Scorpio Man Told Me It's Over (Page 3)

Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by Rabbit
LOL @ Facebook posts.

He probably only uses Facebook to keep track of his back burner women.

-_-

Exactly. I knew a guy that only added the women that he was sleeping with or has slept with. He never added people that he has been in a relationship with or people that he would consider being in a relationship with. Sad.

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well think about that...is it sad?

I think said guy doesnt want FB ruining a real relationship.

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Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by tiziani
So then PR, how the hell do you live with being a Gemini Moon in that case? : P

😛

I think my Moon works different in all my water.

I've heard that line before 😄

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So then it must be true 😉

I guess my moon influences my willingness to feel and just experience my feelings. I don't like them, so my automatic reaction is to "run" from my feelings. I try to rationalize the hell out of them. It takes an effort to stay with them and not busy myself to rid myself of them.

It can be challenging because at the end of the day am a Scorp first and foremost. I feel sh*t. Intensely. I have to deal at some point.

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Posted by GeminLibra
When he met me I was trying to get over the hurt of my ex, and I would always ask him whether he thinks my ex will return...

Lol. That right there did it. One thing people don't realize (well most people) is Scorps store information. We are watching, listening, observing the hell out of you and tucking info away. I can retrieve something a potential love interest has told me on our first date 2 years later. You were hurt by your ex and kept hoping he'd come back. You even asked the man his thoughts on the matter. He has now told you he wants you back and couple that with "I've grown to love you" says dude, you're runner up.

Gems over share. Gets them into trouble all the time.

This is exactly right. Never...EVER...say anything to Scorpio that you don't want coming back around to you. My wife still hasn't learned that -_-

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This is ridiculously true. I've learned to NEVER foreshadow any surprises for him because he will ALWAYS connect the dots later. Told him long time ago that if his favorite musical came to town, we could go see it. Then over a year later his birthday came around and he immediately guessed his present the morning of his birthday! 😱 Surprise ruiner!

You'll have to really watch your mouth around le Scorps, because they remember every miniscule thing about you. How the hell he knows I love rainbow sprinkles on my ice cream rather than chocolate, I don't know. I think I may have mentioned it in passing on one of our first dates, if that.

Yet he forgot what color his first car was... 😕

Posted by GeminLibraWe soon became an item. He would say all those most beautiful things to me. But texting has always seem to break communication between him and I,

Recently I told him my ex asked to be in a relationship again, he asked me if i was going back to him, I said NO i have grown to love you.

Won't read all of the pages, but for those who on page one asked "why" she told him about the ex is a no brainer. Insecurity. Spelled out in black and white above.. smh, why do women think making thier man jealous is going to bring them closer?? This is always the outcome and it ALWAYS backfires.

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Posted by Noreallynow

Posted by Rabbit
LOL @ Facebook posts.

He probably only uses Facebook to keep track of his back burner women.

-_-

Exactly. I knew a guy that only added the women that he was sleeping with or has slept with. He never added people that he has been in a relationship with or people that he would consider being in a relationship with. Sad.

well think about that...is it sad?

I think said guy doesnt want FB ruining a real relationship.

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I agree. I still think it's sad, though.

No problem. But it's very important you don't mention your ex or any other guys that come at you ever again. If some dude messages you, asking you out, DONT EVER SHOW HIM, be respectful and delete any of them, jealousy is definitely an evil thing for scorps... keep that in mind...

Sorry for your pain, fellow Gem. What Heartlocket said is spot-on. NEVER speak of your exes...ever. It would be much better if you had just materialized out of thin air without ever having had a past. Don't underestimate you Scorp's ability to be insecure. It sounds like a wonderful idea to only have contact with your ex through a lawyer.

I also bitched about my ex when I first got together with my Scorp. He knows what a detestable person my ex is, but STILL looks for any reason to be jealous. He'll even get insecure if I say too many NEGATIVE things about my ex, and ask why I'm focusing on the ex so much!! You can't win against the jealousy, so you have to be smarter about it and work with it.

Tell your Scorp how you feel, and be 100% honest. Scorps will always know when you're insincere.

Posted by Whimsy

No problem. But it's very important you don't mention your ex or any other guys that come at you ever again. If some dude messages you, asking you out, DONT EVER SHOW HIM, be respectful and delete any of them, jealousy is definitely an evil thing for scorps... keep that in mind...

Sorry for your pain, fellow Gem. What Heartlocket said is spot-on. NEVER speak of your exes...ever. It would be much better if you had just materialized out of thin air without ever having had a past. Don't underestimate you Scorp's ability to be insecure. It sounds like a wonderful idea to only have contact with your ex through a lawyer.

I also bitched about my ex when I first got together with my Scorp. He knows what a detestable person my ex is, but STILL looks for any reason to be jealous. He'll even get insecure if I say too many NEGATIVE things about my ex, and ask why I'm focusing on the ex so much!! You can't win against the jealousy, so you have to be smarter about it and work with it.

Tell your Scorp how you feel, and be 100% honest. Scorps will always know when you're insincere.

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+1 never talk about ex's with your man. It's weird! why do that? there are plenty of other stuff to talk about in the world. I wouldn't want to hear about his ex's. past is past! It's just not appropriate. Only here on dxp we can discuss them to make a point about something which concerns past and patterns.

After sometime in a relation few things likes,dislikes should get obvious but not with Gemini woman.

Well, it's not that I, as a Gemini, don't realize the likes and dislikes. It's just that I sometimes think the likes and dislikes are ridiculous and fight against them (which never works). To me, it's nuts for my man to think a lover is hiding in every nook and cranny and to always be on the lookout for them. But, for my Scorpio, it's dead serious and makes perfect sense.

Posted by IrresistableScorp
This is how you react when you just told Scorp you ex is trying to win you back:

You: My ex said he wants me back

Scorp: what are you going to do? Are you going back to him?

You: I told him no way! I've found the the love of my life and, well, you sucked as a boyfriend!

Bonus points for humiliating ex--subtly--on social media.

You: darling in never want to talk to about my ex again.

Scorp: Good now get that cute ass over here. It needs a good spanking.

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The problem is that this scenario shouldn't even have taken place.
The Gem brings it up and the Scorp will always wonder why she did.

The Gem brought all this to light without the Scorp even having to ask her if she spoke to her ex.
People mistake TMI with honesty. It's not the same. You ask me a question, I answer it with the truth as I know it. That is honestly. Me out of the blue saying oh this ex I have been pinning for and crying on your shoulder over the last month or so now wants me back is TMI. Especially now that you supposedly moved on. And all he sees is, that she finally is getting the man she wants. Hence her having to tell him that he grew on her. He knows he is the runner up now. I don't know why women think men are just dumb blobs of goo and fur. This man has probably been thinking of this scenario sense she first cried on his shoulder about the ex. He knew he was pursuing a woman who was still hung up on an ex. And I suspect that she still has some feelings for this ex, which is why she was thinking enough to mention him in the first place.