Scorpio and Scorpio Rising relationships

We admitted to each other that we can drive each other Crazy but we love each other so much that he wants to marry me within a year. Can someone tell me why the craziness between us? He doesn't show jealousy, why am i more jealous than he?

His: Sun- Scorpio
Rising- Scorpio
Moon- Aries
Mercury- Libra
Venus- Sagitarius
Mars- Virgo
Jupiter- Virgo

Me: Sun- Aquarius
Rising- Scorpio
Moon- Virgo
Mercury- Aquarius
Venus- Pisces
Mars- Aries
Jupiter- Sagitarius

Thanks Elena, guess that explains why also he doesn't take much seriously, i'm the more serious one, I guess too that explains why i feel he's a flirt. he says he doesn't flirt he's just likes being sociable.wow

Venus- Sagitarius....NOOOOOOOOOOO

y u say it's so bad?

Players...Game, Game and MO Game...I'm just recovering from one...Gawd neva again!

for the most part it is a very good description of Venus in Sagittarius.
People born with their Venus in Sagittarius are affectionate, friendly and demonstrative. They are carefree and somewhat undependable when it comes to relationships. Sociable, humorous and flirtatious they tend not to take things too seriously. Partners who have white picket fence dreams in mind had better avoid this sign. Independent, it is hard for them to be tied to a relationship that might hamper their freedom. If they are to be in a relationship, it has to start slow and build up over time. Even then, there's a chance this person will be uncomfortable once the turn has been made into more serious territory. They may grow nervous and turn an eye towards the door once they begin to feel restricted. Even if they seem happy, they may be drawing up exit strategies in the back of their mind.

Idealistic and honest, they would not cheat on a partner they had pledged fidelity to. That isn't saying that they won't just up and leave. They will never promise to stay forever- even if they somehow do manage to make a lifelong partnership. Their ideas and beliefs are extremely important to them. If a relationship is going to even stand a slight chance of lasting, they will need a partner that shares their views on the issues of the world- or at least someone that is willing to convert to those beliefs. Sagittarius is not known for making great personal sacrifices or compromises. If a partner expects them to change, they had better not hold their breath.

These people make much better friends than lovers. They are cheerful and easy to be around and to feel affection for. If a partner can approach the relationship like a deep friendship and allow the person with their Venus in Sagittarius room to express their freedom, a good partnership can be formed. It will take a secure partner to know and understand that when this person goes roaming out on their own it is not because they don't feel anything for what they have at home. There's just a whole wide world to see and they are afraid they might miss some of it during their short time on this planet. If a partner understands enough, they might even be invited to go along on many of the adventures

my personal advice is let him make majority of moves while you're doing your own thing. let him call 1st, make plans 1st, tell you he loves you 1st, let him bring the relationship talk 1st , let him wonder why you're not doing any of that "woman's" relationship stuff. if you can give him all the freedom he wants and more. i learned it the hard way and now i'm so much happier. don't take him that seriously and even tell him that you're looking at him as a great fun partner in the moment and see how he reacts. treat him like it's the last time you're going to be with him. if he loves you and wants to be with you then he'll come around and he'll start proofing to you that he's the one for you. mine is driving me insane and i don't know what the hell he does most of the time . but he's with almost every night and he acts like it's normal. at 1st he was uncomfortable but now he comes at my place without callig like it's his place. they're totally f-up in the heads!!!!! if you can deal with it then fine if you can't then don't torture yourself. i take it as it comes now😉

"they're totally f-up in the heads!!!!!"

LMAO Ariesgirl, you are too funny got me rolling,.. we've been in a relationship for 3 years i just never knew why he doesn't take much too seriously ,.this gets me mad sometimes because you want ur man to talk serious sometime right? and he's not really jealous about me. Its like i'm having a lightbulb moment because now i'm understanding his behavior. Is ur scorp jealous about you?

yes aries girl..lol

I think I dealt with mine so long becuz I need a lo of space as well..Space wasnt an issue for me, HIS HEAD WAS...

Oh he's jealous...lol..TRUST ME!

yep elena, put myself throught my self induced hell. then laughed at myself for doing that. well, i am a woman after all😉 now, the more he resists the serious relatioship and i'm not ready to be we couple thing the more he runs towards me. i'm a bit pushing him back and tell him that i'm not pushing him into anything and not 100% sure myself. actually, he's turning me off a bit and i calmed down and will do what needs to be done for me. i know he loves me and wants to be with me. and there is no guarantees for anything. couple married for 10 years with kids get divorced left and right so, i accepted no guarantee part and time will show where we're going to be in a month, 2 or a year. so much better now!!!🙂 not to see that i don't stress about it

he's not jealous at all. never asks me where i've been and what i'm doing. i even asked him why not? he said he feels like he can trust me and doesn't have to check on me. he knows what insecurities ppl have and he does everything to avoid having insecurities show.

good advice is always appreciated😉 yes, my moon sucks!!! wish i had a sagi moon

muah to all of you 😉

yes, sagi moons are confusing. it's like i don't believe in exclusive relationship and managomy but i want to be with you and don't want to sleep with anyone else and don't want you to have anyone else either. it's like i want you/go away/stay with me/give me my freedon/don't go away game lmao

Ok my ex have sag moon and venus in sag...LMAO...Crazy Bastard!

how crazzzzzzyyyyyyy—??

Head game crazy, tantrum crazy...crazy crazy sex that can scare da shit outta ya...Every darn day it's some new..

YUP...I think Nov scorpio's are calmer than Oct scorps.

Jack and Jill story is the truth!!!!!!!!!

Elena I sort of seen that story in dealing with him and the stuff he was doing to his ex

mine has a sagi moon and sage venus. so feel sorry for me lmao

Yeah I do feel sorry for you. You must be kinda sadistic yourself, lmao...

Elena you called my situation to T...I was hard headed tho! lol! LIVE N LEARN..

is there an easy sign to be around? 😉 thanx for support!!!!

you guys are scaring me lol, sheeze mayb with my scorpio being double scorp tones him down abit

Double scorp w/venus in sag does that make him worse?

certaintly doesn't make him better

Ariesgirl you have the right attitude either way we'll both get through this, main thing is us not loosing ourselves.😉

Well yeah, his mind was wild...I was thinking what n da hell..
Ask Elena she know's...Cap moon and Scorp Venus...Elenaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

"lmao...the more scorpio in the chart...the better to hide...especially when you have fire thrown in."

Elena are you saying the better to hide his emotions?

"so I really dunno how to express his emotions in words...except...there are moments I've wondered wtf—"

Dang Elena so you dont know how he will reaction from oneday to next girl i applaud you, 20 years? You're a strong woman😉🙂

One day he loves you.
The next day he like you
Friday your his heart.

Okie dokie...

That shit piss me off..*Rollin Eyes*

basically doesn't matter what venus is in the scorp men are all freaks in their own way 😉

hey, you're a girl and that might be different😉 do you actually show that you're "territorial" or you just flirt and demand and expect to have your freedom and relationship on your terms. what sing are you btw?

more info on venus in sagi:

Venus in Sagittarius

If Venus is in the sign Sagittarius then you love with an adventurous spirit and searching mind. You need freedom in love, that's for certain. Any forced commitment or overbearing lover is likely to send you running for the hills. But at the same time, if a romantic partner can engage your higher mind and click with your ideals and beliefs then you might never get that itch to escape. Then you know you've found a soul mate. Venus in Sagittarius attracts others easily through a fun loving personality and infectious sense of optimism and idealism. Venus in Sagittarius will need a sense of humor in love and may tire easily if romance or sex becomes too predictable.

ok. i'm getting a bit obsessive now lmao
here is info on my scorp, hopefully some of you'll find it useful

Mars in Taurus - Venus in Sagittarius
With Mars in Taurus you have a steady, enduring stream of energy that doesn't rush but always finishes what is started. In love and sex you're capable of keeping the fire lit all night long. You don't need anything fancy to get you in the mood since you're the most sensuous of all the signs. In fact, physical pleasure is essential to your well being and Mars in Taurus will aggressively pursue achieving this gratification. Mars in this sign endows you with great perseverance and determination. In your sexual relationships you desire someone who isn't inhibited with the earthy, lustful act of two bodies engaged in pure animal delight.
If Venus is in the sign Sagittarius then you love with an adventurous spirit and searching mind. You need freedom in love, that's for certain. Any forced commitment or overbearing lover is likely to send you running for the hills. But at the same time, if a romantic partner can engage your higher mind and click with your ideals and beliefs then you might never get that itch to escape. Then you know you've found a soul mate. Venus in Sagittarius attracts others easily through a fun loving personality and infectious sense of optimism and idealism. Venus in Sagittarius will need a sense of humor in love and may tire easily if romance or sex becomes too predictable.