Responding to things (Page 2)

Posted by MrFirebird

Posted by scorp1110

Posted by DMV

Posted by everevolvingepithet
He won't tell you what hurts him given your mindset, and yeah a 3some behind his back makes you dirt I'd say, and to some degree that's correct (don't know how deep things were at that time), but it wasn't a clear decision as I remember. you were left alone at a party with two people canoodling and you joined in right ?
Not that clear cut if anything drunken and the sort of thing to get outta the way in the late teens/early twenties.
Have you entertained the thought that you may have been used for that reason ?
DOn't blame the booze or your friend either, the more you post the more it seems it all stems from you and furtermore the '1st place above all else' mentality that you tend to put across on the boards.
My own opinion is that you've been used and you're having trouble stomaching it, and personally I would never entertain anything of depth with a woman like that, if that truly is the case.
Hope this helps though.

what mindset is that?

the 3some was behind his back but im not ashamed of it and i wont apologize for it. he is not my man. i dont belong to him. he gets pissed off even when i dance or have a innocent conversation with other men; even with mutal male friends. he doesnt get to tell me what to do. the 3some would in fact make me dirt IF i was trying to be his girlfriend and in face acting all lovey dovey. lol, we werent even on speaking terms; his choice. he came to the party and didnt say one word to me. oh well, carry on.

i was drunk as a skunk. but i knew what i was doing. i take personal responsibility.

i think that we both fell in love with a fantasy and then reality set in. hard.

THIS DEFINITELY HURT him.

Is this the same thread where we were talkin' "love letters" and proper response—
then we read "3some" behind his back—?
Really, DMV, that's a shame. 😢

Explains why he don't fall for the letters.
Time for you to take personal responsibility for your actions.

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haha what?

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom

Posted by DMV
ive noticed that the scorp doesnt say ANYTHING when i send him love letters or when i tell him something special. he always acts disinterested. I KNOW he isnt disinterested because he reacts more so than opening his mouth and giving me feedback.

why is that?

Scorpios are probably the most negative sign there is. They are so used to being in the defensive and expecting the worst from people, that for instance the concept of positive reassurance seems totally foreign to them. Some people only feel the need of reacting to the negative and taking for granted the positive. Thats why in general I try to steer clear of lots of scorpios, and thats also the reason I like surrounding myself with positive people, like Sags.

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well i cant blame scorpios for their darkness. were ruled by two different planets. i can relate to their dark side at times.

even though i like drama, i like 'fun' much better. good times.

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Posted by scorp1110


Every time I come on here which is rarely for the past 8 months. There is always a new post on you and him.

and?

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What do you want from the scorp? What do you wish to achieve with him?

Posted by scorp1110

Posted by DMV

Posted by scorp1110


Every time I come on here which is rarely for the past 8 months. There is always a new post on you and him.

and?

What do you want from the scorp? What do you wish to achieve with him?

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why do you care lol? what r you, his mama?

@DMV

Lol, I see your angry and at this point your just using us dxp people to join your little game that you're losing at.

I don't have kids for a reason, so I rather not entertain one now.

On that note I wish you the best in your situations.

@scorp1110,

dont let your alligator mouth get you into something that your hummingbird ass cant get you out of. seriously, do you know how many people save my posts and rehash them from the grave? i thought you'd be more original than that. im disappointed. i have far worse posts than those lingering around. in your spare time, you can go look through them since i occupy so much of your time.

Step One: PM her to gauge the situation. Is she cold or hot? offer some help, she how she responds.
Step Two: Befriend on PM. Throw in a lil diddy about an old post to let her know your paying attention. but not too much, she may catch on.
Step Three: Go on a post and add some insightful POVs
Step Four: Wait till she's good and comfortable. Then go far left. catch her off guard. I've got her right where i want her.
Step Five: Open folder titled "THAT BITCH DMV." I'll show her!!! Got some ol posts in here, yes yes, this one will do fine. this one 2! I'm going to make her get my point.
Step Six: Accuse her of an emotion. I can tell she hates that shit. yes yes yes. oh yeah, she's gettin angry. good. fuckin hate this bitch. hopefully, some backup will arrive.

whats ironic, i've seen this pattern before.

Don't give me that "haha what?"

"the 3some was behind his back but im not ashamed of it and i wont apologize for it." - DMV

"ive noticed that the scorp doesnt say ANYTHING when i send him love letters or when i tell him something special. he always acts disinterested. I KNOW he isnt disinterested because he reacts more so than opening his mouth and giving me feedback.

why is that?" - DMV

DMV, Do you remotely comprehend what is wrong with this picture—

definitely. i am a feeler of emotions, he is a thinker of emotions. we differ in emotions and in egos. sometimes both of our egos cant fit in the same room. timing, timing, timing

my sag sun, venus in cap wants and needs a verbal "thank you" or "at least a bigger smile" if i give something to someone. not that i need a gift back, but some verbal expression of appreciation would be nice. 🙂 i get a tangible display of affection, but boy what i wouldnt give to hear it.

although, scorp moon can feel his thank you.

im learning to accept his difference and appreciate him for it. from time to time, i need to ask "why this?"

like on multiple occasions, we're at a party and we're both looking good. however, he will come up to me and tell me how jacked up i look or how i cant dance, something slick, in an attempt to either get me to sit down in a corner or get me to go home because he doesnt want other guys looking at me or talking to me. totally throws me off my game and successfully puts the focus back on him. like why try to diss me just to make you feel more confident? is it even confidence or just plain jealousy?

Posted by MrFirebird
Don't give me that "haha what?"

"the 3some was behind his back but im not ashamed of it and i wont apologize for it." - DMV

"ive noticed that the scorp doesnt say ANYTHING when i send him love letters or when i tell him something special. he always acts disinterested. I KNOW he isnt disinterested because he reacts more so than opening his mouth and giving me feedback.

why is that?" - DMV

DMV, Do you remotely comprehend what is wrong with this picture—

whoop whoop backup has arrived!

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Posted by Sag89
ya but when they do open up sometimes it too much

cause its not consistent. which probably means because the mate isnt being consistent. its like whose on first?

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insecure insecure! Than hey..LET ME FINALLY TELL YOU ABOUT IT. YOU SCARE ME. BUT I LOVE YOU. It's like...yea...no.

Deep down Elle hates being a scorpio, thats why all she ever talks about is her Aries moon 😛 heheh 😄

Don't give me that "haha what?" crap...
You said:

"the 3some was behind his back but im not ashamed of it and i wont apologize for it." - DMV

"ive noticed that the scorp doesnt say ANYTHING when i send him love letters or when i tell him something special. he always acts disinterested. I KNOW he isnt disinterested because he reacts more so than opening his mouth and giving me feedback.

why is that?" - DMV

DMV, Do you remotely comprehend what is wrong with this picture—

Deliah, is that you?

threesomes are great

I asked Sag how she felt about threesomes and Im so glad she said if she ever did one it would be 2 girls one boy and never 2 guys one girl 😄

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I asked Sag how she felt about threesomes and Im so glad she said if she ever did one it would be 2 girls one boy and never 2 guys one girl 😄

do u want to have one with her?

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I asked Sag how she felt about threesomes and Im so glad she said if she ever did one it would be 2 girls one boy and never 2 guys one girl 😄

thats cause she wants a chick haha jk

I've never done it before but I'm open to the idea, seems pretty exciting, so if the opportunity presents itself where its with a girl we both trust and find attractive..why not? Sag has kissed girls many times (no sex though) so she's not really that prudish either.

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Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
I asked Sag how she felt about threesomes and Im so glad she said if she ever did one it would be 2 girls one boy and never 2 guys one girl 😄

thats cause she wants a chick haha jk

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LMAO

Plus in typical Sag fashion, she tells all her sexually frustrated female friends about our sex life and some have even asked her to "rent" me for a night lol

Posted by Ellybean
I think sags were made for threesomes lol. That and gems too. Gem guys and girls I meet are always down for whatever. Must be something about that zodiacal axis. There's a new chick I hang out with and I think SHE'S got to be a sag. She talks about any and everything, is the most sexually free individual I know, highly intellectual yet completely down to hang out with, and blunt as all hell. Our mural friend swears she's a Scorpio or aqua. But I think with all that out there sexuality and fiery passion she's got to be a sag. Maybe with a pinch a scorp in her, cause she does have an unique emotional streak but girl oozes sexuality without even trying. She gets hit up for threesomes and dates just when we're out eatin breakfast or grabbing coffee! Lol.

i told my boss that i get picked up at the gas station most of the time. she laughed at me.

i met this scorpio dude the other day, i swear he was a sag. he talked about traveling, different cultures. he even dressed like a sag. everyone else is in business casual. he strolls in wearing cut off shorts and a t shirt to a mixer and the girls go gaga over him, including myself.

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Plus in typical Sag fashion, she tells all her sexually frustrated female friends about our sex life and some have even asked her to "rent" me for a night lol

uh oh. she's bragging about you 😛

Heheh yeah, either that or she's taking the first steps towards finding suitable threesmome partner 😛

I agree about the "effortless" sexual aura that Sag girls have, and unlike the scorpio one, it seems pretty welcoming..

Posted by Ellybean
Shaka and the sag how sweet! 😄 reading your Lil love story so far has been awesome. Throw in a threesome it'll be the next juicy moden romance.

Hehehe Im really glad you and others have enjoyed reading it, things have gone so well that people have stopped commenting on my thread cause I guess only drama-filled stories are exciting lol

Posted by BoomShakalakaBoom
Heheh yeah, either that or she's taking the first steps towards finding suitable threesmome partner 😛

i didnt think that venus in scorps would be down with 3somes.

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Posted by Ellybean
Shaka and the sag how sweet! 😄 reading your Lil love story so far has been awesome. Throw in a threesome it'll be the next juicy moden romance.

Hehehe Im really glad you and others have enjoyed reading it, things have gone so well that people have stopped commenting on my thread cause I guess only drama-filled stories are exciting lol

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i still read em 🙂 its like erotica

Yeah me neither, though she has never said she truly wants a threesome, we were just playing with the idea the other day and she seemed open to it. Thats all.

But DMV, I think her moon in Pisces being very accepting of things/idea's/people kind of overpowers the Venus in Scorpio. I Looveee her Pisces moon, with all of the Virgo in me we just seem to have the most amazing intuitive bond.

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Posted by Ellybean
Shaka and the sag how sweet! 😄 reading your Lil love story so far has been awesome. Throw in a threesome it'll be the next juicy moden romance.

Hehehe Im really glad you and others have enjoyed reading it, things have gone so well that people have stopped commenting on my thread cause I guess only drama-filled stories are exciting lol

i still read em 🙂 its like erotica

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hahah, I hope the part where I talked about going to the doctor didnt screw the momentum 😛

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Posted by Ellybean
Shaka and the sag how sweet! 😄 reading your Lil love story so far has been awesome. Throw in a threesome it'll be the next juicy moden romance.

Hehehe Im really glad you and others have enjoyed reading it, things have gone so well that people have stopped commenting on my thread cause I guess only drama-filled stories are exciting lol

i still read em 🙂 its like erotica

hahah, I hope the part where I talked about going to the doctor didnt screw the momentum 😛

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naw. thats the virgo in you. completely acceptable.

That's why you don't do shit for them and let them come to you and ask for it. Hell when I was dating my Scorpio I was like to hell with that bullshit. You do it on your own they are like (shrugs) you don't do it and they come at you full force like DON'T YOU LIKE MEEEEEE! *Scary weird look stare with the crazy googly eyes*

Posted by Ellybean
Sag ladies do have that vibe. I get it weakly for the rising, though mine is more so bubbly than sexual. It's very evident in person, less so on the Internet lol. Every sag gal I know has it strong though. It gets misinterpreted as slutty a lot. Thy vine is probably why DMV's scorp says things to throw her off, he doesn't want other men sniffing up around her. Even my scorp who is totally relaxed an has never really Been jealous at all recently said that I should choose a more conservative Halloween dress if I'm going to a party without him. I was kinda shocked he has never showed an iota of jealousy in the past year and half. I thought "damn you are a Scorpio down in there somewhere. " Guess that aqua rising and libra moon was finally overruled by the scorpioness in him.

Yeah dxp was made for drama. I've posted happy thread and astro thread and I just don't have the touch for making them last lol. I think a lot do enjoy reading it though at least I did speaking from my own selfish imposed world view. 😛

halloween has become sooo slutty.

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Posted by Ellybean
Shaka and the sag how sweet! 😄 reading your Lil love story so far has been awesome. Throw in a threesome it'll be the next juicy moden romance.

Hehehe Im really glad you and others have enjoyed reading it, things have gone so well that people have stopped commenting on my thread cause I guess only drama-filled stories are exciting lol

i still read em 🙂 its like erotica

hahah, I hope the part where I talked about going to the doctor didnt screw the momentum 😛

naw. thats the virgo in you. completely acceptable.

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Ok, I promise to be more graphic in the next few sex updates lol

Posted by Xin
That's why you don't do shit for them and let them come to you and ask for it. Hell when I was dating my Scorpio I was like to hell with that bullshit. You do it on your own they are like (shrugs) you don't do it and they come at you full force like DON'T YOU LIKE MEEEEEE! *Scary weird look stare with the crazy googly eyes*

i cant help it though 🙂 im a gift giver. i have a need to give. i dont like receing though.

Yeah I also get a lot more satisfaction from giving than receiving, even though I do love receiving too!

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by DMV
ive noticed that the scorp doesnt say ANYTHING when i send him love letters or when i tell him something special. he always acts disinterested. I KNOW he isnt disinterested because he reacts more so than opening his mouth and giving me feedback.

why is that?

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I freeze personally. Don't know why. The only explanation I can give is...actually too personal, but the love is felt and shared. I just express it through my actions not a lot of flowery words. I'm not Shakespeare FFS. If you "know" he isn't disinterested when you do these things than just ride it. Don't let it bother you so much. Better yet, ask him why he doesn't say anything.

it doesnt like keep me up at night...but its just interesting ya know? like you said, you have to feel the under currents of the emotions. not so much what comes out of their mouth.

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Oh I didn't think that you were losing sleep over this at all. Have you asked him? What does he say?

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ive noticed that the scorp doesnt say ANYTHING when i send him love letters or when i tell him something special. he always acts disinterested. I KNOW he isnt disinterested because he reacts more so than opening his mouth and giving me feedback.

why is that?

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I freeze personally. Don't know why. The only explanation I can give is...actually too personal, but the love is felt and shared. I just express it through my actions not a lot of flowery words. I'm not Shakespeare FFS. If you "know" he isn't disinterested when you do these things than just ride it. Don't let it bother you so much. Better yet, ask him why he doesn't say anything.

it doesnt like keep me up at night...but its just interesting ya know? like you said, you have to feel the under currents of the emotions. not so much what comes out of their mouth.

Oh I didn't think that you were losing sleep over this at all. Have you asked him? What does he say?

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no i havent asked him. a part of me feels like it would be reaching or fishing for a compliment ya know? most of the time when i ask him things i get a blank stare. i kid you not. he just stares at me like i have 2 heads. when i ask him about something superficial, oh man, he can talk to the day is long! ask him something special, f'n crickets. then i either slap him softly in the face and smile or i grab his hand and squeeze it. "its ok, its ok. everything will be okay. we'll get through this."

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f'n crickets. then i either slap him softly in the face and smile or i grab his hand and squeeze it. "its ok, its ok. everything will be okay. we'll get through this."

My Lil heart just went awwwwwwuh.

DMV you probably confuse the hell outta him. Keep him on his toes. Probably keeps him hanging around too.

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ooo youve discovered my secret. i just may have to kill you now 😛

Can I watch? in other words..how about a foursome? 😄

Ellybean you are the best scorpio 🙂