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Posted by thinktoomuch
Scorpio didn´t get the best of me 😄 He was textbook. No surprises there. But I was surprised - as a fellow scorpio - at how fake he could be and then take joy in having people in his life, that were there because he lied to them, as I have always been the exact opposite. I guess astrology really is bogus😄
But it´s just a part of the past and why not share the experience... Maybe OP will share hers here in a couple of years... If not in a month or two, when she has gotten a hold of him and is again full of questions.
I met him today. I didin't slept that much tonight because of yesterday and I had spent six hours with a school project that was for four persons with only me and a class mate because the other persons have the flu. I looked like shit! And he came to my school. Did I talk to him? Noooooooo! He picked up another girl there! I looked like shit and she(I think she is a 3:rd year) looked like those indian girls who are so disgusting pretty it shouldn't be legal and yes he ignored me. Do I have any questions? What blankets are thickest and darkest and best for dark corners?
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Posted by Octoberbaby91
He could be angry because he does have feelings for you that he is denying too. Give him space he will call you when he's ready and this time both of you guys need to be honest about how you feel. If he says he doesn't see you more than that then keep your distance and continue to date. Let him contradict himself while you move on to someone who wants to be with you.
I sooo hope you're right! Thank you! It's not looking very good now, but I hope it will. Can I ask? If I give him space isn't he just going to think that I don't regret something and that I still have a boyfriend and go on with being angry? My plan was that I would tell him and then give him space. What do you think?
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Posted by Octoberbaby91
You being a Capricorn all about status that was rude of you to say why jhe chose to bea carpenter it's not all about money he found his passion and I hope being a doctor is your passion because you will be miserable working 24/7 just for status and it's not what makes you happy.
Yes it was rude if you see it like that. I said I'm sorry to him. But it wasn't about money. It was that he is interrested in everything and knows everything and wants to know about new things all the time. I thought he wanted to do that in his work. I wanted to be a doctor since I was 5. I cut my own leg so I would know what was under my skin. My parents didn't like that so they bought a anatomy doll. I played with it all the time. Don't worry, it's my passion! 🙂
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Thank you so much for your comment!!! I believe what you're saying, It just sounds weird, Why didn't he try to have sex with me then? It's not like he's too shy to or anything. And you say he wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody. Do you mean it's just how he wants people to see him and it's not really true, or does he really not have feelings to anyone? Just a fantasy? I don't get that. Why? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just so confusd.
If he tried to have sex with you, all the mystery surrounding him would vanish. Then you´d know, that that´s just what he wanted, and he wouldn´t be able to have this little thing going on. No doubt, he probably think´s you´re cool and all, but he´s in a totally different place mentally. He wants you to do exactly what you´re doing now: thinking about him and asking why he does this and that. Just because that´s how he gets off. Some girls he can use one way, other girls he can use this way.
And it´s definitively not something you should try and work out. When I say, that he wants to come off as not having any emotions, it is in no way meant as something that could give you some sort of hope, that he is just scared of getting hurt or anything. Not at all. I mean it as a warning: he is mentally our of reach, you will never *get* him, because he will never want you to.
He could might as well put on a hat and a trenchcoat and walk around the streets at nights, smoking cigarettes in the shadows and tell himself, that he is a tortured soul that nobody will ever get. He´s living a fantasy, a very well known scorpio fantasy (as far as I know), and the fantasy is way more interesting than anything real, like a real relationship or a real friendship, where you could also have his phonenumber and shit. Lol! I think he probably has a monologue going inside of his head everywhere he goes, just like he´s in a movie or something.
I hate to say it.. But I'm doing the very same thing atm.
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Ouch! What does the person you are doing it with have to do to turn it around? Is there a way or do you have absolutely no feeling for him or her?
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But the thing is: you´re into him, so you wish he was your type, right?! It´s always a problem for us ladies (and men too I guess) : we´re attracted to someone that we know won´t work out. It´s just our minds and hearts playing us. Aaaaand ofcours the people who are players helps this phenomenon too.
You all say I'm into him. I'm saying I'm not. Yes, it would be good if he was my type and wanted a relationship, but he isn't. He's a player. I know that since I saw him.
Players can play different games to get their kicks. Just knowing you consume someone else's thoughts can be highly erotic.
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Okay. Got it. Is there something I can do? Thank you for your comments!
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you are interested in a scorpio but you want to know if he's a player.

you have libra boyfriend and want to know if he's a player too.

*hands you a mirror* quick, look! there goes the player.............
I know he's slept around a lot and that is a player, I think. Maybe I used the wrong word. But that's not against me so I didn't mean that. I don't think he plays me in a way that he's lying, but he's maybe playing with my head. And I want to know if he is doing that.

The comment of my boyfriend was a everythingisagainstme joke.

I'm not a player. Why do you think so?
because you have a boyfriend and your nose is planted in this scorpio man's butt.
I didn't know it was so bad, but now when I do I will break up with my boyfriend. I'm not going to do it on the phone or something I have to meet him and I will see him tomorrow. Do you think I should send a phone message, or somthing? No I'm not!
so, the scorpio said he wasn't interested in being in a relationship with you. you break up with your boyfriend to pursue the scorpio anyways.

what happens when you finally accept the fact that the scorpio isn't looking for a relationship with you.

go back to your boyfriend?
Come back to DXP
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Yes. You are now my crying bucket. 😉
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I just thought it was the funniest shit coming in here being all like "yeah, I´m a player" and "panties got to go" and then go to "but I really think he cares for you" 😄

But there´s no drama here from me. I bid you all a good day and enjoy paying and being played and not-played and falling in love and all that good stuff.
Look.. This shit isn't easy. She's become a friend, but you still want to hit it. But if we're friends, we get along. This has potential. But that means there could be a relationship down the road. Damn.. Need tomake sure the sex is good first. Panties gotta go.

Long story short. They're going to fuck.. And it will happen in the near future. If the sex is good between them.. She will break up with her boyfriend and the two will commit. If it's not.. He'll continue to say he doesn't want a relationship and she may potentially still break up with her boyfriend and chase Scorp man.

Mark my words.
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Okay! So much feelings when I read this.

You say there could be a relationship down the road. I had a bad day today, but you made me smile and have hope. I know the chance isn't big, but I have to hope.

Then you say "They're going to treetrunk.. And it will happen in the near future" and if you are meaning him and another girl I'm sure you're right. I saw them today in my school. He picked her up. It was great! Not smiling.

"She will break up with her boyfriend." Yes, I did. "and the two will commit." Smiling again.

..."if the sex is good between them." I was nervous before I had sex at my first time. That was the last time, until now. He has much more exeriance then me! It's not happening soon or it's not happening, but now I'm nervous. But I've never been so attracted to a guy before this so maybe it would work. I don't know. Damn!

But you write this "need tomake sure the sex is good first" First? Before a relationship? Is that what you're meaning? I don't do that.
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You had me here:
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He´s outta reach. If possible just try to be happy and content with yourself and your boyfriend without ever dealing with this scorpio guy again.

Reason he got mad for you not wanting to go out with him, when you now have a boyfriend, is - in his eyes: you were never ever dating, you were just hanging out at friends, so why should it matter f you got a boyfriend or not. ...
And lost me here:
Posted by thinktoomuchHe wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody really...but still he needs relationships to other people and the way you two did it fitt him perfectly it sounds. Never taking ir further, letting their always be mystery surrounding him (scorpios like that), knowing you´re probably a little enfatuated by him. You made it all too real with this comment about now hanging out because you have a boyfriend, there is no mystery and tension anymore, so he bounced.
He´s not interested in reality and dealing with real emotions, it´s all just the mystery and the fantasy that he´s into.
Especially the highlighted section. In not sure what reality you believe he isn't interested in. Perhaps you can explain.

It's pretty clear the man had emotions. He just chooses not to verbalized them beyond taking care of her for 4 days and "go piss off". Not sure why that isn't obvious.

The OP wanted more and is in denial. Too many conflicting statements to believe otherwise.
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This is how I'm seeing it. I'm not in denial anymore, but I was. Yes. Now it's just the question about if he has friendly emotions or more. If you have a guessing, I'd love to hear it. 🙂
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He´s outta reach. If possible just try to be happy and content with yourself and your boyfriend without ever dealing with this scorpio guy again.

Reason he got mad for you not wanting to go out with him, when you now have a boyfriend, is - in his eyes: you were never ever dating, you were just hanging out at friends, so why should it matter f you got a boyfriend or not. ...
And lost me here:
Posted by thinktoomuchHe wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody really...but still he needs relationships to other people and the way you two did it fitt him perfectly it sounds. Never taking ir further, letting their always be mystery surrounding him (scorpios like that), knowing you´re probably a little enfatuated by him. You made it all too real with this comment about now hanging out because you have a boyfriend, there is no mystery and tension anymore, so he bounced.
He´s not interested in reality and dealing with real emotions, it´s all just the mystery and the fantasy that he´s into.
Especially the highlighted section. In not sure what reality you believe he isn't interested in. Perhaps you can explain.

It's pretty clear the man had emotions. He just chooses not to verbalized them beyond taking care of her for 4 days and "go piss off". Not sure why that isn't obvious.

The OP wanted more and is in denial. Too many conflicting statements to believe otherwise.
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The reality he´s not interested in is the one, where you have a real, down to earth, everyday-normal relationship. He is - the way I read it - wayyyyy more interested in keeping himself a mystery to her and have her wondering, like she is doing now. Her telling him, that she likes him, and him telling her, that he likes her will take all the mystery out of the situation.

And I´m sure, that he likes her, obviously he was also being a friend to her, but the way I read it, he´s just not in a place where stepping into a relationship with a future and being domesticised (what I mean by reality) is something he is at all interested in. Also all the emotional drama that can go hand in hand with a relationship. Any setting that will require something from him, which he is not willing to give away for free - the responsibility. Because I have experience with a scorpio guy from way back, this is all very cear to me, but maybe it sounds very confusing when I try to explain it here😄
But to me he doesn´t want a relationship
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So many comments! Thank you! I'm going to read all, absolutely! I just don't have any strenghth now. I just got home from breaking up with my boyfriend and it was bad! He was smiling and bought me lilies. I almost didn't do it, but it would be worse to not do it and pretend. I'm going to bed now. I just wanted to tell you. You have scrambled my brain but in a good way.

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Good boy! Let's just hope you're right about other things you said too... 🙂
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I just thought it was the funniest shit coming in here being all like "yeah, I´m a player" and "panties got to go" and then go to "but I really think he cares for you" 😄

But there´s no drama here from me. I bid you all a good day and enjoy paying and being played and not-played and falling in love and all that good stuff.
Look.. This shit isn't easy. She's become a friend, but you still want to hit it. But if we're friends, we get along. This has potential. But that means there could be a relationship down the road. Damn.. Need tomake sure the sex is good first. Panties gotta go.

Long story short. They're going to fuck.. And it will happen in the near future. If the sex is good between them.. She will break up with her boyfriend and the two will commit. If it's not.. He'll continue to say he doesn't want a relationship and she may potentially still break up with her boyfriend and chase Scorp man.

Mark my words.
Okay! So much feelings when I read this.

You say there could be a relationship down the road. I had a bad day today, but you made me smile and have hope. I know the chance isn't big, but I have to hope.

Then you say "They're going to treetrunk.. And it will happen in the near future" and if you are meaning him and another girl I'm sure you're right. I saw them today in my school. He picked her up. It was great! Not smiling.

"She will break up with her boyfriend." Yes, I did. "and the two will commit." Smiling again.

..."if the sex is good between them." I was nervous before I had sex at my first time. That was the last time, until now. He has much more exeriance then me! It's not happening soon or it's not happening, but now I'm nervous. But I've never been so attracted to a guy before this so maybe it would work. I don't know. Damn!

But you write this "need tomake sure the sex is good first" First? Before a relationship? Is that what you're meaning? I don't do that.
You have to test drive before you sign on the dotted line.
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Omg. Please tell me if you're joking or if you're thinking he will really think this.
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Thank you so much for your comment!!! I believe what you're saying, It just sounds weird, Why didn't he try to have sex with me then? It's not like he's too shy to or anything. And you say he wants to come off as not having any emotions towards anybody. Do you mean it's just how he wants people to see him and it's not really true, or does he really not have feelings to anyone? Just a fantasy? I don't get that. Why? Sorry for all the questions, I'm just so confusd.
If he tried to have sex with you, all the mystery surrounding him would vanish. Then you´d know, that that´s just what he wanted, and he wouldn´t be able to have this little thing going on. No doubt, he probably think´s you´re cool and all, but he´s in a totally different place mentally. He wants you to do exactly what you´re doing now: thinking about him and asking why he does this and that. Just because that´s how he gets off. Some girls he can use one way, other girls he can use this way.
And it´s definitively not something you should try and work out. When I say, that he wants to come off as not having any emotions, it is in no way meant as something that could give you some sort of hope, that he is just scared of getting hurt or anything. Not at all. I mean it as a warning: he is mentally our of reach, you will never *get* him, because he will never want you to.
He could might as well put on a hat and a trenchcoat and walk around the streets at nights, smoking cigarettes in the shadows and tell himself, that he is a tortured soul that nobody will ever get. He´s living a fantasy, a very well known scorpio fantasy (as far as I know), and the fantasy is way more interesting than anything real, like a real relationship or a real friendship, where you could also have his phonenumber and shit. Lol! I think he probably has a monologue going inside of his head everywhere he goes, just like he´s in a movie or something.
I hate to say it.. But I'm doing the very same thing atm.
Ouch! What does the person you are doing it with have to do to turn it around? Is there a way or do you have absolutely no feeling for him or her?
I'm not really sure. It's sort of a vetting process at the moment.
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If you want to, I'd love to be hearing more of this process.🙂
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damn OP.....I came in here to see if u grew a sack of balls and said somethin to him.......I guess u couldnt since he was picking up another girl.....boy this scorp dont play hahaha He knows : The panties must come off --he is single


dont give up though Cappie....no sense of living with "what if" .......You will REALLY never know whats goin on in scorp guys' head...Listen to the "getmisted" too...He's been giving you some sound advice
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I didn't get it all in my post before. What I wanted to say was that:

You said: "Her telling him, that she likes him, and him telling her, that he likes her will take all the mystery out of the situation." to PhoenixRising.

I have been thinking that if you think that way wouldn't he have taken all the mystery out of the situation when he was taking care of me the four days, anyway. He didn't have to do it. What do you think?

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I just thought it was the funniest shit coming in here being all like "yeah, I´m a player" and "panties got to go" and then go to "but I really think he cares for you" 😄 .
Look.. This shit isn't easy. She's become a friend, but you still want to hit it. But if we're friends, we get along. This has potential. But that means there could be a relationship down the road. Damn.. Need tomake sure the sex is good first. Panties gotta go.

Long story short. They're going to fuck.. And it will happen in the near future. If the sex is good between them.. She will break up with her boyfriend and the two will commit. If it's not.. He'll continue to say he doesn't want a relationship and she may potentially still break up with her boyfriend and chase Scorp man.

Mark my words.
..."if the sex is good between them." I was nervous before I had sex at my first time. That was the last time, until now. He has much more exeriance then me! It's not happening soon or it's not happening, but now I'm nervous. But I've never been so attracted to a guy before this so maybe it would work. I don't know. Damn!

But you write this "need tomake sure the sex is good first" First? Before a relationship? Is that what you're meaning? I don't do that.
You have to test drive before you sign on the dotted line.
Omg. Please tell me if you're joking or if you're thinking he will really think this.
I'm not him.. So how I think most likely isn't the same thought process he may have.

All I am saying is that I see not point of a relationship is we're not compatible sexually. I'm also not one who
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No, I know I'm asking you to guess. Nothing else. I'm really happy for your comments🙂
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damn OP.....I came in here to see if u grew a sack of balls and said somethin to him.......I guess u couldnt since he was picking up another girl.....boy this scorp dont play hahaha He knows : The panties must come off --he is single


dont give up though Cappie....no sense of living with "what if" .......You will REALLY never know whats goin on in scorp guys' head...Listen to the "getmisted" too...He's been giving you some sound advice
I know! Before my meeting with him I was not being nice to a guy friend who has onenightstands not maaany, but some and now with the scorpio it's like "oh one more? damn! Oh well, it's okay, he's single........ hope he has feelings for me." I'm meaning: what the **** did I get hit in the head? But that's really how I think. I will say I'm sorry to my friend when I meet him.

Thank you, thank you, thank you! You two have helped me a lot!
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I already explained it..

1. Do you enjoy being around them? Yes.
2. Is the sex good between the two of you? Yes
3. Relationship
Yes, I get it. And I think the sex have to work too, but I'm not a person who wants to have sex and not be in a relationship, but it's hard to know if that will happen if you don't try it, I know. Thinking...
What's there to think about? Seems you've already made up your mind. Why else would you have broken up with your boyfriend?
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I have made up the mind that I'm going to try to be together with him, but we have things to talk about. And I'm not having sex when I'm not in a relationship if I havent decided that I can do that. If I'm not okay with it I'm not going to do it. But I don't know if it's something he needs to do before anyway now. I hope not. I broke up with my boyfriend because he is not my number one. If the scorpio(weird calling him that) says no then I can not be with the libra anyway because I still like the scorpio more. Much more.
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I didn't get it all in my post before. What I wanted to say was that:

You said: "Her telling him, that she likes him, and him telling her, that he likes her will take all the mystery out of the situation." to PhoenixRising.

I have been thinking that if you think that way wouldn't he have taken all the mystery out of the situation when he was taking care of me the four days, anyway. He didn't have to do it. What do you think?
Not sure I understand your question right.
But what I was trying to say is, that he is NOT interested in getting real. He wants to keep the mystery. Clearly taking care of you those days didn´t make clear up the mystery, ´cause here you are asking what he feels for you🙂
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I already explained it..

1. Do you enjoy being around them? Yes.
2. Is the sex good between the two of you? Yes
3. Relationship
Yes, I get it. And I think the sex have to work too, but I'm not a person who wants to have sex and not be in a relationship, but it's hard to know if that will happen if you don't try it, I know. Thinking...
What's there to think about? Seems you've already made up your mind. Why else would you have broken up with your boyfriend?
I have made up the mind that I'm going to try to be together with him, but we have things to talk about. And I'm not having sex when I'm not in a relationship if I havent decided that I can do that. If I'm not okay with it I'm not going to do it. But I don't know if it's something he needs to do before anyway now. I hope not. I broke up with my boyfriend because he is not my number one. If the scorpio(weird calling him that) says no then I can not be with the libra anyway because I still like the scorpio more. Much more.
That seems realistic. Just hold close to your principles. Even if the panties don't come off.. I can still respect the principle. That's not to say I wouldn't just see you as a challenge though.
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When you say challenge, do you mean a challenge to get the panties off...before a relationship, or would you be in a relationship just to get the panties off?
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I already explained it..

1. Do you enjoy being around them? Yes.
2. Is the sex good between the two of you? Yes
3. Relationship
Yes, I get it. And I think the sex have to work too, but I'm not a person who wants to have sex and not be in a relationship, but it's hard to know if that will happen if you don't try it, I know. Thinking...
What's there to think about? Seems you've already made up your mind. Why else would you have broken up with your boyfriend?
I have made up the mind that I'm going to try to be together with him, but we have things to talk about. And I'm not having sex when I'm not in a relationship if I havent decided that I can do that. If I'm not okay with it I'm not going to do it. But I don't know if it's something he needs to do before anyway now. I hope not. I broke up with my boyfriend because he is not my number one. If the scorpio(weird calling him that) says no then I can not be with the libra anyway because I still like the scorpio more. Much more.
That seems realistic. Just hold close to your principles. Even if the panties don't come off.. I can still respect the principle. That's not to say I wouldn't just see you as a challenge though.
Thank you! 🙂

When you say challenge, do you mean a challenge to get the panties off...before a relationship, or would you be in a relationship just to get the panties off?
Both
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He picked up another girl? That was so tacky he has no class. 😢

Move on dear you deserve more than a mystery.
I'm sorry about my late answer. I wanted not to think about this for some days. I failed, but at least I tried.

Yes, but the thing is that he's single and he can do what he wants. Or are you meaning that he can have planned it? That would be bad!

The worst thing is if he got a girlfriend. I can't even think about that.
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Hi again. If anyone is interested I bumped into him today. He was still really angry because he looked at me like that and then turned around and began to leave, but I asked him to stop so I could talk to him.

Everything just fell out wrong and in the wrong order and I don't know if he understood what I was telling him because I was a mess. It was too fast too because I hear myself tell him that I like him and want to be with him and when I said that he looked like I was threattening him with a chainsaw. And I know I should have stopped then but I started crying and just talked and talked and cried and cried and he stared at me. I am NEVER like this. Then I just turned and ran. I know, the mature way to do it. Bleeech!

The ending is not great but I want to tell you how it went because you have been great and give me great comments!
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Posted by elllesque
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lol @ she said also that he was a typical scorpio. i don't know what that means so I googled it and ended up here.
Yes you think I'm a joke. I understand that.

Congratulations! You're right. I'm rejected. I'm sure you feel great about it.
No, I don't think you are a joke. I started to read your OP and then seen it was an older thread.

Dxp isn't the most 'stellar' place to 'end up' when researching your 'typical scorpio'. After being here for awhile (6 years).....I found the wording comical. I was not laughing *at* you, by any means.
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I'm sorry. This is a bad day and I maybe see negative in everything now. Thank you that you told me.
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Posted by WhiteChocolate
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he sounds kind of like a PUA...but only read the first page.
He has really been nice to me and I didn't want to think that he was a PUA to me. I know he has been with a lot of girls. I hoped he wasn't playing me because I really thought he cared about me.
That's what PUAs do.

It's not your fault.

View this as a learning experience.
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Thank you! It's just so hard for me to see what he got out of it. I didn't sleep with him. He didn't even try.
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@OP- So young and undecided though, Just be single and drop both of them.

Or figure out the relationship you have now and work it out with your current bff before it's too late. If that was our situation you would have lost alot of trust in our relationship to no longer wanting you as a friend either. If you came out with it..

And he could be on here dxp watching and sitting back now. Be careful and honest.


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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- So young and undecided though, Just be single and drop both of them.

Or figure out the relationship you have now and work it out with your current bff before it's too late. If that was our situation you would have lost alot of trust in our relationship to no longer wanting you as a friend either. If you came out with it..

And he could be on here dxp watching and sitting back now. Be careful and honest.

I broke up with my bf because I like the scorpio and the scorpio don't want me so I'm single. And I like the scorpio too much to be with a different guy. So it will be like you said. Thank you for the comment!
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Posted by FirstDecanTaurianWomen0428
@OP- That guy is a douche serious you can do better by yourself, take a break and find another on available and not a donkey. So disrespectful and isolate yourself from the Scorpio all together. It's hard..but suck it up. SOME of us on here have been through hell and back and are giving truths.
I don't have to isolate myself from the scorpio, he is isolating me from him. It's just that we was so great together. But that's just the way I see it. He wanted attention and he got it but he was a great friend. Why do all that for me for a little attention? I don't get it. I really have to google PUA.

Do you have been with a scorpio guy like this? What did he do?
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Posted by tegony
And he is going to appear again. If he is not making move, then he is waiting for you to make a move. He says he doesn't want a relationship, but he is searching for you and he's reaching you.

You have the possibility to change his mind, if you want. But know, that he can- at any time- claim that he didn't want a relationship, and just leave.
I don't understand. I did make a move and he looked like he wanted to run away. Do you think he is interested anyway? He didn't get to talk because I was a babbling mess so he didn't say no, but now i don't know. Do you really think that I can have a chance?