Scorpio.

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by thescorpiowoman on Thursday, December 10, 2015 and has 12 replies.

Understanding Scorpio's Sexual Comments

Scorpios often make sexual comments when they feel comfortable or attracted to someone. Such behavior varies based on individual personality and relationship context. If you are unsure, consider how he communicates with others and if his comments make you uncomfortable. Clear boundaries can help clarify his intentions and your comfort level.

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@thescorpiowoman
11 Years

For a fact, I know that Scorpios make sexual comments. But, is it with almost everyone or just someone they're attracted to ? I have a Scorpio guy friend (very close to me) and he usually makes sexual comments whenever we're alone or talking on the phone. Is that something I should be worrying about or just let it slip out as him being too comfortable with me ?

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@thescorpiowoman
11 Years

Posted by thescorpiowoman
For a fact, I know that Scorpios make sexual comments. But, is it with almost everyone or just someone they're attracted to ? I have a Scorpio guy friend (very close to me) and he usually makes sexual comments whenever we're alone or talking on the phone. Is that something I should be worrying about or just let it slip out as him being too comfortable with me ?

Also, he's being very touchy lately. He never was this before, considering the fact that he had a girlfriend then. He recently broke up with her after four years. Ever since that, I've been observing such changes in him.

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@thescorpiowoman
11 Years

Posted by SassyKiwi
From experience, they can do it with friends in general and more so with people they're attracted to. If he's getting touchy, it could be interest.

Interest in what sense ? Because he usually insists that I'm just his friend.

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@MsTeeq1974
12 Years1,000+ Posts

Romantic interest. Guys tend to have some kind of sexual interest in their female friends...especially if it's uncharted territory or if he's a young buck. It takes time for some guys to have female friends that they're NEVER attracted to and even then some guys never outgrow this proclivity.

Basically if you offered him up the gap, he wouldn't turn it down. That doesn't mean that he necessarily wants a relationship or that he's going to be dishonest in order to get in your panties. Just realize that if you did want to have sex with him, he probably would do it and please don't take that out of context...please.

Again, that doesn't mean he has feelings for you and want to be in a relationship with you. Guys are just....I mean...we're all hormonal, but guys have testosterone, which makes them sexually charged, but not bad people. OMG....I really hope you don't take that out of context. It's a biological thing...not a personality thing.

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@SassyKiwi
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Posted by thescorpiowoman

Posted by SassyKiwi
From experience, they can do it with friends in general and more so with people they're attracted to. If he's getting touchy, it could be interest.

Interest in what sense ? Because he usually insists that I'm just his friend.

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Honestly, if you want to know whether he just wants you to hook up with or for a serious relationship, look at how much he opens up to you and wants to get to know you. See if it's more than all the sexual tension he's trying to create.

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@thescorpiowoman
11 Years

Posted by SassyKiwi

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Posted by SassyKiwi
From experience, they can do it with friends in general and more so with people they're attracted to. If he's getting touchy, it could be interest.

Interest in what sense ? Because he usually insists that I'm just his friend.

Honestly, if you want to know whether he just wants you to hook up with or for a serious relationship, look at how much he opens up to you and wants to get to know you. See if it's more than all the sexual tension he's trying to create.

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We've been best friends for almost a year now, and he shares almost everything. Every detail. Even before all of this sexual tension.

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@Udylaw1
10 Years

Firstly he just broke up with his Gf I hope he doesn't want to make u his rebound girl.secondly Scorpios are sexual and they make sexual comments a lot,mostly with people they are attracted to.If you like him and you like it ..enjoy it.If you are uncomfortable with it ,tell him.Make no mistake he won't hesitate to get in your panties if you give him that chance.

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@thescorpiowoman
11 Years

Posted by starwars
Sharing everything and opening up doesnt ncessary means he wants relationship either, the one ive mention share everything with me and vice versa, weve been friends for +7 years. I dont know about yours though. What is his moon? Its weird that he opened up too quickly.

I never mentioned relationship. That would be the last thought on my mind.

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@thescorpiowoman
11 Years

Posted by Udylaw1
Firstly he just broke up with his Gf I hope he doesn't want to make u his rebound girl.secondly Scorpios are sexual and they make sexual comments a lot,mostly with people they are attracted to.If you like him and you like it ..enjoy it.If you are uncomfortable with it ,tell him.Make no mistake he won't hesitate to get in your panties if you give him that chance.

I'll probably do as you've told. Thank you.

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@thescorpiowoman
11 Years

Posted by starwars
What kind of comments does he make? My scorpio buddy likes making sexual jokes and such, he's like that with everyone really. its who he is as a person lol. To me, hes more sweet than 'sexual', i know hes not attrachted to me vice versa. I dont even think about it.

He cracks sexual jokes and I do that too. But, there's a fine line between jokes and comments. Well, there had been this one time where he brought up being friends with benefits with me, more like aa suggestion ; he laughed later.. Though I laughed it off, I found it quite odd. And then again, when he makes sexual comments or any sort of that, I usually tag him as shameless and he goes, "I don't bother being shameless around you."

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@thescorpiowoman
11 Years

Posted by Arielle83
I just think they are cheeky, bratty and weird.

They can be weird and shocking about all sorts of subjects.

It comes out in a cheeky way though. Teasing.

I see it as a banter battle. If they talk sexual, so will I.

Teasing as in ? I'd like to know your precise definition.