ariessungoddess
@ariessungoddess
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scorpio boss: I have asked my girls to move in tomorrow until the monday. to deal with all of this.
Posted by ariessungoddess
him: I am in process of getting my divorce, I have sent her the notice, once we decide on our settlements... so in process isn't deciding whether I'm divorcing or not. wait I need to call you
😐 Either you've written this incorrectly or you're really looking for any small thread of hope that you're not being played. First it was "complicated" and we're "separated" now it's "I'm in the process of getting divorced" which will magically occur in a month once a settlement is decided. Okay, so why not simply say that the first time? A divorce isn't complicated; it's a clear decision and a plan. Perhaps he's now saying it's a divorce because he senses the word "separated" wasn't strong enough; it wouldn't get the panties to drop as soon as he hoped? Not to mention if the settlement hasn't been decided how can he be sure it will be done in a month? Wait for it....the wife will be blamed for dragging out the settlement I'm guessing. Maybe the law clerk lost the paperwork...
At the end of the day, if he had any respect he would have waited until the ink was dry before attempting to pursue you. Period. Not to mention the fact that you are in a relationship. Unless you've been discussing how uncommitted you are in your current relationship at work, your relationship status alone should have been reason enough not to pursue you because as a man he knows he wouldn't want someone to pursue his woman. It also says what he thinks about you, that despite being in a relationship he thinks he can easily pull you away from that.
Then there is this:
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me: no please let's text for now
he called,
He's already not respecting your request. Ever wonder why? So you think that's gonna improve or get better? It's a small indication of what to expect. Especially given this:
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him: I respect that but...click to expand
Basic rules of communication, as soon as someone says "but" they are cancelling out everything they've said prior to. In other words "I heard what you said, I'm gonna pretend I give a f*ck about what you just said, so I can get my way". It's a form of manipulation by playing with words. If he respected what you said and how you felt about the situation there wouldn't be a "but". You either respect it and will accept it or you don't.
The mere fact that you need two physical bodies (cue in Crab and Bull bestie) to help you keep your legs closed suggest that nothing I wrote here will really get through. Hopefully it will.
You really need to stop trying to justify what you're doing and just own this already.
Don't be surprised if the wife cites you as 3rd party in the divorce proceedings.
Posted by PhoenixRisingokay you made some very good points. maybe I interpret the context and type so I might've changed complicated/ separated but this time he said divorced and mailed her the papers. he did say it'll be finalized.Posted by ariessungoddess
him: I am in process of getting my divorce, I have sent her the notice, once we decide on our settlements... so in process isn't deciding whether I'm divorcing or not. wait I need to call you
😐 Either you've written this incorrectly or you're really looking for any small thread of hope that you're not being played. First it was "complicated" and we're "separated" now it's "I'm in the process of getting divorced" which will magically occur in a month once a settlement is decided. Okay, so why not simply say that the first time? A divorce isn't complicated; it's a clear decision and a plan. Perhaps he's now saying it's a divorce because he senses the word "separated" wasn't strong enough; it wouldn't get the panties to drop as soon as he hoped? Not to mention if the settlement hasn't been decided how can he be sure it will be done in a month? Wait for it....the wife will be blamed for dragging out the settlement I'm guessing. Maybe the law clerk lost the paperwork...
At the end of the day, if he had any respect he would have waited until the ink was dry before attempting to pursue you. Period. Not to mention the fact that you are in a relationship. Unless you've been discussing how uncommitted you are in your current relationship at work, your relationship status alone should have been reason enough not to pursue you because as a man he knows he wouldn't want someone to pursue his woman. It also says what he thinks about you, that despite being in a relationship he thinks he can easily pull you away from that.
Then there is this:Posted by ariessungoddess
me: no please let's text for now
he called,
He's already not respecting your request. Ever wonder why? So you think that's gonna improve or get better? It's a small indication of what to expect. Especially given this:Posted by ariessungoddess
him: I respect that but...
Basic rules of communication, as soon as someone says "but" they are cancelling out everything they've said prior to. In other words "I heard what you said, I'm gonna pretend I give a f*ck about what you just said, so I can get my way". It's a form of manipulation by playing with words. If he respected what you said and felt about the situation there wouldn't be a "but". You either respect it and will accept it or you don't.
There mere fact that you need two physical bodies (cue in Crab and Bull bestie) to help you keep your legs closed suggest that nothing I wrote here will really get through. Hopefully it will.
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and yeah I did discuss with my friends at work about my boyfriend and I (long distance obviously) thing isn't doing great but I really doubt if they'd go talk to him about something like this so he has no reason to pursue me that bothers me now.
oh and the "let's text" was just sent and he called right away so I suppose he hadn't read it yet. about the "but" I'm going to check that text, if it had a "but" it's going to impact me. in fact I'm going to notice anyone using this word to me from now on 😄 owing to you. no I will not spread my legs, I'm going to stall it till he's divorced and even after, to see if he thinks I'm worth the wait so that way I can know if it's real. he might show his real nature if this isn't true. this way at least I won't feel like a dumb booty like all of you here suggests.
Thank you for putting this very well here.
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Thank the gods that this is indicative of cunt behavior and not Ram behavior.
This just seems like an awful lot of drama and you haven't even decided if you want to date him. He is 41.....isn't he a bit old for all of this bullshit? What happened between he and his wife? Plenty of marriages fail so I'm not saying that it was entirely his fault but before jumping in you may want to do your homework. Who initiated the divorce? What is their relationship like now? Woukd he go back with her is she wanted him? Because there are children involved, he will always have a connection with his ex. Trust me when I tell you that it can get messy and complicated. Those kids will always come before you no matter what the case may be. Can you handle that?
OP, I would suggest that you think long and hard before getting involved with this man. The previous thread pretty much covered most of the issues with work and your current boyfriend so I won't kick the proverbial dead horse but this is an awful lot to deal with. Is an attraction really worth all of this drama?
OP, I would suggest that you think long and hard before getting involved with this man. The previous thread pretty much covered most of the issues with work and your current boyfriend so I won't kick the proverbial dead horse but this is an awful lot to deal with. Is an attraction really worth all of this drama?
The Man is married ...dang what is wrong with people ... Married hun ... When the divorce happens then question your relationship with him.... Until then... You need to hop on someone new.... You are very I'll ng yourself up for some serious karma to return to you.... Be careful
Posted by Arielle83if you're all hyped up about it why don't you go get some instead of posting lame shit 🙂
Let us know how the wife's pussy tastes in your next update.
Posted by EnochtheWiseyou know that would fucking scare anyone out of anything 😄 5-6 decades! what are we all giant tortoises to allow that kinda commitment? o_OPosted by PV&JellayYou should've predicted 4 to 6 decades of commitment and intimacy.Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayYou trying to push her over the edge? lol. With all my Aries, 4-6 mos. hot sex/infatuation sounds pretty damn good.
This is a hot mess. I predict 4 to 6 months hot sex and infatuation.
LOL. Actually I was hoping to horrify her. Aries dominant people.
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Posted by PV&JellayVirgo ANYTHING is hard to please. Period.Posted by Arielle83Posted by PV&JellayWhat?Posted by EnochtheWiseVirgo venus. My condolences.Posted by PV&JellayVirgo.Posted by EnochtheWiseDamn. Are you a Sag venus?Posted by PV&JellayYou should've predicted 4 to 6 decades of commitment and intimacy.Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayYou trying to push her over the edge? lol. With all my Aries, 4-6 mos. hot sex/infatuation sounds pretty damn good.
This is a hot mess. I predict 4 to 6 months hot sex and infatuation.
LOL. Actually I was hoping to horrify her. Aries dominant people.
That's not me. I was saying for an Aries sun. But I'm really just kidding. I know a ton of super faithful Aries Suns. All my serious relationships have lasted several years. I like long-terms. I don't even like strangers in my house, let alone my bed. I'm too anal for that. Will they respect the perfect hospital corners as they toss and turn in their sleep, etc.? lol.
Still, that 4-6 mos. is sounding pretty good right now. LOL. I'm doing the cliche Scorp period of self-induced celibacy.
Virgo venus is hard to please.
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Now I just wait to get my ass ripped open by Virgo placements lmao
Posted by EnochtheWisehow do I pm you? your message button doesn't work, or did it?Posted by PV&JellayWell, if I ever stepped on an Aqua Venus heart, I certainly wasn't aware of it. Didn't even know they came with those...lol.Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayLOL. What is that supposed to mean? I know its considered a bad placement. Has never really bothered me though to any degree that I'm conscious of. I do change a lot in a relationship though. I'm not sure if the Venus really only comes into play in romance or what, bc I don't think I act like a Virgo Venus outside of a serious commitment. But in one, yeah, I see it for sure.
Virgo venus. My condolences.
Every Aqua Venus I know, including my sister, has gotten their heart stomped on at some point by a Virgo Venus. So when I see this placement their is a strong desire to knife them. —
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Posted by PV&JellayIf only lmao. I had my heart broken 3 times by Virgo moons. 😭Posted by Ram416Posted by PV&JellayVirgo ANYTHING is hard to please. Period.Posted by Arielle83Posted by PV&JellayWhat?Posted by EnochtheWiseVirgo venus. My condolences.Posted by PV&JellayVirgo.Posted by EnochtheWiseDamn. Are you a Sag venus?Posted by PV&JellayYou should've predicted 4 to 6 decades of commitment and intimacy.Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayYou trying to push her over the edge? lol. With all my Aries, 4-6 mos. hot sex/infatuation sounds pretty damn good.
This is a hot mess. I predict 4 to 6 months hot sex and infatuation.
LOL. Actually I was hoping to horrify her. Aries dominant people.
That's not me. I was saying for an Aries sun. But I'm really just kidding. I know a ton of super faithful Aries Suns. All my serious relationships have lasted several years. I like long-terms. I don't even like strangers in my house, let alone my bed. I'm too anal for that. Will they respect the perfect hospital corners as they toss and turn in their sleep, etc.? lol.
Still, that 4-6 mos. is sounding pretty good right now. LOL. I'm doing the cliche Scorp period of self-induced celibacy.
Virgo venus is hard to please.
Except the moon. We love you...just the way you are.
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Posted by dolluxeYes 😈Posted by PV&JellayWait a minute.. I've got Virgo Venus and Mars.. In the 8th house.. Am I doomed?Posted by EnochtheWiseVirgo venus. My condolences.Posted by PV&JellayVirgo.Posted by EnochtheWiseDamn. Are you a Sag venus?Posted by PV&JellayYou should've predicted 4 to 6 decades of commitment and intimacy.Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayYou trying to push her over the edge? lol. With all my Aries, 4-6 mos. hot sex/infatuation sounds pretty damn good.
This is a hot mess. I predict 4 to 6 months hot sex and infatuation.
LOL. Actually I was hoping to horrify her. Aries dominant people.
That's not me. I was saying for an Aries sun. But I'm really just kidding. I know a ton of super faithful Aries Suns. All my serious relationships have lasted several years. I like long-terms. I don't even like strangers in my house, let alone my bed. I'm too anal for that. Will they respect the perfect hospital corners as they toss and turn in their sleep, etc.? lol.
Still, that 4-6 mos. is sounding pretty good right now. LOL. I'm doing the cliche Scorp period of self-induced celibacy.
...Says the Virgo moon...
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Posted by PV&JellayLOL.Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayAstrology is creepy. Be that as it may though, you seem very sweet/kind. You have Virgo Moon? I don't know much about that placement. I have a girl friend with it. I read up and apparently it is supposed to be extremely sensitive? And they like organizing things? She has the most random hobbies, cutting up little scraps of papers for crafts and stuff...lol. Anything that involves organizing small things puts her at peace and this is exactly what I read online about the placement.Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayLOL! You know that is hilarious to me, because in the limited interaction I've had with you I can even see it. I see huge potential for misunderstanding/miscommunication. A lot of "What I meant was", "Yeah but...", "I was joking.."...lol.Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayAre you Venus in Aqua?
I feel the same way about Virgo placements though. Can't read them. It's the inconjunct.
Indeed.
You're right! LOL!
Sshh. Virgo moons are gangster. We don't feel.
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Posted by Arielle83I get all the attention I want in real life so I don't care if you turned this thread into your self involved thread, atleast you should get this much for trying this hard. here take it! 😄 (tosses the dxp attention to Arielle83)Posted by PV&JellayNaw we turned a self involved thread into a positive connecting experience.
OMG I derailed the hell out of this thread. Can I blame my possible 5th house moon. Sorry OP.
Thanks for sharing this on a Sunday afternoon while I sip my Malbec.
The scorpio is at the gym flexing his biceps.
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Posted by Plaguedyou're just a plain idiot sir for making that judgement baselessly.
So OP has a boyfriend and is building intent to flick her bean with a man who has a wife and family? Low attracts low
Posted by Arielle83eek more lame shitPosted by ariessungoddessWow you crazy.Posted by Arielle83I get all the attention I want in real life so I don't care if you turned this thread into your self involved thread, atleast you should get this much for trying this hard. here take it! 😄 (tosses the dxp attention to Arielle83)Posted by PV&JellayNaw we turned a self involved thread into a positive connecting experience.
OMG I derailed the hell out of this thread. Can I blame my possible 5th house moon. Sorry OP.
Thanks for sharing this on a Sunday afternoon while I sip my Malbec.
The scorpio is at the gym flexing his biceps.
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Posted by Arielle83I agree, I also think this is most signs..... they never leave the wife.Posted by PlaguedPosted by ariessungoddessYou sir are a cum dumpsterPosted by Plaguedyou're just a plain idiot sir for making that judgement baselessly.
So OP has a boyfriend and is building intent to flick her bean with a man who has a wife and family? Low attracts low
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Posted by Plaguedthat would be your mouth sir.Posted by ariessungoddessYou sir are a cum dumpsterPosted by Plaguedyou're just a plain idiot sir for making that judgement baselessly.
So OP has a boyfriend and is building intent to flick her bean with a man who has a wife and family? Low attracts lowclick to expand
decided what you're gonna do?Posted by PV&Jellaylol ohhh noooees enoch is no longer an airies risng? so no libra dominant women? or libra suns 😛 like Alyssa Sharpe's husband?Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayI think it should be under my "Pictures" now. Or here:Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayOk chart in my profile. Computer broken...My Ascendent is different...Now it says Virgo, not Aries...I need to double-check my birthtime with my momma. I thought I was Aries Asc. and I looked manly.
That's it damn it. I need to see your chart. You're sounding more aqua by the minute.
I don't see it on your profile virgo ascendant too. Tsk tsk. LOL.
http://www.dxpnet.com/i.php?id=6949058
First day out in the world as a Virgo Ascendant. Someone told me I looked worried and I got defensive...lol. I'm not liking this. Now does this explain why I fall in love with the fishes so fast? The descendant thing?
I thought about our convo and it explained a lot of things about my interactions with Aquas. Definitely seeing a pattern here....
I was right with my libra mercury guess. Yesh!
Yes that is why you atttact Pisces. When someones sun falls in your 7th house it feels fated. Plus your north node in Pisces.
Aquarius partly in your fifth. Aqua sun women or aqua dominant women torturing you?
I'm teasing you about the Virgo ascendant. You all tend to be sweet, but picky. Yes you all do tend to look worried, because you're always pensive.
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actualy I thought because he has virgo venus, he is attracted to some pisces qualities and also aqua too. that also helps. lol my brother in law has a virgo venus and my sister is pisces dominant with aqua venus 8th.
virgo ascendant is a good placement bc my scorp has it too of course lol 😛 and he looks the most manly among all men i have ever laid my eyes on (no joke lol)
Posted by iCloud9chris noth, virgo rising scorpio sun Gemini moon.aquarius mars (he's very airy lol)
virgo ascendant is a good placement bc my scorp has it too of course lol 😛 and he looks the most manly among all men i have ever laid my eyes on (no joke lol)
he married a Pisces sun, aries moon. libra mars. cap venus, aquarius mercury. a foreigner.
Posted by WalkergrlPosted by EnochtheWiseLordy. I want in on this conversation. :-) This past summer I did my natal chart and have had it here on my coffee table. I look at it and read parts of it at least once a day it seems. There's so much about it I don't understand but would love to learn... Would either or both of you be willing to help a girl out?Posted by PV&JellayBack for a few. So Desc. is who I attract or who is attracted to me? Or both? Yes, when I'm w/strangers, pensive is definitely how I come off. What do you mean by torture exactly? So Aqua Suns, out of any women I interact with, feel almost too sexual. Its like this hippy-ish "free love" energy; there's a purity to it. Are they just horny? Can't read em...can't tell. The energy makes me extremely nervous, but aroused. Its jarring. The convo/communication is awkward to say the least. I do know a married Aqua dominant Pisces, and she is super cautious around me like she doesn't trust me. She only starts to trust me, open up, and tune in, on the topic of spirituality and there we connect really well. Then its back to distrustful side-eyeing.
I was right with my libra mercury guess. Yesh!
Yes that is why you atttact Pisces. When someones sun falls in your 7th house it feels fated. Plus your north node in Pisces.
Aquarius partly in your fifth. Aqua sun women or aqua dominant women torturing you?
I'm teasing you about the Virgo ascendant. You all tend to be sweet, but picky. Yes you all do tend to look worried, because you're always pensive.
"Fated" makes sense for Pisces in general though....its just instant love, even if it isn't sexual. I am surrounded by fish at work. One of them is not even someone I would be physically attracted to. But she comes up to me to talk constantly and she just stands in front of me. The "dreamy" Piscean eyes, feels like I am swimming in them...drifting away into oblivion. We both typically lose track of what we're talking about and stare for extensive periods. I have to make a huge effort to even listen to what she is saying and not just stare and have feels. The convo is so incidental too. She is the worst verbal communicator I have ever met...lol. She walks up and I am thinking "Oh, you want to have emotional stares and talk gibberish again? Ok, lets do it."
I've read NN Pisces is like a spiritual quest involving a lot of isolation which describes me very well. I also struggle with addictive tendencies a lot....maybe this has something to do with it. Never thought about how this means I have Virgo SN and thus a lot of those general traits as well. Whats Libra Merc about me? Sorry for all the questions - answer any or none if you have time. No pressure...Our talk yesterday helped me understand an experience with a long-time Aqua friend very well....
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Posted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayBack for a few. So Desc. is who I attract or who is attracted to me? Or both? Yes, when I'm w/strangers, pensive is definitely how I come off. What do you mean by torture exactly? So Aqua Suns, out of any women I interact with, feel almost too sexual. Its like this hippy-ish "free love" energy; there's a purity to it. Are they just horny? Can't read em...can't tell. The energy makes me extremely nervous, but aroused. Its jarring. The convo/communication is awkward to say the least. I do know a married Aqua dominant Pisces, and she is super cautious around me like she doesn't trust me. She only starts to trust me, open up, and tune in, on the topic of spirituality and there we connect really well. Then its back to distrustful side-eyeing.
I was right with my libra mercury guess. Yesh!
Yes that is why you atttact Pisces. When someones sun falls in your 7th house it feels fated. Plus your north node in Pisces.
Aquarius partly in your fifth. Aqua sun women or aqua dominant women torturing you?
I'm teasing you about the Virgo ascendant. You all tend to be sweet, but picky. Yes you all do tend to look worried, because you're always pensive.
"Fated" makes sense for Pisces in general though....its just instant love, even if it isn't sexual. I am surrounded by fish at work. One of them is not even someone I would be physically attracted to. But she comes up to me to talk constantly and she just stands in front of me. The "dreamy" Piscean eyes, feels like I am swimming in them...drifting away into oblivion. We both typically lose track of what we're talking about and stare for extensive periods. I have to make a huge effort to even listen to what she is saying and not just stare and have feels. The convo is so incidental too. She is the worst verbal communicator I have ever met...lol. She walks up and I am thinking "Oh, you want to have emotional stares and talk gibberish again? Ok, lets do it."
I've read NN Pisces is like a spiritual quest involving a lot of isolation which describes me very well. I also struggle with addictive tendencies a lot....maybe this has something to do with it. Never thought about how this means I have Virgo SN and thus a lot of those general traits as well. Whats Libra Merc about me? Sorry for all the questions - answer any or none if you have time. No pressure...Our talk yesterday helped me understand an experience with a long-time Aqua friend very well....
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sorry to be nosy, but have u ever avoided staring or looking into pisces eyes? - avoid eyes contact?
Posted by PV&Jellaymutual NN/SN - moon conjunction is definitely a soulmate aspectPosted by EnochtheWisePosted by PV&JellayBack for a few. So Desc. is who I attract or who is attracted to me? Or both? Yes, when I'm w/strangers, pensive is definitely how I come off. What do you mean by torture exactly? So Aqua Suns, out of any women I interact with, feel almost too sexual. Its like this hippy-ish "free love" energy; there's a purity to it. Are they just horny? Can't read em...can't tell. The energy makes me extremely nervous, but aroused. Its jarring. The convo/communication is awkward to say the least. I do know a married Aqua dominant Pisces, and she is super cautious around me like she doesn't trust me. She only starts to trust me, open up, and tune in, on the topic of spirituality and there we connect really well. Then its back to distrustful side-eyeing.
"Fated" makes sense for Pisces in general though....its just instant love, even if it isn't sexual. I am surrounded by fish at work. One of them is not even someone I would be physically attracted to. But she comes up to me to talk constantly and she just stands in front of me. The "dreamy" Piscean eyes, feels like I am swimming in them...drifting away into oblivion. We both typically lose track of what we're talking about and stare for extensive periods. I have to make a huge effort to even listen to what she is saying and not just stare and have feels. The convo is so incidental too. She is the worst verbal communicator I have ever met...lol. She walks up and I am thinking "Oh, you want to have emotional stares and talk gibberish again? Ok, lets do it."
I've read NN Pisces is like a spiritual quest involving a lot of isolation which describes me very well. I also struggle with addictive tendencies a lot....maybe this has something to do with it. Never thought about how this means I have Virgo SN and thus a lot of those general traits as well. Whats Libra Merc about me? Sorry for all the questions - answer any or none if you have time. No pressure...Our talk yesterday helped me understand an experience with a long-time Aqua friend very well....
I'm an amateur, so off the cuff.
7th house- Perfect partner and open enemies. The person complements or opposes your energy. There is a mutual draw. If someone's sun or moon falls into your 7th it can feel very cosmic, like they're you're soul mate. The sun/moon person may even feel the same way, but not know why. Doesn't mean you're compatible. Usually good house to have your partners sun or moon fall in.
5th house- romance house. If someones planets, especially venus or mars fall into this house you might have strong sexual attraction or romantic feelings. If a persons sun falls into your fifth it may be great for flings..may be terrible for long term because it is more about infatuation than love.
NN- what you're striving towards. I dont know enough about it to really say. I've heard north node conjunct sun was a soulmate aspect.
Libra merc..it's your communication style . Your humor and wit. It's very subtle, but I'm an aqua merc, so I pick up on it.
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Lordy. I want in on this conversation. :-) This past summer I did my natal chart and have had it here on my coffee table. I look at it and read parts of it at least once a day it seems. There's so much about it I don't understand but would love to learn... Would either or both of you be willing to help a girl out?
What in particular is your question?
Hey, Good morning. I don't have a particular question. But if I had to choose, it would be my communication.
I just need some guidance/understanding on the houses and how they connect to my planets... I read on here all the time about things being conjunct or aspects. I'd really like to do a study on it.
Posted by PV&JellayPosted by WalkergrlLordy. I want in on this conversation. :-) This past summer I did my natal chart and have had it here on my coffee table. I look at it and read parts of it at least once a day it seems. There's so much about it I don't understand but would love to learn... Would either or both of you be willing to help a girl out?
What in particular is your question?
Hey, Good morning. I don't have a particular question. But if I had to choose, it would be my communication.
I just need some guidance/understanding on the houses and how they connect to my planets... I read on here all the time about things being conjunct or aspects. I'd really like to do a study on it.
It takes a while to learn everything you need to know about your chart. Communication us about mercury sign and Mercury aspects. You can post your chart. I will tell you what I see.
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Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Virgo 19°33' Ascendant Gemini 27°56'
Moon Sagittarius 2°12' II Cancer 18°52'
Mercury Virgo 4°19' III Leo 10°38'
Venus Leo 4°16' IV Virgo 6°42'
Mars Cancer 28°12' V Libra 10°19'
Jupiter Taurus 26°07' VI Scorpio 20°18'
Saturn Pisces 0°18' R VII Sagittarius 27°56'
Uranus Virgo 11°02' VIII Capricorn 18°52'
Neptune Scorpio 15°39' IX Aquarius 10°38'
Pluto Virgo 14°13' Midheaven Pisces 6°42'
Lilith Sagittarius 26°54' XI Aries 10°19'
Asc node Gemini 28°11' XII Taurus 20°18'
Posted by WalkergrlWhat in particular is your question?Posted by PV&JellayPosted by WalkergrlLordy. I want in on this conversation. :-) This past summer I did my natal chart and have had it here on my coffee table. I look at it and read parts of it at least once a day it seems. There's so much about it I don't understand but would love to learn... Would either or both of you be willing to help a girl out?
Hey, Good morning. I don't have a particular question. But if I had to choose, it would be my communication.
I just need some guidance/understanding on the houses and how they connect to my planets... I read on here all the time about things being conjunct or aspects. I'd really like to do a study on it.
It takes a while to learn everything you need to know about your chart. Communication us about mercury sign and Mercury aspects. You can post your chart. I will tell you what I see.
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Virgo 19°33' Ascendant Gemini 27°56'
Moon Sagittarius 2°12' II Cancer 18°52'
Mercury Virgo 4°19' III Leo 10°38'
Venus Leo 4°16' IV Virgo 6°42'
Mars Cancer 28°12' V Libra 10°19'
Jupiter Taurus 26°07' VI Scorpio 20°18'
Saturn Pisces 0°18' R VII Sagittarius 27°56'
Uranus Virgo 11°02' VIII Capricorn 18°52'
Neptune Scorpio 15°39' IX Aquarius 10°38'
Pluto Virgo 14°13' Midheaven Pisces 6°42'
Lilith Sagittarius 26°54' XI Aries 10°19'
Asc node Gemini 28°11' XII Taurus 20°18'
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Didn't know if you needed the whole chart... Let me know.
Posted by PV&JellayYes, I am articulate and yes, I tend to write essays. I have to make a conscious effort at keeping it short and sweet. I can be critical and come off as self-righteous to some. Feeling misunderstood is a common occurrence. More self-critical than anything and tend to take on guilt for others which can keep me in toxic relationships far longer than necessary. Usually thinking, "I've not tried hard enough".
@Walkergrl
You have mercury exalted in Virgo. Yay for you! You're probably really food at articulating your thoughts. You probably have to pair it down some when you write peopl, possibly even texts to avoid it from turning unti essays. Do you come off slightly critical or self righteous? Your intentions are probably good, but not taken that way.
You have mercury semi-square venus. Do you have conflict between what you feel and what you think often? Or do you have difficulty expressing your feelings? I have mercury inconjunct venus, so my thoughts and feelings are rarely in sync.
Mercury in third house. You're extra analytical.
Mercury sextile moon. Hmm...maybe this overrides yiue moon semi square mercury aspect. Or what happens is you are either over emotional, or don't communicate yoir feelings at all.
You have Sag moon so your energy is probably light and playful too. You're kind of a contradiction.
You might need a stronger dxp chart reader than me to help you with your communication interpretation. This is what I see.
If you want to learn more about aspects and houses, here is a good link:
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/aspects2.html
I do experience inner conflict and most times will follow my feelings over my head. Tends to be disastrous in some situations. Going through it right now with a Scorp. Wish I had the ability to compartmentalize my feelings and thoughts.
Definitely over emotional on most days which can be very frustrating for me.
I look much younger than I am and do have a playful spirit which I think attracts younger guys. I also find myself more comfortable with younger guys/friends in general than older. Which is odd because it was the other way around when I was much younger.
Great stuff! Crazy how accurate these things are. In my case, anyway. 🙂
Posted by PV&JellayReally? I thought it was Sag in 7th house, Cap in 8th house? Did I read that wrong?Posted by WalkergrlPosted by PV&JellayYes, I am articulate and yes, I tend to write essays. I have to make a conscious effort at keeping it short and sweet. I can be critical and come off as self-righteous to some. Feeling misunderstood is a common occurrence. More self-critical than anything and tend to take on guilt for others which can keep me in toxic relationships far longer than necessary. Usually thinking, "I've not tried hard enough".
@Walkergrl
You have mercury exalted in Virgo. Yay for you! You're probably really food at articulating your thoughts. You probably have to pair it down some when you write peopl, possibly even texts to avoid it from turning unti essays. Do you come off slightly critical or self righteous? Your intentions are probably good, but not taken that way.
You have mercury semi-square venus. Do you have conflict between what you feel and what you think often? Or do you have difficulty expressing your feelings? I have mercury inconjunct venus, so my thoughts and feelings are rarely in sync.
Mercury in third house. You're extra analytical.
Mercury sextile moon. Hmm...maybe this overrides yiue moon semi square mercury aspect. Or what happens is you are either over emotional, or don't communicate yoir feelings at all.
You have Sag moon so your energy is probably light and playful too. You're kind of a contradiction.
You might need a stronger dxp chart reader than me to help you with your communication interpretation. This is what I see.
If you want to learn more about aspects and houses, here is a good link:
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/aspects2.html
I do experience inner conflict and most times will follow my feelings over my head. Tends to be disastrous in some situations. Going through it right now with a Scorp. Wish I had the ability to compartmentalize my feelings and thoughts.
Definitely over emotional on most days which can be very frustrating for me.
I look much younger than I am and do have a playful spirit which I think attracts younger guys. I also find myself more comfortable with younger guys/friends in general than older. Which is odd because it was the other way around when I was much younger.
Great stuff! Crazy how accurate these things are. In my case, anyway. 🙂
Yay!
Capricorn falls into your 7th house, even though you have sag on the cusp. So the same things apply to you as they do Enoch. Does your guy have any prominent Cap placements?
I'm just curious about 7th house.
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As for "my" guy... Isn't one. The guy that's planted himself into my emotional core... The. Struggle. Is. Real.
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Scorpio 27°30' Ascendant Aquarius 5°05'
Moon Scorpio 0°17' II Pisces 19°45'
Mercury Sagittarius 4°33' III Aries 27°17'
Venus Capricorn 6°21' IV Taurus 24°59'
Mars Scorpio 29°06' V Gemini 17°30'
Jupiter Taurus 25°56' R VI Cancer 9°14'
Saturn Leo 16°49' VII Leo 5°05'
Uranus Scorpio 8°43' VIII Virgo 19°45'
Neptune Sagittarius 13°06' IX Libra 27°17'
Pluto Libra 13°17' Midheaven Scorpio 24°59'
Lilith Taurus 12°48' XI Sagittarius 17°30'
Asc node Scorpio 3°20' XII Capricorn 9°14'
Posted by PV&Jellay
@Walkergrl
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Virgo 19°33' Ascendant Gemini 27°56'
Moon Sagittarius 2°12' II Cancer 18°52'
Mercury Virgo 4°19' III Leo 10°38'
Venus Leo 4°16' IV Virgo 6°42'
Mars Cancer 28°12' V Libra 10°19'
Jupiter Taurus 26°07' VI Scorpio 20°18'
Saturn Pisces 0°18' R VII Sagittarius 27°56'
Uranus Virgo 11°02' VIII Capricorn 18°52'
Neptune Scorpio 15°39' IX Aquarius 10°38'
Pluto Virgo 14°13' Midheaven Pisces 6°42'
Lilith Sagittarius 26°54' XI Aries 10°19'
Asc node Gemini 28°11' XII Taurus 20°18'
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Scorpio 27°30' Ascendant Aquarius 5°05'
Moon Scorpio 0°17' II Pisces 19°45'
Mercury Sagittarius 4°33' III Aries 27°17'
Venus Capricorn 6°21' IV Taurus 24°59'
Mars Scorpio 29°06' V Gemini 17°30'
Jupiter Taurus 25°56' R VI Cancer 9°14'
Saturn Leo 16°49' VII Leo 5°05'
Uranus Scorpio 8°43' VIII Virgo 19°45'
Neptune Sagittarius 13°06' IX Libra 27°17'
Pluto Libra 13°17' Midheaven Scorpio 24°59'
Lilith Taurus 12°48' XI Sagittarius 17°30'
Asc node Scorpio 3°20' XII Capricorn 9°1
This is the worst possible way to look at charts, let alone synastry charts. LOL. I recommend you go to astro.com and create an account.
To your previous question...the houses go by degrees. Your 7th house starts at 27°Sag and ends at 18°Cap, so his 4°Cap venus falls into your 7th house. You feel loved and beautiful with him. As you should, because you sun falls at the end of his 7th house and towards the beginning of his eighth. You're wifey material(7th) and he finds you sexy (8th house). The feeling is mutual, mars trine mars. Damn. Plus his mars trines your venus because its almost in Sag. How do you make it out the bedroom?
Suns sextile, you get each other. Your moon conjunct his sun. He feels emotionally supported by you. His moon conjuncts your 7th house, though it does not fall in it. There's a lot of good in this relationship.
You both have a lot of placements in each others 6th houses. Not sure the significance. That's usually the service and health house.
Thank you! I'll check out astro.com
As for this Scorp... I posted two earlier threads on this guy...
I fell pretty hard for him this summer. Except he was actively dating while spending a lot of time with me. All the pieces fell together after I called it quits. He has declared that he's in a relationship with this other woman. Yet, He continues to contact me. I've ignored him until this last week.
I finally asked him, "What do you want from me?" His answer, "I don't know". My response, "When you're ready, to be honest with yourself, come talk to me."
That was Thursday.
Friday he asks me out for a drink. We don't meet.
It's hard. I'm still emotionally tangled up in this guy. Crazy chemistry.
I feel so cliche. Why is it so difficult, to just walk away from all the damn drama. WTH?
Posted by WalkergrlPosted by PV&Jellay
@Walkergrl
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Virgo 19°33' Ascendant Gemini 27°56'
Moon Sagittarius 2°12' II Cancer 18°52'
Mercury Virgo 4°19' III Leo 10°38'
Venus Leo 4°16' IV Virgo 6°42'
Mars Cancer 28°12' V Libra 10°19'
Jupiter Taurus 26°07' VI Scorpio 20°18'
Saturn Pisces 0°18' R VII Sagittarius 27°56'
Uranus Virgo 11°02' VIII Capricorn 18°52'
Neptune Scorpio 15°39' IX Aquarius 10°38'
Pluto Virgo 14°13' Midheaven Pisces 6°42'
Lilith Sagittarius 26°54' XI Aries 10°19'
Asc node Gemini 28°11' XII Taurus 20°18'
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Scorpio 27°30' Ascendant Aquarius 5°05'
Moon Scorpio 0°17' II Pisces 19°45'
Mercury Sagittarius 4°33' III Aries 27°17'
Venus Capricorn 6°21' IV Taurus 24°59'
Mars Scorpio 29°06' V Gemini 17°30'
Jupiter Taurus 25°56' R VI Cancer 9°14'
Saturn Leo 16°49' VII Leo 5°05'
Uranus Scorpio 8°43' VIII Virgo 19°45'
Neptune Sagittarius 13°06' IX Libra 27°17'
Pluto Libra 13°17' Midheaven Scorpio 24°59'
Lilith Taurus 12°48' XI Sagittarius 17°30'
Asc node Scorpio 3°20' XII Capricorn 9°1
This is the worst possible way to look at charts, let alone synastry charts. LOL. I recommend you go to astro.com and create an account.
To your previous question...the houses go by degrees. Your 7th house starts at 27°Sag and ends at 18°Cap, so his 4°Cap venus falls into your 7th house. You feel loved and beautiful with him. As you should, because you sun falls at the end of his 7th house and towards the beginning of his eighth. You're wifey material(7th) and he finds you sexy (8th house). The feeling is mutual, mars trine mars. Damn. Plus his mars trines your venus because its almost in Sag. How do you make it out the bedroom?
Suns sextile, you get each other. Your moon conjunct his sun. He feels emotionally supported by you. His moon conjuncts your 7th house, though it does not fall in it. There's a lot of good in this relationship.
You both have a lot of placements in each others 6th houses. Not sure the significance. That's usually the service and health house.
Thank you! I'll check out astro.com
As for this Scorp... I posted two earlier threads on this guy...
I fell pretty hard for him this summer. Except he was actively dating while spending a lot of time with me. All the pieces fell together after I called it quits. He has declared that he's in a relationship with this other woman. Yet, He continues to contact me. I've ignored him until this last week.
I finally asked him, "What do you want from me?" His answer, "I don't know". My response, "When you're ready, to be honest with yourself, come talk to me."
That was Thursday.
Friday he asks me out for a drink. We don't meet.
It's hard. I'm still emotionally tangled up in this guy. Crazy chemistry.
I feel so cliche. Why is it so difficult, to just walk away from all the damn drama. WTH?
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Correction - He broke up with me after I confronted him.
Posted by PV&JellayActually, a lot of what you wrote was accurate. Especially how I felt when I was around him. Remember earlier when I talked about taking on the guilt? That's my biggest struggle. Maybe I didn't try hard enough? What is it about ME that isn't good enough? Blah, Blah, Blah... Yes, it's all self induced. Struggle. Is. Real. 😢Posted by WalkergrlPosted by PV&Jellay
@Walkergrl
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Virgo 19°33' Ascendant Gemini 27°56'
Moon Sagittarius 2°12' II Cancer 18°52'
Mercury Virgo 4°19' III Leo 10°38'
Venus Leo 4°16' IV Virgo 6°42'
Mars Cancer 28°12' V Libra 10°19'
Jupiter Taurus 26°07' VI Scorpio 20°18'
Saturn Pisces 0°18' R VII Sagittarius 27°56'
Uranus Virgo 11°02' VIII Capricorn 18°52'
Neptune Scorpio 15°39' IX Aquarius 10°38'
Pluto Virgo 14°13' Midheaven Pisces 6°42'
Lilith Sagittarius 26°54' XI Aries 10°19'
Asc node Gemini 28°11' XII Taurus 20°18'
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Scorpio 27°30' Ascendant Aquarius 5°05'
Moon Scorpio 0°17' II Pisces 19°45'
Mercury Sagittarius 4°33' III Aries 27°17'
Venus Capricorn 6°21' IV Taurus 24°59'
Mars Scorpio 29°06' V Gemini 17°30'
Jupiter Taurus 25°56' R VI Cancer 9°14'
Saturn Leo 16°49' VII Leo 5°05'
Uranus Scorpio 8°43' VIII Virgo 19°45'
Neptune Sagittarius 13°06' IX Libra 27°17'
Pluto Libra 13°17' Midheaven Scorpio 24°59'
Lilith Taurus 12°48' XI Sagittarius 17°30'
Asc node Scorpio 3°20' XII Capricorn 9°1
This is the worst possible way to look at charts, let alone synastry charts. LOL. I recommend you go to astro.com and create an account.
To your previous question...the houses go by degrees. Your 7th house starts at 27°Sag and ends at 18°Cap, so his 4°Cap venus falls into your 7th house. You feel loved and beautiful with him. As you should, because you sun falls at the end of his 7th house and towards the beginning of his eighth. You're wifey material(7th) and he finds you sexy (8th house). The feeling is mutual, mars trine mars. Damn. Plus his mars trines your venus because its almost in Sag. How do you make it out the bedroom?
Suns sextile, you get each other. Your moon conjunct his sun. He feels emotionally supported by you. His moon conjuncts your 7th house, though it does not fall in it. There's a lot of good in this relationship.
You both have a lot of placements in each others 6th houses. Not sure the significance. That's usually the service and health house.
Thank you! I'll check out astro.com
As for this Scorp... I posted two earlier threads on this guy...
I fell pretty hard for him this summer. Except he was actively dating while spending a lot of time with me. All the pieces fell together after I called it quits. He has declared that he's in a relationship with this other woman. Yet, He continues to contact me. I've ignored him until this last week.
I finally asked him, "What do you want from me?" His answer, "I don't know". My response, "When you're ready, to be honest with yourself, come talk to me."
That was Thursday.
Friday he asks me out for a drink. We don't meet.
It's hard. I'm still emotionally tangled up in this guy. Crazy chemistry.
I feel so cliche. Why is it so difficult, to just walk away from all the damn drama. WTH?
Welp, looks like my synastry reading was wrong. LOL. You have great potential, but he has a girl friend, and is still coming after you? Poor integrity and morals.
Keep it moving.
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Posted by PV&JellayExactly! I really appreciate you, taking the time to dissect my chart with me. You're awesome! 🙂Posted by WalkergrlPosted by PV&JellayActually, a lot of what you wrote was accurate. Especially how I felt when I was around him. Remember earlier when I talked about taking on the guilt? That's my biggest struggle. Maybe I didn't try hard enough? What is it about ME that isn't good enough? Blah, Blah, Blah... Yes, it's all self induced. Struggle. Is. Real. 😢Posted by WalkergrlPosted by PV&Jellay
@Walkergrl
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Virgo 19°33' Ascendant Gemini 27°56'
Moon Sagittarius 2°12' II Cancer 18°52'
Mercury Virgo 4°19' III Leo 10°38'
Venus Leo 4°16' IV Virgo 6°42'
Mars Cancer 28°12' V Libra 10°19'
Jupiter Taurus 26°07' VI Scorpio 20°18'
Saturn Pisces 0°18' R VII Sagittarius 27°56'
Uranus Virgo 11°02' VIII Capricorn 18°52'
Neptune Scorpio 15°39' IX Aquarius 10°38'
Pluto Virgo 14°13' Midheaven Pisces 6°42'
Lilith Sagittarius 26°54' XI Aries 10°19'
Asc node Gemini 28°11' XII Taurus 20°18'
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Scorpio 27°30' Ascendant Aquarius 5°05'
Moon Scorpio 0°17' II Pisces 19°45'
Mercury Sagittarius 4°33' III Aries 27°17'
Venus Capricorn 6°21' IV Taurus 24°59'
Mars Scorpio 29°06' V Gemini 17°30'
Jupiter Taurus 25°56' R VI Cancer 9°14'
Saturn Leo 16°49' VII Leo 5°05'
Uranus Scorpio 8°43' VIII Virgo 19°45'
Neptune Sagittarius 13°06' IX Libra 27°17'
Pluto Libra 13°17' Midheaven Scorpio 24°59'
Lilith Taurus 12°48' XI Sagittarius 17°30'
Asc node Scorpio 3°20' XII Capricorn 9°1
This is the worst possible way to look at charts, let alone synastry charts. LOL. I recommend you go to astro.com and create an account.
To your previous question...the houses go by degrees. Your 7th house starts at 27°Sag and ends at 18°Cap, so his 4°Cap venus falls into your 7th house. You feel loved and beautiful with him. As you should, because you sun falls at the end of his 7th house and towards the beginning of his eighth. You're wifey material(7th) and he finds you sexy (8th house). The feeling is mutual, mars trine mars. Damn. Plus his mars trines your venus because its almost in Sag. How do you make it out the bedroom?
Suns sextile, you get each other. Your moon conjunct his sun. He feels emotionally supported by you. His moon conjuncts your 7th house, though it does not fall in it. There's a lot of good in this relationship.
You both have a lot of placements in each others 6th houses. Not sure the significance. That's usually the service and health house.
Thank you! I'll check out astro.com
As for this Scorp... I posted two earlier threads on this guy...
I fell pretty hard for him this summer. Except he was actively dating while spending a lot of time with me. All the pieces fell together after I called it quits. He has declared that he's in a relationship with this other woman. Yet, He continues to contact me. I've ignored him until this last week.
I finally asked him, "What do you want from me?" His answer, "I don't know". My response, "When you're ready, to be honest with yourself, come talk to me."
That was Thursday.
Friday he asks me out for a drink. We don't meet.
It's hard. I'm still emotionally tangled up in this guy. Crazy chemistry.
I feel so cliche. Why is it so difficult, to just walk away from all the damn drama. WTH?
Welp, looks like my synastry reading was wrong. LOL. You have great potential, but he has a girl friend, and is still coming after you? Poor integrity and morals.
Keep it moving.
I haven't read your other threads...clearly. But if he is sincere, he will end things with the other woman before pursuing you. Make him earn your love.
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Posted by PV&JellayPosted by WalkergrlPosted by PV&JellayActually, a lot of what you wrote was accurate. Especially how I felt when I was around him. Remember earlier when I talked about taking on the guilt? That's my biggest struggle. Maybe I didn't try hard enough? What is it about ME that isn't good enough? Blah, Blah, Blah... Yes, it's all self induced. Struggle. Is. Real. 😢Posted by WalkergrlPosted by PV&Jellay
@Walkergrl
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Virgo 19°33' Ascendant Gemini 27°56'
Moon Sagittarius 2°12' II Cancer 18°52'
Mercury Virgo 4°19' III Leo 10°38'
Venus Leo 4°16' IV Virgo 6°42'
Mars Cancer 28°12' V Libra 10°19'
Jupiter Taurus 26°07' VI Scorpio 20°18'
Saturn Pisces 0°18' R VII Sagittarius 27°56'
Uranus Virgo 11°02' VIII Capricorn 18°52'
Neptune Scorpio 15°39' IX Aquarius 10°38'
Pluto Virgo 14°13' Midheaven Pisces 6°42'
Lilith Sagittarius 26°54' XI Aries 10°19'
Asc node Gemini 28°11' XII Taurus 20°18'
Zodiac : Tropical Placidus Orb : 0
Sun Scorpio 27°30' Ascendant Aquarius 5°05'
Moon Scorpio 0°17' II Pisces 19°45'
Mercury Sagittarius 4°33' III Aries 27°17'
Venus Capricorn 6°21' IV Taurus 24°59'
Mars Scorpio 29°06' V Gemini 17°30'
Jupiter Taurus 25°56' R VI Cancer 9°14'
Saturn Leo 16°49' VII Leo 5°05'
Uranus Scorpio 8°43' VIII Virgo 19°45'
Neptune Sagittarius 13°06' IX Libra 27°17'
Pluto Libra 13°17' Midheaven Scorpio 24°59'
Lilith Taurus 12°48' XI Sagittarius 17°30'
Asc node Scorpio 3°20' XII Capricorn 9°1
This is the worst possible way to look at charts, let alone synastry charts. LOL. I recommend you go to astro.com and create an account.
To your previous question...the houses go by degrees. Your 7th house starts at 27°Sag and ends at 18°Cap, so his 4°Cap venus falls into your 7th house. You feel loved and beautiful with him. As you should, because you sun falls at the end of his 7th house and towards the beginning of his eighth. You're wifey material(7th) and he finds you sexy (8th house). The feeling is mutual, mars trine mars. Damn. Plus his mars trines your venus because its almost in Sag. How do you make it out the bedroom?
Suns sextile, you get each other. Your moon conjunct his sun. He feels emotionally supported by you. His moon conjuncts your 7th house, though it does not fall in it. There's a lot of good in this relationship.
You both have a lot of placements in each others 6th houses. Not sure the significance. That's usually the service and health house.
Thank you! I'll check out astro.com
As for this Scorp... I posted two earlier threads on this guy...
I fell pretty hard for him this summer. Except he was actively dating while spending a lot of time with me. All the pieces fell together after I called it quits. He has declared that he's in a relationship with this other woman. Yet, He continues to contact me. I've ignored him until this last week.
I finally asked him, "What do you want from me?" His answer, "I don't know". My response, "When you're ready, to be honest with yourself, come talk to me."
That was Thursday.
Friday he asks me out for a drink. We don't meet.
It's hard. I'm still emotionally tangled up in this guy. Crazy chemistry.
I feel so cliche. Why is it so difficult, to just walk away from all the damn drama. WTH?
Welp, looks like my synastry reading was wrong. LOL. You have great potential, but he has a girl friend, and is still coming after you? Poor integrity and morals.
Keep it moving.
I haven't read your other threads...clearly. But if he is sincere, he will end things with the other woman before pursuing you. Make him earn your love.
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I still don't agree. lol how come he tells her straight he has someone else? is he supposed to make her say, "ohh my gosh, yay!?" 😕
I mean how do you take that—
"Uhhhh okayyyy so why the hell are you after me? what's wrong with you?"
he probably told her this to see if she would still go for him, to see if she has integrity.
I would just like him to tell me, why?
Clearly, he disrespects me and devalues who I am as a person. I could never trust him after this. Even though I'm still working through the emotional entanglement of my own feelings, I could never go back to him.
As often as he texts, I wonder if he's stalking me as well. Although I've not seen him on my street...
Clearly, he disrespects me and devalues who I am as a person. I could never trust him after this. Even though I'm still working through the emotional entanglement of my own feelings, I could never go back to him.
As often as he texts, I wonder if he's stalking me as well. Although I've not seen him on my street...
I see his texts. I haven't responded until last Thursday because he asked me to call him, which I did not do. He's been texting me since August. I did consider meeting him. To talk.
I would like an explanation and now realize, I won't get one.
This experience with this guy is what prompted me to do my natal chart and try to understand better, who I am. I've learned so much and continue to do so. Analyzing everything. That's my skill and my downfall.
I would like an explanation and now realize, I won't get one.
This experience with this guy is what prompted me to do my natal chart and try to understand better, who I am. I've learned so much and continue to do so. Analyzing everything. That's my skill and my downfall.
I need an explanation for his treatment of me. I could never trust him.
Actually, at this point, I couldn't trust his explanation.
Posted by EnochtheWiseanother pair of Scorpio & Pisces I guess...Posted by chajiyes, a Pisces married to a very perceptive and jealous Scorp. She would get right in my face and be all charming, and I would look away a lot because my brain would get hot with the Scorpio death ray aimed at it.
sorry to be nosy, but have u ever avoided staring or looking into pisces eyes? - avoid eyes contact?
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so... I take that apart from her, there's no one u would avoid eyes contact with, right?
and really I don't understand what's in those pisces eyes that Scorp always talk about.
oh and thank you for your honesty
Posted by EnochtheWisewhat do you mean when you're fixated on someone? I have got the stare from scorpios I totally get what you're talking about and although it is really creepy it's kinda intriguing like the person is looking at you, oddly exciting for attention loving arians I guess lol. the fixation thing is not restricted romantic interests always I know since some of the scorps I talk about are seniors, even women!Posted by chajiHere come the clichés. Generally, I avoid eye contact with people all the time. I wear sunglasses every chance I get. If it was socially acceptable to wear them at night or in doors, I would. I don't like people seeing my eyes as they are probably the most expressive part of me. I like to observe people without them being able to observe me and how I'm feeling.Posted by EnochtheWiseanother pair of Scorpio & Pisces I guess...Posted by chajiyes, a Pisces married to a very perceptive and jealous Scorp. She would get right in my face and be all charming, and I would look away a lot because my brain would get hot with the Scorpio death ray aimed at it.
sorry to be nosy, but have u ever avoided staring or looking into pisces eyes? - avoid eyes contact?
so... I take that apart from her, there's no one u would avoid eyes contact with, right?
and really I don't understand what's in those pisces eyes that Scorp always talk about.
oh and thank you for your honesty
As far as one-on-one/inter-personally, my eye contact seems to make most people uncomfortable if I don't cut it short intentionally. I was just talking about this with a friend yesterday. When I meet new people and we make eye contact, I can see they feel awkward. They will usually smile, but then their smile breaks at the end, cheeks shake a little sometimes, and I see they feel fearful or uncomfortable. It bothers me actually. I will often ask people I'm with "did that person react strange when you said hi? Do I seem like I'm in a bad mood?", etc. I even try extra hard to give a kind smile. I always feel like it takes a very long time for people to be comfortable around me. I've just attributed it to me being a Scorpio, or maybe coming off too aggressive/assertive, which I previously attributed to my Aries Asc.
With this new revelation that my Asc. is Virgo, I'm reconsidering some things though. I was talking to a close friend yesterday. I mentored her at my job years ago. We were talking about first impressions. I steered the convo that way bc I am thinking about my Ascendant. She had always told me she was intimidated by me when I was first working with her. I questioned around that, and she told me something funny. I'm a slight germophobe and when she sat in with me to mentor at work, after she used my keyboard, I wiped it down with a wet-wipe and I sanitized my own hands...lolol. I guess I am a Virgo Asc. after all. In my defense, I had just gotten over the flu...She felt like I thought she had a disease though.lol
I do stare a lot and I think that's why I make some people uncomfortable. With someone I am fixated on, its really hard not to stare. I can totally see how its creepy, I just don't know what to do about it, so I try to hide it, which I guess is even creepier...
On Pisces, it happened again yesterday at day's end. She came over to talk about randomness and we talked for 30 mins about nothing. Each time topic would fade, one of us, wanting to just prolong the staring, would revive it. I even tried to pull away but couldn't. What do I see in their eyes? The short answer is, a goddess. It would probably have to be poetry to describe it at any deeper/detailed level. Its a mystical feeling/experience. I guess now I know why. My favorite kind of communication is without words, and my favorite thing in the world are beautiful eyes. Their's are always the most beautiful to me.
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Posted by EnochtheWisehaha is that what it is! to see if something brings out some hidden insecurities? I thought the Librans did this but in a different way, they keep trying to provoke or annoy or interrupt until someone yells or breaks all hell loose on them, just to see what ticks them off! but they're apparently not singular. interesting.Posted by ariessungoddessFixated = interested, attracted, intrigued. Doesn't have to be sexual. If it is sexual, lol, then its much worse. The reactions I get when I'm fixated in that way make it all the more interesting. When you see a beautiful/confident/serious woman get flattered, or shy and nervous. It really is true, at least for me, that I like to stir things up and bring out insecurities, see what makes a person tick psychologically, see how firmly in place the mask is, where their areas of sensitivity are. None of it is done maliciously. I'm just genuinely interested in that person and I want to know them. Is it invasive? Yes. lol. I can see if its unwelcome and then I will withdraw.
what do you mean when you're fixated on someone? I have got the stare from scorpios I totally get what you're talking about and although it is really creepy it's kinda intriguing like the person is looking at you, oddly exciting for attention loving arians I guess lol. the fixation thing is not restricted romantic interests always I know since some of the scorps I talk about are seniors, even women!
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Posted by PV&JellayPosted by WalkergrlHow did you get his time of birth if you're not dating? Did you use your own time of birth with your natal chart?
Actually, at this point, I couldn't trust his explanation.
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I knew his birthday and where he was born because he told me. Cafeastrology.com will still do a natal chart even if you don't have a birth time.
We dated this past summer for roughly 6 weeks. We were together ALL the time. There were days when he was off work, that he would tell me that he was spending time with his sister or his son. I could feel in my gut things were not right. I told him in August, we needed to talk, he agreed, I went over to his place and waited for him to come home. He was dressed up, I asked him point blank if he was on a date. He told me he was. And that was that. I left.
4 days after announcing his relationship online, he begins texting me. After the 2nd text, I send him a scathing text. (in my mind it was anyway, see previous thread) That was Aug 31st.
Other than weirdly seeing him on my birthday in September, while I was with my son, (whom he had never met) I have not seen him since.
I block him on all social media. On Oct 5th, he starts texting me again. I know he's still in the same relationship because we run in the same social circles.
I'm telling you all of this because I'm not the marker here. Yes, my emotions are tangled up. I'm hurt and wounded. No, I have no desire to start anything with him. As I have said before, I could never trust him.
As for you, explaining some aspects of my chart to me, (even looking at his chart) it was enlightening and I truly do appreciate it. If you're feeling like you were misused or misguided, my sincerest apologies. That was certainly not my intent. I'm trying to learn from this situation and better myself from it.
Posted by PV&JellayMy natal chart has my time of birth.Posted by WalkergrlNo. My point is the synastry reading isn't accurate without tye right time of birth. Your natal reading may not be accurate either. Time of birth determines ascendant. The aspects will stay the same either way.Posted by PV&JellayPosted by WalkergrlHow did you get his time of birth if you're not dating? Did you use your own time of birth with your natal chart?
Actually, at this point, I couldn't trust his explanation.
I knew his birthday and where he was born because he told me. Cafeastrology.com will still do a natal chart even if you don't have a birth time.
We dated this past summer for roughly 6 weeks. We were together ALL the time. There were days when he was off work, that he would tell me that he was spending time with his sister or his son. I could feel in my gut things were not right. I told him in August, we needed to talk, he agreed, I went over to his place and waited for him to come home. He was dressed up, I asked him point blank if he was on a date. He told me he was. And that was that. I left.
4 days after announcing his relationship online, he begins texting me. After the 2nd text, I send him a scathing text. (in my mind it was anyway, see previous thread) That was Aug 31st.
Other than weirdly seeing him on my birthday in September, while I was with my son, (whom he had never met) I have not seen him since.
I block him on all social media. On Oct 5th, he starts texting me again. I know he's still in the same relationship because we run in the same social circles.
I'm telling you all of this because I'm not the marker here. Yes, my emotions are tangled up. I'm hurt and wounded. No, I have no desire to start anything with him. As I have said before, I could never trust him.
As for you, explaining some aspects of my chart to me, (even looking at his chart) it was enlightening and I truly do appreciate it. If you're feeling like you were misused or misguided, my sincerest apologies. That was certainly not my intent. I'm trying to learn from this situation and better myself from it.
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Posted by EnochtheWise1. I would think you're a clean freak
1. She had always told me she was intimidated by me when I was first working with her. I questioned around that, and she told me something funny. I'm a slight germophobe and when she sat in with me to mentor at work, after she used my keyboard, I wiped it down with a wet-wipe and I sanitized my own hands...lolol. I guess I am a Virgo Asc. after all. In my defense, I had just gotten over the flu...She felt like I thought she had a disease though.lol
2. I do stare a lot and I think that's why I make some people uncomfortable. With someone I am fixated on, its really hard not to stare. I can totally see how its creepy, I just don't know what to do about it, so I try to hide it, which I guess is even creepier...
3. On Pisces, it happened again yesterday at day's end. She came over to talk about randomness and we talked for 30 mins about nothing. Each time topic would fade, one of us, wanting to just prolong the staring, would revive it. I even tried to pull away but couldn't. What do I see in their eyes? The short answer is, a goddess. It would probably have to be poetry to describe it at any deeper/detailed level. Its a mystical feeling/experience. I guess now I know why. My favorite kind of communication is without words, and my favorite thing in the world are beautiful eyes. Their's are always the most beautiful to me.
2. yeah, not everyone like scorpio stare, a friend once said it's like a hawk tries to look through him
3. yeah, I kinda know why she wants to talk to u, scorpio eyes are so interesting, it's speak their soul; may be she finds that amusing (or maybe just me as I like staring into people eyes while talking, creepy habit though)
Posted by EnochtheWiseoh now I understand why, I sometimes do that until other person gets mad just because he/she annoyed me in the first place, due to my libra moon I guess..Posted by ariessungoddessOh I definitely agree that Libras like to stir the pot. I know several like this. I do this in communication, w/my Merc in Libra I suppose. I do it through flirtation a lot. Tells me where the boundaries are.
haha is that what it is! to see if something brings out some hidden insecurities? I thought the Librans did this but in a different way, they keep trying to provoke or annoy or interrupt until someone yells or breaks all hell loose on them, just to see what ticks them off! but they're apparently not singular. interesting.click to expand
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