hautescorp
@hautescorp
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scorpio man acts like he—s interested, then he..
He's trying to get you to chase. Then he'll disappear again so you'll chase some more. After about, oh, 35 episodes of this, he might finally trust that you care enough and won't vanish anymore. But, then again, maybe not.
Welcome to the ride! Please keep limbs in the car at all times. 🙂
Welcome to the ride! Please keep limbs in the car at all times. 🙂
Seavixen: Yes I am. October 25th 🙂
Sea Siren & Let*It*Be: I think you guys might be right. I know he does not trust me and I don't trust him because of some issues we had in the past.
Eleni: You might be right as well. It's confusing. He's always talking about marriage with me and I don't respond to him nor do I assume he wants to marry me. He might be talking about someone other girl for all I know LOL But there is more to the story and it's kind of complex lol and to be honest I do not have the right words to describe how the relationship is.
Posted by hautescorp
Seavixen: Yes I am. October 25th 🙂
Sea Siren & Let*It*Be: I think you guys might be right. I know he does not trust me and I don't trust him because of some issues we had in the past.
That is why he is doing this. He's waiting for a sign of interest from you. It sounds like he is intimidated by you (and as you're a Scorp, too, that's not surprising - an equal match!) and his fear of rejection is keeping him at bay until he's sure his attempts at reconciliation won't be rebuffed.
If you want him to stick around, you're gonna have to give him a clear signal in return. But, given your past trust issues with him, maybe you don't want that. Only you can answer that one.
Clearly, though, he's trying to make amends for the past without apologizing. Second to "I love you" the hardest thing for most scorps seems to be saying "I'm sorry" 😉
Posted by Sea Siren
(... as you're a Scorp, too ... an equal match!)
While it may appear so at face value to the unknowing,
Scorpio Male/Scorpio Female is not a equal match.
Neither one of them has learned their lesson yet...they will.
She will win over and over and over and over all the battles
with tactics that will surprise him endlessly. When she is
tired of fighting, his strategy will win the war in the long run
by "doing nothing". He will feel sad for her and regret it always.
He will still think about her often.
They should just stay friends and serve each other's egos.
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Seavixen: He IS intimidated by me. He once randomly told me I have a strong presence and that I intimidate people and of course by "people" I knew he was talking about himself. But I find that quiet funny because I'm the nicest person and I'm always smiling 🙂 Well...sometimes I'm serious I guess and I'm not the flirty type, unless I'm getting into something with a guy and I don't kiss his a** like most girls do. And I hate how every girl dies for him. It's kinda bizarre. EVERYONE is infatuated with him LOL
Eleni- I like how practical you are. Yes, with the info that I have provided you it seems like I should not waste my time with him. But to be fair, I have to admit. That he did pursue me 3 years ago for a while and he told me he wanted to be with me but at that time I only saw him as a friend. Plus, I was going through a nasty breakup. I was 100% focused on my ex. So I stayed aloof and uninterested and kinda distant. He took that as rejection. I haven't really had the chance to explain that I was just dealing with a lot of stuff at the time.
I know he's still hurt but he also took revenge upon me. He started dating my friends that I knew he didn't like just to make me jealous and lied about it (that's why I don't trust him) and now it's like, he wants us to be cool because in his tiny mind we are now "equal".
APP- I know what you mean. Now I get flashbacks of things that he would say and do and how he used to ALWAYS watch me from far away. and because we were good friends I didn't think anything of it because I was in a committed relationship.
But I'm curious. Another strange thing he did (prior to pursuing me) was he tried manipulating me into thinking that my other guy friend was in love with me. He kept telling me how he's noticing all these things (that I never noticed) that lead him to believe that he had a "thing" for me and that I should confront him. I'm not sure what type of reaction he was looking for. But it was obvious he was looking for some sort of reaction. I was mature about the whole thing. I asked my friend about it and we just looked at each other for a split second and we both bursted into a fit of laughter.
Was this him "testing the water" with me. I think he wanted to see if I would reject my guy other guy friend or if I would freak out? haha
Seavixen: He IS intimidated by me. He once randomly told me I have a strong presence and that I intimidate people and of course by "people" I knew he was talking about himself. But I find that quiet funny because I'm the nicest person and I'm always smiling 🙂 Well...sometimes I'm serious I guess and I'm not the flirty type, unless I'm getting into something with a guy and I don't kiss his a** like most girls do. And I hate how every girl dies for him. It's kinda bizarre. EVERYONE is infatuated with him LOL
Eleni- I like how practical you are. Yes, with the info that I have provided you it seems like I should not waste my time with him. But to be fair, I have to admit. That he did pursue me 3 years ago for a while and he told me he wanted to be with me but at that time I only saw him as a friend. Plus, I was going through a nasty breakup. I was 100% focused on my ex. So I stayed aloof and uninterested and kinda distant. He took that as rejection. I haven't really had the chance to explain that I was just dealing with a lot of stuff at the time.
I know he's still hurt but he also took revenge upon me. He started dating my friends that I knew he didn't like just to make me jealous and lied about it (that's why I don't trust him) and now it's like, he wants us to be cool because in his tiny mind we are now "equal".
APP- I know what you mean. Now I get flashbacks of things that he would say and do and how he used to ALWAYS watch me from far away. and because we were good friends I didn't think anything of it because I was in a committed relationship.
But I'm curious. Another strange thing he did (prior to pursuing me) was he tried manipulating me into thinking that my other guy friend was in love with me. He kept telling me how he's noticing all these things (that I never noticed) that lead him to believe that he had a "thing" for me and that I should confront him. I'm not sure what type of reaction he was looking for. But it was obvious he was looking for some sort of reaction. I was mature about the whole thing. I asked my friend about it and we just looked at each other for a split second and we both bursted into a fit of laughter.
Was this him "testing the water" with me. I think he wanted to see if I would reject my guy other guy friend or if I would freak out? haha
LOL @ myspace! That's the funniest thing!
If the tables were turned and you were to do that to him, he would never get over it!
Posted by hautescorp
LOL @ myspace! That's the funniest thing!
If the tables were turned and you were to do that to him, he would never get over it!
Yes we would, right after we emailed the link to your
Mom
Dad
Brothers
Aunts, Uncles & Cousins
EVERYBODY you work with
Your professors at uni
uh...let's see...
Made posters to put in the washrooms at seedy nightclubs
- the guys room
and in the GIRLS washrooms in the NICE nightclubs
Made sure the local newspaper & TV knew about the story
if you are in a small town ...
T-Shirts ...
uh ... that's a god start...you see where I'm going with it.
"that's a god start"
That's right!
That's right!
LMFAO!
Posted by hautescorp
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Seavixen: He IS intimidated by me. He once randomly told me I have a strong presence and that I intimidate people and of course by "people" I knew he was talking about himself. But I find that quiet funny because I'm the nicest person and I'm always smiling 🙂 Well...sometimes I'm serious I guess and I'm not the flirty type, unless I'm getting into something with a guy and I don't kiss his a** like most girls do. And I hate how every girl dies for him. It's kinda bizarre. EVERYONE is infatuated with him LOL
Well, I'm Sea Siren...Sea Vixen is another lovely fish swimming around in this pond. 😉 And good for you! You stand out from all the other women who just throw themselves at him.
I have an idea. It's kuh-crazy, but bear with me. Why don't you meet him for a drink and ASK the man what's going on? lol Shocking! I know. But that's the only the way you're going to get the real answer.
I'm still not really sure why you were questioning whether or not he's interested. On my planet a dude that buys my dinner and follows it with a declaration a love is def. "into me." lol I mean, he's made two HUGE moves and made himself very vulnerable. We water signs just do not make a habit of that if we don't feel the leap of faith is worth it. As far as he's concerned, the ball is in your court. If you don't respond he will consider it a rejection and move on.
Talk to him. And in person, not over the phone or texting or whatever so you can better read his body language. Good luck!🙂
Sea Siren:
Talk to him. And in person, not over the phone or texting or whatever so you can better read his body language. Good luck!🙂
ScorpioPics:
In person wins. But just asking him to do that ...and getting him to do it ...will be the real problem.
If it's easy, that's good.
Sea Siren:
I have an idea. It's kuh-crazy, but bear with me. Why don't you meet him for a drink and ASK the man what's going on? lol
ScorpioPics:
If a Pisces woman could do that, let me know. I want to watch. And I'll be there to hold her up afterward.
Sea Siren:
Shocking! I know. But that's the only the way you're going to get the real answer.
ScorpioPics:
With a Scorpio male? You'll get to scrape the surface ... but let's not forget the past ...he won't.
Sea Siren:
On my planet a dude that buys my dinner and follows it with a declaration a love is def. "into me." lol I mean,
ScorpioPics:
And THEN what do you do on YOUR planet? What happens NEXT? lol ( I'm serious - do tell ).
Sea Siren:
...he's made two HUGE moves and made himself very vulnerable.
We water signs just do not make a habit of that if we don't feel the leap of faith is worth it.
ScorpioPics:
True ...but ...is his vulnerability genuine? Or is he playing a shark-game like a Pisces can?
Sea Siren:
As far as he's concerned, the ball is in your court.
If you don't respond he will consider it a rejection and move on.
ScorpioPics:
That's logical. I agree totally. Unfortunately, logic does not rule the heart.
======================
Call him ( or email him ) and tell him how you feel ...leave nothing out.
Tell him your FEARS ... you WANTS ... your NEEDS ...your future plans.
Tell him what attracts you to him ...and what turns you off about him.
And give him a deadline to take you out IF you see yourself with him.
But if there is a mistrust issue in the past, make it clear that if
it worth trying, that you must hang-out and spend time first,
be close friends first, talk ...in the dark. Once it moves to sex
the communication about the IMPORTANT THINGS will be ignored.
TELL HIM that, flat-out - so that's why talk must happen first.
Lots of it. Weeks, even.
Be there for him when he needs help or a REAL FRIEND to talk to ... you'll win him.
And to Eleni:
Not all guys will chase. Guys who only want to f**k will chase, for sure.
Of course, the ones who get it more often are the ones who push you away.
Drives 'em insane.
Talk to him. And in person, not over the phone or texting or whatever so you can better read his body language. Good luck!🙂
ScorpioPics:
In person wins. But just asking him to do that ...and getting him to do it ...will be the real problem.
If it's easy, that's good.
Sea Siren:
I have an idea. It's kuh-crazy, but bear with me. Why don't you meet him for a drink and ASK the man what's going on? lol
ScorpioPics:
If a Pisces woman could do that, let me know. I want to watch. And I'll be there to hold her up afterward.
Sea Siren:
Shocking! I know. But that's the only the way you're going to get the real answer.
ScorpioPics:
With a Scorpio male? You'll get to scrape the surface ... but let's not forget the past ...he won't.
Sea Siren:
On my planet a dude that buys my dinner and follows it with a declaration a love is def. "into me." lol I mean,
ScorpioPics:
And THEN what do you do on YOUR planet? What happens NEXT? lol ( I'm serious - do tell ).
Sea Siren:
...he's made two HUGE moves and made himself very vulnerable.
We water signs just do not make a habit of that if we don't feel the leap of faith is worth it.
ScorpioPics:
True ...but ...is his vulnerability genuine? Or is he playing a shark-game like a Pisces can?
Sea Siren:
As far as he's concerned, the ball is in your court.
If you don't respond he will consider it a rejection and move on.
ScorpioPics:
That's logical. I agree totally. Unfortunately, logic does not rule the heart.
======================
Call him ( or email him ) and tell him how you feel ...leave nothing out.
Tell him your FEARS ... you WANTS ... your NEEDS ...your future plans.
Tell him what attracts you to him ...and what turns you off about him.
And give him a deadline to take you out IF you see yourself with him.
But if there is a mistrust issue in the past, make it clear that if
it worth trying, that you must hang-out and spend time first,
be close friends first, talk ...in the dark. Once it moves to sex
the communication about the IMPORTANT THINGS will be ignored.
TELL HIM that, flat-out - so that's why talk must happen first.
Lots of it. Weeks, even.
Be there for him when he needs help or a REAL FRIEND to talk to ... you'll win him.
And to Eleni:
Not all guys will chase. Guys who only want to f**k will chase, for sure.
Of course, the ones who get it more often are the ones who push you away.
Drives 'em insane.
Posted by LovelyScorp
"Tell him your FEARS ... you WANTS ... your NEEDS ...your future plans."
She's not going to do that.
Goes back to your point about two scorps coming together. Someone will always have their guard up. We have very poor timing with each other. There is a bit of unexplainable awkwardness there.
You know you are 100% right.
Her Scorpio mind won't let her choose to do that.
You also know my suggestion is right.
And that is the problem. lol
So her near-future can be best determined with a coin-toss.
One that she should COMMIT to.
Heads: Walk away and forget him, no second chances.
Tails: Do what NEEDS to be done for ANY chance at it working.
(Remembering that the tail is where the stinger & venom is!)
They are probably past ability to just be friends without complications.
If the coin says she should walk, she must.
...and be prepared for "never knowing" (so hard)
If the coin says she should TRY
...then she should be prepared to GIVE IT ALL
...knowing there is high probability that she
...will get hurt eventually and that there will
...be need for many more coin tosses until they
...find the right rock to hide under together
...where nobody else can find them.
That will take great effort from both.
I hope our friend has a happy life no matter what she does.
Posted by scorpiopics
In person wins. But just asking him to do that ...and getting him to do it ...will be the real problem.
If it's easy, that's good.
If he's a total douche and wasn't sincere, yeah it might be kinda difficult. But, then, she'd still have an answer and know to forget it.
Posted by scorpiopics
If a Pisces woman could do that, let me know. I want to watch. And I'll be there to hold her up afterward.
Well, gosh, had I known this I could have videotaped some interesting episodes for you. I'll keep it in mind for the future. 😛
Posted by scorpiopics
ScorpioPics:
With a Scorpio male? You'll get to scrape the surface ... but let's not forget the past ...he won't.
lol Y'all aren't as enigmatic to some as you are to others, darling. Let's not forget she won't forget the past any sooner than he will.
Posted by scorpiopics
ScorpioPics:
And THEN what do you do on YOUR planet? What happens NEXT? lol ( I'm serious - do tell ).
Doesn't really matter anymore, I'm taken. Prior to that what happened depended on his intelligence...or lack thereof.
Posted by scorpiopics
True ...but ...is his vulnerability genuine? Or is he playing a shark-game like a Pisces can?
He could be drawing her back in for some revenge for the past, it's true. That's why she needs to see him in person and use her own scorpion perception and intuition
Posted by scorpiopics
ScorpioPics:
That's logical. I agree totally. Unfortunately, logic does not rule the heart.click to expand
No, it doesn't. But, what's your point here? You think she won't follow her heart? Let's ask her! 🙂
Posted by LovelyScorp
"Tell him your FEARS ... you WANTS ... your NEEDS ...your future plans."
She's not going to do that.
Goes back to your point about two scorps coming together. Someone will always have their guard up. We have very poor timing with each other. There is a bit of unexplainable awkwardness there.
I agree. It would be a difficult match. Extreme highs and extreme lows. Still...nothing's impossible, right? (Come on, LovelyScorp, help me out here for the OP. lol I'm rootin' for her).
What a relief to find this thread. I just started dating a Scorpio man. Two dates and then he left town for a business trip. You wouldn't believe the text messages I've gotten since he left. They start at 8:30 in the morning and don't stop until midnight. These messages are passionate declarations of love from a man I've only known for 3 weeks. He seems to be genuinely hurt when I don't respond in kind.
If it were anyone else I'm sure I would have blocked his number already, but I'm very compelled by and attracted to this man. Some part of me really wants to believe he has feelings for me, which is bizarre. Even though I'm a Libra I really don't involve myself in relationships that often.
This is going to be a bumpy ride isn't it?
If it were anyone else I'm sure I would have blocked his number already, but I'm very compelled by and attracted to this man. Some part of me really wants to believe he has feelings for me, which is bizarre. Even though I'm a Libra I really don't involve myself in relationships that often.
This is going to be a bumpy ride isn't it?
Any suggestions? I can already see that he's manipulative. I get the cold shoulder if I don't respond the way he would like for me to. He'll be back tomorrow. I'm a little nervous about this to be quite honest.
Posted by Sea Siren(Come on, LovelyScorp, help me out here for the OP. lol I'm rootin' for her).click to expand
Believe it or not, I want the OP to be happy, too. Truly.
The question is, who knows her better? And it's not a
matter of which one of us needs to win a forum battle.
Between you and I, I don't mind if you are the master.
I just don't want "her" to be the slave.
This is not a "dig", but that you even mentioned that you are "taken"
(out of context and for no purposeful, demonstrative, "relevant" reason )
indicates that "belonging to someone" gives you 99% of your confidence
and that's what you think she "desperately" needs, too, at any cost.
A Scorpio woman can stand on "her own" two feet with ZERO self-doubt.
"Even better" when she is "alone". This part you do not understand.
This synopsis based on spending HUNDREDS of hours in the dark with
3 Scorpio female friends over many years, talking about the same thing.
(and based on being a Scorpio, too.)
"I know" she already knew what she was going to do BEFORE she posted
and there would have been very few things that could LEAD HER ANOTHER WAY.
"You" might post seeking advice. "She" posted to be sure of ALL risks.
She just wanted to see that at least one other Scorpio gave her a nod
and MADE NOTICE OF ALL FORESEEABLE THREATS, which we live our lives around.
She wanted to be sure she was aware of "what she was in for" the RISKS
- in the direction she had already chosen - so she could armor-up.
She did not mention ANY threats, because she needed to know if WE would
mention THE SAME ones she knew of and any NEW ones she didn't see on her own.
It had to be unbiased...and of course the Scorpios pretended not to know
that this isn't about "love" because if we just listed all the negatives
then the Pisces folks would tell us how rude and unsupportive we were.
She had formulated a well-calculated plan of attack or retreat and consulted
other generals and enemy intelligence specialists on the matter, so see how
much fire she'd be under -because he is another Scorpio -it will be nuclear.
Tyson/Ali/UFC Champions/Ted Bundy - could never stomach watching this fight
if it goes bad and gets ugly.
See ...these two people don't want to hurt each other.
She just knows that eventually, they MUST (BADLY) to get to their truth.
They ALREADY had "Round One". There was pain.
Now,
You're right of course. It's far too intense. I wont be able to deal with it for very long, but I was hoping to get a memorable f@ out of him before it's over. 😉
Thanks for your advice by the way. I really am enjoying the boards here,
"This is not a "dig", but that you even mentioned that you are "taken"(out of context and for no purposeful, demonstrative, "relevant" reason )"
You asked a specific question about MY dating life. I replied that it was no longer applicable. Perfectly in context to those who know what that means. — If it offends you so, I guess the solution is not to ask.
"indicates that "belonging to someone" gives you 99% of your confidence and that's what you think she "desperately" needs, too, at any cost."
lol! Just for future reference, you may wish to do a little investigating on people before you assume things. Pretty much all of my past posts will prove that you're way off base, here, love. But, thanks for playing. 😉
"A Scorpio woman can stand on "her own" two feet with ZERO self-doubt."Even better" when she is "alone". This part you do not understand."
I understand it perfectly (and better than YOU ever will) because I've lived it myself and I am a woman. One isn't born married, you know.
"This synopsis based on spending HUNDREDS of hours in the dark with 3 Scorpio female friends over many years, talking about the same thing. (and based on being a Scorpio, too.)"
Dude, I LIVE with one of you. lol I thank you for your attempt to "teach" me what I already know, but I am not the one seeking advice here. Why not turn your attention to the OP...who IS asking advice? 😉
You asked a specific question about MY dating life. I replied that it was no longer applicable. Perfectly in context to those who know what that means. — If it offends you so, I guess the solution is not to ask.
"indicates that "belonging to someone" gives you 99% of your confidence and that's what you think she "desperately" needs, too, at any cost."
lol! Just for future reference, you may wish to do a little investigating on people before you assume things. Pretty much all of my past posts will prove that you're way off base, here, love. But, thanks for playing. 😉
"A Scorpio woman can stand on "her own" two feet with ZERO self-doubt."Even better" when she is "alone". This part you do not understand."
I understand it perfectly (and better than YOU ever will) because I've lived it myself and I am a woman. One isn't born married, you know.
"This synopsis based on spending HUNDREDS of hours in the dark with 3 Scorpio female friends over many years, talking about the same thing. (and based on being a Scorpio, too.)"
Dude, I LIVE with one of you. lol I thank you for your attempt to "teach" me what I already know, but I am not the one seeking advice here. Why not turn your attention to the OP...who IS asking advice? 😉
Posted by BeetleguesePosted by Joie
Any suggestions? I can already see that he's manipulative. I get the cold shoulder if I don't respond the way he would like for me to. He'll be back tomorrow. I'm a little nervous about this to be quite honest.
I know you were asking Eleni, but I would say that in the long haul you'd be better off passing on this one unless you like being owned like a possession. This is only the beginning of what will likely be a very stormy relationship. Good luck either way🙂click to expand
Second that. And we're really only looking out for "you" kid.
But you have to admit, you love the devoted attention.
- tip - if he sends a text/email - he expects an answer
"right away with no delay" or he'll assume you're with
another guy. (Truly).
So be sure to tell him WHERE you are going, WHAT you
are doing and WHEN you might get back to him, even if
it is a long ways away ...and ALWAYS get back to him
before the deadline...
...because he'll actually think you got hurt and
will be worried SICK about you. ( Awwww ...) He
just wants to know that you're ok.
I would love to take control of the situation and get some answers but I CAN'T and WON'T...EVER! I can NEVER talk to him about feelings.
I have my guard up with everyone especially those I'm interested in. That's just how it is. I don't know if he feels the same way.
If I see him he either has to approch me first, or we don't talk LOL Childish huh? lol But I can't help it. Obviously, if he was a douche, I wouldn't have posted this topic up. But he can be the perfect guy.
======================
Call him ( or email him ) and tell him how you feel ...leave nothing out.
Tell him your FEARS ... you WANTS ... your NEEDS ...your future plans.
Tell him what attracts you to him ...and what turns you off about him.
And give him a deadline to take you out IF you see yourself with him.
But if there is a mistrust issue in the past, make it clear that if
it worth trying, that you must hang-out and spend time first,
be close friends first, talk ...in the dark. Once it moves to sex
the communication about the IMPORTANT THINGS will be ignored.
TELL HIM that, flat-out - so that's why talk must happen first.
Lots of it. Weeks, even.
Be there for him when he needs help or a REAL FRIEND to talk to ... you'll win him.
scorpiopics- I will take your advice after he tells me how he really feels. Which he won't LOL
If he took the first step in opening up the discussion then it would be easy for me to tell him EXACTLY how I feel without leaving anything out.
I have my guard up with everyone especially those I'm interested in. That's just how it is. I don't know if he feels the same way.
If I see him he either has to approch me first, or we don't talk LOL Childish huh? lol But I can't help it. Obviously, if he was a douche, I wouldn't have posted this topic up. But he can be the perfect guy.
======================
Call him ( or email him ) and tell him how you feel ...leave nothing out.
Tell him your FEARS ... you WANTS ... your NEEDS ...your future plans.
Tell him what attracts you to him ...and what turns you off about him.
And give him a deadline to take you out IF you see yourself with him.
But if there is a mistrust issue in the past, make it clear that if
it worth trying, that you must hang-out and spend time first,
be close friends first, talk ...in the dark. Once it moves to sex
the communication about the IMPORTANT THINGS will be ignored.
TELL HIM that, flat-out - so that's why talk must happen first.
Lots of it. Weeks, even.
Be there for him when he needs help or a REAL FRIEND to talk to ... you'll win him.
scorpiopics- I will take your advice after he tells me how he really feels. Which he won't LOL
If he took the first step in opening up the discussion then it would be easy for me to tell him EXACTLY how I feel without leaving anything out.
Sigh, not to highjack the thread, but my Scorpio companion texted this morning to let me know he would be back this evening, late. I responded with a message that expressed my need for a little less intensity, and the thought that he should probably use the word lust instead of love in most of his messages. Since then nothing...complete silence, and perhaps that's for the best. I'm prepared to move on, but I'm wondering, is there a support group for this sort of thing? I feel like I'm going through detox or something.
Posted by Joie
...I'm wondering, is there a support group for this sort of thing? I feel like I'm going through detox or something.
* muscular spasms
* convulsions
* urinary incontinence
* excessive salivation 🤤
* random movements of head, eye, and/or neck
* rapid breathing
* difficulty breathing ...etc.
Symptoms usually last 24-48 hours.
Luckily, most stings from North American scorpions do not require treatment.
Death rarely occurs. If symptoms rapidly become worse within the first 2-4 hours
after the sting, a fatal outcome is more likely and may require antiserum.
Strangely, the anti-venom for scorpion stings can only be made from
the venom of other scorpions.
NOTE: Some deaths have occurred as late as 4 days after the sting.
Posted by Sea Siren
"This is not a "dig", but that you even mentioned that you are "taken"(out of context and for no purposeful, demonstrative, "relevant" reason )"
You asked a specific question about MY dating life. I replied that it was no longer applicable. Perfectly in context to those who know what that means. — If it offends you so, I guess the solution is not to ask.
"indicates that "belonging to someone" gives you 99% of your confidence and that's what you think she "desperately" needs, too, at any cost."
lol! Just for future reference, you may wish to do a little investigating on people before you assume things. Pretty much all of my past posts will prove that you're way off base, here, love. But, thanks for playing. 😉
"A Scorpio woman can stand on "her own" two feet with ZERO self-doubt."Even better" when she is "alone". This part you do not understand."
I understand it perfectly (and better than YOU ever will) because I've lived it myself and I am a woman. One isn't born married, you know.
"This synopsis based on spending HUNDREDS of hours in the dark with 3 Scorpio female friends over many years, talking about the same thing. (and based on being a Scorpio, too.)"
Dude, I LIVE with one of you. lol I thank you for your attempt to "teach" me what I already know, but I am not the one seeking advice here. Why not turn your attention to the OP...who IS asking advice? 😉
Well... I was going to PM you and make friends,
but I'm blocked ... so I see your game now.
So instead, you get the tail ... in public.
You asked a specific question about MY dating life.
- No. I didn't. You just imagined that I did - because you wanted me to.
- And the fact is, the most important thing in your life
- is that you "belong to" someone. Without that, you'd be
- Alone...even in a crowd of people, you'd be "alone".
- Within one year, you will be.
Dude, I LIVE with one of you.
- Not for much longer, I regret. It's over. You just don't know it.
- Only Scorpio DEVOTION is keeping you there. Proof below.
lol I thank you for your attempt to "teach" me what I already know,
but I am not the one seeking advice here.
- At least you got this part right.
- You wording reveals more than you know. See above and below.
- Again, "you" live with "him" - "he" does not belong to "you".
lol! Just for future reference, you may wish to do
lol! Just for future reference, you may wish to do a little
investigating on people before you assume things.
- Any Scorpio seeing you advising a Scorpio to "investigate"
- would laugh their asses off at you or feel sorry for you.
- I did. You had nearly 4,000 posts here since 2005
- There was no evidence that any of your advice to
- scorpios was worth our approval...because it's wrong.
- It is wronf because you have no clue about us. Really.
- No more than a person looking at a Black & White picture
- of a traffic light, being asked what color the light is.
- If the top one seems brightest, you'd say "Red" because
- that is what you've been taught. But if it was a Japanese
- traffic light, you'd be wrong...because you don't know.
-Luckily, Scorpios ask opinions (seeking threats) only after
-they have "pretty much" already made up their minds about
-what they are going to do. Anything that is not the notice
-of a threat has very little value or influence anyway.
-You can even see proof of that in the OP's last post.
-She already knew what she was/wasn;t going to do.
-She just wanted to know how difficult it would be.
- I can't imagine why, after FIVE YEARS that you don't have
- many (any?) Scorpios who have favorited you.
Pretty much all of my past posts will prove that you're
way off base, here, love. But, thanks for playing.
- Really? If your relationship with your Scorpio was
- one of such understanding - you wouldn't have had time
- (or need) to post 1,000 posts per year on this forum
- for the past five years.
- In the immortal words of Tim Buckley's "Song to The Siren"
- ...this is exactly why you need to feel that you have
- so many men "standing amid the breakers" for you.
USUALLY ...I have a big heart for the Pisces girls
but ...when they are an attention-seeking siren
who pretends to be a mermaid ... I plug my ears.
Be thankful I did not play my lute.
investigating on people before you assume things.
- Any Scorpio seeing you advising a Scorpio to "investigate"
- would laugh their asses off at you or feel sorry for you.
- I did. You had nearly 4,000 posts here since 2005
- There was no evidence that any of your advice to
- scorpios was worth our approval...because it's wrong.
- It is wronf because you have no clue about us. Really.
- No more than a person looking at a Black & White picture
- of a traffic light, being asked what color the light is.
- If the top one seems brightest, you'd say "Red" because
- that is what you've been taught. But if it was a Japanese
- traffic light, you'd be wrong...because you don't know.
-Luckily, Scorpios ask opinions (seeking threats) only after
-they have "pretty much" already made up their minds about
-what they are going to do. Anything that is not the notice
-of a threat has very little value or influence anyway.
-You can even see proof of that in the OP's last post.
-She already knew what she was/wasn;t going to do.
-She just wanted to know how difficult it would be.
- I can't imagine why, after FIVE YEARS that you don't have
- many (any?) Scorpios who have favorited you.
Pretty much all of my past posts will prove that you're
way off base, here, love. But, thanks for playing.
- Really? If your relationship with your Scorpio was
- one of such understanding - you wouldn't have had time
- (or need) to post 1,000 posts per year on this forum
- for the past five years.
- In the immortal words of Tim Buckley's "Song to The Siren"
- ...this is exactly why you need to feel that you have
- so many men "standing amid the breakers" for you.
USUALLY ...I have a big heart for the Pisces girls
but ...when they are an attention-seeking siren
who pretends to be a mermaid ... I plug my ears.
Be thankful I did not play my lute.
Lol, trying to quote and failing miserably, but what I mean to say Scorpionics is that the pressure has been more than alleviated by my steadfast Capricorn friend. If what you indicate is true the symptoms may present again, in which case I'll be seeking the ministrations of a more evolved Scorpion. Are you volunteering dear?
Ruh-roh??_.somebunny??s upset I poked a bunch of holes in his Mr. Mysterioso cape.
Scorp-Pee, I don't have anyone blocked on this thing. If it said you were blocked, then it was a glitch. It's happened before. But then, you have quite a talent for jumping to dead wrong conclusions, don't you?
—And the fact is, the most important thing in your life is that you "belong to" someone. Without that, you'd be Alone...even in a crowd of people, you'd be "alone".
—"you" live with "him" - "he" does not belong to "you".??
If your monstrous ego ever allows you to tear yourself away from the —scorp?? section of your astrology book, please flip to the Pisces pages some time. There you??ll find that Pisceans never truly belong to anyone but themselves, though we can very successfully create the illusion that we do. Nor do we wish to —own?? anyone else. We don't view people as possessions, that's a Scorpio/Taurus trait. I know it's difficult to pull your head outta your own ass, but at least pretend to try.
—Not for much longer, I regret. It's over. You just don't know it. Only Scorpio DEVOTION is keeping you there.—
And I regret you??re delusional enough to believe that #1 - You have omniscient, god-like psychic powers and #2 — no scorpio man on the planet can have a happy, healthy relationship simply because you??re incapable of it. Proof that it can and does occur obviously brings to the fore your fear, jealousy, crippling insecurity and massive failure in this particular area. But, that's your problem, not mine.
—There was no evidence that any of your advice to scorpios was worth our approval...because it's wrong. It is wronf because you have no clue about us. Really.??
LOL! But, your irrational little tantrums have proven the exact opposite, sweet pea! Well, that and the fact that you didn't disagree with me, merely got defensive, as BG noted. The truth is, I said something (and, yes, I know what it was) that cut too close to the bone. Otherwise you wouldn't have felt the need to lash out. My advice about this other scorpio man endangered the astrological image you??ve created of yourself: such a cooooompleeex mastermind - every woman you meet is simply DYING of love for you - so —deep?? no one could possibly ever understand you.
Scorp-Pee, I don't have anyone blocked on this thing. If it said you were blocked, then it was a glitch. It's happened before. But then, you have quite a talent for jumping to dead wrong conclusions, don't you?
—And the fact is, the most important thing in your life is that you "belong to" someone. Without that, you'd be Alone...even in a crowd of people, you'd be "alone".
—"you" live with "him" - "he" does not belong to "you".??
If your monstrous ego ever allows you to tear yourself away from the —scorp?? section of your astrology book, please flip to the Pisces pages some time. There you??ll find that Pisceans never truly belong to anyone but themselves, though we can very successfully create the illusion that we do. Nor do we wish to —own?? anyone else. We don't view people as possessions, that's a Scorpio/Taurus trait. I know it's difficult to pull your head outta your own ass, but at least pretend to try.
—Not for much longer, I regret. It's over. You just don't know it. Only Scorpio DEVOTION is keeping you there.—
And I regret you??re delusional enough to believe that #1 - You have omniscient, god-like psychic powers and #2 — no scorpio man on the planet can have a happy, healthy relationship simply because you??re incapable of it. Proof that it can and does occur obviously brings to the fore your fear, jealousy, crippling insecurity and massive failure in this particular area. But, that's your problem, not mine.
—There was no evidence that any of your advice to scorpios was worth our approval...because it's wrong. It is wronf because you have no clue about us. Really.??
LOL! But, your irrational little tantrums have proven the exact opposite, sweet pea! Well, that and the fact that you didn't disagree with me, merely got defensive, as BG noted. The truth is, I said something (and, yes, I know what it was) that cut too close to the bone. Otherwise you wouldn't have felt the need to lash out. My advice about this other scorpio man endangered the astrological image you??ve created of yourself: such a cooooompleeex mastermind - every woman you meet is simply DYING of love for you - so —deep?? no one could possibly ever understand you.
Bull shit! Scorpios ARE mere humans just like everyone else. There are people in this world who can and do understand them. And, YES, even some who can and do love them and receive their love in return. Amazingly enough, I know quite a few personally. Imagine that!
Furthermore, the worst advice (and that's saying A LOT) in this thread came from you. Telling a scorpio woman to reveal all of her feelings and desires to a man who does not yet have her trust? Seriously?
You said that because that is what YOU want women to do. It makes it so easy for you, even though you will always view them as weak for doing so. They reveal everything, you reveal nothing. Then you use their feelings to manipulate them. You thereby maintain control and don't have to put forth any effort at all. This is the crux of your problem, because any self-respecting woman will never put up with that shit. Unfortunately, that's just the kind of woman you need - the only kind you could ever truly love or respect— hence why you quake in your Skechers at the thought of being with a Scorpio woman.
—I can't imagine why, after FIVE YEARS that you don't have many (any?) Scorpios who have favorited you.??
Are you nine? I mean, Hot damn! I didn't realize this was a popularity contest! Why didn't someone tell me? I better join the cheerleading squad!
I just recently returned after an absence of several years, you primo —investigator,?? you. This favorites nonsense didn't exist when I was here before. Most of these people are strangers to me. Is this the best you can do? lol
—Really? If your relationship with your Scorpio was one of such understanding - you wouldn't have had time (or need) to post 1,000 posts per year on this forum for the past five years.??
MY scorpio? How telling. I thought you said I didn't own him? I guess, if I use your Freudian approach, you really think I do after all??_Send me his papers! Has he had all of his shots?
I visit these forums at work because I'm interested in astrology and have been for years. — SHOCKER!
Have you, by any chance, noticed that you??re here, as well? I mean, my stars! You must never leave the house or have a real life of any sort. Hey there, Pot! I'm Kettle! Nice to meet ya!
—USUALLY ...I have a big heart for the Pisces girls but ...??
Oh dear. Shall I ever get over the rejection? Someone fetch my hanky and smelling salts, STAT!
Furthermore, the worst advice (and that's saying A LOT) in this thread came from you. Telling a scorpio woman to reveal all of her feelings and desires to a man who does not yet have her trust? Seriously?
You said that because that is what YOU want women to do. It makes it so easy for you, even though you will always view them as weak for doing so. They reveal everything, you reveal nothing. Then you use their feelings to manipulate them. You thereby maintain control and don't have to put forth any effort at all. This is the crux of your problem, because any self-respecting woman will never put up with that shit. Unfortunately, that's just the kind of woman you need - the only kind you could ever truly love or respect— hence why you quake in your Skechers at the thought of being with a Scorpio woman.
—I can't imagine why, after FIVE YEARS that you don't have many (any?) Scorpios who have favorited you.??
Are you nine? I mean, Hot damn! I didn't realize this was a popularity contest! Why didn't someone tell me? I better join the cheerleading squad!
I just recently returned after an absence of several years, you primo —investigator,?? you. This favorites nonsense didn't exist when I was here before. Most of these people are strangers to me. Is this the best you can do? lol
—Really? If your relationship with your Scorpio was one of such understanding - you wouldn't have had time (or need) to post 1,000 posts per year on this forum for the past five years.??
MY scorpio? How telling. I thought you said I didn't own him? I guess, if I use your Freudian approach, you really think I do after all??_Send me his papers! Has he had all of his shots?
I visit these forums at work because I'm interested in astrology and have been for years. — SHOCKER!
Have you, by any chance, noticed that you??re here, as well? I mean, my stars! You must never leave the house or have a real life of any sort. Hey there, Pot! I'm Kettle! Nice to meet ya!
—USUALLY ...I have a big heart for the Pisces girls but ...??
Oh dear. Shall I ever get over the rejection? Someone fetch my hanky and smelling salts, STAT!
—when they are an attention-seeking siren??
The only attention-whore here is YOU. You came to this thread, and rather than immediately offering advice to the OP, you chose to attack me first because what I said threatened your fragile ego. Then, you did it again because, horror of all horrors, you thought I had blocked your supertastic self from contacting me. A woman who doesn't want your communication?! Heavens to Betsy! It's not possible! She must be punished!
But, then that's one of the biggest downfalls of the unevolved, grey lizard type, isn't it? You attack those who deserve it the least and, tragically, those who know and care for you the most. Then, so you can live with what you??ve done, you convince yourself (and sometimes, even them) that it was all THEIR fault and push them away, leaving yourself bitter and alone. Proof of this, I'm sure, is forthcoming, rather than the apology you OWE me.
The Lesson Endeth Here: If your knowledge on a topic is so limited that you must resort to a personal attack in a debate, you must truly KNOW your opponent for it to be successful.
—I plug my ears.??
Plug your pie-hole while you??re at it.
Good day. 🙂
The only attention-whore here is YOU. You came to this thread, and rather than immediately offering advice to the OP, you chose to attack me first because what I said threatened your fragile ego. Then, you did it again because, horror of all horrors, you thought I had blocked your supertastic self from contacting me. A woman who doesn't want your communication?! Heavens to Betsy! It's not possible! She must be punished!
But, then that's one of the biggest downfalls of the unevolved, grey lizard type, isn't it? You attack those who deserve it the least and, tragically, those who know and care for you the most. Then, so you can live with what you??ve done, you convince yourself (and sometimes, even them) that it was all THEIR fault and push them away, leaving yourself bitter and alone. Proof of this, I'm sure, is forthcoming, rather than the apology you OWE me.
The Lesson Endeth Here: If your knowledge on a topic is so limited that you must resort to a personal attack in a debate, you must truly KNOW your opponent for it to be successful.
—I plug my ears.??
Plug your pie-hole while you??re at it.
Good day. 🙂
Posted by pigeonpie
*favourites sea siren*
DID YOU?? DID YOU REALLY—!! :::jumping up and down::: Does this mean I'm finally a card-carrying member—! I'll put it in a special place in my wallet! Right next to my Duran Duran official fan club member card. 🙂
Posted by pigeonpiePosted by EleniPosted by pigeonpie
*favourites sea siren*
lmao...
that scorpiopics is pretty astute tho 😛
Seemed more mean spirited than anything. 🙂click to expand
LOL! Yeah, I'm afraid you won't get any support on that viewpoint from that particular quarter, Bling. After all, she detests Pisces, and Pisces women in particular, remember? She proclaimed it all over the boards like it was her job back when she was one of her "former" personalities.
But, I thank you for your chivalry, sweetie. 😉
Birds of a feather...
Posted by Beetleguese
SS back laying the smack down on unruly scorps, haha, reminiscent of the old days—
LOL! And some have achieved the truly difficult goal of evolving into a higher form since those days, haven't they? 😉
This one could learn much from you, BG. You should become his Jedi Master. 🙂
Well, of course! All peeps with good taste ARE, Sea Vix!
In fact, I think I'll have me a little "Rio" right now.... 🙂
In fact, I think I'll have me a little "Rio" right now.... 🙂
Posted by BeetleguesePosted by Sea SirenPosted by Beetleguese
SS back laying the smack down on unruly scorps, haha, reminiscent of the old days—
LOL! And some have achieved the truly difficult goal of evolving into a higher form since those days, haven't they? 😉
This one could learn much from you, BG. You should become his Jedi Master. 🙂
Some have managed to be a little less lizardly, yes indeed😉
Well as you know, you can lead a scorpion to the foot of the eagle's nest but you can't teach him how to climb up, that he must do on his own🙂click to expand
SEE! That was SO Obi-Wan. lol
I'm sure you have a waiting list @ The Scorp Tool Academy...but special circumstances are special circumstances.
Posted by pigeonpie
I dunno, I think even as an Eagle, it'd still be fun to fly down, "peck peck peck!!!" at those worthy of such affections, then fly off again ! 🙂
LOL! Little eagle love pecks. SWEET!
Posted by pigeonpiePosted by Sea SirenPosted by pigeonpie
I dunno, I think even as an Eagle, it'd still be fun to fly down, "peck peck peck!!!" at those worthy of such affections, then fly off again ! 🙂
LOL! Little eagle love pecks. SWEET!
They're supposed to be annoying, not lovely !click to expand
You know you would only do it to the peeps you liked best.
Posted by BeetleguesePosted by Sea SirenPosted by BeetleguesePosted by Sea SirenPosted by Beetleguese
SS back laying the smack down on unruly scorps, haha, reminiscent of the old days—
LOL! And some have achieved the truly difficult goal of evolving into a higher form since those days, haven't they? 😉
This one could learn much from you, BG. You should become his Jedi Master. 🙂
Some have managed to be a little less lizardly, yes indeed😉
Well as you know, you can lead a scorpion to the foot of the eagle's nest but you can't teach him how to climb up, that he must do on his own🙂
SEE! That was SO Obi-Wan. lol
I'm sure you have a waiting list @ The Scorp Tool Academy...but special circumstances are special circumstances.
Even a super modest and humble Eaglard can bust out a nugget once in blue moon😉click to expand
LOL! YAR...I know all too well.
I have a male Scorpio friend that was married for years. His wife left him and filed for divorce a year ago. I am also getting out of a long bad marriage. He seems to act interested, then other days, not so much. When he "pulls back", he has a hard time making eye contact. I know he is hurt , but he is so sweet, and we do have good conversation. When will he show interest and ask me out.?
I have a male Scorpio friend that was married for years. His wife left him and filed for divorce a year ago. I am also getting out of a long bad marriage. He seems to act interested, then other days, not so much. When he "pulls back", he has a hard time making eye contact. I know he is hurt , but he is so sweet, and we do have good conversation. When will he show interest and ask me out.?
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