Scenic
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Scorpio ex contacted me
Posted by torothebull02
what do you expect to happen next? what would you like to happen next?
Hmm, I’d be okay with catching up with how he’s been doing, reminisce a little, then leave the convo at that and know that we’ve reconciled. It would honestly feel awkward to see him around his work place and think the best option is for both of us to pretend we never saw each other. Now if we see each other we can wave and keep moving on.
What I think will happen is the conversation dying out before any reminiscing and we’ll cease contact at that point, but again, the reconciliation is still there. I don’t want to keep the convo going for too long anyway.
Posted by Scenic
He apparently just got out of his 8 year relationship and said that he had always wanted to contact me to be friends, but was afraid to since his gf told him not to, which makes sense.
Cringe
Posted by GobbyPosted by ScenicPosted by torothebull02
what do you expect to happen next? what would you like to happen next?
Hmm, I’d be okay with catching up with how he’s been doing, reminisce a little, then leave the convo at that and know that we’ve reconciled. It would honestly feel awkward to see him around his work place and think the best option is for both of us to pretend we never saw each other. Now if we see each other we can wave and keep moving on.
What I think will happen is the conversation dying out before any reminiscing and we’ll cease contact at that point, but again, the reconciliation is still there. I don’t want to keep the convo going for too long anyway.
Stop deluding yourself. You already know how manipulative Scorpios can be, yet you're prepared to potentially open up old wounds? Your funeral...
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I have the emotional sphere of a potato. There will be no funeral. There’s not any wounds to reopen since it’s been so long. Any wound he wants to go after is already long gone. If he wants to manipulate or act a fool then I’ll end the conversation if it hasn’t already ended. The situation is interesting to me, but I hold no other feelings towards it than that.
imagine being with someone for 8 years and all that time they’re thinking of someone else
Posted by besarlalluvia
imagine being with someone for 8 years and all that time they’re thinking of someone else
Yes!
This thread does not make sense, every day people of different signals return to contact their former partners after many years.
If there is no real point, why create this thread.
You can read the first sentence without clicking on the thread...
Posted by Ellygant
Weren’t you guys engaged or about to be? I could be misremembering.
Scorp men, moreso than the women, reserve a special place for their first love. Think it’s a water sign male thing. If he got into a relationship right after, and you guys had been serious (even if it was only serious by younger standards) sounds like he took a commitment rebound.
I’d be wary of meeting up in that case. Sounds like he might have a lot rolling around in his heart and head he might vomit on you. Ain’t no one need that’s shit, especially a Pisces right before their birthday season.
Nah, we weren’t talking engagement at that point. Im not going to make any plans to meet up with him nor would I agree to any such plans. You’re likely right about the rebound thing.
Good seeing you still around here!
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