Pisces Woman Really want Scorpio Man, HELP!!

Hi, Im a pisces female madly in love with a scorpio man, He a little younger and happens to be a bestfriend of my brother but never really see him like that until lately when my brother came in town on military leave. I was interested in a scorpio man after reading about scorpio for a friend and became interested in at least getting to know a scorpio as i read scorpio and pisces have close bonds. I then hit him up on facebook and let him know that I always had the biggest crush on him, we then began conversating and he told me how he always liked me a thought i was beautiful but my brotger told him back then that he couldn't talk to me( That was years ago when they were still in school) Just going to add a few things between us and maybe somebody can tell me what to do.

1. He's done the STARE thing scorps supposedly do. While stopping by 3 in morn just to hug and kiss me, once there saying "he's not use to this" (I don't know what that means)

2. He's told me I seem like the perfect girl for him based on our conversations. He loves how I trust him (he's always tryna let me know he's not tryna play me) and i tell him I trust him.

3. I let him know that i really want him and is willing to wait, always letting him know i'm thinking about him or just saying hey or something to let him know i care. He response sometime by saying "miss you more" or "aww you so sweet yo"

4.He just got out of a relationship with a capricorn that he dated for two years and i know caps and scorps also make a great couple, and she was suppose to move out of state but wind up not taking the job and is basically staying, so i think he may want to hold on to her even though he claims she childish and don't trust him and he always wanted an older woman (me.)

He is now ignoring my calls (not tryna blow his phone up), not responding to messages i send, I mean I know they "test" people and all but i'm not the type to keep expressing my feelings and not getting any response...I know they are confusing at times and I feel he would be perfect for me but i also don't want to come in between him and his ex, if they are trying to rekindle..
I need help on whether to just back up and let him come to me, continue to show him how much i care and want him, or what—

Thanks..at least somebody could tell me something...I am maybe coming on too fast but I do know that we all like a chase or what we can't have :-) I just wanted to let him know my feelings so that maybe he can open up a little about his feelings towards me, we he said he feels like im the perfect for him, but now is just like "not there", then i feel like if this is a "test" how long will this keep going on..uuugghh
but I do believe he may still think about his ex because nobody can just fall out of love just like that, I hate she didn't take that job and is staying here. :-/

Scorpio's going to tell you how s/he feels when s/he's good and ready to, and not before.. even if you did already. It doesn't change the rate at which we open up. jsyk. Take Exo's advice, it is good.

Dang the thing with the ex is hard. Definitely something I don't usually get into..guys who just broke up that is. Never ends good for the new person.

I'm kinda going through the same thing, minus the ex. I think I may have come on to strong with the scorpio I like, texting him everytime he texted me and trying to hang out with him a lot. Now he doesn't text me at all unless I initiate it. You're not alone in that sense, but I can't say for sure if it will end well or not as I have yet to get the scorpio I like to commit either. Him and I are taking it slow and I'm willing to be patient and it sounds like you are too. Kudos to you.
I agree with exo. Just don't text him for a while, or at all for that matter. That's what I've been doing unless I need to know something or if I'm wishing him a happy holidays. If you see him out in public I'd still say hi and smile, but I just wouldn't treat him like he's the best thing to walk into your life hehe. Go out on other dates if you want, that's what I'm doing. He's the one whos not willing to commit yet 😛

@skyomish....Thanks for the advice..I just like for a man to flat out tell me they're not interested or now is not the right time, or something, If I ever meet another scorpio that I find interesting and we hit it off, I will definitely keep my feelings to myself, or any other man for that matter. I hate rejection and this situation definitely feel like it.

@happykitsune....I need to learn my lesson about these men just out of relationships, already had a bad experience and this one may not be good either. It looks like you and your scorp are at least talking, mines haven't returned phone calls, don't reply to messages or nothing..It only sucks because he made it seem like he was so interested and that I was the perfect girl, so i felt I could let MY guard down. Knowing scorps will be brutally honest, I thought If he said it, he meant it from the heart, but I'm definitely going to back off and not initiate conversation, not even the daily "How are you?" texts :-/

I think I may have come on to strong with the scorpio I like, texting him everytime he texted me and trying to hang out with him a lot. Now he doesn't text me at all unless I initiate it. You're not alone in that sense, but I can't say for sure if it will end well or not as I have yet to get the scorpio I like to commit either. Him and I are taking it slow and I'm willing to be patient and it sounds like you are too. Kudos to you.

Sounds like my Taurus. But.. he definitely wants to make sure I know he's not ignoring me, just busy. So idk. It is confusing. Where is VB?

...just a pm away ^.^ Love ya vb.