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The fight picking lol I have no clue why it's so fun for Scorpios. Good luck though!
It will change later once he softens to you, but he has to build up the trust first. So it will be rewarding, but you have to have some staying power in order to see it.
It will change later once he softens to you, but he has to build up the trust first. So it will be rewarding, but you have to have some staying power in order to see it.
Thanks guys.
I don’t even know how to reply to comments on here properly lol
He is virgo moon. Sags mercury and venus. Leo mars. I will look up rising sign shortly.
He has learned that I am a strong headed myself so hopefully he doesn’t try this for long. I adore the connection we have but I will choose sanity over anything really. Lol
I don’t even know how to reply to comments on here properly lol
He is virgo moon. Sags mercury and venus. Leo mars. I will look up rising sign shortly.
He has learned that I am a strong headed myself so hopefully he doesn’t try this for long. I adore the connection we have but I will choose sanity over anything really. Lol
Posted by CancerCancer
Thanks guys.
I don’t even know how to reply to comments on here properly lol
He is virgo moon. Sags mercury and venus. Leo mars. I will look up rising sign shortly.
He has learned that I am a strong headed myself so hopefully he doesn’t try this for long. I adore the connection we have but I will choose sanity over anything really. Lol
“Sun square Mars natives are positive, opinionated, a little bit violent, impulsive and feisty, which can often turn them into their own worst enemies. ... The Sun square Mars aspect in *fixed signs* is known to make natives with this placement stubborn and the type that holds grudges”
Good luck!
🥴
Posted by MareInfamePosted by saggurl88 The fight picking lol I have no clue why it's so fun for Scorpios. Good luck though!
It will change later once he softens to you, but he has to build up the trust first. So it will be rewarding, but you have to have some staying power in order to see it.
You’ve actually seen this get better?
Most times I get immediate trust with the Scorpios I’ve connected with… except that one dude I mentioned on this thread and I gave up on him really fast.
I’ve noticed I give up fastest with Scorpio (Taurus too) because I just don’t see them changing…lol 🤷🏻♀️✌🏻💨click to expand
Fixed hell
Lol
Posted by CancerCancer
Thanks guys.
I don’t even know how to reply to comments on here properly lol
He is virgo moon. Sags mercury and venus. Leo mars. I will look up rising sign shortly.
He has learned that I am a strong headed myself so hopefully he doesn’t try this for long. I adore the connection we have but I will choose sanity over anything really. Lol
Be honest with him and let him know that the arguing feels like it's ruining the connection.
Once he actually starts trusting you, you can even pretend to be extremely hurt and he will work hard to make it up to you lol
😄 I used to do this all the time to avoid arguments. An argument for fun is cool, but they don't actually want to hurt you, if they see the effect of it.
Play it up!
Thanks MareInFrame.
I actually asked him if he was ever cheated on. Though the answer was no he had his child’s mum lying about being able to get pregnant and telling others than him when she fell pregnant which he found betrayed and disrespected so he ended it.
The conversation is actually good. I feel I can express what I want to say to him. He says i will shut up and listen while you talk then he does. However he seems to get stuck on one teeny weeny thing ig. I didn’t answer the phone instead of looking at the whole situation ig. I missed it but called him back and my phone was on silent. That doesn’t mean I was talking to others. So I need to explain and convince him over and over!
I will have a good chat to him tonight.
I actually asked him if he was ever cheated on. Though the answer was no he had his child’s mum lying about being able to get pregnant and telling others than him when she fell pregnant which he found betrayed and disrespected so he ended it.
The conversation is actually good. I feel I can express what I want to say to him. He says i will shut up and listen while you talk then he does. However he seems to get stuck on one teeny weeny thing ig. I didn’t answer the phone instead of looking at the whole situation ig. I missed it but called him back and my phone was on silent. That doesn’t mean I was talking to others. So I need to explain and convince him over and over!
I will have a good chat to him tonight.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by saggurl88 The fight picking lol I have no clue why it's so fun for Scorpios. Good luck though!
It will change later once he softens to you, but he has to build up the trust first. So it will be rewarding, but you have to have some staying power in order to see it.
You’ve actually seen this get better?
Most times I get immediate trust with the Scorpios I’ve connected with… except that one dude I mentioned on this thread and I gave up on him really fast.
I’ve noticed I give up fastest with Scorpio (Taurus too) because I just don’t see them changing…lol 🤷🏻♀️✌🏻💨click to expand
They are both water signs, so that's a completely different thing all together and Cancers can be stubborn as hell when they think they're right, which can piss a Scorpio off. lol So who knows, but it can work. both have staying power to compromise and work through it.
For a fixed sign, I find Scorpios to be very understanding in love. They just want to be happy too.
Thanks saggurl. I think you are spot on.
He wants to argue to see how I go about it..not to hurt me. Also he couldn’t cope with the fact I was so stubborn during first argument and he didn’t expect it and started talking non sense just to win the argument lol
He wants to argue to see how I go about it..not to hurt me. Also he couldn’t cope with the fact I was so stubborn during first argument and he didn’t expect it and started talking non sense just to win the argument lol
When he said I love you I didn’t say it back. Would it be driving him crazy even more?
I just wanted to make sure I saw all different sides of him and experienced other stuff together before I said it back. We made so many plans but all canceled due to lockdown where we live. So all we did so far is cooking eating talking and having sex a lot. Lol
I just wanted to make sure I saw all different sides of him and experienced other stuff together before I said it back. We made so many plans but all canceled due to lockdown where we live. So all we did so far is cooking eating talking and having sex a lot. Lol
Posted by MareInfamePosted by saggurl88Posted by MareInfamePosted by saggurl88 The fight picking lol I have no clue why it's so fun for Scorpios. Good luck though!
It will change later once he softens to you, but he has to build up the trust first. So it will be rewarding, but you have to have some staying power in order to see it.
You’ve actually seen this get better?
Most times I get immediate trust with the Scorpios I’ve connected with… except that one dude I mentioned on this thread and I gave up on him really fast.
I’ve noticed I give up fastest with Scorpio (Taurus too) because I just don’t see them changing…lol 🤷🏻♀️✌🏻💨
They are both water signs, so that's a completely different thing all together and Cancers can be stubborn as hell when they think they're right, which can piss a Scorpio off. lol So who knows, but it can work. both have staying power to compromise and work through it.
For a fixed sign, I find Scorpios to be very understanding in love. They just want to be happy too.
Yes, Cancer + Scorpio get on exceptionally well… I see combo in marriage all the time. And I agree… fights can get prolonged due to both being stubborn.
I also agree… they are very understanding in love. Been with other Scorpios that definitely fit that bill.
But Scorpio I mentioned in this thread and OP’s sound a bit too controlling from the get go. I don’t have much patience for that because if it showed up THAT early, it’s just not cute and it really does demonstrate a grim view of your future together 🥴. It’s bubble bursting. Honeymoon stage should be about having fun, connecting, sex, connecting, sex… exciting times trying it all, getting creative. Not making you feel like SHIT. That is just a DRAAAAAAG.
I get it if there are bouts here and there. But OP’s Scorpio was not cute… he was showing major toxic behavior early on😳😰.click to expand
He has a Fire Venus and Mars lol He's bound to be a little hot headed.
But his moon will accept all explanations and logical reasoning, if she actually takes the time to communicate with him.
Her getting upset and being stubborn because she is feeling a certain type of way, (cancer placements and their feelings) is not going to help anything.
Also if she is not consistent with her texting, it could be an issue.
If she used to text all the time at work and has pulled back and started ignoring him, it might be an issue. Cancers can slack off once when they want someone to chase them, so she will get the wrath of her slacking and being inconsistent.
Fixed signs need consistency, I find. But he's mutable enough to still hang in there and keep trying.
(All of this is just my assumption based on placements, of course.)
Posted by CancerCancer
When he said I love you I didn’t say it back. Would it be driving him crazy even more?
I just wanted to make sure I saw all different sides of him and experienced other stuff together before I said it back. We made so many plans but all canceled due to lockdown where we live. So all we did so far is cooking eating talking and having sex a lot. Lol
No. I don't think so. No one wants to here if it's not true. You can tell him what you wrote here. As long as you tell him something that makes sense instead of the deer in headlights. Scorpios handle honesty extremely well. You can tell them anything and they are very accepting of you.
As long as not some weird stuff that no one would be able to understand. lol But honesty about feelings will do you good here, if you're able to articulate it. He knows realistically that it hasn't been long.
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Posted by CancerCancer
I actually asked him if he was ever cheated on. Though the answer was no he had his child’s mum lying about being able to get pregnant and telling others than him when she fell pregnant which he found betrayed and disrespected so he ended it.
this reflects really badly on him
plus his manipulative and possesive ways, the love bombing.
what exactly here is there to like. surely he brings some good to the table to outweigh the bad
Are sags more chill? My moon is sag 😆
Hi ladynepture
We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.
He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)
We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.
We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!
Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.
I do like him a lot.
I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.
This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.
We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.
He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)
We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.
We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!
Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.
I do like him a lot.
I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.
This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.
I think he is sag rising as well while I am Leo rising. 🤭
Posted by CancerCancer
Are sags more chill? My moon is sag 😆
Your moons square 🥴
And yours is masculine vs his feminine. Good luck in handling emotional situations🤞
Hopefully you two adapt well.
Edited to add.- I forgot he has a fire venus, so maybe that helps.
You should look at your charts together.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by saggurl88Posted by MareInfamePosted by saggurl88Posted by MareInfamePosted by saggurl88 The fight picking lol I have no clue why it's so fun for Scorpios. Good luck though!
It will change later once he softens to you, but he has to build up the trust first. So it will be rewarding, but you have to have some staying power in order to see it.
You’ve actually seen this get better?
Most times I get immediate trust with the Scorpios I’ve connected with… except that one dude I mentioned on this thread and I gave up on him really fast.
I’ve noticed I give up fastest with Scorpio (Taurus too) because I just don’t see them changing…lol 🤷🏻♀️✌🏻💨
They are both water signs, so that's a completely different thing all together and Cancers can be stubborn as hell when they think they're right, which can piss a Scorpio off. lol So who knows, but it can work. both have staying power to compromise and work through it.
For a fixed sign, I find Scorpios to be very understanding in love. They just want to be happy too.
Yes, Cancer + Scorpio get on exceptionally well… I see combo in marriage all the time. And I agree… fights can get prolonged due to both being stubborn.
I also agree… they are very understanding in love. Been with other Scorpios that definitely fit that bill.
But Scorpio I mentioned in this thread and OP’s sound a bit too controlling from the get go. I don’t have much patience for that because if it showed up THAT early, it’s just not cute and it really does demonstrate a grim view of your future together 🥴. It’s bubble bursting. Honeymoon stage should be about having fun, connecting, sex, connecting, sex… exciting times trying it all, getting creative. Not making you feel like SHIT. That is just a DRAAAAAAG.
I get it if there are bouts here and there. But OP’s Scorpio was not cute… he was showing major toxic behavior early on😳😰.
He has a Fire Venus and Mars lol He's bound to be a little hot headed.
But his moon will accept all explanations and logical reasoning, if she actually takes the time to communicate with him.
Her getting upset and being stubborn because she is feeling a certain type of way, (cancer placements and their feelings) is not going to help anything.
Also if she is not consistent with her texting, it could be an issue.
If she used to text all the time at work and has pulled back and started ignoring him, it might be an issue. Cancers can slack off once when they want someone to chase them, so she will get the wrath of her slacking and being inconsistent.
Fixed signs need consistency, I find. But he's mutable enough to still hang in there and keep trying.
(All of this is just my assumption based on placements, of course.)
Yes… I LOVE consistency, very true about fixed signs.
Well… I think Fixed trumps mutable because he gave up on baby mama in a heartbeat. Betrayal is a big NO-NO.
The texting is kind of petty though… im blaming that on his Virgo moon 😬🤫. He needs to be more understanding, chill out.
I would have thought his sag placements made him more chill. But, yeah… i see it now. They do have a switched personality, I’ve noticed.click to expand
Fire signs are chill on the outside only. Don’t let us fool you! 😂😂😂😂
His baby mama drama, who’s to say.
Sounds like he didn’t want a kid but was just relying on her to make sure it didn’t happen. Too bad for him.
I am leo rising/mercury. Cancer venus, gemini mars.
From what I understood. With baby mummy situation. He was dating her not living together and she told him that she couldn’t get pregnant due to medical condition…so they did not use protection religiously. One day he got a phone call from her mother and found out she was pregnant. He believes that she did it on purpose to keep him with her and he questioned why she didn’t come honestly and asked him to be with her etc. also seemed to be real angry about her not telling him about pregnancy first. i heard this story bit later. First time when I asked why he separated from child’s mother he gave me a simple answer ‘because she lied’ which I didn’t ask further. then over a week later he told me the whole story.
From what I understood. With baby mummy situation. He was dating her not living together and she told him that she couldn’t get pregnant due to medical condition…so they did not use protection religiously. One day he got a phone call from her mother and found out she was pregnant. He believes that she did it on purpose to keep him with her and he questioned why she didn’t come honestly and asked him to be with her etc. also seemed to be real angry about her not telling him about pregnancy first. i heard this story bit later. First time when I asked why he separated from child’s mother he gave me a simple answer ‘because she lied’ which I didn’t ask further. then over a week later he told me the whole story.
Venus in Sagittarius projects me think?!
While he’s watching your patterns, take note of his too.
He could be describing exactly what he’s doing to you
While he’s watching your patterns, take note of his too.
He could be describing exactly what he’s doing to you
Oh now that’s scary….
So you think he could be unfaithful to me hence he is doubtful with my intention and acts?
So you think he could be unfaithful to me hence he is doubtful with my intention and acts?
Posted by CancerCancer
Oh now that’s scary….
So you think he could be unfaithful to me hence he is doubtful with my intention and acts?
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Posted by CancerCancer
Hi ladynepture
We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.
He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)
We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.
We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!
Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.
I do like him a lot.
I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.
This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.
Sorry to rain on your parade but you met him 2 weeks ago. I hope he really is all of that and more, for your sake.
IME and through observation when someone is this full on, possessive, accusatory, suspicious, all of that early on... it doesn't get better it only gets worse.
To me its a huge red flag how he treated and cut off the mother of his child. Many women believe they can't get pregnant. But stranger things have happened. My mother was told by multiple doctors she would never have children and there are 5 of us.
And if he was a fraction of how he's being towards you, questioning and accusatory, no wonder she told her mother first trying to wrap her head around how to tell him about this unexpected pregnancy. I wonder if he then accused her of cheating. He told you she baby trapped him which is equally as crazy.
The real betrayal here is on him for bailing instead of staying by her side. He chose to not use protection and fuck raw, its as much on him. Too bad we can't get her side of the story.
If he treats the mother of his child that way, how is he gonna treat you if the condom breaks or your bc fails. As it is he is questioning your every movement. Personally I couldn't do it. Trust is the foundation of the relationship. But if you want to ride that ride...
Posted by saggurl88Posted by CancerCancer
Oh now that’s scary….
So you think he could be unfaithful to me hence he is doubtful with my intention and acts?
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Haha. Bit old and not so techie here.
Thanks Saggurl.
I did it for the first comment then didn’t seem to go through properly. Here is another go!!
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancer
Hi ladynepture
We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.
He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)
We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.
We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!
Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.
I do like him a lot.
I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.
This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.
Sorry to rain on your parade but you met him 2 weeks ago. I hope he really is all of that and more, for your sake.
IME and through observation when someone is this full on, possessive, accusatory, suspicious, all of that early on... it doesn't get better it only gets worse.
To me its a huge red flag how he treated and cut off the mother of his child. Many women believe they can't get pregnant. But stranger things have happened. My mother was told by multiple doctors she would never have children and there are 5 of us.
And if he was a fraction of how he's being towards you, questioning and accusatory, no wonder she told her mother first trying to wrap her head around how to tell him about this unexpected pregnancy. I wonder if he then accused her of cheating. He told you she baby trapped him which is equally as crazy.
The real betrayal here is on him for bailing instead of staying by her side. He chose to not use protection and fuck raw, its as much on him. Too bad we can't get her side of the story.
If he treats the mother of his child that way, how is he gonna treat you if the condom breaks or your bc fails. As it is he is questioning your every movement. Personally I couldn't do it. Trust is the foundation of the relationship. But if you want to ride that ride...click to expand
I totally understand what you are saying about child’s mother. I am not trying to defend him but here is my thought. I would never date a man who abandoned his child. However I don’t think anyone should stay together just because they have a child together. I have a friend who had a girl pregnant…while they still had the baby they decided not to pursue their relationship just for the child’s sake but he remained as a good father and looks after his daughter well. Perhaps I have witnessed this I took it well with what my scorpio did. I am happy that he has a good relationship with his daughter and is supporting her.
About the insecurity and possession of this scorpio man maybe I should know better after having ex with similar traits. But the connection is so amazing and I just want to try 😭
With my leo ex he was way too fast as well. Though I saw him every second weekend only back then so seeing the scorpio 10times probably equals a few months of dating leo ex. I know I am just trying to justify myself and being a sucker for this emotional connection. After all I am a cancer and can’t help myself!! 😰😝
Posted by CancerCancerPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancer
Hi ladynepture
We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.
He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)
We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.
We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!
Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.
I do like him a lot.
I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.
This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.
Sorry to rain on your parade but you met him 2 weeks ago. I hope he really is all of that and more, for your sake.
IME and through observation when someone is this full on, possessive, accusatory, suspicious, all of that early on... it doesn't get better it only gets worse.
To me its a huge red flag how he treated and cut off the mother of his child. Many women believe they can't get pregnant. But stranger things have happened. My mother was told by multiple doctors she would never have children and there are 5 of us.
And if he was a fraction of how he's being towards you, questioning and accusatory, no wonder she told her mother first trying to wrap her head around how to tell him about this unexpected pregnancy. I wonder if he then accused her of cheating. He told you she baby trapped him which is equally as crazy.
The real betrayal here is on him for bailing instead of staying by her side. He chose to not use protection and fuck raw, its as much on him. Too bad we can't get her side of the story.
If he treats the mother of his child that way, how is he gonna treat you if the condom breaks or your bc fails. As it is he is questioning your every movement. Personally I couldn't do it. Trust is the foundation of the relationship. But if you want to ride that ride...
I totally understand what you are saying about child’s mother. I am not trying to defend him but here is my thought. I would never date a man who abandoned his child. However I don’t think anyone should stay together just because they have a child together. I have a friend who had a girl pregnant…while they still had the baby they decided not to pursue their relationship just for the child’s sake but he remained as a good father and looks after his daughter well. Perhaps I have witnessed this I took it well with what my scorpio did. I am happy that he has a good relationship with his daughter and is supporting her.
About the insecurity and possession of this scorpio man maybe I should know better after having ex with similar traits. But the connection is so amazing and I just want to try 😭
With my leo ex he was way too fast as well. Though I saw him every second weekend only back then so seeing the scorpio 10times probably equals a few months of dating leo ex. I know I am just trying to justify myself and being a sucker for this emotional connection. After all I am a cancer and can’t help myself!! 😰😝click to expand
Don't get me wrong. I am not saying he should have stayed with her for the sake of the child.
I am talking about his reason for ending the relationship, his claim that she lied and betrayed him.
That is clearly not the case. She didn't poke holes in a condom and call up all his friends to laugh about how she was pregnant before telling him.
She has a medical condition and told her mother once discovering she was pregnant. This was not a pregnancy she maliciously planned and willfully misled him.
I understand how at the time he may have very well felt betrayal and that she was not forthcoming. But after 15 years one would think you have enough distance and grace to speak well about the mother of your child, we wanted different things... we drifted apart etc etc. However he still is besmirching her character and painting her out to be a bad person (liar, betrayer) instead of taking responsibility for his part in the creation of this life. It shows a lack of emotional maturity.
The way a man speaks about his ex(s) says alot about his character. Out of everything you've shared this is the biggest red flag.
Remember the way a man speaks about his ex is how one day he will speak about you.
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancerPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancer
Hi ladynepture
We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.
He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)
We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.
We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!
Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.
I do like him a lot.
I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.
This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.
Sorry to rain on your parade but you met him 2 weeks ago. I hope he really is all of that and more, for your sake.
IME and through observation when someone is this full on, possessive, accusatory, suspicious, all of that early on... it doesn't get better it only gets worse.
To me its a huge red flag how he treated and cut off the mother of his child. Many women believe they can't get pregnant. But stranger things have happened. My mother was told by multiple doctors she would never have children and there are 5 of us.
And if he was a fraction of how he's being towards you, questioning and accusatory, no wonder she told her mother first trying to wrap her head around how to tell him about this unexpected pregnancy. I wonder if he then accused her of cheating. He told you she baby trapped him which is equally as crazy.
The real betrayal here is on him for bailing instead of staying by her side. He chose to not use protection and fuck raw, its as much on him. Too bad we can't get her side of the story.
If he treats the mother of his child that way, how is he gonna treat you if the condom breaks or your bc fails. As it is he is questioning your every movement. Personally I couldn't do it. Trust is the foundation of the relationship. But if you want to ride that ride...
I totally understand what you are saying about child’s mother. I am not trying to defend him but here is my thought. I would never date a man who abandoned his child. However I don’t think anyone should stay together just because they have a child together. I have a friend who had a girl pregnant…while they still had the baby they decided not to pursue their relationship just for the child’s sake but he remained as a good father and looks after his daughter well. Perhaps I have witnessed this I took it well with what my scorpio did. I am happy that he has a good relationship with his daughter and is supporting her.
About the insecurity and possession of this scorpio man maybe I should know better after having ex with similar traits. But the connection is so amazing and I just want to try 😭
With my leo ex he was way too fast as well. Though I saw him every second weekend only back then so seeing the scorpio 10times probably equals a few months of dating leo ex. I know I am just trying to justify myself and being a sucker for this emotional connection. After all I am a cancer and can’t help myself!! 😰😝
Don't get me wrong. I am not saying he should have stayed with her for the sake of the child.
I am talking about his reason for ending the relationship, his claim that she lied and betrayed him.
That is clearly not the case. She didn't poke holes in a condom and call up all his friends to laugh about how she was pregnant before telling him.
She has a medical condition and told her mother once discovering she was pregnant. This was not a pregnancy she maliciously planned and willfully misled him.
I understand how at the time he may have very well felt betrayal and that she was not forthcoming. But after 15 years one would think you have enough distance and grace to speak well about the mother of your child, we wanted different things... we drifted apart etc etc. However he still is besmirching her character and painting her out to be a bad person (liar, betrayer) instead of taking responsibility for his part in the creation of this life. It shows a lack of emotional maturity.
The way a man speaks about his ex(s) says alot about his character. Out of everything you've shared this is the biggest red flag.
Remember the way a man speaks about his ex is how one day he will speak about you.click to expand
I don’t want to say his story is right or wrong because I don’t know anything in details.
He felt lied by her and that is the truth to him so he said it that way is okay with me. He wasn’t going about how bad she was or anything like that at all.
I do appreciate your concern and I will keep it in my mind for sure!
Posted by CancerCancerPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancerPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancer
Hi ladynepture
We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.
He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)
We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.
We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!
Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.
I do like him a lot.
I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.
This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.
Sorry to rain on your parade but you met him 2 weeks ago. I hope he really is all of that and more, for your sake.
IME and through observation when someone is this full on, possessive, accusatory, suspicious, all of that early on... it doesn't get better it only gets worse.
To me its a huge red flag how he treated and cut off the mother of his child. Many women believe they can't get pregnant. But stranger things have happened. My mother was told by multiple doctors she would never have children and there are 5 of us.
And if he was a fraction of how he's being towards you, questioning and accusatory, no wonder she told her mother first trying to wrap her head around how to tell him about this unexpected pregnancy. I wonder if he then accused her of cheating. He told you she baby trapped him which is equally as crazy.
The real betrayal here is on him for bailing instead of staying by her side. He chose to not use protection and fuck raw, its as much on him. Too bad we can't get her side of the story.
If he treats the mother of his child that way, how is he gonna treat you if the condom breaks or your bc fails. As it is he is questioning your every movement. Personally I couldn't do it. Trust is the foundation of the relationship. But if you want to ride that ride...
I totally understand what you are saying about child’s mother. I am not trying to defend him but here is my thought. I would never date a man who abandoned his child. However I don’t think anyone should stay together just because they have a child together. I have a friend who had a girl pregnant…while they still had the baby they decided not to pursue their relationship just for the child’s sake but he remained as a good father and looks after his daughter well. Perhaps I have witnessed this I took it well with what my scorpio did. I am happy that he has a good relationship with his daughter and is supporting her.
About the insecurity and possession of this scorpio man maybe I should know better after having ex with similar traits. But the connection is so amazing and I just want to try 😭
With my leo ex he was way too fast as well. Though I saw him every second weekend only back then so seeing the scorpio 10times probably equals a few months of dating leo ex. I know I am just trying to justify myself and being a sucker for this emotional connection. After all I am a cancer and can’t help myself!! 😰😝
Don't get me wrong. I am not saying he should have stayed with her for the sake of the child.
I am talking about his reason for ending the relationship, his claim that she lied and betrayed him.
That is clearly not the case. She didn't poke holes in a condom and call up all his friends to laugh about how she was pregnant before telling him.
She has a medical condition and told her mother once discovering she was pregnant. This was not a pregnancy she maliciously planned and willfully misled him.
I understand how at the time he may have very well felt betrayal and that she was not forthcoming. But after 15 years one would think you have enough distance and grace to speak well about the mother of your child, we wanted different things... we drifted apart etc etc. However he still is besmirching her character and painting her out to be a bad person (liar, betrayer) instead of taking responsibility for his part in the creation of this life. It shows a lack of emotional maturity.
The way a man speaks about his ex(s) says alot about his character. Out of everything you've shared this is the biggest red flag.
Remember the way a man speaks about his ex is how one day he will speak about you.
I don’t want to say his story is right or wrong because I don’t know anything in details.
He felt lied by her and that is the truth to him so he said it that way is okay with me. He wasn’t going about how bad she was or anything like that at all.
I do appreciate your concern and I will keep it in my mind for sure!click to expand
I hope everything works out for you. Update us as things progress
Posted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancerPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancerPosted by LadyNeptunePosted by CancerCancer
Hi ladynepture
We just have fun together. We have really good conversation and have similar goals morals in our lives.
He is also very cute. His look and fun personality. We share good jokes and always laugh together. We both love food and fashion. We both are tidy and clean (I struggled a big time with messy exs)
We both are morning people and I like how he is so organised with his work and all.
We both are very affectionate and love having each other around. He kisses me in his sleep and he doesn’t snore!! Yay!
Overall we are very compatible. If he ever calms down and trust me the whole I am sure I will be in love with him shortly.
I do like him a lot.
I had a 3yrs of relationship with a leo and he poured his love on me but he was never up for a good chat when things were rough and I ended up caving in all the time which left me so frustrated. He was also untrusting and possessive but hid it and went behind my back to find out my flaws. After I ended with him a year ago he turned into a stalker and I had to put ivo against him.
This scorpio is willing to talk about things or at least listens to whatever I need to say so I will talk to him.
Sorry to rain on your parade but you met him 2 weeks ago. I hope he really is all of that and more, for your sake.
IME and through observation when someone is this full on, possessive, accusatory, suspicious, all of that early on... it doesn't get better it only gets worse.
To me its a huge red flag how he treated and cut off the mother of his child. Many women believe they can't get pregnant. But stranger things have happened. My mother was told by multiple doctors she would never have children and there are 5 of us.
And if he was a fraction of how he's being towards you, questioning and accusatory, no wonder she told her mother first trying to wrap her head around how to tell him about this unexpected pregnancy. I wonder if he then accused her of cheating. He told you she baby trapped him which is equally as crazy.
The real betrayal here is on him for bailing instead of staying by her side. He chose to not use protection and fuck raw, its as much on him. Too bad we can't get her side of the story.
If he treats the mother of his child that way, how is he gonna treat you if the condom breaks or your bc fails. As it is he is questioning your every movement. Personally I couldn't do it. Trust is the foundation of the relationship. But if you want to ride that ride...
I totally understand what you are saying about child’s mother. I am not trying to defend him but here is my thought. I would never date a man who abandoned his child. However I don’t think anyone should stay together just because they have a child together. I have a friend who had a girl pregnant…while they still had the baby they decided not to pursue their relationship just for the child’s sake but he remained as a good father and looks after his daughter well. Perhaps I have witnessed this I took it well with what my scorpio did. I am happy that he has a good relationship with his daughter and is supporting her.
About the insecurity and possession of this scorpio man maybe I should know better after having ex with similar traits. But the connection is so amazing and I just want to try 😭
With my leo ex he was way too fast as well. Though I saw him every second weekend only back then so seeing the scorpio 10times probably equals a few months of dating leo ex. I know I am just trying to justify myself and being a sucker for this emotional connection. After all I am a cancer and can’t help myself!! 😰😝
Don't get me wrong. I am not saying he should have stayed with her for the sake of the child.
I am talking about his reason for ending the relationship, his claim that she lied and betrayed him.
That is clearly not the case. She didn't poke holes in a condom and call up all his friends to laugh about how she was pregnant before telling him.
She has a medical condition and told her mother once discovering she was pregnant. This was not a pregnancy she maliciously planned and willfully misled him.
I understand how at the time he may have very well felt betrayal and that she was not forthcoming. But after 15 years one would think you have enough distance and grace to speak well about the mother of your child, we wanted different things... we drifted apart etc etc. However he still is besmirching her character and painting her out to be a bad person (liar, betrayer) instead of taking responsibility for his part in the creation of this life. It shows a lack of emotional maturity.
The way a man speaks about his ex(s) says alot about his character. Out of everything you've shared this is the biggest red flag.
Remember the way a man speaks about his ex is how one day he will speak about you.
I don’t want to say his story is right or wrong because I don’t know anything in details.
He felt lied by her and that is the truth to him so he said it that way is okay with me. He wasn’t going about how bad she was or anything like that at all.
I do appreciate your concern and I will keep it in my mind for sure!
I hope everything works out for you. Update us as things progressclick to expand
Thank you!
Will do, it could be just lockdown lust 🤭
Posted by ScorpioDreams
Scorpios are weird….especially the men. Went on a date last week with my first ever Scorpio. He took me to dinner and then took me to bed. He was very flirty and made lots of sexual references beforehand, but after our date he changed. He texts me daily, but not once has he mentioned sex. It’s more along the lines of “how are you?” “Hows your day going?” Etc. So I’m sitting here thinking the sex must have sucked for him! 🤦♀️
Maybe he wants to show you that he wants to get to know you better genuinely? Mine does say flirty things here and there but mostly it is about how I am, what I am doing, what I am cooking and eating etc general daily stuff when texting.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by CancerCancer
Oh now that’s scary….
So you think he could be unfaithful to me hence he is doubtful with my intention and acts?
That seemed far-fetched to me. I haven’t experienced that type of behavior with Scorpio men.
I know they can be controlling and that sometimes leads them to zone in on you - ask you millions of questions making you feel like your in the witness stand…lol.
But, most times I don’t experience that with them - once they know your character, they want to do everything with you and just flow with you, be in sync with you. They just need to know you are consistent and mostly consistent with: what you say = what you do.click to expand
Thanks. I really don’t want to start the same behaviour (not trusting) when I complain about it myself.
Oneday I was going to stop at his work after meeting friend. On the way it started raining so I came home instead and texted him I’d stop by later instead and he got so upset. So I see that. I am like that too but he is just extreme with everything! I love that intensity though. I am just as crazy I guess 😆
The only person who’s made any sense is lady Neptune. I see a lot of red flags
And I’m
Scorpio that can get insecure never manipulating , guilt trippring making the other walk on eggshells. It’s internal fears but not making accusations and feeling the other guilty
And I’m
Scorpio that can get insecure never manipulating , guilt trippring making the other walk on eggshells. It’s internal fears but not making accusations and feeling the other guilty
Posted by bmoon8Posted by CancerCancer
Hi All 🙂
I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.
We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.
He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.
Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.
Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.
He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…
He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!
I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.
One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.
I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.
I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.
Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.
Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!
He is very insecure and is manipulating you. You need to stand up for yourself and put your foot down.click to expand
Thank you. I will talk to him. Honesty I think this will happen every time we are apart though…we will see!
Posted by Truemara
The only person who’s made any sense is lady Neptune. I see a lot of red flags
And I’m
Scorpio that can get insecure never manipulating , guilt trippring making the other walk on eggshells. It’s internal fears but not making accusations and feeling the other guilty
If this continues it is definitely a red flag. Maybe this lockdown makes me dumb 😭
I heard that scorpios are emotionally manipulative a lot. Not so true?
We will see. Hopefully i see some positive improvement on this matter. I do like this guy!
Don’t accept red flags based on astrology
No we are not emotionally manipulative this is based on maturity level.
Controlling and manipulating is not a Scorpio only trait.
Have a really talk and in be reassuring but say that behavior is not something you want in a relationship.
No we are not emotionally manipulative this is based on maturity level.
Controlling and manipulating is not a Scorpio only trait.
Have a really talk and in be reassuring but say that behavior is not something you want in a relationship.
Posted by ScorpioDreamsPosted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreamsPosted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreams
Scorpios are weird….especially the men. Went on a date last week with my first ever Scorpio. He took me to dinner and then took me to bed. He was very flirty and made lots of sexual references beforehand, but after our date he changed. He texts me daily, but not once has he mentioned sex. It’s more along the lines of “how are you?” “Hows your day going?” Etc. So I’m sitting here thinking the sex must have sucked for him! 🤦♀️
Lol… so he wants to be friends now?
I guess….but at this point I’d rather him just come right out and reject me then do the whole “let’s just be friends thing.” I have enough Scorpio male friends. Besides, I was totally NOT expecting to hear from him after our little hookup. Was supposed to be a one time deal. He’s supposed to ghost like most men do after sex. 🤷♀️
When I read your post, my first thought was that he probably wants to slow it down to get to know you. Scorpios really don’t waste time, if he’s reaching out, he still likes you.
I just said “so he wants to be friends now” because you tend to always assume the worst… and I was teasing 😜. Stop hoping to get rejected! You love sabotaging yourself. Give him a chance 😉
I know I know…..I’m good at sabotaging. He’s really sweet and all, but if I go in expecting the worst then I can’t be disappointed when the worst happens. I’ve gotten hung up on guys before. Trying not to do that anymore. Lol
Anyway, I’ll shut up now because this thread isn’t about me and my drama. Sorry OP!click to expand
Please don’t apologise. Love reading anything about scorpio man atm lol
I read a lot about hot and cold actions too. Wonder it will happen too.
Posted by ScorpioDreamsPosted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreamsPosted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreams
Scorpios are weird….especially the men. Went on a date last week with my first ever Scorpio. He took me to dinner and then took me to bed. He was very flirty and made lots of sexual references beforehand, but after our date he changed. He texts me daily, but not once has he mentioned sex. It’s more along the lines of “how are you?” “Hows your day going?” Etc. So I’m sitting here thinking the sex must have sucked for him! 🤦♀️
Lol… so he wants to be friends now?
I guess….but at this point I’d rather him just come right out and reject me then do the whole “let’s just be friends thing.” I have enough Scorpio male friends. Besides, I was totally NOT expecting to hear from him after our little hookup. Was supposed to be a one time deal. He’s supposed to ghost like most men do after sex. 🤷♀️
When I read your post, my first thought was that he probably wants to slow it down to get to know you. Scorpios really don’t waste time, if he’s reaching out, he still likes you.
I just said “so he wants to be friends now” because you tend to always assume the worst… and I was teasing 😜. Stop hoping to get rejected! You love sabotaging yourself. Give him a chance 😉
I know I know…..I’m good at sabotaging. He’s really sweet and all, but if I go in expecting the worst then I can’t be disappointed when the worst happens. I’ve gotten hung up on guys before. Trying not to do that anymore. Lol
Anyway, I’ll shut up now because this thread isn’t about me and my drama. Sorry OP!click to expand
Please don’t apologise. Love reading anything about scorpio man atm lol
I read a lot about hot and cold actions too. Wonder it will happen too.
Posted by Truemara
Don’t accept red flags based on astrology
No we are not emotionally manipulative this is based on maturity level.
Controlling and manipulating is not a Scorpio only trait.
Have a really talk and in be reassuring but say that behavior is not something you want in a relationship.
True true. It has been only two weeks and we both are bit confused I think. A good talk is really needed. I will be clear on what I want and what I can’t tolerate. Thank you!
Posted by HypnotoadPosted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreams
Scorpios are weird….especially the men. Went on a date last week with my first ever Scorpio. He took me to dinner and then took me to bed. He was very flirty and made lots of sexual references beforehand, but after our date he changed. He texts me daily, but not once has he mentioned sex. It’s more along the lines of “how are you?” “Hows your day going?” Etc. So I’m sitting here thinking the sex must have sucked for him! 🤦♀️
Lol… so he wants to be friends now?
He's overwhelmed by how much of a ho he was and want's to tone it down but we all know how much of a ho he is now.click to expand
Finally a Scorpio mans advise
Posted by CancerCancer
Hi All 🙂
I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.
We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.
He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.
Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. ...
Yet dropped he loved you and wants to claim you after 5 days?...something is off. I'm expecting to hear he has control issues soon enough in 5, 4, 3, 2....
Anyway, all of this:
Posted by CancerCancer
... Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.
He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…
He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!! ...click to expand
Screams immaturity, emotional manipulation and abuse, and it will only get worst. You're here because you know at day 13 this behaviour doesn't feel right, so go with what your Crab bits are telling you and scuttle away. You are already tip toeing around him out of fear of him "having a bad day".
You should leave. Hoping for the best (e.g. "will he calm down when he feels more secure"), won't make it so.
Posted by MareInfame
... He just sounds extremely insecure and emotionally manipulative… that I can see this escalating real fast to something worse 🥺☹️
How well do you flow in talking about things? If he is in attack mode with his mind made up, there isn’t much learning or understanding he will be able to do...
*like*
I also wanted to be post 69.
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by CancerCancer
Hi All 🙂
I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.
We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.
He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.
Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. ...
Yet dropped he loved you and wants to claim you after 5 days?...something is off. I'm expecting to hear he has control issues soon enough in 5, 4, 3, 2....
Anyway, all of this:Posted by CancerCancer
... Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.
He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…
He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!! ...
Screams immaturity, emotional manipulation and abuse, and it will only get worst. You're here because you know at day 13 this behaviour doesn't feel right, so go with what your Crab bits are telling you and scuttle away. You are already tip toeing around him out of fear of him "having a bad day".
You should leave. Hope for the best (e.g. "will he calm down when he feels more secure"), won't make it so.click to expand
I know it is very early and very fast but I don’t think there is proper timeline when two people connect. I’ve done that with my ex husband and we were together over 10years.
I don’t tip toe around him. I say what I need to say. Anyways I do know it is not a normal behaviour and maybe was just trying to blame the astrology to justify. Other things are too good! Okay will give one more talk and chance then I will make a decision. Thank you.
Posted by CancerCancer
Are sags more chill?...
Generally, yeah.
Posted by CancerCancer
I am leo rising/mercury. Cancer venus, gemini mars.
From what I understood. With baby mummy situation. He was dating her not living together and she told him that she couldn’t get pregnant due to medical condition…so they did not use protection religiously. One day he got a phone call from her mother and found out she was pregnant. He believes that she did it on purpose to keep him with her and he questioned why she didn’t come honestly and asked him to be with her etc. also seemed to be real angry about her not telling him about pregnancy first. i heard this story bit later. First time when I asked why he separated from child’s mother he gave me a simple answer ‘because she lied’ which I didn’t ask further. then over a week later he told me the whole story.
Lol, I just found the phrase "baby mummy" so adorable.
Not addressing the baby mama drama, so no comment. it's irrelevant to the issue that motivated this thread.
Posted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreams
Scorpios are weird….especially the men. Went on a date last week with my first ever Scorpio. He took me to dinner and then took me to bed. He was very flirty and made lots of sexual references beforehand, but after our date he changed. He texts me daily, but not once has he mentioned sex. It’s more along the lines of “how are you?” “Hows your day going?” Etc. So I’m sitting here thinking the sex must have sucked for him! 🤦♀️
Lol… so he wants to be friends now?click to expand
He wouldn't be checking up on her everyday if he just wanted to be friends. He may be playing it safe to see if she brings sex up first. Wondering how she felt about it.
Posted by ScorpioDreams
I guess….but at this point I’d rather him just come right out and reject me then do the whole “let’s just be friends thing.” I have enough Scorpio male friends. Besides, I was totally NOT expecting to hear from him after our little hookup. Was supposed to be a one time deal. He’s supposed to ghost like most men do after sex. 🤷♀️
Was this agreed upon beforehand?
I can't with you sometimes *playfully swat butt*
Posted by CancerCancer
I know it is very early and very fast but I don’t think there is proper timeline when two people connect. I’ve done that with my ex husband and we were together over 10years.
I'm not so much focused on the timeline regarding "I love you" as I agree, it happens when it happens. I was more focused on the inconsistency of love to lack of trust. I don't see how one truly occurs without the other is what I meant.
Posted by CancerCancer
I don’t tip toe around him. I say what I need to say. Anyways I do know it is not a normal behaviour and maybe was just trying to blame the astrology to justify. Other things are too good! Okay will give one more talk and chance then I will make a decision. Thank you.click to expand
Okay, well it read that way. Reading through the rest of your responses it appears you feel secure enough to leave if it continues to go sideways. I was responding to what you wrote in the OP and based on that, I would move on---however as MareInFame wrote, I give up faster on fixed signs. Too many bricks to chisel through.
Besides, I'm all the fixed energy a couple needs.
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