Scorpio Woman/Libra Male=HELP!

Helloooo! New to the board. Came here in search of some answer's to the mystery that is a Libra man. As a Scorpio, I find that libra's and I are very attracted to one another. But gosh is it hard to actually have a relationship together! My last boyfriend was a libra. I swore them off after we broke up. And then didnt another Libra saunter into my life again, only to confuse me again, sigh. So here are my questions.

1.) Scorpio females and a Libra male. Can it work? What are the plusses? What are the minuses?

2.) Libra men make me feel bad about being an emotional Scorpio. Yes, I have emotional outbursts sometimes. Libra men hate them, and I think it scares them away. But for crying out loud, cant you accept someone for who they are as I try and be a better person?

3.) Why so attentive and charming in the beginning. And then when I do start to show that I like you, you back off. What does it take to get and keep a Libra man interested?

I really do like Libra's. They are fun. They seem so adaptable, but I know better. They are the iron hand in the soft velvet glove. It drives me nuts. Any help would be appreciated, thanks!

I can say this. Libra men will spend day and night doing things to charm you simply so you'll want a relationship with them, but then, they'll want to do it with anything and everything else that they deem beautiful too, so committment is an issue. Keep them interested by showing them what a unique, odd catch you are. Libra's literally like to relate evenly to oddities. The harder you are to relate to, the more beautiful the relation will be. Also, you have to return the charm with appreciation. They can make complete art out of a partnership, can't they? (I'm sure you know.) Show them that you're equal to them.

And the outburst thing. Well Libra's strive to keep equilibrium in all things, so an outburst will make them feel uneasy, and this goes without saying. They need a partner who is stronger than them, though. I think that whomever can demonstrate strength and good-will in an outburst, rather than weakness is ideal for a Libra.

I've also seen that Libra's like their partners to be 'stronger' than them, in general, so don't be hesitant to stand tall. All that aside - of course it can work! Try to keep a good social side and compromise to see the 'beauty' in things. You'd be surprised. I'm not sure if that helped at all... but good luck with yer man.

WELL THEY SEEM TO BE VERY FUN , BUT MOODY, SORRY. THEY ARE EMOTIONAL THEMSELVES , THINKING WE ARE. THEY REALLY CAN'T HANDLE OUR INTENSITY. THEY FEEL WE ARE TO EMOTIONAL AND POWERFUL AND SMART. REMEMBER THEY INSPIRE TO BE ALL THAT, SO THE CONFLICT OCCURS. THEY HAVE HARD TIMES UNDERSTANDING US FULLY... AND AGAIN, THEY ARE EXTREMELY MOODY...

lol! Have you ever even met a Libra chi?

Elliot has some excellent points. I especially believe this point is valid: I've also seen that Libra's like their partners to be 'stronger' than them, in general, so don't be hesitant to stand tall.

As a libra, I get embarrassed by other people's emotionals outbursts. I work in an office full of libras. One girl's dad died and she was understandablely upset. All the libras were clustered around with pained expressions looking for the door. Just looking at our faces, you could tell we were very sympathetic and felt bad for her, yet somewhat embarrassed to be part of the moment. One thing a libra HATES is to be embarrassed.

I tend to be disconnected from my emotions and don't really know what I am feeling. I feel emotions are very intimate things and not to be in public display. This is also why weddings and other big emotional guestures can cause the same uncomfortable feeling for me.

There is a very strange compelling attraction between adjoining signs. This is probably why most of my friends are Scorps or Virgos and could suggest why you keep finding libras.

Good luck.