Scorpio man with Capricorn moon

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Capricorn moon struggles with expressing emotions. They come off as cold and can be extremely cold and calculating.

You'll know they care about you when they start bossing you around and acting like your father.

You have a greater than average chance with them if you're ambitious and have plans on making something out of your life (read that as being successful)
If you have status or come from money, even better.

If you're lazy, childish, wishy washy or have no clue whether you're coming or going...forget about it. His interest will wane.

If you're kinda bossy, he'll like it - secretly, of course.
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e11e, if his only intention is to have a "fling" with me I meant...

Caia, thank you! Yes, he is probably looking for Capricorn traits in a girl, but I lack earth. Hope a cardinal Aries would work. 😄 I'm childish and a procrastinator though, but persistant and ambitious. Interesting moon placement, I've read these people find it hard receiving and giving affection, but are quite sensitive inside.

eagleinfire5, thanks! I do the same, a feeling of being clingy is my latest paranoia :> I just hope he is a nice person... I have Scoprio rising and I feel comfortable with Scorpios and feel as if I can trust them, but who knows...
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ad over what you've written:
Posted by Fragrance

Does anyone know when they're honest in their inentions?



Posted by Fragrance

...this Scorpio just doesn't know yet I'd never let him come closer...



It doesn't matter what his intentions are if your intention is to "never let him come closer" to you. And people wondering where the game playing starts....

Then there is this:
Posted by Fragrance
What is confusing to me though is that usually scorpios especially with capricorn moon are private and detached, but after our second conversation he just started talking about love, flings, his need for privacy and such things. It seemed like he wanted to see my reaction and attitude towards flings (which is negative) because this fling thing came out of nowhere...thought he was only interested in that...



Posted by Fragrance
...I tend to always be in a defense mode... I'm very private, it's hard to get to know me
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Given what you've written to describe yourself, what do you think he was doing? Scorps are quite good at picking up when someone is guarded. We don't announce everything we see, we just make note of it and proceed accordingly. As a result, Scorps are even better at getting others to reveal things about themselves without realizing it.

In all honesty, your approach is confusing and will result in a lot of dancing around with this man. If he bothers to entertain you for much longer. The man hasn't done anything to break your trust and yet he's being treated as such. I'd seriously work on that "stuff" you're carrying around if you would like to be happy with someone in the future.

PS your English is fine 🙂.
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Posted by Fragrance
but after our second conversation he just started talking about love, flings, his need for privacy and such things. It seemed like he wanted to see my reaction and attitude towards flings (which is negative)



So....he brings up "flings", you aren't into flings, yet you say nothing??

Why is that? To keep him around while enhancing your confusion? ANY MAN who brings up flings & love in the same sentence, you should make clear IMMEDIATELY where you stand. Wouldn't that be easier? I just don't get how some women think any more I really don't.

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Thank you PhenixRising, I have trust issues indeed. The "never let come closer" is not my initial intention, it is yet to be formed. Maybe it's my moon in Cancer that fears everything.

Thanks LetitB, I have no problem to state what I think straightly and honestly, so I did say something. After my negative reaction he said it has some advantages. There are few other things that confused me, but nevermind, it's my deluded mind again.

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Caia, thank you! Yes, he is probably looking for Capricorn traits in a girl, but I lack earth. Hope a cardinal Aries would work. 😄 I'm childish and a procrastinator though, but persistant and ambitious. Interesting moon placement, I've read these people find it hard receiving and giving affection, but are quite sensitive inside.





Yes, men with capricorn moon are extremely sensitive inside and they're shy. They also tend to be very pessimistic so be the Aries that you are and be playful. It will open him up more and help him let his guard down. Make him smile, tease him (but DO NOT make fun of him - he's sensitive) and just joke around.

You need to be a mix of playful but serious (when it comes to your goals in life).

It's ok to be guarded with your feelings for now. You don't know the guy, right? You'll know he's starting to let loose when he starts being playful with you too. They love goofing around and they can be very funny. Sarcasm is what they do best.

If he wants to meet up, great. Meet up with him. Ask him questions about himself, show interest and slowly you'll start to see the real him. Just be patient. It won't happen in a flash so make sure when you're not with him, you're focusing on your life goals or hanging out with your friends.

If he likes you, he'll always come back - you'll hear from him more often - which I'm sure your Cancer moon will just love!
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I'm seeing a sag sun with Scorpio venus and a Capricorn moon. A very complex placement but once you are in his inner circle, he's very very affectionate towards me and very sensitive towards my needs. He can read my like a book , he's been great at supporting my goals and my success lately... Wheather that will b buying a car or succeeding in a job etc... He can be sacarstic funny , make funny faces or voices and things.... He does enjoy and crave deep intimacy after a while his true nature will slowly review itself. Scorpio venus and cap moon R not the best placementd and they can hide their true nature really amazing well and their feelings so it's pretty important to learn to read between the lines. Patient is the key here.... The amazing trait I love about them is they don't give up easily and that comes to relationships and women ... I think that they will only invest their time in you if they feel there's something coming out of it somehow.. If that is a great friendship or relationships... he's prone to depression because of the complex feelings hidden deep down with those placements so he writes songs to express those feelings... It's very veey important to show that u r there for him even as a friend.. It gains their trust .... words and action.... Good luck.... I need one too hehe