Scorpio cut me off again.

He just left again like blocked me from everything & refuses to read my messages in snap. Now I'm all the way across the country & am still in love with him. I cant sleep & if I do I wake up so upset. I don't know what to do about this. I love him so much. I had this chance to talk to him & I pushed him & pushed him. I'm just afraid of losing him but he turns around & cuts me off anyway. I cant call him. He said he's glad he doesn't have to wake up everyday hearing voice mails from me. I just want to establish something. I'm a wreck & I moved out of state with my sister & now I'm miserable. I have not seen him since October. I have no hope he will even try to contact me on his own. Cause he said over & over he doesn't love me & will never or be happy with or ever marry me. So this leaves me empty & alone. I told him from the start I need to be grounded by him or I'm gonna keep thinking there is something else out there for me. I am so upset I can't even make sense.

First thing you need to ask yourself is why do you feel you deserve to be with someone who treats you that way? There's more to life than someone who obviously has no love or respect for you. Block and delete him. Find someone worth your time.

tbf the OP's story makes her sound a bit stalkerish, but I don't know the whole story.

But blocking off someone is an awful way to prevent them from ever moving on

No I pushed him like telling I wanted more and to know now instead of giving it time. He said give it time. I didnt trust he was telling the truth as far actually even wanting to work towards it.

I'd go to work and he'd be all nice and doing things for me. When we'd get on the phone he turned into a psycho! So I went psycho back & got defensive. But then he responds with saying " I just wanted to have conversation with you" but how does he expect me to have a normal conversation with him after the things he said? I thought there was some kind of illness he had with the switching over from nasty to oh yeah I just wanted us to have conversation. So I put the phone down & he stayed on the other end for awhile. I didn't know what to say to what he said. Then he'd disappear for a week and I'd not text him. Then he'd text me & we'd talk. It was always some kind of attack. Only ever is it not an attack when he's coming over the house or at work. Now the tables turn though & he doesn't care to give me the time I gave him.

Just told me he didn't like me & I was ugly. But he chased me down for 4 months to give him my number. I stopped talking to him after that for awhile & then he started being nice again. Like he was sorry and didn't mean it. I was stupid & talked to him again. Then he says What he said he didn't mean. Then he get all psycho again on the phone. This was all before he finally decided to come over & we slept together. Twice he was a no show but I wasn't feeling it because he was a 31 yr old man getting a ride to my own apartment by his mom. It's one thing if his car was in the shop or he's going through tough times. Etc. but it's another when it's been like this since he was 17. I don't know.

I am going to be honest, I am having a hard time believing he was as bad as you say. Because I doubt that you would love someone as grotesque as you are stating he is.

But that point is moot. You need to understand to never rely on another person to ground you. You can't force someone else to love you. And yes, in this moment, you feel like your world is ending. In this moment, you don't want to be told a generic "move on". In this moment, you are terrified.

One day, you will look back on this terrible moment in time, and it will be a distant memory. Something that taught you a lesson. But until then, spend time with your friends and family. Lean on them. Keep your mind busy, so you don't sit there and go to that dark space in your head, that leaves that terrible feeling in your gut and heart.

Good luck.

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I am going to be honest, I am having a hard time believing he was as bad as you say. Because I doubt that you would love someone as grotesque as you are stating he is.

But that point is moot. You need to understand to never rely on another person to ground you. You can't force someone else to love you. And yes, in this moment, you feel like your world is ending. In this moment, you don't want to be told a generic "move on". In this moment, you are terrified.

One day, you will look back on this terrible moment in time, and it will be a distant memory. Something that taught you a lesson. But until then, spend time with your friends and family. Lean on them. Keep your mind busy, so you don't sit there and go to that dark space in your head, that leaves that terrible feeling in your gut and heart.

Good luck.

As a Scorpio I will be direct say I don’t love you is over

Vs leading on n giving false hope

I find the later cruel

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Honestly, I give zero fucks about his sun sign or astrology. Or statements about what a scorpio would or wouldn't do.

I care more that I see someone that is devastated and an emotional wreck. And I am talking to her as such.

Well well well, what we got in here? (clears throat)

I got blocked as well, his fragile ego couldn't stand my criticism, how dare I told him he's super indecisive and has trouble keeping his word (complete truth I swear) so he blocked me right away, telling me I don't get to tell him how to act and behave 😄 Also called me snarky LMAO

I was like thank you so much , I have absolutely no desire to raise a man child. Leave him alone, he will come running back, exes always come back and I will tell you a secret why, they fear of unknown, they would rather go back to date someone they already know and who's into them, rather than look for something else, what might not work in their favor.

My ex aquarius came back, currently we are talking, I'm just passing a time, no intention to get back with him, taurus came back, scorp wants me back, aries is also on the picture but he's blocked, he was too pushy 😄

Now I will wait for that cap, things doesn't seem to be working well between him and his ex, we will see..

But the truth is, THEY ALWAYS COME BACK !

I don't understand how he can just act likeI don't exist. He has not talking to me in two weeks. How am I suppose to get over this??

And then what?? I find a new man and do the same thing— Same outcome??

OP, it is painful for you at the moment, but you have to smack yourself back to reality and stop getting lost in your emotional pain.

Give yourself the time to heal through the process and accept it step by step. Continuing to contact him isn't getting you nowhere. You can't force someone to want the same thing you want.

It didn't turned out as you planned it to be, but the consequence of your own actions turns out into this kind of result.

Keep yourself busy, and refrain from contacting him. The only way to get him to contact you, is for him to reach out.

But till then, find a peace of mind within your time and yourself.

OP said " He said he's glad he doesn't have to wake up everyday hearing voice mails from me"

when he said this? before blocking you?

Guys are fickle pickle, let them go girlie, they will come back, save your dignity and don't beg, please don't. No begging, no sulking, nothing, no matter what he will come back

Do you really believe he will come back? My family hates him. I just have this doomed feeling about him that I'm nothing to him.