Scorpio ex finally moving on?

I’ll make this as short as possible.

I was with my Scorpio ex for 3 years. The last year I literally sustained him as he got addicted to Xanax and became depressed. When his cocaine dealer showed up to my house I finally kicked him out and drove him to his sisters house 5 hours away. We did the whole long distant thing for 6 months. But I felt like he wasn’t growing as a person and I couldn’t continue on this dead end relationship. Breaking up with him was the hardest thing I ever had to do. I didn’t do it because I stopped loving him but because our relationship wasn’t growing. He resents me for it and says I left him and gave up on him. I however was there for one whole year of him being job less and living off me, of me trying to get him help and a job and get him on his feet. Of me being hurt over his drug use. But he doesn’t care about that. I honestly haven’t moved on, because I’m still holding onto some hope that things will finally get better. I’m still there for him motivating and being his friend. We talk everyday. We went on a trip last month and we had so much fun. Once we were back home he called me saying how he wanted to move back and wanted us to be together and get a place. Then he started to pull away. He stopped calling me everyday, and just texted me, but the texts were short and it felt more obligated. I’ll tell him about me making friends and going out to bars and not one hint of jealousy. I even told him a guy asked for my number, and he just said “yeah I’m not surprised” I’ve told him twice that I think I’m finally ready to start dating because obviously I’m wasting my time waiting for him to decide if he wants to get back together, but all he does is change the subject. Whenever I bring out the fact that he’s being distant he gets defensive and gets off the phone. I guess I already know what I should do and just move on. Im just afraid because once I take the step forward and begin dating there’s no going back for me. That’s why I’ve waited so long to see if he’ll get his stuff together. Is this a sign of a Scorpio finally moving on? I would ask him myself and I have but all he does is ignore the question! I just don’t want to be dragged around any longer. If he wants to see other people than im all for it, just wish he’ll let me know so I can do the same.

Him Scorpio sun Moon Gemini Venus Capricorn Rising Leo age 29

Me: sun Libra moon Aquarius Venus Scorpio rising Scorpio age 26

Well not to start off negative but he sounds like a narcissist to me... along with a bunch of mind games on maybe both your parts.

You can not fix him, he needs to fix himself and it sounds like he hasn't completed that task yet

I'd truly move on for yourself more then anything.

Posted by Impulsv

Go to alanon.

Agreed with the addict part completely. alanon is great even just for oneself but it isn't going to fix their relationship. I'd run for the hills.