Scorpio and friends with benefits

What do you think of it? Ever slept with friends and came unscathed from the experience? How was it?

I can't for the life of me imagine myself sleeping with a friend and not expect something more afterwards. I've had fuck buddies but never kept contact with them on the regular or consider them as friend even as they bagged themselves a girlfriend. I'm too invested in my friendships to just be able to have casual sex with them, it'd be too intense at least on my part.

I'm asking anyone with scorpio energy, sun, moon, mars, venus, etc.

Yuk. No way. Could never sleep with someone who was in my friend category. I don't do fwb. I don't have a fuck buddy either. I don't do one offs anymore either as I can't be arsed an they're all pretty crap anyway. When I did it would be once and never again. Cut contact. I wouldn't want to bring any of the shit to my door that goes with shagging friends etc. Some lines shouldn't be crossed. I've thought about it once or twice with a few people, not friends but more work colleagues but I don't see the point as I'd end up being or getting too emotionally invested in it all and then be hurt... Who needs that headache??

Is this really what Scorps want though?

Posted by LunarMaiden
Is this really what Scorps want though?

I don't think it's typical Scorpio behaviour to do that but I was curious about how it ended up with those that tried. I think a part of them do want it but don't want to do it, haha.

Posted by liya-b
What do you think of it?

I don't.

Posted by humbleknight

Posted by LunarMaiden
Is this really what Scorps want though?

I think that a Scorpio could imagine that is what they want.....Fact of the matter is more often than not we want more than just that.....Anyone who says they could settle for less is not being honest with himself or has other planetary influences that override their true nature.....That being said there is nothing saying we cannot have a private side that we keep to ourselves.....In that case we just make it harder on ourselves to keep that relationship distant from our hearts.

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Perhaps you can explain further because I'm not understanding how you're separating the two. Their "true nature" is a reflection of planetary influence. One of the reasons we don't approach things in life the same way.