Scorpio+Cancer

This topic was created in the Scorpio forum by Melka on Sunday, April 15, 2018 and has 3 replies.

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@Melka
8 Years

Hi Guys, posting this again, please help.

I would like to know if you had any good experience with Scorpios. What's the biggest challenge with this couple? The Scorpio guy I know is still young, and it seems he is playing mind games, has pride issues. I am always the one to initiate texts and it takes him days to respond sometime. But he likes to call me sometime and talks hours.

We are friends, and he says that he considers me a friend whom he can open up. Plus I think he likes me but hides it very well for couple of years already..

When I confronted him about writing, initiating, or even if I am more than a friend to him, he either gets mad or silent.

I am not sure how to take this..

He is a good person I know, but very closed in nature.

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@BubbleQueen
8 Years

Don’t waste your time on someone who 1. Plays mind games 2. Doesn’t initiate conversation 3. Ignores you. Girl, let him goooo. Stop all communication, be busy, and watch him come to you. If not then you’re better off.

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@Melka
8 Years

Posted by Lala1393

Posted by Melka
Hi Guys, posting this again, please help.

I would like to know if you had any good experience with Scorpios. What's the biggest challenge with this couple? The Scorpio guy I know is still young, and it seems he is playing mind games, has pride issues. I am always the one to initiate texts and it takes him days to respond sometime. But he likes to call me sometime and talks hours.

We are friends, and he says that he considers me a friend whom he can open up. Plus I think he likes me but hides it very well for couple of years already..

When I confronted him about writing, initiating, or even if I am more than a friend to him, he either gets mad or silent.

I am not sure how to take this..

He is a good person I know, but very closed in nature.

Sounds a bit strange. I mean of course I'm one to play mind games from time to time and my Scorpio bf too but if he likes you, there's no valuable reason as to why he should spend DAYS without writing or texting.

we've NEVER not once spent a day without texting, even when I left him for 6 months. I tried not to answer him, but when I did that, he went crazy.

So this to me sounds like he's just not that into you. Or he is scared of you or commitment for some reason.

Either way, the outcome is the same.

No matter what, a Scorpio man will ALWAYS let you know in his twisted little way that he REALLY likes you if that is the case.

The long hours on the phone sound just like a regular friendship.

I'm sorry.

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Thanks Lala, we are friends, long distance, and he is much younger than me. He showed all the signs of having crush on me, like starting, stalking around, but doesn't take any steps, only phone calls.

Maybe just the age barrier. I don't know

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@Itssumu91
8 Years

Same is mine situatiin he is younger to me and we are friends and all the aspects were same... Except he atleast yalk to you over the call. Mine doesnt even talk much over call infact he doesnt call at all.. And now he had even stopped texting me.

Guess even I got my answer