Scorpio Man and Virgo Man Giving Me a Headache

What is going on in the universe? In the last two weeks I have had two men resurface in my life that I have posted about on DXP before. First is my ex Scorpio, we dated for 8 months, and then he disappeared. There was no contact from either of us, until 5 months later on Valentine's Day he sends a one sentence email, I simply replied —thank you.?? Then in May there were a few more emails, him expressing how he realized that I was the one for him, his soulmate, etc. I expressed to him exactly how I felt...which wasn't as lovely dovey as his words. Fast forward to now (almost exactly one year after he left), I receive an email that he's back in the states and hope my day was going well. He calls a few days later to get a weather report (getting a temperature read on me??_hahaha). We agreed to meet, I was actually excited about seeing him, but when I saw him my emotions got the best of me and I was a wreck. So, he returns home and we continue talking/texting. He wanted to know if we can get some closure on those things that had been stumbling blocks for us in the past and be open to dialogue to work toward moving forward. I opened myself back up to him and agreed??_guess what? Haven't heard from him since??_.WTF!

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Now there is the Virgo I met after breaking up with the Scorpio. After about 2 months I finally let go of the idea of having a relationship with him. He eventually moved out of state, about 4 months after us meeting. We've kept in touch off and on, a phone call here, a text there. A week prior to receiving Scorpio??s email that he's back in the states, Virgo calls saying he's coming back for a visit and would like to see me. This past Sunday Virgo calls, he's on the road headed back my way, still have a couple of hours, so we're just chit-chatting, nothing serious??_then he says, —I like our relationship??_I realized that we can talk about anything and we have never had an argument. — I'm thinking??_uhmmm, ok? We continue our conversation, he's asking question about the guy I'm currently dating, he's wants to know why I haven't committed to him, etc. And how did I expect God to bless me with the man for me if this guy is in the way. Then jokingly says he wants to have a sit down meeting with this guy.
Ok, now it's the next day and we meet up to have lunch. He barely sits down before asking me —what is it I would do or have done for him to know that I'm —into him.?? For an hour he talked about what it takes for a woman to grab his attention. He asked would it be worth it if after 6 months or even 12 months you had him. You got the man you wanted. Would it be worth the wait? Well, in my mind it wasn't a simple yes or no question. I told him his behavior gave me no indication that he was interested in a more serious relationship. I asked him am I to determine if the man I want possesses the qualities I desire, if he never made himself available to allow something to develop. For example, breaking plans to see me, because —other?? things came up. He agreed that he made some errors in that area, but that *I* should have called him later, telling him that since HE didn't keep his plans with me, he should see me the next day. I told him I'm not doing that, because like him, I want some indication that he's also interested. And he could start by showing me by keeping our date or calling to reschedule and actually keeping the rescheduled date. Basically, if I were to sum up the conversation, it was about his ego, his insecurities, which requires the woman to do all the proving and be patient with him. Oh, and guess what else, now that we've had this face-to-face conversation??_I

??_I haven't heard a word from him??_OMG! What's going on!?!?