Scorpio woman/Cancer men relationships, how are they?

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Posted by Ellygant

Fun. Lotsa fun. Lotsa emotion. Normally a dramatic ending tho. As in, completely unnecessary dramatic lol. But that’s just normal I think for most trine relationships.

I have a lotta sweet and wonderful memories. And while I have quite a few sad or sour ones, even those are incredibly useful. They help temper idealism and criticism.

Cancer men rarely settle down till their 40’s tho. Most I know marry their first love. Or their first love cheats on them, they get bitter and heartbroken and then spend about two decades figuring out how to get over it.


Interesting. Yeah he’s 49, but famous so idk how to read the situation. We just started dating but he’s doing that Cancer checking out thing but idk how to read it. He called me today, but that’s after I made an effort to reach out so idk but I just wanna hear about others stories. I like to read lmao. I’ve never truly dated a Cancer before so idk what to expect.
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Fun. Lotsa fun. Lotsa emotion. Normally a dramatic ending tho. As in, completely unnecessary dramatic lol. But that’s just normal I think for most trine relationships.

I have a lotta sweet and wonderful memories. And while I have quite a few sad or sour ones, even those are incredibly useful. They help temper idealism and criticism.

Cancer men rarely settle down till their 40’s tho. Most I know marry their first love. Or their first love cheats on them, they get bitter and heartbroken and then spend about two decades figuring out how to get over it.


Interesting. Yeah he’s 49, but famous so idk how to read the situation. We just started dating but he’s doing that Cancer checking out thing but idk how to read it. He called me today, but that’s after I made an effort to reach out so idk but I just wanna hear about others stories. I like to read lmao. I’ve never truly dated a Cancer before so idk what to expect.


I wouldn’t expect anything really. Be your baddest self and take it from there. The second you start thinking about what he is thinking or what your next move is, that’s when it all stops being enjoyable for both sides.

Granted that’s hard to do when you like someone or the chemistry is high.
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Yeah I had started to overthink it. I mean I guess it’s good he called today lol. Guess we’ll see if he ever invites me out again 🤷🏾‍♀️. Idk how Cancer/Pisces are & how they mesh with my personality. We have the same Venus.
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I never understood why people seem to think we go together. I don't mind men with cancer placements but cancer suns are the worst types of men imo.

I haven't had a personal bad experience with them but the dude I had a fwb with was such a shitty bf. So conniving. Sly. Such a liar.

I was happy he wasn't MINE.

He had such a cute sweet face with the cutest eyes. Very good looking but such a w.hore.

He proudly cheated. He got a rush from getting away with it. Couldn't keep his d in his pants.

I liked having him as a friend but sometimes the shit he would tell me about his sex life made me want to wash my mouth with bleach.

Most cancer men I've known were like this. Just not so much with me.

My uncle, my dad, some of my gfs boyfriends or guys they THOUGHT were their bfs and turned out not to be.
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Also. Emotional manipulation seems to be their main tool.

But for some reason not one Cancer man has ever dared to TRY their ish with me. (LOL. Only Scorps seem to do that )Maybe my dad but that's another story. He was tormenting my poor mother. So I was just a gateway but I don't think it was directed at me.

But either way yeah emotionally immature manipulators is how I see them.

Sorry guys. Not meaning to generalise, I'm sure there are nice ones out there but its literally the OPPOSITE of Scorpios in the sense that we are painted out to be the devils of the zodiac and they are painted out to be the sweet sensitive Angels of the zodiac and their sweet reputation couldn't be further from the truth in the same way ours (Scorps) isn't true.
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I believe the hype of this pairing. My first and longest relationship was with a cancer and we broke up from growing apart (all the unnecessary dramatic conflicts left a lackluster undertone to the relationship) It was a mutual split. Later to his regret though sksksksksk

We were great friends! Did everything together, lots of shared emotion, interest...approached the whole thing with a shared sense of avidity that lasted a good while too. My major issues with him were his cowardice, and spite. Also the guilt trips for things out of my control, he projecting a lot on me.

I wouldn't write off cancer men, or any sign for that matter BUTTTT if given the choice i would opt for someone who was a bit less emotional. It's really a double edged sword.

A mature cancer isn't a bad idea.
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Posted by nikkistar

Which story do you want? I can give you the lovey dovey type, or the one where I want to kill him type.

Pick your poison.

P.S. I am a Scorpio with a Leeb moon and the idiot I decided to love is a Cancer with satan moon.


Okay so you are me lmaooo. He’s Pisces moon. We’re at the very beginning and it may or may not be over idk. He went from being consistent to distant and idk if that’s just a Cancer thing or the usual okay I’m no longer interested but I’m not exactly sweating it, I just wanna see the stories from our pov. And things to idk consider since I’ve never truly dated one. I’m considering friend zoning him because I don’t like guessing 🤷🏾‍♀️
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Also. They have a nasty habit of ghosting.

I've seen it. They get thrill out of it.


When they do that should I just disappear too? Do I ignore them when they reach out or how is that handled? I’ve seen this infamous ghosting in other ppls testimonies but idk how to take it. I honestly thought I was the one who provoked it but since they have a habit idk lmao.
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Also. They have a nasty habit of ghosting.

I've seen it. They get thrill out of it.


When they do that should I just disappear too? Do I ignore them when they reach out or how is that handled? I’ve seen this infamous ghosting in other ppls testimonies but idk how to take it. I honestly thought I was the one who provoked it but since they have a habit idk lmao.
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They expect you to come crawling.

Just ignore and go on with your life as if they were never in it.
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Which story do you want? I can give you the lovey dovey type, or the one where I want to kill him type.

Pick your poison.

P.S. I am a Scorpio with a Leeb moon and the idiot I decided to love is a Cancer with satan moon.


Okay so you are me lmaooo. He’s Pisces moon. We’re at the very beginning and it may or may not be over idk. He went from being consistent to distant and idk if that’s just a Cancer thing or the usual okay I’m no longer interested but I’m not exactly sweating it, I just wanna see the stories from our pov. And things to idk consider since I’ve never truly dated one. I’m considering friend zoning him because I don’t like guessing 🤷🏾‍♀️
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Lol I friend zone cancers like crazy. My best two guy friends are cancers.

I ship this combo for friendship more than romantically. We get each other and both are loyal. Very long lasting friendships that become family in a sense. Romantic wise? As with every man, it can be touch and go. But they are prone to having moments of complete communication detachment. Even with the closest to them. Lol
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Which story do you want? I can give you the lovey dovey type, or the one where I want to kill him type.

Pick your poison.

P.S. I am a Scorpio with a Leeb moon and the idiot I decided to love is a Cancer with satan moon.


Okay so you are me lmaooo. He’s Pisces moon. We’re at the very beginning and it may or may not be over idk. He went from being consistent to distant and idk if that’s just a Cancer thing or the usual okay I’m no longer interested but I’m not exactly sweating it, I just wanna see the stories from our pov. And things to idk consider since I’ve never truly dated one. I’m considering friend zoning him because I don’t like guessing 🤷🏾‍♀️


Lol I friend zone cancers like crazy. My best two guy friends are cancers.

I ship this combo for friendship more than romantically. We get each other and both are loyal. Very long lasting friendships that become family in a sense. Romantic wise? As with every man, it can be touch and go. But they are prone to having moments of complete communication detachment. Even with the closest to them. Lol
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Yeeeaahhh I don’t like that hiatus stuff. I’m good. Thank you!
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Also. Emotional manipulation seems to be their main tool.

But for some reason not one Cancer man has ever dared to TRY their ish with me. (LOL. Only Scorps seem to do that )Maybe my dad but that's another story. He was tormenting my poor mother. So I was just a gateway but I don't think it was directed at me.

But either way yeah emotionally immature manipulators is how I see them.

Sorry guys. Not meaning to generalise, I'm sure there are nice ones out there but its literally the OPPOSITE of Scorpios in the sense that we are painted out to be the devils of the zodiac and they are painted out to be the sweet sensitive Angels of the zodiac and their sweet reputation couldn't be further from the truth in the same way ours (Scorps) isn't true.


I second the emotionally manipulative behaviour with cancer men. Every cancer sun man that I've encountered, and I can usually tell they are cancer sun, have been this way. I can smell their ways on them and I avoid them like the plague.
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Posted by LalasReturn

Also. Emotional manipulation seems to be their main tool.

But for some reason not one Cancer man has ever dared to TRY their ish with me. (LOL. Only Scorps seem to do that )Maybe my dad but that's another story. He was tormenting my poor mother. So I was just a gateway but I don't think it was directed at me.

But either way yeah emotionally immature manipulators is how I see them.

Sorry guys. Not meaning to generalise, I'm sure there are nice ones out there but its literally the OPPOSITE of Scorpios in the sense that we are painted out to be the devils of the zodiac and they are painted out to be the sweet sensitive Angels of the zodiac and their sweet reputation couldn't be further from the truth in the same way ours (Scorps) isn't true.


I second the emotionally manipulative behaviour with cancer men. Every cancer sun man that I've encountered, and I can usually tell they are cancer sun, have been this way. I can smell their ways on them and I avoid them like the plague.
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Yeah I’ve seen the behavior frequently too. I’m just gonna leave the situation alone. It was new anyway. Made me think wayy too much lol. I’m good.