Scorpio man confuses how to know if he is serious?

This is my first post here and this is probably a common question but still I would like some insight in to the scorpio man.

I have been dating this scorpio man for about 6 weeks. Like its told the sex is absolutely mindblowing. He and I see each other about 1-2 twice a week he's got alot of studies at the moment and we live a little way apart. I have absolutely completly fallen from him and am completly attracted and blown away by his intensity but also the calm he excudes.

He is very afficaciante when we see each other but I feel he also goes very distant in between dates. Doesnt always answer texts and then after a few days he texts alot.

He sais he likes me and if we dont see each other for 4-5 days he sais he misses me. He calls me beautiful and is very much into holding hands kissing my hands kissing generally being extremely affectiante when we go walking or so. He sais he likes having me around and when we are a just a few days from a date he sais he looks forward to it.

I just gets so confused by these "cold spells" of him not answering or keeping in touch. Is this a common scorpio trait or am I looking for an exscuse for "not that interested".

I am a libra with alot of scorpio in my chart I am born on the libra/scorpio cusp and have my moon and venus in scorpio.

How are scorpio men with relationships, how do I know if he is serious and how do they react to being actually asked if they are serious or not, because of other bad relationship I am scared of getting extremly attached if its just sex games to him.

Any thoughts would be appriciated 😄

So basically how do you know if a scorpio man is playing or serious?

Do you know his chart?

Totally Scorp behavior with the hot and cold spells. My Scorp guy (lives in another state) will "go dark" as I call it and not communicate for weeks sometimes. I used to take it personally until I realized, he kept coming back, full force, chatty, highly complimentary, saying he misses me... just like your guy. As you said, he is busy with school. He just gets focused on that thing for a time, needs some space and then comes back. My experience is this is totally typical behavior.

I know I'm not a guy but I do similar things.

I'm really weird with communication...I NEED it one way or the other. Sometimes this comes across as clingy but the person I'm with doesn't usually understand what I mean.

I hardly get to see my partner...maybe every couple of weeks...so I feel texting is important to keep the communication going and also to keep the bond (or a proper phone conversation, which would result in less texts aswell). If I saw him more regularly...say once a week...the text communication would greatly fall...it may even stop all together except for when we need to arrange to meet up. And if we saw each other more than once a week...maybe more like two or three times...then I would start to need my space. It's really hard to try to explain.

I think if your scorp was playing you things would probably be more sex orientated. I also think after the few days of no communication he wouldn't be as affectionate with his texts...unless it led to him being in your bed an hour later. And the hand holding and kissing thing would probably have to lead to something pretty quickly as well. I have a feeling he wouldn't be able to express himself and be so affectionate if he was playing you.

I would pay more attention to how he treats you in person, seeing as you two have regular contact, and let the days inbetween slide a bit. If you guys text every day, or every other day, you may not have anything to talk about the one or two times you see each other in person 😛

Hi

M scared he is jus playing.

I am dating this scorpio guy since 2 months now. At first it ws great.

But i feel he is a sex addict now. Since we got physical once he jus doesnt stop and keeps asking me for more.

We r in long distance relationship n his schedule is very busy. I expect him to take time out to hv a normal conversation but dat doesnt happen ,he calls for two minutes n goes off. But he always hv time for phone sex.

Is this normal wid a scorpio guy or any guy for that matter