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20 Years
Scorpio and refusing sex
Understanding Scorpio's Response to Rejection in Intimate Situations
Scorpios value trust and emotional connection. If you refuse sex, they may feel disappointed but will generally respect your boundaries if communicated honestly. They might interpret prolonged refusal as a lack of genuine interest, but they are capable of understanding and respecting your pace. Clear communication can prevent misunderstandings and foster mutual respect.
Wait seven years to get intimate? Ha! I wont even go 10 months. Fuck 'em al I say.
"it's OKAAAY to like it and it's OKAAAY to do it when ever you want!
Same goes for men too. 🙂 God knows I am not chained down to anyone anymore.
I actually think that a scorpio truly determined to have someone, in any manner be it physical, or be it on a deeper level (or both) will not give up until they have that person. That's not to say it's right, that it would last, or that it will end up being worth either person's time, effort or resistance. I'm saying that a scorpio who really wants something will never, EVER give up until they acquire it. Ever. Determination is one of our strongest attributes.
But clearly if he becomes a jerk, cut him out of your life, because he will end up cutting you out of his if he is already going to treat you badly and you haven't even had the sex...lol...
Times change. I'll find out how serious she is soon enough.
A relationship shouldn't be work 24/7. I put her up to a test and it's very simple. It's up to her though but I miss the good times rather than the work. I want us to be together and happy forever. I have a feeling she'll fail my test though. In which case, I'll have to be done.
I'm afraid I shouldn't be so open about this one. You're right, she just might have what it takes. It's about cutting off contact with a certain someone, really. She is far too wonderful for me to just give up. Even if she fails it I probably wont be able to let go.
Which, ultimately, was what I was getting at in the last post, TB. I don't mind her ex having contact with her kids or even her. I know she doesn't want to but as a man, I feel I owe it to him not to cut him off. I was talking about someone else. But I was pretty vague, wasen't I?
Anyway, we'll see what happens. It's pretty stupid to pretend to act positive when I damn well know what the outcome will be. Wish I was 30 😢. I know Scorpios are obsessive by nature but DAYUM! I'm pretty fucking bad! Lol!
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If a Scorpio is extremely turned on by you/comes on way too strong and you are interested but refuse to have sex with him until you get to know him better, will he take this as a rejection and attempt to get back at you? Will he hate you for refusing to have sex with him after, say, two months of knowing each other (on and off)?