of my Taurus moon starting to come out because in the past? I was cutting people left and right or icing them out completely.

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totally

I mean really peeps, why does one have to say things that are mean and not even true and has nothing to do with the situation at hand - why does one have to hurt another with words or deeds - to me there is no reason for it - I'm game just to enjoy getting to know you or hanging out with you but I'm not here to do harm ever - I am here to enjoy life.

I guess the Cap Moon expects everyone to have that philosophy but they don't - people out there are f'd up - insecure, jealous, envious, psychotic lol whatever - so yes, we do have to filter.

If someone says something to me that is not kosher, I smile and say oh ok and walk away wondering what the heck is wrong with that person but I don't backlash, backtalk, bob my head and utter obscenities. I like to keep it real. It is what it is and I choose my battles.

Recently I was at dinner with my guy and a black woman bumped into me from behind and said excuse me - although it was weird I didn't think anything of it until later when my guy said he heard her comment about my butt being soft like a pillow. I have a big round beautiful butt and she bumped into me on purpose to "feel" my butt - no sheet - I feel now like she needed to be fucked up and taught a big lesson that day - I should have just pulled down my pants and showed her that my butt wasn't fake but on the other hand I let it go to take the higher road. I'm sorry I was just born like this. People just need to stop all the stupid crap. They think they hurting now cause they don't have this or that - they gonna get hurt some day for not being grateful to God for what they are blessed with.