Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by GeminLibra
I don't know exactly how i wanted him to respond to be honest. Maybe I wanted to prove him wrong, when he said my ex will never return, and show him he did. I don't know..
Hmph. I was on your side Gemmy. You're playing games.
Why the hell would you need to prove this to him if you have in fact moved on and didn't care about your ex? How did that little lesson in needing your self esteem stroked work out for you? Smh.click to expand
Posted by GeminLibra
Maybe I am too honest and talk too much... 😢 I said I am wrong because he is really stinging me with being open and honest.
Posted by GeminLibra
Maybe he's just enjoying seeing me hurt with all my status :/
Posted by heartlocket
Well, he might come back around, he is probably hurting right now, or just feeling very doubtful.
I think that if he does come back around, keep it casual at first. Then admit your wrongs and tell him how important he is to you, and that you only want him, nobody else.
But keep in mind that he might try to bite back at you. Depends on the maturity level, and the amount of hurt he is feeling, really.
Posted by GeminLibra
But tell me the way forward... i am just looking for answers from ppl who knows the Scorpio Man.. 😢
Posted by PhoenixRising
If he does come back be upfront and honest:
"I'd like to know where we stand" don't manipulate it with "so my ex wants me back 😈"
Scorps smell manipulation a mile away and (depends the Scorp) you may never see them again.click to expand
Posted by Impulsv
Why did u feel the need to tell him ur ex called n wanted back.
Reasons for his behavior
1. We don't like competition n word " grown to love u" For us feels forced not ideal.
Or
2 knowing another man loves u perhaps more than him he's setting u free.
Posted by scorp222
scorpios like to be stalked and obsessed over...
Posted by ImpulsvPosted by GeminLibra
am not sure why, but he was soo beautiful when he was trying to get me,
I here it all the time but what about us don't u think we want to
Feel like this as well. It's fine when
We give it our 110 percent but when it's your turn ur afraid. Do u think it was easy for us no!! U take that for granted don't value it until
It's gone. U say u want fix it than man up I say I'm sorry go after him. U think when he was trying to get u ur words didn't cut when u said will ex come back. They did! yet he pushed through n continued despite fear u might not fall for him or reject him. Then u go on to make him jealous with ex want back.
U know what don't go after him ur not at his level n that's all We want someone to reciprocate equally. That's why he's gone.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by scorp222
scorpios like to be stalked and obsessed over...
*anticipates several "My Scorp Got a Restraining Order Against Me--What Went Wrong?" threads in the upcoming weeks.*click to expand
Posted by tizianiPosted by GeminLibra
I never wanted him to feel less valued, or loved, or wanted, or less needed. I have and always told him I want no other.. I just need guidelines on approach. I know what I've done already.
Are you sure about that? Because it seems like you believe you done some kind of crime here when really from everything you've describe, you haven't really done anything at all. Just said a lot of things that contradict each other.
Posted by tiziani
They're not like us, as much as words hurt, they get over words pretty quickly actually from my experience.
Posted by tiziani
What they need and what they gravitate to is the real - things of substance. You're there talking about making facebook posts like that's a big risk in your life but it probably means 0.0000000001% in his world.click to expand
Posted by GeminLibra
no no I have never done anything.. I honestly don't think he still wants me and i feel as though he has given up. He spends more time on other social media and not a word to me. I just don't know if he still cares. I understand some of you all saying I am on games, I am not in his league give him up. But I am not ready too 😭
Posted by DMV
confession: i use my facebook posts to make points that only those who can read between the lines get.
Posted by tizianiPosted by DMV
confession: i use my facebook posts to make points that only those who can read between the lines get.
Does it satisfy you?click to expand
i replied like this....
Posted by DMVPosted by GeminLibra
Maybe he's just enjoying seeing me hurt with all my status :/
he sure is. i dont mean to laugh but damn.click to expand
Posted by tiziani
DMV, when you do that are you genuinely interest in the person or is it the fact there's an audience that gives it meaning for you?
Posted by tiziani
So then PR, how the hell do you live with being a Gemini Moon in that case? : P
Posted by DMVPosted by tizianiPosted by DMV
confession: i use my facebook posts to make points that only those who can read between the lines get.
Does it satisfy you?
yes, the weaker ones go bat shit crazy. the stronger ones, it doesnt affect them.click to expand
Posted by DMVPosted by tiziani
DMV, when you do that are you genuinely interest in the person or is it the fact there's an audience that gives it meaning for you?
neither, if im interested in you, i wouldnt toy with you. Once the toying begins, that means i have no respect for the other person. Now i just feel like being a bitch.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVPosted by tizianiPosted by DMV
confession: i use my facebook posts to make points that only those who can read between the lines get.
Does it satisfy you?
yes, the weaker ones go bat shit crazy. the stronger ones, it doesnt affect them.
Lol. I love when people say "yeah I had it up in my status" then ask "...didn't you see it?"
9 out of 10 times no, I didn't see it. If I did, trust I was thoroughly entertained by what you tried to do. Next move. Go!
So, DMV isn't too far off about the enjoyment piece, but not for the reasons you think.click to expand
Posted by PhoenixRisingPosted by DMVPosted by tiziani
DMV, when you do that are you genuinely interest in the person or is it the fact there's an audience that gives it meaning for you?
neither, if im interested in you, i wouldnt toy with you. Once the toying begins, that means i have no respect for the other person. Now i just feel like being a bitch.
And that is how I would read it too. If you're serious, do something.
It may be about fear for some (e.g. OP). Understood. But if I'm sticking my neck out for you emotionally, do the same or bugger off.click to expand
Posted by TwirlingStrawberry
my facebook posts mean nothing.
seriously.
they are just random thoughts and they are never intended to be about or for anyone in particular......
my partner doesn't even have facebook, so if I am thinking about them and post a random thought....it still isn't about anyone on facebook.
it's funny though....someone used to think every single thing I posted was about them, some kind of innuendo. I kind of looked at them like they had three heads when I figured it out.
they had a scorpio in venus. LOL
Posted by Rabbit
LOL @ Facebook posts.
He probably only uses Facebook to keep track of his back burner women.
-_-
Posted by tiziani
I think I know what you mean. What amuses me is when someone ignores you, cuts away from your life assuming you're just sort of vying for their attention. Then they come back, reappear, take a deep breath like "ok I'm ready to talk now".
It's only then they realise there was never really much to say anyway. In fact all their crap really had nothing to do with you in the first place.
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