Scorp feelings

Hi all!

Just a question, is it possible that you can be good friends with a married scorp male without their feelings getting involved?

If you can get passed their crying, bitching and brooding every few days when their feelings get hurt, then sure. I have one or two Scorpio male friends and their emotions get in the way of a meaningful friendship at times...like, it's almost sickening how much those guys FEEL everything. "wah wah wah, my girlfriend is spending the night with her granny and her ex lives near by, and she didn't answer my calls and she's carrying my baby! wah wah wah!! I wish life would just end already, let me drink another one" I mean, I get it, but...I don't know, they're definitely not for everyone I guess. Good luck!

^^ yes, it does take an act of destiny for us (taurus) to leave once we're committed, definitely. but also, it's probably just as unlikely (for me anyway) that I fall in love with a woman like that...that once in a lifetime kind of love.

anyway, yeah, scorpio guys are cool..er weird...but definitely know how to have a good time and have good conversations about stuff--when they aren't crying about something, of course 😉

if you just want to be friends, go for it I say! just don't let their unusual behavior throw you off or cause you to fall in love/lust.

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Posted by MadamCrab

Just a question, is it possible that you can be good friends with a married scorp male without YOUR feelings getting involved?

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Haha! See that's why I love you guys.

My feelings were on fire long ago...but I don't do affairs.
I'm curious about his behind that cool mask

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Posted by eyeofthebull
If you can get passed their crying, bitching and brooding every few days when their feelings get hurt, then sure. I have one or two Scorpio male friends and their emotions get in the way of a meaningful friendship at times...like, it's almost sickening how much those guys FEEL everything. "wah wah wah, my girlfriend is spending the night with her granny and her ex lives near by, and she didn't answer my calls and she's carrying my baby! wah wah wah!! I wish life would just end already, let me drink another one" I mean, I get it, but...I don't know, they're definitely not for everyone I guess. Good luck!

If you have a Scorp male who says those things... Consider yourself lucky!

Not too many Male Scorps are comfortable admitting they actually have feelings, let alone spilling them out for all to see. It just doesn't happen.

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I get the occassional 'poor me' rant, but while I don't buy into it much, I do have that stupid, 'I'm-cancer-wanna-nurture-you' feeling.

He is intense, but then so am I.
None of his traits that others complain about bothers me in the slightest. I find it easy to take it with a pinch of salt, yet from anyone else it would totally bother me.

Posted by MadamCrab
Hi all!

Just a question, is it possible that you can be good friends with a married scorp male without their feelings getting involved?

i'm sorry but this is a ridiculous question. it's not even astro relevant! if you are 'good friends' with a married person and you are not also at least on speaking terms with their spouse, then there's an obvious agenda involved and you WILL get hurt.

if it's all in the open, there's absolutely no problem. i have numerous male friends who have gotten married in the time i've known them and i know their gfs and wives as friends also.

the sheer fact you asked implies the former is the case in your situation. feelings can only ever become involved between a man and a women if they are given the room and opportunity to develop. if you continue to seek a 'friendship' with him that is a secret from his WIFE....you will get everything you BOTH deserve.

Posted by MadamCrab
Hi all!

Just a question, is it possible that you can be good friends with a married scorp male without their feelings getting involved?

Highly doubt it! Sooner or later you'll be having something goin on whether you both admit it or not!!! 😢

Posted by MadamCrab
Hi all!

Just a question, is it possible that you can be good friends with a married scorp male without their feelings getting involved?

My very best friend in a Scorpy male - going on 10 years now. I am also good friends with his wife - which is a must. It is very possible unless your or his feelings are involved in any kindof romantic way or his wife is unaware of the friendship.