Scorp Women and Cancer Men.....Do they work—? (Page 2)

Message posted by: tanya023 on 4/11/2007 9:26:23 AM ip: xxx.xxx.xxx.142
No one said scorpio + baggage MM.

Uffff..I meant emotional baggage...LOL..

I don't have Gem friends..only the one...she's more of a drinking buddy...she goes in and out of relationships as if men were going out of existence...Stil..its her life..

Yes..thats fine..I just wish she would break up with one before indulging in another..but her life..

Unfortunately most female gems I have come across are of the two-faced nature...and well..I can't tolerate that in a friend..ever..

Yeah Tanya..I have told this one that I wouldn't trust her around any men of mine..she was shocked..but I said you don't stop at anything to get a bit of attention....(she doesn't) But she still wants me in her life..so thats cool...

Yeah she has been very good after that little conversation..she really does make the effort..and is very endearing in her ways towards me..As much as I don't trust her, she is a good laugh

LOL..I will remember that one..I am gonna carry a plaque "mature geminis wanted"

🙂

You guys know how to have fun..thats fo sho

Hahahha @ tanya...yeah we love our booze

Yes and my aries has just come online so i am doing the offs too

Hey bluey...night bluey!

xxxx

Scorpio male/gem female works out quite well..the other way around, disaster..

You better believe it! My ex called me last night after months of not talking. Wound up on the phone with him for 3.5 hours! I'm like "What the hell, I have to go to work"! I don't have time to be your psychologist for the evening. All he did was yammer on about his "baby mama". Then fixed his mouth to say he wants a baby with me!

Is it something in the water?

Then I called my lovely Cancer-he doesn't pick up and has yet to return the call! Ugh-MEN!

I have a very high tolerance level for alcohol..

I love the stuff...but its not to overcome any hang ups etc..I just do it to have a blast..Can't wait for Friday!..

Prison break is very good...especially that Wentworth miller or whatever his name is..

Prison Break is the bomb! I'm addicted to that show. Now we gotta wait 4.5 months until Season 3 starts. 😢

LOL @ Capangel...I guess it helps in your situation too somewhat?

😛

LOL... I love smart hot men like Wentworth's character, Michael. He's so yummy.

MMMMMMMMMMMmmmmmmm

I thought it was "shut" the door....hmmmm

It doesn't work. Cancer's energy is too feminine (moon etc) for the Mars-ruled more masculine, warrior-like Scorpio. It can work wonderfully when the woman is Cancer and the man is Scorpio though.

I was the man in the relationship with my Cancer guy! Arghhh...

"It doesn't work. Cancer's energy is too feminine (moon etc) for the Mars-ruled more masculine, warrior-like Scorpio. It can work wonderfully when the woman is Cancer and the man is Scorpio though."

Gotta agree with that.. I've known quite a few cancer males and I really can't see myself with any one of them, but that's only one of the reasons why. I also consider them to be a bit too selfish for my liking. Just my two cents.

"It doesn't work. Cancer's energy is too feminine (moon etc) for the Mars-ruled more masculine, warrior-like Scorpio. It can work wonderfully when the woman is Cancer and the man is Scorpio though."

Warrior like? Please, Cancer can be true warriors and/or leaders when it matters. Patriotic, protective and they usually know how to defend themselves. You might call them "feminine" because they might seem "soft" if they open up to you or people dear to them, but when the situation comes, you might see a different kind of animal.

I'd fight the whole world for my girl but because I like to open up with her I'm supposed to be a woman? If you were a guy I'd dare you to say it to my face and you'd find out how much of a woman I am.....Ehmm come to think of it women tend to have quite a bit of fire in them so you might be right after all in cancer males being a feminine energy, but that might be more warrior like than you might think.

By the way wasn't Kafka a cancer male? 😄

Wait, I don't believe in astrology at all. Disregard the whole message, if you weren't going to already. 😛

"Warrior like? Please, Cancer can be true warriors and/or leaders when it matters. Patriotic, protective and they usually know how to defend themselves. You might call them "feminine" because they might seem "soft" if they open up to you or people dear to them, but when the situation comes, you might see a different kind of animal."

I agree with you in general but in relationships, cancer's do tend to be a little "soft" at least initially. What do I mean by "soft":
1. It's the refusing to deal with disagreements. Instead of talking them out, "most" (if not all) run into their shells until they're ready to come out and face the issue. When they do come out (who knows how long they're going to stay in there) they do not deal with the issue at all, they want to pretend it didn't happen at all.
2. It's the being hurt/upset about something and assumming the other person knows why they're upset. If we ask, then we run into #1 again.

I am by no means saying cancer men are soft individuals to the masses, but when you are dealing with Cancer men/Scorp women, the Scorp does tend to be the masculine force in the relationship at least initially. Scorps are more direct, when something bothers us we say it. We want it out in the open so it can be dealt with and over. The whole waiting until he's ready to talk is very frustrating. If you disagree with me, go to the cancer board there are a million posts about this very thing.

The Scorp woman just has to deal with it long enough for the Cancer mans "balls drop" in the relationship, when that happens then your description of the Cancer man comes into play. The chemistry between the two is undeniable but this combination takes some work. Especially in the beginning. Of course I am basing my opinion on my relationship with my Cancer bf, but since I've been coming to this site for "support" 🙂 I realized that it's not just him. This is a bonafide Cancer male trait. So yes, I agree with Kafka the Cancer male is the more feminine in relationships.

"People - before you start talking out of your a $ $ , get your facts straight.

Scorpio is a water sign, fixed, negative. Night forces are feminine (and the same as Cancer's)."

I have no idea with "night forces" means, I am not a student of astrology I just believe in it. My post is coming from personal experience so these are my facts.