Scorpio Women (Page 3)

yeah she does.

can i get a confirmation from the scorpio women?

say a man was a HORRIBLE partner, but a good father. where you might HATE him thoroughly, when the dust settles, when you're in a better place, would you keep him from your kids?

scorpoi women are vindictive as shit and the fact that she still lets you in the kid's life, to me, that says a lot about her maturity. she could shut you out entirely, but with regard to the kids, this is one realm where she let's you in. this says volumes about her...and you.

then again, maybe you're a shitty partner and where she's given up on you, she REALLY hopes you won't be so shitty to the kids. she may be giving you the opportunity to prove that you're a great dad and IF you're not, if you hurt them, even they will not be accessible to you.

I mean - I did extremely romantic things for her.

I'd let her sleep in - bring her breakfast in bed, take the kids so she could have a day - all the shit you're supposed to do.

I just wasn't nice to her, I guess.

She'd come home to dinner being cooked and a Cosmo w/ a rose sitting on the table. I was great to her in that aspect. I just tore her a new fucking ass sometimes lol

so you're saying that's a good thing. Hmm..

not sure what to tell ya. you haven't given enough detail, so it's hard to know her motivation. all we can do is speculate.

ie, maybe she has daddy issues. maybe she came to you expecting that men are full of shit so that when you do treat her like a partner, when you do nice things for her, instead of welcoming your actions, she sees you as weak?

i have a great guy right now and yet, at times, i find myself criticizing him when i shouldn't. he's not perfect, but in comparison to the assholes i've dated in the past, i should have NOTHING to complain about. this dude is here. this dude is engaged. this dude is working WITH me and yet, there is discord at times.

he's not one of "those bastards" and yet, when i'm being stupid, i treat him like one of "those bastards." doesn't make sense when i'm thinking rationally and isn't fair to him.

mars in aries...ugh!

so hard to grasp. hard to know what she's thinking without knowing her side. what i do know is that even if you cant crawl inside her skin, you CAN recognize areas where you went wrong and improve upon them. she was a catalyst that enabled you to see the worst parts of yourself. thus, as i've said before, it's not about changing for her, but changing for you. IF you change and she comes back (as a better person), great. if you change and she doesn't come back, but she does keep the communication lines open between you and your kids, oh well, there's a better bitch out there for you.

i know, it sounds logical and rational and yet, there's no laughter in your house right now and you're sad. the healing takes time. the understanding of self takes a lifetime. recognize the difference.

as one of the scorpio hoes said, it feels like it will last forever and in retrospect, you'll want to kick yourself for wasting 4 months...let alone a second.

You're right

duh!

i'm always right!

RECOGNIZE!

You're right R24 - and I see this in my relationship, specifically. Wish somebody could have told me this shit years ago!

at R..., horseshit!

having dated a scorpio and have had immature scorp female frieds, i know that scorpio will FORCE emo out of someone they care about. the problem is IF that person expresses emo negatively.

if that's the case, whose fault is it? the person whose forcing the reaction or the person who's reacting?

fixed, you make demands and you expect that the other person acquiesce to those demands. when they dont, you get your piddly feelings hurt. fuck you! as legitimate as your requests may be, no one is your puppet. your power play doesn't always work and when it doesn't, the manipulation begins. an evolved form of scorpio knows better. she's 22 and it's highly unlikely she's mature enough to recognize the destruction she brings to the table.

just saying, dont discount him entirely. in this case, i do think it takes two.

Posted by zosopage17
You're right R24 - and I see this in my relationship, specifically. Wish somebody could have told me this shit years ago!

moon in virgo :p

even on the internet, a scorp bitch is punking your ass.

pussy!

Thank you!

Have to get me mad for me to lash.

She is right though - I was TOLD that no ammount of buying her sweet shit could undo the damage that my words caused. Verbatum.

Posted by zosopage17
Have to get me mad for me to lash.

She is right though - I was TOLD that no ammount of buying her sweet shit could undo the damage that my words caused. Verbatum.

there's something about scorp women that baffles me. overwhelming, they tend to invite/demand/encourage ill-treatment.

yes, you can't buy your way out of ill-treatment, but some women, scorpio or otherwise, feed off ill-treatment.

you said that she continued communication with your ex...knowing it drove you nuts. she CHOSE to bring the demon out in you and whether these women want to recognize this or not, this is an element of scorpio at its worst.

That's so true. I do feel like, although I allowed it to happen, the worst of me was PULLED out. Jesus H. where the fuck do you guys get this stuff

you're such a crab.

if you say, "true" one more time, i'm going to e-smack you so hard that you begin to walk in a straight line 😛

Posted by ellessque
there are several reasons for a complete shutdown. depends on the circumstances.

mostly to protect ourselves.

you are a water baby too, you know how that goes.

+1 Without knowing the context that is the best answer I could give. Give her time and then approach the subject. If she senses you are truly interested in resolving the issue, she will open up about what is going on.

Posted by caligula
you're such a crab.

if you say, "true" one more time, i'm going to e-smack you so hard that you begin to walk in a straight line 😛

So true.

ass

Muahahahaha 😉. Hey, I'm a funny guy too!

funny or foot in ass...which do you think i'm feeling right now.

i've invested in this. i didnt have to. i hardly get on this site anymore. your lack of conviction is in part your problem.

fix it! now!

but you can't can you? no wonder you drove her away.

Oh hey, I'm just teasing you 🙂. Figured you would laugh. I appreciate your time and effort, I really do.

dont patronize me. i feel like i'm talking to an asshole who's drinking a beer, watching football and nodding his head at everything that's being said.

Wow - sorry I gave you that impression.

Didn't think my little joke would piss you off.

you havent learned much here.

mars in aries *activate✨

yowzah!

✨activate✨

LOL - I have no reason to argue with you - you're obviously on my side in this. If you want, we can flame on 😉.

Posted by R24

Posted by caligula
at R..., horseshit!

having dated a scorpio and have had immature scorp female frieds, i know that scorpio will FORCE emo out of someone they care about. the problem is IF that person expresses emo negatively.

if that's the case, whose fault is it? the person whose forcing the reaction or the person who's reacting?

fixed, you make demands and you expect that the other person acquiesce to those demands. when they dont, you get your piddly feelings hurt. fuck you! as legitimate as your requests may be, no one is your puppet. your power play doesn't always work and when it doesn't, the manipulation begins. an evolved form of scorpio knows better. she's 22 and it's highly unlikely she's mature enough to recognize the destruction she brings to the table.

just saying, dont discount him entirely. in this case, i do think it takes two.

Of course we will try to force emo out. We are volatile. We have to have someone more stable than ourselves. Doesn't make a shit that it is our fault. Its the nature of the beast.
I thought about fucking you already. As a scorpio, I think about fucking everyone.
She may be unevolved, nevertheless, she isn't the puppeteer since she cut the strings to her marionette marriage. Scorpios are a self destructive lot. Its part of that evolution thing, the cosmic driven death and rebirth theme.
If I discounted him, I wouldn't have spent a good part of my day posting on this thread. As I said earlier, I don't like exercises in futility

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Damn, you intense girl!

Let's pass a fucking e-joint in this thread - brb gonna google a slashimg

Posted by R24

I thought about fucking you already.

*sigh*

you want to fuck me because you know i'm capable of fucking that ass with letters on a screen.

thank god i'm the opposite. a true lady 😛

@ calig

You = raw.

Where you get some of your shit I'll never know 😉.

All I'm reading is

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Posted by R24
A good fuck is a good fuck :p

scorpios talk a good game, but that's all your sign does is talk.

you're like a man bragging about how big his cock is and if you haven't realized, a woman with a big vagina isn't all that appealing.

i'll pass. thanks!

Posted by caligula

Posted by R24
A good fuck is a good fuck :p

scorpios talk a good game, but that's all your sign does is talk.

you're like a man bragging about how big his cock is and if you haven't realized, a woman with a big vagina isn't all that appealing.

i'll pass. thanks!

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ROFL. I mean...throwing a hotdog down a hallway is pretty fun, but I can see how it would get old 😉

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Posted by zosopage17
I want my family back. I want to fix the shit that made them leave in the first place, so that I can find happyness in the day to day life with her - and not be so pissed off about the little shit that doesn't matter. I have faith in our family - and I believe in us. We are more than what we were - and I want an opportunity to be in the right place, at the right time - with a healthy frame of mind to make that happen.

Problem is bro, in a relationship it takes two. You can't do it alone. Unless she is will
to cut ties with her ex husband (a major issue) . Nothing will ever change. No matter
How much you love her..... bottom line.

Follow whoever advice you want...... but time will tell the truth

Watch what happens in real life not online and you will see how strong my intuition is.

That is the true test. My statements are proven and hold water....

Then u will understand why pieces are the most spiritual and the most intuitive sign

* back to the heavens I go *

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Y'know, I agree with this. No matter how much I grow and change - as long as dude's in the picture it will never work. Period.

anyhoo, mr.crab, you have so much to work on. i don't know much about your sign and how quickly you adapt, but overall, i see more emotional manipulation in your future...on both parts.

I can see it too Calig - guess it's up to me to break the fucking cycle. Gonna be a lot of soul searching about this shit, I'm sure.

Posted by piscespassion

Posted by zosopage17
I want my family back. I want to fix the shit that made them leave in the first place, so that I can find happyness in the day to day life with her - and not be so pissed off about the little shit that doesn't matter. I have faith in our family - and I believe in us. We are more than what we were - and I want an opportunity to be in the right place, at the right time - with a healthy frame of mind to make that happen.

Problem is bro, in a relationship it takes two. You can't do it alone. Unless she is will
to cut ties with her ex husband (a major issue) . Nothing will ever change. No matter
How much you love her..... bottom line.

Follow whoever advice you want...... but time will tell the truth

Watch what happens in real life not online and you will see how strong my intuition is.

That is the true test. My statements are proven and hold water....

Then u will understand why pieces are the most spiritual and the most intuitive sign

* back to the heavens I go *

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will you shut up?

you got a good fuck from some bitch at the club and now you think you're prophetic? what...evah!

Posted by R24
Wanna a pic? I guess this will be the opposite of DazesdScorp and Mr. Dominos problem. Not to brag how big, but how tight.
Your loss

You have a scale that measure tightness? Plz share 🙂

Posted by R24
Wanna a pic? I guess this will be the opposite of DazesdScorp and Mr. Dominos problem. Not to brag how big, but how tight.
Your loss

tight as a watermelon

ROFL. You fuckers are hilarious.

I mean, I guess there kind of is a scale...

Damn, shit feels good.
Holy shit.
Oops. That never happened before.

i spit out watermelon seeds...not worth eating.

no thanks.

LOL oh my fucking God.

Posted by caligula


you say that you've said cutting things to her and that you get how destructive your interactions were, yet, you want her back and i can't figure out why she'd come back...because you sent a cuddly text or because she develops amnesia and forgets the past?

what im trying to say is, you're asking how to get her back and you're not getting the answer to that here...no matter how much you think you are. you're talking about the things you need to do outwardly and have yet to explain/acknowledge what you have changed inwardly. are you asking her to return to more of the same and if so, why would she do that given how cruel you've spoken to one another?

as i said in the other thread, fixed signs don't leave. if they do, they do so because they're seeking change. as long as you represent more of the same, feelings aside, she'll eventually move on and up without you.

I have to agree after reading your exchange with Caligula. She hit the last 2 paragraphs right on the head. Other than your girl's venus-cap, we have the same sun, moon, merc and mars. With that said, I generally stay put until it's just not healthy anymore or you've really hurt me. If I have figured out it just gonna be much of the same (esp after loving you and trying to make it work) then I will never return, no matter how much it hurts to be away from you. Will I miss you? Immensely, but I will not return. Now, if the "inward" changes occur I may entertain us being friends again. What comes out of that friendship will come with GREAT caution. Any sign the old you is still present, I will retreat again, probably for good.

not sure what that means but i was a virgin in the 90s so mine is and was tighter.

i win!

Posted by PhoenixRising

Posted by caligula


you say that you've said cutting things to her and that you get how destructive your interactions were, yet, you want her back and i can't figure out why she'd come back...because you sent a cuddly text or because she develops amnesia and forgets the past?

what im trying to say is, you're asking how to get her back and you're not getting the answer to that here...no matter how much you think you are. you're talking about the things you need to do outwardly and have yet to explain/acknowledge what you have changed inwardly. are you asking her to return to more of the same and if so, why would she do that given how cruel you've spoken to one another?

as i said in the other thread, fixed signs don't leave. if they do, they do so because they're seeking change. as long as you represent more of the same, feelings aside, she'll eventually move on and up without you.

I have to agree after reading your exchange with Caligula. She hit the last 2 paragraphs right on the head. Other than your girl's venus-cap, we have the same sun, moon, merc and mars. With that said, I generally stay put until it's just not healthy anymore or you've really hurt me. If I have figured out it just gonna be much of the same (esp after loving you and trying to make it work) then I will never return, no matter how much it hurts to be away from you. Will I miss you? Immensely, but I will not return. Now, if the "inward" changes occur I may entertain us being friends again. What comes out of that friendship will come with GREAT caution. Any sign the old you is still present, I will retreat again, probably for good.

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Fuck.

im black. we eat chicken and watermelon and thus, we're not compatible 😢

besides, i'm already taken. my e-vagina belongs to another. TOC where are you—

Chicken is awesome. Watermelon can get fucked.

the chicken too?

white folks is weird.

ta!

Posted by IntriguedScorp
Hi. Wow this thread got long. I'm about to say something that I don't intend to hurt but just an observation I have noticed about the Crab-folk men--real life observations and here.

It seems to me that Crabmen spend way more time talking/thinking about what they are going to do then actually just doing it. Okay, so you've analyzed this scenario from every which way but Friday but are you really any closer to solving the riddle or do you need another three weeks to figure it out? Seriously. Dude, I'm a water sign asking this question so believe me I *get* what's going on here.

If you care about this woman and you want to be a father to your kids, then man up and take control of the situation. There's a time for self-protection and a time to get off your behind and get the job done. And, guess what? Its OKAY if it doesn't work out. It really is--you won't be a failure if you can't make it work. But if you don't do the things you've got to do to live up to your responsibilities then you may live to regret it. Just saying.

And yes, life is primarily the school of hard knocks but there is alot of great things about it as well. Ebb and flow. Get used to it. That's how this crazy thing works. You're young and maybe you have way too much on your plate for someone who might want just want to say fuck it. Scorp women are extremely resourceful and she does not need a daddy to take care of her. She needs a man who has her back and who lives up to what needs to be done.

If you think you can offer that--get moving. If not, let her go.

(its 1am and I just finished a project--yes work--so this might not make sense. lol I'm kind of punchy but not tired.)

Best comment so far. Run with that.

Posted by caligula
ok, she's stupid. i'm telling you that she's stupid. in 5-7 years, she'll be less stupid. right now, she's a young scorp and these chicks are DANGEROUS. they think they have a dick. the will eat you alive if you let them. if you don't let them, they will manipulate the shit out of you to the point that you'll wonder if you ever will "win."

*reflecting...* sounds about right when I was 22.