Scorpio woman confused by a Taurus man

Nothing confusing about this situation. You met him at a party kissed for 3 hours now he wants to bang you. It's nothing but a cat and mouse game he is waiting for you to give him the kitty.

Yes hence why he only invite you to his house and not on a date. How you get them is how you lose them m. I don't give my number out at a club, party or anywhere I know a guy is on his nightly prowl. Now if you met him at s casual setting and didn't make out with him say at Starbucks then it would be a different game.

Yup, what she said in both posts. It's very clear he wants to bang you. You're not impatient. He's not asked you out. Only to his place. You did the right thing if you were looking for more as he showed you he wasnt. Looks like you avoided a few rounds of crap and heart ache!

Stir,

From reading your experience you didn’t absolutely nothing wrong. You actually stood your ground and you should be proud of that. It does come across as if he just wants one thing from you and that clear. The communication part I can really relate because I am going through the same thing myself and its very frustrating.

Its best to carry on with life how you normally are. Communication plays an important part and if that aspect is not there then why bother right?

Posted by Stir
is free. But I have not heard from him. I am actually re reading the post and I think I come across as impatient and aggressive, which I am really not, I just want him to communicate. Any advice how to handle this would be appreciated.

I know we had something special, he knows it too, that is probably we still after all hand around after nearly 5 month.

Thank you🙂

My honest opinion is you sound like one of those dimwits who will end up screwing him to prove to yourself you "had something special" even if you never hear from him again. You need to look in the mirror for however long it takes to figure out what the meaning of self worth is. Once you figure that out, come back and read this nonsense you wrote.

Posted by Stir
is free. But I have not heard from him. I am actually re reading the post and I think I come across as impatient and aggressive, which I am really not, I just want him to communicate.

Funny how people always say this, yet your behaviour shows you are very much like that. While I don't like throwing the word "crazy" around, but you are definitely show a lack of control over your emotions. From blocking to biting...okay. Anyway, you can't force someone to communicate with you. The stage has been set for what will come if this continues.

Posted by Stir
I know we had something special, he knows it too, that is probably we still after all hand around after nearly 5 month.

Thank you🙂

Perhaps you can clarify "special" because all I've read is a overly dramatic compliment that you ate up faster than a fat kid eats ice cream, a few messages exchanged over FB, a man trying to get you to his place after only 3 hours of knowing you and 6 weeks of not communicating with you (after you blocked him), you confirming that you two don't really know each other....

Posted by Stir
... I walked downstairs and he followed me and asked me to come home with him. I said that it is not a good idea, as we do not know each other very well.

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...and you playing "I will not respond to his text for 4 days to teach him" games to try to control/manipulate him. Is there something you left out that speaks to this "special" thing the two of you had?

You're romanticizing the events that occurred. He flirted, tried to get you to his place, you declined and he "checked out". Perhaps he was somewhat interested in still seeing where things would go so he scoped you out on FB. You chatted, he then "tapped out" at that stage (or life took over and he decided to live it) and went silent for 2 weeks. You lost your sh*t and blocked him >😢... Okay, so you decided to end things move on (which is why you blocked him right?). But wait, we're not done....you see him at a club and all of the issues you had with his lack of communication is all forgotten. Kinky foreplay begins *bite neck*

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You took his compliment to mean much more than it was and it then clouded your judgement as to what he really wanted. He made it obvious on more than one occasion. Dude didn't talk to you for weeks and the first thought after things being "awkward" at the club is to ask you to his place. You decline and he calls you too crazy for him...silence again. Really? This is what you want to pursue?

Have at it.

how gentle was that neck bite really? This is a major erogenous zone for Taurus. Not sure why he'd get angry and demand an apology...Unless of course, he felt like you were teasing him....which it sounds like maybe you were. Maybe don't start off a relationship with making out and neck-biting at parties and clubs, if you're all about having a person get to know who you are.

bottom line though, he probably feels like you're too crazy for him to really have a relationship with, just like he said, so it is most likely just about sex at this point.

Thank you all for your input, truly appreciated. Case closed now🙂