Posted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreamsPosted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreams
Scorpios are weird….especially the men. Went on a date last week with my first ever Scorpio. He took me to dinner and then took me to bed. He was very flirty and made lots of sexual references beforehand, but after our date he changed. He texts me daily, but not once has he mentioned sex. It’s more along the lines of “how are you?” “Hows your day going?” Etc. So I’m sitting here thinking the sex must have sucked for him! 🤦♀️
Lol… so he wants to be friends now?
I guess….but at this point I’d rather him just come right out and reject me then do the whole “let’s just be friends thing.” I have enough Scorpio male friends. Besides, I was totally NOT expecting to hear from him after our little hookup. Was supposed to be a one time deal. He’s supposed to ghost like most men do after sex. 🤷♀️
When I read your post, my first thought was that he probably wants to slow it down to get to know you. Scorpios really don’t waste time, if he’s reaching out, he still likes you.
I just said “so he wants to be friends now” because you tend to always assume the worst… and I was teasing 😜. Stop hoping to get rejected! You love sabotaging yourself. Give him a chance 😉click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by CancerCancer
I know it is very early and very fast but I don’t think there is proper timeline when two people connect. I’ve done that with my ex husband and we were together over 10years.
I'm not so much focused on the timeline regarding "I love you" as I agree, it happens when it happens. I was more focused on the inconsistency of love to lack of trust. I don't see how one truly occurs without the other is what I meant.Posted by CancerCancer
I don’t tip toe around him. I say what I need to say. Anyways I do know it is not a normal behaviour and maybe was just trying to blame the astrology to justify. Other things are too good! Okay will give one more talk and chance then I will make a decision. Thank you.
Okay, well it read that way. Reading through the rest of your responses it appears you feel secure enough to leave if it continues to go sideways. I was responding to what you wrote in the OP and based on that, I would move on---however as MareInFame wrote, I give up faster on fixed signs. Too many bricks to chisel through.
Besides, I'm all the fixed energy a couple needs.click to expand
Posted by CancerCancer
I heard that scorpios are emotionally manipulative a lot. Not so true?
Posted by CancerCancerPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by CancerCancer
I know it is very early and very fast but I don’t think there is proper timeline when two people connect. I’ve done that with my ex husband and we were together over 10years.
I'm not so much focused on the timeline regarding "I love you" as I agree, it happens when it happens. I was more focused on the inconsistency of love to lack of trust. I don't see how one truly occurs without the other is what I meant.Posted by CancerCancer
I don’t tip toe around him. I say what I need to say. Anyways I do know it is not a normal behaviour and maybe was just trying to blame the astrology to justify. Other things are too good! Okay will give one more talk and chance then I will make a decision. Thank you.
Okay, well it read that way. Reading through the rest of your responses it appears you feel secure enough to leave if it continues to go sideways. I was responding to what you wrote in the OP and based on that, I would move on---however as MareInFame wrote, I give up faster on fixed signs. Too many bricks to chisel through.
Besides, I'm all the fixed energy a couple needs.
I totally agree with you. How can you love someone and not trust? There will be no relationship happening without trust.
I tend to take problems as a challenge and try to solve it to the point I exhaust myself…if it makes any sense 🤭 I shouldn’t do that I don’t need it. Oh gees he is so damn cute and smells so good. I love it when he is around 😭🤣
But yes! serious talk tonight……!!!click to expand
Posted by MareInfamePosted by ScorpioDreams
I know I know…..I’m good at sabotaging. He’s really sweet and all, but if I go in expecting the worst then I can’t be disappointed when the worst happens. I’ve gotten hung up on guys before. Trying not to do that anymore. Lol
Anyway, I’ll shut up now because this thread isn’t about me and my drama. Sorry OP!
Have you tried just not expecting - either positive or negative? Or just being present, keep your thoughts about him in the moment only?click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by CancerCancerPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by CancerCancer
I know it is very early and very fast but I don’t think there is proper timeline when two people connect. I’ve done that with my ex husband and we were together over 10years.
I'm not so much focused on the timeline regarding "I love you" as I agree, it happens when it happens. I was more focused on the inconsistency of love to lack of trust. I don't see how one truly occurs without the other is what I meant.Posted by CancerCancer
I don’t tip toe around him. I say what I need to say. Anyways I do know it is not a normal behaviour and maybe was just trying to blame the astrology to justify. Other things are too good! Okay will give one more talk and chance then I will make a decision. Thank you.
Okay, well it read that way. Reading through the rest of your responses it appears you feel secure enough to leave if it continues to go sideways. I was responding to what you wrote in the OP and based on that, I would move on---however as MareInFame wrote, I give up faster on fixed signs. Too many bricks to chisel through.
Besides, I'm all the fixed energy a couple needs.
I totally agree with you. How can you love someone and not trust? There will be no relationship happening without trust.
I tend to take problems as a challenge and try to solve it to the point I exhaust myself…if it makes any sense 🤭 I shouldn’t do that I don’t need it. Oh gees he is so damn cute and smells so good. I love it when he is around 😭🤣
But yes! serious talk tonight……!!!
Lol, you are adorable! You clearly like him a lot.click to expand
Posted by AgentP911
I read your post and the first page but not the rest as I'm short on time but let me be clear...
TWO WEEKS
and its like this?
Run... As fast as you can... Away from him.
Let us not gloss over the glaringly obvious just because the sex might be good or whatever.
In two weeks he has claimed you as his girlfriend AND said he loves you. In addition, if you can count the arguments and manipulation on both hands then you're in real trouble. If you were to make a list of what you think a healthy relationship ought to look like then I guarantee you are not going to be listing "he gets shitty with me when I miss a call from him" and "he shouts at me a lot".
Posted by AgentP911
I read your post and the first page but not the rest as I'm short on time but let me be clear...
TWO WEEKS
and its like this?
Run... As fast as you can... Away from him.
Let us not gloss over the glaringly obvious just because the sex might be good or whatever.
In two weeks he has claimed you as his girlfriend AND said he loves you. In addition, if you can count the arguments and manipulation on both hands then you're in real trouble. If you were to make a list of what you think a healthy relationship ought to look like then I guarantee you are not going to be listing "he gets shitty with me when I miss a call from him" and "he shouts at me a lot".
Posted by bmoon8Posted by CancerCancerPosted by bmoon8Posted by CancerCancer
Hi All 🙂
I met this scorpio man two weeks ago and this is the first scorpio I ever dated. We hit it off right away and have been inseparable since. Like we saw each other 10 out of 14days. Staying the nights together most time.
We both are in 40s and went through enough in our lives.
He asked me to be his gf just after 5days and dropped the L bomb after 12days. Though I know it is way too fast It felt natural and genuine.
Here is one problem though. He is very untrusting towards me. When we are physically together, everything is almost perfect. I am so into him and show him that.
Once we are physically apart that’s when the problem starts. He gets paranoid and starts his negative imaginative play. I literally spent every single minute of my free time since I met him. I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured. As if that’s the proof of me caring for him.
He gets angry and says mean things. Nothing too aggressive or violent or never yell but things such as you don’t care, do you want to break up with me etc and always questioning my intention. Once I did not text him or call him till later in the morning thinking he was sleeping in being a day off and bit unwell. He got so upset when he got up saying I did not care. I didn’t want to disturb his sleep was all. Sigh…
He gets angry when I miss his calls but I always call back. He went overboard last night saying I must be talking to others. Oops!! He even questioned me if I went to work….he saw me in my uniform in the morning….!!!
I get that he feels insecure probably after pouring his emotions and feelings out on me…but he pushed me so badly last night I almost broke it off.
One positive thing is that I told him please not to say I didn’t care when he was angry. Just simply ask if I cared then I’d say yes of course. Also asked him not to say mean things while angry just take time to himself and come back to me later. He actually did go quiet last night after I told him to think about how he wanted to be with me when he couldn’t trust me. So at least he tried to reflect on what I said I guess. But what I meant was to come back to me to have a good conversation after thinking about the issue. This morning he said good morning and called me. Like nothing happened. Lol. I did not say much as I didn’t want him to have a bad day. But I will talk to him in person tonight about his trust issue.
I can handle it for a while if it is only because we are at early stage but if he is going to be like this forever there is noway I will put up with it.
I believe any relationship should be based on trust and open communication. I really hope he understands what I mean.
Would he calm down once he feels more secure? I hope he does. I will ask him what I could do for him to feel better in that manners.
Any comment about your scorpio man experience or scorpios perspectives would be much appreciated. Thanks guys!
He is very insecure and is manipulating you. You need to stand up for yourself and put your foot down.
Thank you. I will talk to him. Honesty I think this will happen every time we are apart though…we will see!
It will only continue to happen if you allow it. Scorpios need strong mates - people who will stand up for themselves and put their foot down at unacceptable behavior.click to expand
Posted by bmoon8Posted by Truemara
Don’t accept red flags based on astrology
No we are not emotionally manipulative this is based on maturity level.
Controlling and manipulating is not a Scorpio only trait.
Have a really talk and in be reassuring but say that behavior is not something you want in a relationship.
Fuck the immaturity/maturity noise. If you read what she wrote, he is manipulating the response he wants to get from her. That is what I meant by him being manipulating.
Disclaimer: not all Scorpios are manipulating.
There. You happy?click to expand
Posted by CancerCancerPosted by AgentP911
I read your post and the first page but not the rest as I'm short on time but let me be clear...
TWO WEEKS
and its like this?
Run... As fast as you can... Away from him.
Let us not gloss over the glaringly obvious just because the sex might be good or whatever.
In two weeks he has claimed you as his girlfriend AND said he loves you. In addition, if you can count the arguments and manipulation on both hands then you're in real trouble. If you were to make a list of what you think a healthy relationship ought to look like then I guarantee you are not going to be listing "he gets shitty with me when I miss a call from him" and "he shouts at me a lot".
Oops. We just had a talk. He said he wanted more attention throughout the day aka a few more texts and he will work on his behaviour. He said he was sorry but he did trust me. I am giving another go and see if his action changes according to what he says as he asks me to.
Thanks for your input and concern though. I’ll definitely keep all the advices in mind!click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
I’m now kind of nervous for the woman who ends up with our Scorpio son
😈🥴😂🤣
Posted by AgentP911Posted by MyStarsShine
I’m now kind of nervous for the woman who ends up with our Scorpio son
😈🥴😂🤣
Ha ha I agree with Reincarnation that Scorpio needs a strong partner. Ideally one with a backbone, decent morals, and good communication is ideal. I know a few Scorpio male and Taurus female connections which seem to work. I'm a Scorpio female with a Taurus male and it is working well. My cousin is a Cancer/Leo cusp female with Scorpio moon and she's been with her Scorpio male with Leo moon husband for over 20 years. I found I never got on with Cancer males. I found them too manipulative and Pisces to be a bit too weak but just my experience. There's successful partnerships for these combinations out there.
I bet when he brings home his choice partner you'll be investigating their chart!!click to expand
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.click to expand
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.
Is she allowed to leave the house?click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.
Is she allowed to leave the house?
Some women become very depressed staying home especially if they have post natal depression and the baby is sick and/or cannot sleep well. If the father isnt hands on with the baby and doesn’t support the mother, that can lead to a very difficult situation.click to expand
Posted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Moloko_vellocetPosted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.
Is she allowed to leave the house?
Some women become very depressed staying home especially if they have post natal depression and the baby is sick and/or cannot sleep well. If the father isnt hands on with the baby and doesn’t support the mother, that can lead to a very difficult situation.
I think you quoted the wrong person.click to expand
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.click to expand
Posted by ScorpioDreamsPosted by PhoenixRisingPosted by ScorpioDreams
I guess….but at this point I’d rather him just come right out and reject me then do the whole “let’s just be friends thing.” I have enough Scorpio male friends. Besides, I was totally NOT expecting to hear from him after our little hookup. Was supposed to be a one time deal. He’s supposed to ghost like most men do after sex. 🤷♀️
Was this agreed upon beforehand?
I can't with you sometimes *playfully swat butt*
No, there was no agreement beforehand. He was supposed to be a distraction so I wouldn’t get so hung up on the Aries. I have screwed up royally with the Aries it seems and now he isn’t speaking to me even though I apologized. Sigh… 😔click to expand
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
When he said I love you I didn’t say it back. Would it be driving him crazy even more?
I just wanted to make sure I saw all different sides of him and experienced other stuff together before I said it back. We made so many plans but all canceled due to lockdown where we live. So all we did so far is cooking eating talking and having sex a lot. Lol
Cancer women are not very verbally expressive - from my experience.
Scorpio men are. That is why he is moving so fast. We say what we feel.
If you want to get rid of his jealousy, you need to verbally tell him that you are 100% his. Make him feel that you are devoted to him alone. Extreme, I know. Just trust me on this.
I know this does not come naturally for the Cancer woman, but watch how his behavior will immediately calm down. I find that the Cancer-Capricorn axis just doesn't "get this." Taurus women get this naturally. They are just as verbally expressive as Scorpios.
Anyway - congrats on your relationship. Cancer F/Scorp M can be heavenly. I am looking for a Cancer woman myself.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.
Some women become very depressed staying home especially if they have post natal depression and the baby is sick and/or cannot sleep well. If the father isnt hands on with the baby and doesn’t support the mother, that can lead to a very difficult situationclick to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AgentP911Posted by MyStarsShine
I’m now kind of nervous for the woman who ends up with our Scorpio son
😈🥴😂🤣
Ha ha I agree with Reincarnation that Scorpio needs a strong partner. Ideally one with a backbone, decent morals, and good communication is ideal. I know a few Scorpio male and Taurus female connections which seem to work. I'm a Scorpio female with a Taurus male and it is working well. My cousin is a Cancer/Leo cusp female with Scorpio moon and she's been with her Scorpio male with Leo moon husband for over 20 years. I found I never got on with Cancer males. I found them too manipulative and Pisces to be a bit too weak but just my experience. There's successful partnerships for these combinations out there.
I bet when he brings home his choice partner you'll be investigating their chart!!
Scorpios not for the feint hearted hey? 😈😂
He will prob look at her chart before i do lol. Imagine having a Scorp partner and MIL 😱
Poor woman
🥴🤣click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by AgentP911Posted by MyStarsShine
I’m now kind of nervous for the woman who ends up with our Scorpio son
😈🥴😂🤣
Ha ha I agree with Reincarnation that Scorpio needs a strong partner. Ideally one with a backbone, decent morals, and good communication is ideal. I know a few Scorpio male and Taurus female connections which seem to work. I'm a Scorpio female with a Taurus male and it is working well. My cousin is a Cancer/Leo cusp female with Scorpio moon and she's been with her Scorpio male with Leo moon husband for over 20 years. I found I never got on with Cancer males. I found them too manipulative and Pisces to be a bit too weak but just my experience. There's successful partnerships for these combinations out there.
I bet when he brings home his choice partner you'll be investigating their chart!!
Scorpios not for the feint hearted hey? 😈😂
He will prob look at her chart before i do lol. Imagine having a Scorp partner and MIL 😱
Poor woman
🥴🤣
I had a Scorpio Mother in law, she learned very quickly not to interfere in me and my ex husbands life. 😆 Even her own son used to stop talking to her over the shit she used to try lol
She learned to let go of the reigns quickly when I was with him. 😄click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShine
@saggurl88
Was the ex husband a Scorpio too?
Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShine
@saggurl88
Was the ex husband a Scorpio too?
No, he was a Gemini. But he was a big mamas boy.
It basically came down to who he had to answer to. Me or his mom, and he lived with me so it got settled fairly quickly.
I politely told her to butt out of my business and that if I needed any help, I would ask. I was firm with boundaries but always kind to her, so she respected me and chilled out.click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShine
@saggurl88
Was the ex husband a Scorpio too?
No, he was a Gemini. But he was a big mamas boy.
It basically came down to who he had to answer to. Me or his mom, and he lived with me so it got settled fairly quickly.
I politely told her to butt out of my business and that if I needed any help, I would ask. I was firm with boundaries but always kind to her, so she respected me and chilled out.
Good for you Sag
I can’t stand the mammy’s boy thing. I wish women wouldn’t do that to their Sons. Its unhealthy and weird.click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by saggurl88Posted by MyStarsShine
@saggurl88
Was the ex husband a Scorpio too?
No, he was a Gemini. But he was a big mamas boy.
It basically came down to who he had to answer to. Me or his mom, and he lived with me so it got settled fairly quickly.
I politely told her to butt out of my business and that if I needed any help, I would ask. I was firm with boundaries but always kind to her, so she respected me and chilled out.
Good for you Sag
I can’t stand the mammy’s boy thing. I wish women wouldn’t do that to their Sons. Its unhealthy and weird.
LMAO!!!!! I actually don't mind it because they are always so sweet to their moms, so I know they will be sweet to me. But the mom needs to CUT THE CORD when they get with a women and move out. There can only be one women to wear the crown! 😆click to expand
Posted by Mutya
I've experienced this from Scorpios in the past hence I refrain from dating them these days. Not all Scorps are like that though.
My brother is a Scorpio and he is exactly like your bf. When his Cap wife goes out to run errands for her elderly mother, he wants her to report every single shit she did that day. Even the routes she took, how long it took her from the train station to wherever the fuck she was going and if something sounds suspicious to him he would start interrogating her and would ask the same questions trying to see if my sister in law was lying. If she doesn't text him for a bit he'd pick a fight and would throw stuff around.
It's sometimes disgusting for me to see how insecure and immature he is at 45. That being said, if a man does that to me regardless of his sign I will break up with him. Life's too short for such drama. I just want a simple, quiet life with a man I adore and trust and vice versa.
Posted by Mutya
I've experienced this from Scorpios in the past hence I refrain from dating them these days. Not all Scorps are like that though.
My brother is a Scorpio and he is exactly like your bf. When his Cap wife goes out to run errands for her elderly mother, he wants her to report every single shit she did that day. Even the routes she took, how long it took her from the train station to wherever the fuck she was going and if something sounds suspicious to him he would start interrogating her and would ask the same questions trying to see if my sister in law was lying. If she doesn't text him for a bit he'd pick a fight and would throw stuff around.
It's sometimes disgusting for me to see how insecure and immature he is at 45. That being said, if a man does that to me regardless of his sign I will break up with him. Life's too short for such drama. I just want a simple, quiet life with a man I adore and trust and vice versa.
Posted by The_Spirit_of_Alex_Trebek
How old is this idiot? He acts like a damn child. 12 days and he's in love? Yeah, bullshit. Its kind of toxic and manipulative for him to say that after such short time. Like everything about this guy screams CHILDISH.
Posted by Truemara
Sounds like he’s receptive to your concern👍
Posted by peachy06 "I feel he wants to pick a fight and when I get upset he feels reassured"
He's a Scorpio, what did you expect ? 🤣
It's such a turn on when people get angry. 😏
Posted by Chessmess
I think he really cares about you but he's emotionally immature. Maybe its his first relationship after ending his 15 year relationship? That can also affect the way he behaves....
I also have a scorpio man story and it's been going on for 3 years ago.
Posted by Mutya
I've experienced this from Scorpios in the past hence I refrain from dating them these days. Not all Scorps are like that though.
My brother is a Scorpio and he is exactly like your bf. When his Cap wife goes out to run errands for her elderly mother, he wants her to report every single shit she did that day. Even the routes she took, how long it took her from the train station to wherever the fuck she was going and if something sounds suspicious to him he would start interrogating her and would ask the same questions trying to see if my sister in law was lying. If she doesn't text him for a bit he'd pick a fight and would throw stuff around.
It's sometimes disgusting for me to see how insecure and immature he is at 45. That being said, if a man does that to me regardless of his sign I will break up with him. Life's too short for such drama. I just want a simple, quiet life with a man I adore and trust and vice versa.
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by bmoon8Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.
What if she wants to work?
You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.
"And leave a man if necessary."
You have kids?click to expand
Posted by saggurl88Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by bmoon8Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.
What if she wants to work?
You may make lots of money and be an awesome provider, but I feel working is healthy. I also like to maintain my own ability to make my own money and leave a man/woman if necessary.
"And leave a man if necessary."
You have kids?
People rarely stay in relationships just because of kids, nowadays. That was back in like the 50's or 60's.
Women can make it as single parents, so it's not a big deal to leave.click to expand
Posted by WarAngel
I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.
This will not get better with time, at all.
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by WarAngel
I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.
This will not get better with time, at all.
This ^^^
And coming from a Scorpio man!click to expand
Posted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancerPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by Reincarnation2Posted by CancerCancer
Thank you guys. I really appreciate your input.
Yes he still had a child and support her to this time (15years) and has a good relationship with her which I respect a lot.
My work doesn’t allow me have my phone on me. Thank god 🤣 I never have ignored him and have been honest with him so hopefully he sees it too. Whatever I wrote here I have told him. One good thing when we argue none of us is yelling we just talk and talk. It is just he gets upset first then gets over it so quickly and I get upset later then it takes time for me to get over it longer. I can’t wait to see him tonight even though he got me so annoyed with all this. Once we talk through we will be okay until we are apart again lol
Lol - the Cancer woman I love won't be going to work.
Pregnant and in the house.
Some women become very depressed staying home especially if they have post natal depression and the baby is sick and/or cannot sleep well. If the father isnt hands on with the baby and doesn’t support the mother, that can lead to a very difficult situation
This was me after having a baby. I always worked until then. My ex was a nice person but didn’t know what to do and couldn’t provide well when I was home with a baby. With ex bf we moved in together after 2years of dating and he wanted me to stay home..I am glad I did not give up on my independence and I could just walk out when I felt it was time to do so.
You walked out and created a broken family.click to expand
Posted by WarAngel
I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.
This will not get better with time, at all.
Posted by CancerCancerPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by WarAngel
I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.
This will not get better with time, at all.
This ^^^
And coming from a Scorpio man!
Really? So sad 😞
I like him more now though!click to expand
Posted by MyStarsShinePosted by CancerCancerPosted by MyStarsShinePosted by WarAngel
I could write a long, drawn-out answer but I'm just going to say this: dump him.
This will not get better with time, at all.
This ^^^
And coming from a Scorpio man!
Really? So sad 😞
I like him more now though!
He has control issues and a temper? That could become troublesome.click to expand
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