Scorpio/Scropio (Page 2)

"Retaliation seems to be common with scorps and I personally believe one should just walk away instead of seeking revenge."

Such harsh words.

Let me just say if you want to talk about scropio ways just talk about what you experienced. No all of us are the same.

It is harsh because it is so untrue. I say that with a lot of passion.

Indifference is the best form of revenge...

I just don't like to be put in a catogory, I don't like to be associated with any ones behaviour.

And this is one of the reason that I don't like to hear about a mans past. If it is over move one, don't compare me with any of your past relationship, because I will not do that that to them, because to me it only means that they are not over it

I am older and I have more control over my emotions today I let the person know that they don't want to see that side of me some people want to pull it out of just so they can see and they end up hurt it is not a planned motive to hurt someone, because I give them fair warning. I know that may sound wierd but hey it has got me this far because I have also learned not to entertain it such acts

"I know it sounds awful.....and i am sorry if it irked you!!"
It's all good no hard feelings....

"On a positive note...i must say that i have noticed umpteen opportunity where scorps are giving and nurturing of others too! When they take it on themselves to turn on their good side then whoever they touch is for a lack of a better word "healed"...."

There is more positivity to us than anyone can imagine

As I get older, I am finding I care less about just about everything...I simply don't care..

I just go off the phone with my Scorp friend and the convo when like this:

Me: Hey how are you doing? you must be very busy?
Him: yea and he giggles
Me: So I was thinking, how about we meet somewhere and enjoy the sunshine?
Him: Well I don't have much money?
Me: who needs money, why can't we just go to the park and enjoy the sunset? You don't always need money to have a good time.
Me: you men
Him: No not really a women will want to spend some money
Me: ok fine, well have a good evening.

So I hung up the phone and a part of me is like happy that he wants to make sure that when he takes me out he can do it the way he is used to when he takes a women out.

Then the other part of me is like geez dude, It is not about needing money it is about having a romantic evening that is not about materialist things but just to people enjoying the evening and each others company.

So since this is what he needs to do I will give him the space to get the money he needs to take me out and show me a good time. But as soon as I see him face to face I will discuss this issue further.

anotherscrop

"Scorpion lady...I can definitely see a Scorp man having that conversation. Don't forget, Scorps are semi-reclusive (like alot of ALONE time) and get flabbergasted when something was not in their "plans"....haha, you may have thrown him off his game with that request!! lol. He wasn't prepared and went in straight for the "No."

Yea and try to cover it up with not having any money...I really did not know that you need money to be romantic I can think of a thousand and one things to do with no money in the house for the whole weekend and he would have the time of his life. But you know like I said WE WILL DISCUSS THIS AT ANOTHER TIME. And I hope that while he has to have money to be romantic it had better be worth or he will hear about. I don't know why the simplist things are the most hardest for a man to achieve.


"Dear Scorp men--keyword: Spontaniety," well I know I am very spontaneous and I will get up and go depending on what is happening. I am some what reclusive also, we both like I alone time, like I said we have so many things in common it is a little spooky. But apparently spontaniety is not one of them...hahahahah


"So you are done with the Bull then I take it?"

The bull is exactly what he is full of bull, he may have a good heart deep down but I am not acustom to waiting to be tested to see if I really care and he can trust before I see it. His whack out way of joking I could not stand, he was triflin to me in the weirdest ways...His constant, need to try and control me by way of "Playing" Yea I am through with him....Oh did I say that he called and confessed his love. He wanted to come and see me and kiss me and cuddle me and I said no...when I wanted to cuddle you kept telling me that you are not affectionate like that so know that you are over your issue you want to cuddle "NOT NEVER" I told him no he beg for a bit and finally took the defeat and hung up.

What's up I was thinnking about emailing you by my email has been down here at work.....GlobelWarming I like that......

I tell you I don't be looking for them at all. They just freaking show up.....

hahahahahaah

So how have you been doing...send me a PM telling me all about...hahahahahah

LOL @ AnotherScorp...sooo true...I don't give a rats arse either..don't you just love that term "rats arse"..LMAO..I love saying that.."who gives a rats arse"..

Eldorado: "missmorals, if you didn't care about anything then you wouldn't be inlove. How is your man anyway?"

He's fine..called me last on Saturday just gone..he was too exhausted to talk but he did call..set his alarm for 4am bless him to wake him..awwwwwww..I care about him..I adore him...but..sigh..I was he was here..

I called him last night, just to say hi, come to find out he thought I was mad at him because he told me no about the park. I told him "oh no I am not mad dissappointed yes" and he said oh ok, I am glad you are not mad, so I said I was just going to give you your space, I called because you was on my mind and I needed to talk about it get off my chest. So he says to me "I want you to continue calling me and asking me to do things don't stop that" I can be romantic and spontaneous but not as much as you" so I said "well if you want me to continue doing these things, what will you be doing? so I said "what ever you want me to continue doing you need to also do the same thing", again I am not in this by myself, I am not going to do all the calling, I know you are busy and I respect that but you can pick up the phone and call if it is just to say hi" He said yea you are right. He then said that's what I love about you your honesty, and I said love about me?

He then said I wanted to call you the other day and say Happy 1 week annivarsary" and I bout died.....I fell out laughing and said "You do that"? he started laughing and said well yea...oh is'nt that sweet.

So after all that, he says to me "Would you like to come over tomorrow" I said sure I will come over, then I started thinking, he only invited me because he felt bad. I will ask him that tonight.

I don't know what tonight will bring but I see me tripping off of him. He is funny to me, his thinkings seems so opposite of mines or maybe I see myslef in him and it's funny

sagigoat:

I would be direct with him really what do you have to lose. Yall are just friends right?
I would not have left when he said "don't go" that could have been your opportunity to be upfront with him and let him know how you felt. I believe face to face communication is the best, you can look in there eyes and see there body movement and tell if they are lying or not.

chocolate:
Would you like to come over tomorrow"

"Keep your panties bonded around your waist...(hehehehe)"

I can't promise that...hahahahahahahahah, to be honest I want to see what he's packin,how he will entertain me, and if he can be romantic. He is not stupid he knows he needs to keep my interest.

"Keep your panties bonded around your waist...(hehehehe)"

I can't promise that...hahahahahahahahah, to be honest I want to see what he's packin,how he will entertain me, and if he can be romantic. He is not stupid he knows he needs to keep my interest.


HAHAHAHA!!!!! You ho!!!! I love you!

satyrsmind, why do she need to do it nicely, she needs to do it so that he knows she means business, she needs to do it with conviction, and couarge, and strength stand up to this man and let him know and I do n't mean nicely.

Why do she have to be the one that does things nicely, he is the one that changed on her last min, not once but twice...and your saying oh just tell him how you feel nicely fucked that shit I don't see.

Sagigoat I would put my foot down and let him know all of how you are feeling about him, and his lack of communication get it out in the opening right know so that you don't have to keep going through the same ass issues over and over gain. You have a chance to express everything know that you have gotton irritated with him and he knows he will take the time and listen, but nicely, sweet, or gently, Hell NO....nor am I saying holler and scream no shit like that but be you.

JP,
"Keep your panties bonded around your waist...(hehehehe)"

I can't promise that...hahahahahahahahah, to be honest I want to see what he's packin,how he will entertain me, and if he can be romantic. He is not stupid he knows he needs to keep my interest.


HAHAHAHA!!!!! You ho!!!! I love you!

Hey darling how are you doing....well do you have some ADVISE FOR ME THEN?

Last time I looked, being nice didn't make anyone weak or having a lack of conviction or courage or strength. Or making them have the inability to say something when it upsets them.

Most people I know who have the above qualities are usually very nice people but also are very effective communicators. They can make someone see their point of view more easily than those acting like a bitch.

Know did I say act like a bitch? I think not, She already has communication problems with him....Hell how much longer do she needs to put up with this shit. That could have been why she was irritated with him and could not deal with him. Sometimes men don't understand nice.

Sagigoat you do what you need to do to get your point across to him

"Sometimes men don't understand nice"

True. My ex only changed after I exploded and was ready to leave him . Years of hints and small complains didn't work. It was too late."

My point sagigoat, I done the complaints and small hints, and I don't like etc. And after a while when they don't take seriously I normally walk away cuz I am tired, and it is not worth it anymore and then they want to change...you are right it is to late then....thats what happen with the Taurus guy...

"I need to voice out issues whenever they come up not let resentments built up and then an explosion. That was where I failed before."

Yes you do and you will find that you will feel really good afterwards....I do it all the time the shit don't build up, it happens you talk about it and move on.