BornCapricorn
@BornCapricorn
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Posted by BornCapricornWe've known eachother for years. We worked together but he had a girlfriend so I kept my distance. He came back to work from an LOA, and with no girlfriend, so long story short, yes we're together now and it's been a long time coming. We're happy, and I think he's my future husband tbh.Posted by GreenteaThank you! Omg. I'm starting to have hope. Do you really think so? But when I say I like him he looked like he wanted to run away. And he has told me that he don't want a relationship. I want to know what he is thinking. I'm going crazy!
He has respect for you and likes to be around you. Otherwise he would've banged or hooked up with you like those two sluts at the party. Took care of you for r days while you were sick.
He respect you, which us Caps like. . I think he likes you too tbh.
I hope my scorp guy let's me throw up on him when I'm sick and still loves me afterwards. 🙂
You are a cap with a scorpio boyfriend? That's great! Is it going well? If you want to tell me.click to expand
Posted by GreenteaThat is great! Really! I'm so happy for you!Posted by BornCapricornWe've known eachother for years. We worked together but he had a girlfriend so I kept my distance. He came back to work from an LOA, and with no girlfriend, so long story short, yes we're together now and it's been a long time coming. We're happy, and I think he's my future husband tbh.Posted by GreenteaThank you! Omg. I'm starting to have hope. Do you really think so? But when I say I like him he looked like he wanted to run away. And he has told me that he don't want a relationship. I want to know what he is thinking. I'm going crazy!
He has respect for you and likes to be around you. Otherwise he would've banged or hooked up with you like those two sluts at the party. Took care of you for r days while you were sick.
He respect you, which us Caps like. . I think he likes you too tbh.
I hope my scorp guy let's me throw up on him when I'm sick and still loves me afterwards. 🙂
You are a cap with a scorpio boyfriend? That's great! Is it going well? If you want to tell me.
I think he does like you, but perhaps just really respects you too much where he knows he camt treat you like the other girls he messes with. You're different, he knows it and knows that he really needs to get himself together to be in a relationship with you perhaps.click to expand
Posted by tegonyBut what can I do to close the distance? I just told him I like him and he didn't give me a sign that he likes me.
You know when a scorpio likes you, when he doesn't treat you like a piece of shit. Look what Greentea has written above. This the truth.
When a scorpio man is distant, then he has some doubts. It's up to you to close the distance.

Posted by BornCapricornJust act the same around him, you've already made it this far. You're not the issue, it's him. He likes you.Posted by GreenteaThat is great! Really! I'm so happy for you!Posted by BornCapricornWe've known eachother for years. We worked together but he had a girlfriend so I kept my distance. He came back to work from an LOA, and with no girlfriend, so long story short, yes we're together now and it's been a long time coming. We're happy, and I think he's my future husband tbh.Posted by GreenteaThank you! Omg. I'm starting to have hope. Do you really think so? But when I say I like him he looked like he wanted to run away. And he has told me that he don't want a relationship. I want to know what he is thinking. I'm going crazy!
He has respect for you and likes to be around you. Otherwise he would've banged or hooked up with you like those two sluts at the party. Took care of you for r days while you were sick.
He respect you, which us Caps like. . I think he likes you too tbh.
I hope my scorp guy let's me throw up on him when I'm sick and still loves me afterwards. 🙂
You are a cap with a scorpio boyfriend? That's great! Is it going well? If you want to tell me.
I think he does like you, but perhaps just really respects you too much where he knows he camt treat you like the other girls he messes with. You're different, he knows it and knows that he really needs to get himself together to be in a relationship with you perhaps.
I sooo hope you're right! And I can't do something. All I can do is wait for him to do something? But I don't want to hope too much. I'm so frustrated!click to expand

Posted by BornCapricornGo back to the basics. Don't bring up what happened, be his friend again.
That's the problem. I'm not around him and if I go look for him now after this, he will think that I'm really crazy. And act the same around him after I have been like this mess that happened today. How?
Posted by BornCapricornThis is how bad it was.
Hi again. If anyone is interested I bumped into him today. He was still really angry because he looked at me like that and then turned around and began to leave, but I asked him to stop so I could talk to him.
Everything just fell out wrong and in the wrong order and I don't know if he understood what I was telling him because I was a mess. It was too fast too because I hear myself tell him that I like him and want to be with him and when I said that he looked like I was threattening him with a chainsaw. And I know I should have stopped then but I started crying and just talked and talked and cried and cried and he stared at me. I am NEVER like this. Then I just turned and ran. I know, the mature way to do it. Bleeech!
The ending is not great but I want to tell you how it went because you have been great and give me great comments!
Posted by tegonyThank you!
Stay around him, show him you care...
Posted by tegonyEven after my crazy behaviour today? I already told him I like him. Don't you think he could make a move now if he want to?
You contact him...we like things like that

Posted by BornCapricornHmmm..ok. ya , a bit of a trainwrecks there but it's ok. Like I said, go back to the basics. Get yourself back, that emotional rant probably had him thinking and he may have liked it, who knows....Posted by BornCapricornThis is how bad it was.
Hi again. If anyone is interested I bumped into him today. He was still really angry because he looked at me like that and then turned around and began to leave, but I asked him to stop so I could talk to him.
Everything just fell out wrong and in the wrong order and I don't know if he understood what I was telling him because I was a mess. It was too fast too because I hear myself tell him that I like him and want to be with him and when I said that he looked like I was threattening him with a chainsaw. And I know I should have stopped then but I started crying and just talked and talked and cried and cried and he stared at me. I am NEVER like this. Then I just turned and ran. I know, the mature way to do it. Bleeech!
The ending is not great but I want to tell you how it went because you have been great and give me great comments!
And I broke up with my bf weaks ago because I like the scorpio. This is an old thread.click to expand
Posted by elllesque+10000000000000000000000000
It's irritating when people go from one to another like human beings are made to be expendable. Take what you need and then toss them like a half eaten hamburger.
This damages people and creates the player you are so concerned of running into.
I wish your ex libra the best of luck with his new girlfriend.
Posted by tegonyThank you! I met him yesterday at a party. We came when he was going so it was only a minute. I said like don't worry I'm not going to cry. It was just a little much before but I meant what I said. I'm not good at telling it in english right now, but I think that it went well, but I don't know how he thought about it. He just said I have to go. He didn't look angry or happy or anything. I don't know at all.
hmmm I don't know that... But when a scorpio doesn't chase you, try to do it yourself
Posted by GreenteaThank you for comment!Posted by BornCapricornHmmm..ok. ya , a bit of a trainwrecks there but it's ok. Like I said, go back to the basics. Get yourself back, that emotional rant probably had him thinking and he may have liked it, who knows....Posted by BornCapricornThis is how bad it was.
Hi again. If anyone is interested I bumped into him today. He was still really angry because he looked at me like that and then turned around and began to leave, but I asked him to stop so I could talk to him.
Everything just fell out wrong and in the wrong order and I don't know if he understood what I was telling him because I was a mess. It was too fast too because I hear myself tell him that I like him and want to be with him and when I said that he looked like I was threattening him with a chainsaw. And I know I should have stopped then but I started crying and just talked and talked and cried and cried and he stared at me. I am NEVER like this. Then I just turned and ran. I know, the mature way to do it. Bleeech!
The ending is not great but I want to tell you how it went because you have been great and give me great comments!
And I broke up with my bf weaks ago because I like the scorpio. This is an old thread.
I would reach out and probably invite him somewhere, a conert or a gathering or something. Ask him if he wants to come, amd just act normal...not.cold, but normal.
When was the last time you spoke to him, amd does he know you broke up with your boyfriend?
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Posted by AlphaThank you!
Yeah, it's a long thread lol So, I read the first 3 pages and moved here. The way he acted at the beginning was just for fun. Yes, he did care about you as a friend but there was no real connection to anything else. He did it coz he felt good about himself and wanted to express it. And, when you told him you couldn't go out with him coz you already have a boyfriend, he felt sick and must've thought that you deprived him of all the fantasies he was into. You don't really need to ponder or analyze this crazy behavior.
Now that you've dumped your boyfriend, I agree with tegony on his/her comment "Stay around him, show him you care". You'll need to earn his respect and loyalty. It's worth it. But I must also warn you that don't cry or try to garner sympathy from him coz he'll most probably give you a cold shoulder. You must stay strong and show him signs that you can actually LIVE happily without him. It'll attract him towards you. Stay controlled and have a strong grip on your emotions. And, of course, don't be clingy or you'll lose him forever. Keep yourself busy. Go slowly and patiently. Give him his space. Let things evolve naturally. Don't push him or yourself. Since, he's emotionally detached, it might or might not work but it's good to give it a shot. At least, you won't have any regrets in future. 😉
Posted by tegonyThank you! That was good to know! You think he is disgusted by my behaviour? I can't say I blame him. I am also. Ouch!Posted by BornCapricornI don't know for all scorps, but when I try to be cold on the surface, I'm boiling hot inside. Especially when I cannot administrate, or when I'm shocked from someone's behaviour, I become cold.Posted by tegonyThank you! I met him yesterday at a party. We came when he was going so it was only a minute. I said like don't worry I'm not going to cry. It was just a little much before but I meant what I said. I'm not good at telling it in english right now, but I think that it went well, but I don't know how he thought about it. He just said I have to go. He didn't look angry or happy or anything. I don't know at all.
hmmm I don't know that... But when a scorpio doesn't chase you, try to do it yourselfclick to expand
Posted by tegonyI hope you're right! Thank you so much for your comments! It's really helpful!
I have not read all the thread either, as it's huge, but- talking in general- a disgusted scorpio would ignore you.
Posted by Lala1393WOW! What did they do to you?
I find scorpio men to be the WORST. Cheating, manipulative, pussy chasing, game playing guys YET they have the nerve to be possessive and jealous.
Like bruh calm down and take 2 seats.

Posted by BornCapricornHe's harboring resentment right now becaue.of the boyfriend and not wanting to hang out with him...he might think you're just in a way using him now that you don't have one, when that's not the case.Posted by GreenteaThank you for comment!Posted by BornCapricornHmmm..ok. ya , a bit of a trainwrecks there but it's ok. Like I said, go back to the basics. Get yourself back, that emotional rant probably had him thinking and he may have liked it, who knows....Posted by BornCapricornThis is how bad it was.
Hi again. If anyone is interested I bumped into him today. He was still really angry because he looked at me like that and then turned around and began to leave, but I asked him to stop so I could talk to him.
Everything just fell out wrong and in the wrong order and I don't know if he understood what I was telling him because I was a mess. It was too fast too because I hear myself tell him that I like him and want to be with him and when I said that he looked like I was threattening him with a chainsaw. And I know I should have stopped then but I started crying and just talked and talked and cried and cried and he stared at me. I am NEVER like this. Then I just turned and ran. I know, the mature way to do it. Bleeech!
The ending is not great but I want to tell you how it went because you have been great and give me great comments!
And I broke up with my bf weaks ago because I like the scorpio. This is an old thread.
I would reach out and probably invite him somewhere, a conert or a gathering or something. Ask him if he wants to come, amd just act normal...not.cold, but normal.
When was the last time you spoke to him, amd does he know you broke up with your boyfriend?
I told him that I broke up with my bf in my trainwrecks rant. Before that I didn't talked to him since he got angry. I met him yesterday at a party like you can see in my last post. I can't reach out to him because I don't have his number and after my crazy rant I don't want to be too creepy by being like a stalker or something. What I can do is to try to bump into him when it looks like it was an accident.
"a bit of a trainwrecks." That was nice of you! It was five trainwrecks in a pile. Sooo bad! I haven't been before. Never. Sooo embarrassing!click to expand

Posted by GreenteaThat's good advice! Thank you! 🙂
*it cut off some of my response
All these misunderstandings need time. In the meantime, domt lose focus on yourself, take care of you. Always look nice so when he see you, he has good picture in his mind, and always be nice to him, look him in the eyes when you talk. Your birthday is coming up soon, maybe he will reach out..or you can reach out to invite him to wherever your going.
Good luck Cappie, be good to yourself. Just give him his time to sort out his feelings. 🙂

Posted by BornCapricornHe may not see it that way because you didn't want to see him because you had one. So he may think that you're not honest, maybe using that as an excuse since yiu just dripped him before.
@Greentea
I don't understand. How can he think I'm using him now when I don't have a bf? I broke up with my bf because I like him. I told him that in my rant.
Posted by Lala1393I only know this scorpio, so I don't know. All I can do is to hope you're wrong. I'm really trying to not get my hopes up, because he can be what you say, but I really don't think he is. I hope you're wrong.Posted by BornCapricornNothing. I only very briefly dated one. But I've observed their behaviour. There seems to be a huge difference between the mature scorpio men and the immature ones like the one you seem to be dealing with. But the mature male scorpio is hard to find while out in public and if he is , he won't be all extra and in your face like your one. You might not even spot him until you catch his intense gaze.Posted by Lala1393WOW! What did they do to you?
I find scorpio men to be the WORST. Cheating, manipulative, pussy chasing, game playing guys YET they have the nerve to be possessive and jealous.
Like bruh calm down and take 2 seats.
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Posted by BornCapricornThank you for your comment!Posted by Lala1393I only know this scorpio, so I don't know. All I can do is to hope you're wrong. I'm really trying to not get my hopes up, because he can be what you say, but I really don't think he is. I hope you're wrong.Posted by BornCapricornNothing. I only very briefly dated one. But I've observed their behaviour. There seems to be a huge difference between the mature scorpio men and the immature ones like the one you seem to be dealing with. But the mature male scorpio is hard to find while out in public and if he is , he won't be all extra and in your face like your one. You might not even spot him until you catch his intense gaze.Posted by Lala1393WOW! What did they do to you?
I find scorpio men to be the WORST. Cheating, manipulative, pussy chasing, game playing guys YET they have the nerve to be possessive and jealous.
Like bruh calm down and take 2 seats.
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Posted by GreenteaYes. True. I just wish he could read my thoughts. Yes, I will give him time. It's so crazy. I have heard this kind of talk about guys and girls from my friends and I have got them advice and I have thought that they are making everything so big. I have been understanding, but now I really get it.Posted by BornCapricornHe may not see it that way because you didn't want to see him because you had one. So he may think that you're not honest, maybe using that as an excuse since yiu just dripped him before.
@Greentea
I don't understand. How can he think I'm using him now when I don't have a bf? I broke up with my bf because I like him. I told him that in my rant.
Just give him time to think about what you said to him that day.click to expand
Posted by Lala1393Hope he's the mature type then or mature really fast! This could be really bad!Posted by tegonyYeah I've found that there's a huge difference. 🙂Posted by Lala1393You must be right about the mature and immature scorpios... I had never thought of this...Posted by BornCapricornNothing. I only very briefly dated one. But I've observed their behaviour. There seems to be a huge difference between the mature scorpio men and the immature ones like the one you seem to be dealing with. But the mature male scorpio is hard to find while out in public and if he is , he won't be all extra and in your face like your one. You might not even spot him until you catch his intense gaze.Posted by Lala1393WOW! What did they do to you?
I find scorpio men to be the WORST. Cheating, manipulative, pussy chasing, game playing guys YET they have the nerve to be possessive and jealous.
Like bruh calm down and take 2 seats.
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Posted by tegonylol "my" scorpio has been immature for some time. Hope he learnt something.🙂Posted by Lala1393Don't forget then, that a mature scorpio has been an immature for some time 😛Posted by tegonyYeah I've found that there's a huge difference. 🙂Posted by Lala1393You must be right about the mature and immature scorpios... I had never thought of this...Posted by BornCapricornNothing. I only very briefly dated one. But I've observed their behaviour. There seems to be a huge difference between the mature scorpio men and the immature ones like the one you seem to be dealing with. But the mature male scorpio is hard to find while out in public and if he is , he won't be all extra and in your face like your one. You might not even spot him until you catch his intense gaze.Posted by Lala1393WOW! What did they do to you?
I find scorpio men to be the WORST. Cheating, manipulative, pussy chasing, game playing guys YET they have the nerve to be possessive and jealous.
Like bruh calm down and take 2 seats.
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Posted by thinktoomuchThank you so much! You helped me see things from different sides, so that's great! 🙂 Now all I need is to learn to handle him. 😉
Wauw.
I was totally wrong! 😄
Eh, love - who really knows what´s what?!
Good luck to ya.

Posted by BornCapricornLOL that cracked me up. Like damn okay Edward Cullen.
He showed up outside my training and he wanted to talk to me so we were going to my place. He was like nothing had happened on the walk, like how was training and things like that(and I asked his birthday. Tihi) and then when we came inside he asked me if I wanted a one night stand. I was like WHAT? NO! Are you crazy? And he just laughed and he said, good, then we can talk. Or have you change your mind? I was like, what just happened?
I don't remember how he said it, because I was shocked, but he said that he was interested(YESSSS!!!!!) but he had something to say. When we have met before he has been telling me about what he doesn't like about people in relationships. It's just games and cheating and now he said it again.
Something like this. I don't play games. If you leave because your angry I'm not going after you. If you leave you want to be alone and if you want me to follow you tell me. He said things like that. And no lying about anything. No white lies. Nothing. Cheating is not okay. I don't do open relationships. I can't stand stagnant life or sex. I'm difficult. I don't know anything about relationships I just know what I want so I tell you. Are you still interested? If you have a answer now I don't want to hear it if it's yes or no, I want you to think about it.
Then he stand up and was at the door and before he closed the door he said, do you think I'm fun? I said yes. And he looked at me and say: I'm not. And then he left.
I'm so happy and confused. I can almost not write this. He really thought about it. I just want him to come back so I can say yes. But does he really want to? Because it was like he was warning me for him or something. It's so great you don't know us. I can't tell my friends here all this.
If you ask what I said when he was here it was nothing that I didn't write here. He talked and I stared.



Posted by frostey91What kind of games? How do they manipulate? What did they do to you?
I feel like Scorps are really blunt when it comes to relationships but be worry for games and secret manipulation.

Posted by BornCapricornHe can have ulterior motives. As far as manipulation is concerned, you kind of have to sense it on the spot. But scorpios are known to test people before further opening themselves up. Like that one night stand offer.
@SassyKiwi
lol@Edward Cullen So scorpios try to sound all badass and mysterious? Many of you has said that there is gameplaying like that, but he doesn't want gameplaying. I think he has been very direct with me. Do you think he is lying or is it something you think he does without knowing?

Posted by BornCapricornAbsolutely
To what? JK Rowling? 😉
Posted by SassyKiwiWhy do I get the feeling that he's giving me grey hairs before my 25th birthday? lol Thank you so much for the comments! 🙂 I have to ask. Did it look 50 Shades to you? A little? A lot? You don't know? Sorry for all the questions, I'm a little nervous.Posted by BornCapricornHe can have ulterior motives. As far as manipulation is concerned, you kind of have to sense it on the spot. But scorpios are known to test people before further opening themselves up. Like that one night stand offer.
@SassyKiwi
lol@Edward Cullen So scorpios try to sound all badass and mysterious? Many of you has said that there is gameplaying like that, but he doesn't want gameplaying. I think he has been very direct with me. Do you think he is lying or is it something you think he does without knowing?
Honestly just enjoy everything at the moment while keeping some guards up and try to get to know him for once and seem interested in wanting to.click to expand
Posted by frostey91lolPosted by BornCapricornAbsolutely
To what? JK Rowling? 😉click to expand


Posted by BornCapricornLOL that "not fun" comment he left you with reminded me of 50 Shades of Grey, where he's probably itching to reveal and try with you his wild bdsm side. Especially since you're supposedly different to him than the other girls. I'm kidding though, who knows what he's full of, keep us updated 😛Posted by SassyKiwiWhy do I get the feeling that he's giving me grey hairs before my 25th birthday? lol Thank you so much for the comments! 🙂 I have to ask. Did it look 50 Shades to you? A little? A lot? You don't know? Sorry for all the questions, I'm a little nervous.Posted by BornCapricornHe can have ulterior motives. As far as manipulation is concerned, you kind of have to sense it on the spot. But scorpios are known to test people before further opening themselves up. Like that one night stand offer.
@SassyKiwi
lol@Edward Cullen So scorpios try to sound all badass and mysterious? Many of you has said that there is gameplaying like that, but he doesn't want gameplaying. I think he has been very direct with me. Do you think he is lying or is it something you think he does without knowing?
Honestly just enjoy everything at the moment while keeping some guards up and try to get to know him for once and seem interested in wanting to.click to expand
Posted by frostey91He is like you say. He doesn't talk much. i don't talk much too, but I do with him. You're right!
Exactly like hidden kiwi said it's ulterior or hidden motives u jut find out about. A majority of Scorp males BC I have more experience with them than females always tend not to say much and listen rather than talk at first. They want to see what you are about. It's always me doing more of the talking. In group settings it is more noticeable.
I'm glad I'm not female BC boy I cannot get along w Scorp males a majority if time over the course of s week or two.

Posted by BornCapricornHis sun mars and Pluto are in the 8th house— That makes him a super Scorp.
Sun Scorpio 8
Moon Cancer 4
Mercury Scorpio 8
Venus Libra 7
Mars Scorpio8
Jupiter Libra 7
Saturn Aquarius 11
Uranus Capricorn 10
Neptune Capricorn 10
Pluto Scorpio 8
True node Sagittarius 8
Chiron Virgo 5
Eros Aquarius 10
AC Aries
MC Capricorn
I'm new at this, so I don't know what it means. Do you see things like this in the guy you're dating?

Posted by busyeyes88Yes girl I think it is my mars that doesn't get along with Scorp. My mars is in Taurus. The one that is Scorp with Scorp mars awwww no. I just now figured out my brother has Libra cuspy Scorp Mars. Doesn't work long term.Posted by frostey91I am taurus and don't like this energy in sun, moon or venus! I try to avoid scorps or just have the males as platonic friend. I have only attracted one scorp whose "charms" I did not fall for.and slotted Him into the eternal friends category never to be promoted!!
Exactly like hidden kiwi said it's ulterior or hidden motives u jut find out about. A majority of Scorp males BC I have more experience with them than females always tend not to say much and listen rather than talk at first. They want to see what you are about. It's always me doing more of the talking. In group settings it is more noticeable.
I'm glad I'm not female BC boy I cannot get along w Scorp males a majority if time over the course of s week or two.click to expand
Posted by SassyKiwiYou're trying to make my cry, aren't you? Just kidding. Thank you so much! 🙂Posted by BornCapricornLOL that "not fun" comment he left you with reminded me of 50 Shades of Grey, where he's probably itching to reveal and try with you his wild bdsm side. Especially since you're supposedly different to him than the other girls. I'm kidding though, who knows what he's full of, keep us updated 😛Posted by SassyKiwiWhy do I get the feeling that he's giving me grey hairs before my 25th birthday? lol Thank you so much for the comments! 🙂 I have to ask. Did it look 50 Shades to you? A little? A lot? You don't know? Sorry for all the questions, I'm a little nervous.Posted by BornCapricornHe can have ulterior motives. As far as manipulation is concerned, you kind of have to sense it on the spot. But scorpios are known to test people before further opening themselves up. Like that one night stand offer.
@SassyKiwi
lol@Edward Cullen So scorpios try to sound all badass and mysterious? Many of you has said that there is gameplaying like that, but he doesn't want gameplaying. I think he has been very direct with me. Do you think he is lying or is it something you think he does without knowing?
Honestly just enjoy everything at the moment while keeping some guards up and try to get to know him for once and seem interested in wanting to.click to expand
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You are a cap with a scorpio boyfriend? That's great! Is it going well? If you want to tell me.