It is true that your son values you a whole lot. He will let his thoughts/judgements about this girl get affected by your thoughts. And it is also true that you will not see this girl as he will see her.
By sharing your opinions are you not in some way creating thoughts in your sons mind regarding her?? The thing is that these thoughts are regarding how you think of her......not how her romantic partner is supposed to hink of her!!
I am talking about cases where people stir the pot from behind the scenes and influence another person - this happens on a global level and it is not at all shocking. people taking sides, shifting loyalties, judging others fairly or unfairly etc.
My concern about a mother doing it is that it has a huge impact no matter if you realise it or not.
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Simply me .. I simply will NOT allow you to insult my son like this.
You are inferring that he is incapable of making his own decisions in his life and will fall prey to accepting opinions of other people's viewpoints and allow the to mold his life for him.
You know not what you say .. you have no clue what kind of a man is he and what kind of a mother I am.
If you do NOT have the mental and emotional fortitude to be able to seperate in your world the difference between observations being in place for you to ponder and actual pressuring to gain control .... then sobeit .. that is your problem. However, I won't allow you to imply that my son has NOT the sensibility present in him to make his own determinations in life.
So, if this is something that disturbs you .. then I suggest you look to your own backyard to see how you will be able to keep this absent from your life with your children .. since, thoughts make reality and your reality, formed from your thoughts would have you believing that children, once in adulthood don't have the mental strength to discern for themselves.
^^^^^ that is an ingrediant for an overbearing mother .. for IF you believe what you have said ... then you believe that your own children once adults will NOT possess enough sensibilities to make their own decisions and judgements.
Newbie .... I'll find out when and where exactly she was born and get the real information on her Houses .. he said he was going to ask her mother for the info.
Thanks fuckinA ..... whether it works out to be a forever thing or not, doesn't really matter .... I know he respects her now, and is happy right now being with her .. and that is great !!!!!!
I find many Aries women and scorpio men pairings. Scorp men do thrive off of drama, but Aries women seem to push them a little over the edge. However all the couple of these signs I know have also broken up. Even the married couples. Sigh....
By sharing your opinions are you not in some way creating thoughts in your sons mind regarding her?? The thing is that these thoughts are regarding how you think of her......not how her romantic partner is supposed to hink of her!!
I am talking about cases where people stir the pot from behind the scenes and influence another person - this happens on a global level and it is not at all shocking. people taking sides, shifting loyalties, judging others fairly or unfairly etc.
My concern about a mother doing it is that it has a huge impact no matter if you realise it or not.
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Simply me .. I simply will NOT allow you to insult my son like this.
You are inferring that he is incapable of making his own decisions in his life and will fall prey to accepting opinions of other people's viewpoints and allow the to mold his life for him.
You know not what you say .. you have no clue what kind of a man is he and what kind of a mother I am.
If you do NOT have the mental and emotional fortitude to be able to seperate in your world the difference between observations being in place for you to ponder and actual pressuring to gain control .... then sobeit .. that is your problem. However, I won't allow you to imply that my son has NOT the sensibility present in him to make his own determinations in life.
So, if this is something that disturbs you .. then I suggest you look to your own backyard to see how you will be able to keep this absent from your life with your children .. since, thoughts make reality and your reality, formed from your thoughts would have you believing that children, once in adulthood don't have the mental strength to discern for themselves.
^^^^^ that is an ingrediant for an overbearing mother .. for IF you believe what you have said ... then you believe that your own children once adults will NOT possess enough sensibilities to make their own decisions and judgements.