Scorpio woman -does she or doesn't she? (Page 2)

Hahaha thanks for all perspectives. We had much physical contact. In case you all didn't get what I said earlier ( and yes I've rambled on quite a bit at times ) the thing for me is her mother's death. Had that not happened, I would have simply walked away. It's her choice, after all. But a Cancer woman friend of mine told me " don't you dare walk away from her her head is NOT in the right place." That got me thinking. And also, for Ms Scorpio to tell me "if I had only known how you felt, things might've been different." That was tough to take. So I am acting somewhat out of character here. Being totally understanding is one thing, and while I believe I'm right about her, at the end of the day no one is putting a gun to her head and forcing her to be with Virgo. I get that.
As I said, the longer this plays out, the more it bothers me and I become less likely to want to be with her, regardless of our grand cosmic connection. Also, LetitB, I have moon on Scorp too-she told me many times I knew her like no one ever did. We have so much polarity and seventh house stuff going on its crazy. Plus her venus conjunct my moon neptune conjunction which I do realize might have me excessively overly romanticizing all of this. The sense of karma is very strong here though. She was uncharacteristically candid with me from the get go-Id never seen a Scorpio so readily reveal so many secrets. She said she just felt she had too....lol. Ah well. Whatever promise our synastry or composite holds, at the end of the day, we still have free will to make our own choices. Again, my thanks to all your comments and perspectives.

And one last thing. Virgo knows she talks to me frequently -I don't think she's hiding anything from him. I'm sure she would say we are just friends and perhaps in her minds right now we are-though the undercurrent of what we really are always lies heavy over she and I. Had anyone suggested something like this was gonna happen to me the way it did I never would have believed it.....lol. Sheesh.

Posted by EmpathicBull

And at least she knows now, beyond any shadow of a doubt, how much I care.

That's where you leave it.

Move on, and find someone who chooses to be in your life, not one who thinks about it.

BTW...25 miles is about a 30 min. ride. Doesn't come into play. If two people at this distance care deeply about each other and want to be with one another they will. Again, I wish you luck.

Thank you

Hey there EB..
let me tell u this.. im a sun,venus, merc and pluto in scorpio and i really cannot read this taurus guy with scorp moon ive been seeing for 3 months.. u guys act so cool and somehow hot n cold that it may confuse the heck out of us scorpios to figure what ur actually feeling.. in ur situation i believe she definitely feels that strong connection as u wud imagine between taur/scorp its undeniable! She wouldnt wanna loose you for anything cuz the bond is real n hard to find let it be mentally physically friendswise u name it..its just that her head may not be in the right place due to her moms pass and the virgo guy in the pic prob is jus comforting her and she feels she owes it to him to be loyal n stick with him tho i believe a part of her is with you in some way..

Hello Seezy and Irresistable. It's been awhile. I appreciate all your comments and perspextices. I've always instinctively trusted you Scorpio gals when it comes to that lol.

First, she is 28, not 25, though yes I am still 24 years older. I have never pursued or been involved with anyone that much younger than me before, FWIW. Our initial meeting was electric and we both instantly felt this incredible attraction. We have talked about our age difference before, and while it is undeniable, she said it isn't a deal breaker. One of the quotes that we shared with each other in the beginning was from Rabindranath Tagore- " The butterfly counts not months, but moments, yet has enough time."

Tomorrow is promised to no one. And age, while it does bring some undeniable issues to the table, is just an outward thing.

Our synastry is off the rails. We not only have tons of Taurus/Scorpio polarity, coupled with my Scorp moon and her Cap moon, but mutual Sun and Venus in each other's 7th houses, a moon-Venus Comjunction, and what I believe is the defining double aspect of our charts-a moon-Pluton double whammy. My moon is conjunct her Pluto and my Pluto is trine her moon. If you're not familiar with either of these, Google them. They are incredibly powerful and almost unbreakable.

Anyway,as LetitB said, she has made her choice. Regardless of our synastry, we always have free will. We remain friends, and still talk frequently ( her Virgonia aware of this ), but that is all. I don't rule out something happening in the future, and indeed I think we both realize that it is probably inevitable, but in the meantime, I don't pursue her. We are friends. Besides, I have plenty to do in my personal life still as far as closing on my house, which will hopefully fall into place before the end of January.

Thanks again, all you wonderfully perceptive lady Scorps. You rock. I can't help but love you all.....lol

And apologies for the spelling. I have buffalo fingers when I post from my phone, which is usually the case. cheers, EB.